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    Negotiation: conferring and discussing to reach an agreement about what will happen within a BDSM scene regarding likes, dislikes, hard limits, health issues, roles, etc.
    There R so many people out there who'll tell you that you can't.
    What you've got to do is turn 'round and say
    "Watch Me".






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    Over the knee spanking.

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    Pygophilemania - Sexual arousal from kissing butt cheeks

    Well I'll be, I have a new kink and I did'nt even know it.....hehe

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    Quaver is how i want to hear your voice as you are surrendering to me..
    There is a beast within gentle and fierce..you choose which side to be on..HR

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    Rope work
    Slang expression depicting the finished product of rope bondage/suspension.

    "That is some impressive rope work Hy used to suspend her from the chain at the play party last night."
    Have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves... Live the questions now. Perhaps, then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer.
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    Re: Q
    ... Gulp!
    Have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves... Live the questions now. Perhaps, then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer.
    - Rainer Maria Rilke

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    Sharps. An entire category of implements, all of which have at least one sharp edge.

    "Sharps send shudders down my spine."

    (I didn't want to be tacky and double post, but I waited as long as I could, sharps are my Ab-Fab!!)
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    Have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves... Live the questions now. Perhaps, then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer.
    - Rainer Maria Rilke

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    [QUOTE=Elsbeth;3274521][FONT="Garamond"]Vaginal Hook: A smooth metal hook, usually about an inch thick and six to eight inches long, designed to be inserted into the vagina. The other end typically is bent into a loop into which a rope can be tied.[/FONT

    Oh my god I'm naive... Despite what I think was probably an excellent description, I still can't totally visualize. Wow. So much for a girl to learn.
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    Wattenburg Wheel - A medical pinwheel that is commonly used in BDSM play to stimulate or cause a feeling sensation.

    One of my favorite implements !!!!

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    [QUOTE=Red Dirt Girl;3296851]
    Quote Originally Posted by Elsbeth View Post
    Vaginal Hook: A smooth metal hook, usually about an inch thick and six to eight inches long, designed to be inserted into the vagina. The other end typically is bent into a loop into which a rope can be tied.

    Oh my god I'm naive... Despite what I think was probably an excellent description, I still can't totally visualize. Wow. So much for a girl to learn.

    Red Dirt Girl. here is a link to a photo of one and a good discription. The stainless steel vaginal hook goes into the vagina using the short rounded "hook" end and helps suspend the woman in a bondage situation. They are definitly for advanced players since the insertion of a hook improperly increases the risk of puncturing the vagina, resulting in emergency surgery. They are however beautiful to hold in your hand and elseware.... Have fun!!
    http://stockroom.com/Steel-Vaginal-H...ger-P2232.aspx

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    Xenophilia: is a sexual attraction to strangers, for example random sexual acts performed in parks, bars etc. where the two individuals have never met before the act takes place.
    If the fetus they save is Gay will they still fight for its rights?

    Most grrls blush during a naughty movie scene not me I smile cause I know I can do it better

    Every society is judged by how it treats it’s least fortunate amongst them. - Anon.

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    Androminetophilia - Sexual arousal from female cross dressers

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    BOOTBLACKING: Polishing and spit-shining a pair of boots, sometimes as a gesture of submission, sometimes as a part of military-style uniform play, sometimes as part of boot worship, and sometimes to mark the beginning of a scene (def. 1). Commentary: In some corners of the old leather community, bootblacking was used as part of a ritual between a dominant and a submissive; the submissive partner would shine the dominant's boots while the dominant sat above the submissive.

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    Chocolate Starfish:Humorous term for the ANUS. So named because the anus looks like a starfish, "chocolate" refers to shit. Sometimes used in a derogatory sense against gay people

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    Dacryphilia: pleasure from the tears of others.
    If the facts don't fit the theory, change the facts. - Einstein
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    EVIL STICK: Colloquial An implement consisting of a thin rod of carbon fiber, typically about the diameter of a mechanical pencil lead, attached to a small, rigid handle. The carbon fiber rod is flexible and very strong; when laid against the skin and then flicked with a strong upward motion at its tip, it causes a sharp pain and typically leaves a thin, well-defined welt that can persist for days.

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    Flagging- To wear a specific colored handkerchief to tell others if you are Dom/me/Top or sub/bottom/slave and what kind of activity you are into. i.e. Red handkerchief on left side means you are Dom/me that likes to do fisting. Red handkerchief on right side means you are sub that likes to be fisted.

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