So I thought it would be easy to write a paper about why femme is a gender, but I've realized too late that I like being femme but I don't like writing paper about being femme.
So far I have
Femme is an active choice
Not tied to sex(male or female)
Challenging social expectation of what lesbian "look like"
Overt feminine sexuality
Sexuality based on being admired and not tied to a sexual partner preference.
Learnt sexual language (Knowing to call a strapon a cock)
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE point out a something I missed!
Thanks for any ideas!