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    Where have all of the Domestic Violence Links gone?

    Here are a few good links and resources..


    National Domestic Violence Hotline-

    Thehotline.org

    1-800-799-SAFE

    The national Gay and Lesbian Task force.

    http://www.thetaskforce.org

    Washington, DC
    1325 Massachusetts Ave. NW
    Suite 600
    Washington, DC 20005
    Phone: 202.393.5177
    Fax: 202.393.2241

    National Coalition Against Domestic Violence-

    http://www.ncadv.org/

    NCADV's Main Office (as of April 1, 2011)
    One Broadway, Suite B210
    Denver, CO 80203
    Phone: (303) 839-1852
    TTY: (303) 839-8459
    Fax: (303) 831-9251
    Email: mainoffice@ncadv.org


    National Leather Association International Domestic Violence Project-

    http://www.nlaidvproject.us/

    NLA-I DVP Information Hotline 1-816-984-STOP(7867)

    1-800-799-SAFE
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    4 Main key components for a excellent relationship..

    Trust, Honesty, Respect, Main key factors to think about are Emotional and Physical safety..

    If you have to be dishonest with someone and have to use a dishonest mechanism for safety then that is one of the key indicators and warning signs (RED FLAG) to not be with that person you're having to be dishonest with... Protecting your emotional and physical safety is not Dishonesty. It's protecting yourself from physical or emotional harm...

    Lenore Walker is the founding mother of the "battered womens Syndrome".. Very interesting read and great books out by her... Just google her name..

    Her website is- http://www.drlenorewalker.com/
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    Understanding PTSD.. From Traumatic or abusive events...

    http://www.anxietyandstress.com/responsestotrauma.html
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    were they in a sticky or just in a thread?

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    No they had a link you could access with resource links.. But if you try to access those links it gives a http error.. The sticky notes that are stuck to my forehead are reminders for what I need to do for work the next day..
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    oohhh you sooooooo funneeeeeeee!!! and thanks for reposting the links

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    Quote Originally Posted by persiphone View Post
    oohhh you sooooooo funneeeeeeee!!! and thanks for reposting the links
    Well I can't get to the links from main category.. I can't even see where they go.. Some of the links I added are new.. Sooo.. pfttttt.. ::putting a post it sticker on your forehead:::
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    Quote Originally Posted by Terri90069 View Post
    4 Main key components for a excellent relationship..

    Trust, Honesty, Respect, Main key factors to think about are Emotional and Physical safety..

    If you have to be dishonest with someone and have to use a dishonest mechanism for safety then that is one of the key indicators and warning signs (RED FLAG) to not be with that person you're having to be dishonest with... Protecting your emotional and physical safety is not Dishonesty. It's protecting yourself from physical or emotional harm...

    Lenore Walker is the founding mother of the "battered womens Syndrome".. Very interesting read and great books out by her... Just google her name..

    Her website is- http://www.drlenorewalker.com/

    I never thought of this....thank you....I keep finding myself in emotionally abusive relationships, constantly lying about silly stuff...what I ate, how much I spent, not because I am a liar, but because the sheer amount of judgement, and bitching is too much. Constant put downs, or talking down to me, making ME seem like the crazy one for having a problem with it......
    Again,
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