Oh ... and let my wipe the cookie crumbs from the side of my mouth while I am at it. Certainly would not want to be improper or distasteful. LOL!
"While i appreciate your input, the part about being "had" was a bit distasteful. Thats not what i had in mind at all when i made the post.
It's simple to misinterpret type isn't it?"
To me, we were saying the same thing. That's my take on it. And I like the way I said it better.
By the way, I wash my own clothes, socks included. That comment about femmes keeping our socks clean was a tiny bit irratating but I was not going to mention it ... until now. She is never a cook or laundry person for me but in the past, we do take up each other's slack. I cook, she cooks ... I do laundry, she does laundry ... whatever ... it is called sharing responsibilities. Helping each other out because we care about each other to be considerate and notice when the other is taxed out.
*takes another huge mouthful of cookie*
*looks down at the crumbs on my lap*
Don't get sore LADY FLAMEZZZ, I am kidding around. I am not upset - hope you aren't either.
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And I sort the laundry, ensuring that all buttons are buttoned, zippers sipped,
etc...all graphics shirs are turned inside out and everything gets washed in
cold, and only towels n sheets actually hit the dryer. And it is imperative the
the right hangers are used to hang all clothing so as to avoid shoulder dimples
n what have you. So Mrs. Day..gets to do mah socks...cuz I seem to exert
a certain amount of anxiety upon her should she use the wrong hanger or
wash mah stuff in hot water. So sharing in the overall household
maintenance is all a part of what makes up our household.
I also hog the kitchen when I'm feeling the chef guru in me stir.
Hey wait, what was this thread about again?
You can pick this butch up, as long as you remember to put me down again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
why don't you let THEM pick you up?
I'm done picking up Butches! Sets up the wrong dynamic for me...
and wrong dynamics are death...just sayin'
Yes, LADY FLAMEZZZ, sometimes I am very messy on purpose - especially if I know someone is watching and might find it ... errr ... distasteful. Heh Heh! (there's that word again)
"So sharing in the overall household maintenance is all a part of what makes up our household."
Hey Buddy, sounds like you've got an excellent routine going on with your relationship - the sharing of work around the house.
Well, that was fun!!!
Soooooo....I take it lasso and hogtie is out of the question?
Above all else be yourself...and as someone said below , walk up and say hello !
Meeting them is the easy part...keeping one is a full-time job,lol
I would have to disagree with both you!
I have never had a hard time "keeping" a butch,
it's having them let me go.
There is nothing to do.
Whether you are butch or femme,
what matters is that you are honest with who you are.
If you are interested, friendship or otherwise...
the effort is what's important.
And butches are no different in approach
If you flirt?
Humans love attention,
plain and simple
disclaimer: this is my own opinion,
do not blast me for having one.
Mary Poppins had a message too,
but at least she had a happylittle song to express it!!
KING ~ of the Shack- Drive
Iíll hold you up
and drive you all night
Your head is bent back
your back is arched
my hand is under there
holding you up~
~~>Radio http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1qbT1-aKgg Listen here by Melissa Ferrick
i wouldn't dare blast you for anything ...my response was a simple statement . My Mom used to say keeping them < in reference to man > i concluded it was for my purpose a butch, is a 24 hour a day job, which simply meant that year after year in a relationship we go through difficult taxing times at some point, when anyone
< me for instance >
may have found it easier to just walk away...
people sometimes ,hopefully ,if they have the desire and love stay together for many many years ,< I hope too > not everyday is gonna run smooth , as with anything in life worth having sometimes it takes effort and sometimes we give in those occasional hard times more than 50% we give 110% while the other part of the whole only gives nada . this is what i mean by a fulltime job. I on some days don't feel like picking up after mine or cooking or hell for that matter even getting out of bed < menopause is a bitch > but i do it because of my devotion to Mine......others may not see it the same way... and i for one am fine with that!
thus far Daywalker and I have been going strong for almost six years not everyday has been "easy simply because we love each other "
and i will add one more thought, I had a relationship Long term that lasted 11 years < she committed suicide in the end>...not everyday of that 11 years was easy, sometimes i wanted to walk away but i stayed because i honored my commitment.
and as you stated above a few i have had a challenge with in regards to keeping them away....my best to you *
I am Hys ,Hy is mine.
The dog thing works on Femmes too! You wouldn't believe the women that come up to me!
Just slip me a note with your number. Especially if you look straight. I'm kinda dumb like that. Lol
I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.
Just come up and say hi. I'll respond to that.
I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.
let her/hym/him know you are a femme for starters....in RT it is very hard to tell if a woman is straight/femme/lesbian....
I'm moving on from my mistakes....
Learning how to take it day by day...
ON MY HIGHWAY.....
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