Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Buddha
Sigh. If there are any femmes in Gilroy, California they do what everyone does here: Keep quiet about it and go the 50 or more miles away to one of the established meeting places (gay bars) up on the Peninsula/Oakland.
At least the weather's getting warmer, it's a long cold ride back from there in the wee hours of the AM on the bike.
Sorry about the lack of avatar but I do have some photos on here.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Buddha
Hey Guys,
Someone told me recently that being patient and finding your soul is the answer to finding your mate. Believe me, coming from me that is a big statement. I want everything yesterday. But I am taking that advice, and also passing it along to you.
I believe there are lots of femmes out there that are willing to date FtM's they just don't know it, yet. I also believe that its on an individual basis.
I mean, for me, personally, FtM or not, it matters more about the inner amenities someone has rather than the process for which they found themselves.
And when you think about it, taking steps to a; figure out who you are, and then b: do something about it, really says alot about your character. Its a big plus in my book.
So chin up guys!.....there is a lovely femine woman out there somewhere who is just waiting to be swept off their feet by you handsome devils.
Hope you all have a fantastic HUMP day!![]()
My Motto:"Party like a ROCKSTAR, Play like an ALLSTAR, Live like a MOVIESTAR and F**K like a PORNSTAR!"For more information check out Jeep's Myspace pagehttp://www.myspace.com/jeepfemme
Just saying hi to all of My FTM brothers and to the beautiful femmes who love us as much as they do![]()
Braedon
Be right back - I am going to go find Myself, if I leave before I get back make sure to tell Me
Hey Linus!
Hope all is well.
Happy Birthday to Aries people!
I appreciate you starting this thread. as you know I'm an FTM and looking to date Femmes.
I always wondered what women thought of FTMs. I would like to hear more from single Femmes too. I agree with you...those 6 inch heels are better for viewing...ouch! I guess for fun I wouldn't mind her stepping on my hairy chest but one shoe at a time!!
maybe there should be a meetup group for FTMs & Femmes so they can get to know each other in person?? just a thought. keep this thread flowing!!
I think the Bashes etc are already for FTMs as well as Butches to meet femmes?
I may, after I've checked more for what may be around here, start up some sort of group or meeting place for the teeming metropolis of Gilroy.
Sorry about the lack of avatar but I do have some photos on here.
Does anyone know of any Bash in New York where FTMs can meet Femmes??
many thanks!
I'm just dropping in to say hi - I'm a single FTM in Virginia, looking to meet femmes in the area.
P.S. - Matrixman, didnt' they just have a bash in NY in April? Like either now, or a couple weeks ago or something?
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Spring is here and man am I feeling it. All I can think about is femmes. Anyone having any luck catching a date?
Nope not so far but the day is young! I don't seem to find many femmes sitting here at home lol, but I'm about to leather up and hit Santa Cruz, rain or no rain, maybe it'll rain a femme for me! Just gotta get out and circulate... get out among at least somewhat clued-in people. I'm beginning to learn the hang-out places in my own small town and Santa Cruz is a meeting place for everyone within 100 miles, as well as all the tourists.
Sorry about the lack of avatar but I do have some photos on here.
Hello all...didn't want to just fly by without letting you all know that I'm still here in SW Michigan, waving furiously!!
Alex C, hoping it rained a femme for you today!
Hardhat, I just love you new yorkers!!
Take care everyone-
Leaving some freshly baked buttermilk biscuits and homemade peach jam, or is that too corny?!
Today is the tomorowthat you worried aboutyesterday
Hello to all in this thread.
Tell me why does it seem like everyone lives on the outer edges of the United States... except of course for Misty... there is alot of creamy lovliness in the center you know...
- saveadanceforme
Creamy centers are very good... every flavor too.
I never embraced that red heads and bad tempers ideology. When I was in elementary school a little red headed girl told me people with red hair were magical and I found it to be every bit the truth... to this day.
So what is the story, this thread is just an infant at a year old and when I find it, it seems somewhat defunct. Just how are girls supposed to find ftm boys? By the way boys, in my opinion, the answer to the question where are all of the femmes, when asked by any group has always been right here in plain sight. I know it can be scary, but life is an adventure. It is what we make it.
- saveadanceforme
It's so nice to see that someone see's a red head with perhaps a good attitude. I am a happy person, I am not shy to admit I have a temper, but I know how to control it and its rarely ever seen. It takes alot to press my buttons. Anyways did you have a good weekend?
In regards to the comment about finding the femmes that like FTMs. Its a lot harder then you think. If there were more women to go around I wouldn't be single![]()
I live up in Canada, and its not that much easier to find a femme up here (unless you live in Toronto or Montreal)![]()
Braedon
Be right back - I am going to go find Myself, if I leave before I get back make sure to tell Me
Okay boys... I hear you... love can be illusive. Probably regardless of where we live. Cincinnati is not New York or LA, but it is not small town either. Here's to all of us finding our way...
sparkling water all around...
ps: Red & Braedon, looks like you are both cyclists, I encourage you to wear shorts often, no one has better legs than cyclists, wink!
- saveadanceforme
Originally Posted by danserica
I have done alot of cycling in the past yes, but this year I need a new bike before I can go out riding! I've already been wearing shorts so My legs are out there for all femmes to admire![]()
Braedon
Be right back - I am going to go find Myself, if I leave before I get back make sure to tell Me
Hey I am looking for a nice Femme who likes FTM's My Names Ian 25 years old,I am post T Hormones over 5 years and also Post Hysterectomy and Chest Surgery comming up 3 years now, very masculine Guy looken for a nice Lady to get to know Plus if u like shorter guys with Tattoos I am only 5'4 and have some Tattoos I live in Edmonton ,Alberta Canada
Seems many of us say the same thing. Where do we find the people we are looking to meet? More of us live outside of NY, LA & SF than not. I think it is time to go rogue creative. How do we find each other when we are invisible?
Perhaps we can learn from our gay brothers who seem more open to meeting other men, regardless of their sexual identity or where they meet them. So, I wonder, when & where are you open to meeting women? If you were in some random public space what cues would you be looking for to let you know you can feel safe with us?
a toast to you as well shy boy...
- saveadanceforme
Just for all you FtMs out there, whom I dearly love, and their admirers, there are mailing lists here atfor Ftms and those who love them. Go to the home page and click on
Mailing Lists.....it's in the upper left hand corner. When you get to the mailing list page, scroll down and read up on the names of the lists and who all is open to join. You'll find FtMs on several lists......just a suggestion....nothing more.....
Have a good week, all....
sweetly,
WildStoneRoses...
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"Living in the past is a dull and lonely business. Looking back strains the neck muscles and causes you to bump into people not going your way." ~ Ferber~
Never make a decision when in a crisis ~WildStoneRoses~
*raises hand* Right here... down in good ole Raleigh, NC! I'm a very single femme, and I absolutely adore FtMs...![]()
That is a very good question to ask Dans. As for Me personally, unless you go to the bar here where I live you really don't find women here. I am not really sure what kind of cue I would look for as a sign of someone who is interested in Me, let alone something that lets Me know I am safe in that space. I guess that I would have to be put more in that situation for Me to know the cues I would be looking forOriginally Posted by danserica
That is some very good advice Wild, thank you ......... I will definately go and check out those mailing listsOriginally Posted by WildStoneRoses
I have dear friends in NC that I've known for a few years, maybe I need an excuse to go and visit themOriginally Posted by IntellectualFemme
Good luck working on that cyclist tan broOriginally Posted by CurlyRedHead
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Braedon
Be right back - I am going to go find Myself, if I leave before I get back make sure to tell Me
Hmmm, that is a very good question. The first rule (that I've found to be true for my own dating life, anyway) is that I don't date lesbians. Other than that, I've learned that approaching women that I find myself interested in and getting to know them gives me a pretty good idea of what their socio-political leanings are.
So guys, don't be afraid to get out there and just meet and mingle the old fashioned way! There's no need to tell someone our entire life-stories if there's no chemistry there anyway.
Braedon- Any excuse is a good excuse to come visit the south.
I haven't been to Texas in like... ten years! Seriously. It was sooooo hot there...![]()
I've always been really nervous about going out and mingling, only because I'm not used to actually just being out there. I'm starting to slowly open up to things, and dating more, but I'm taking it one day at a time for nowOriginally Posted by GeminiGuy
I could not agree with you more honOriginally Posted by IntellectualFemme
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Braedon
Be right back - I am going to go find Myself, if I leave before I get back make sure to tell Me
NC is hot, but not really hot, and I'm close to the ocean... (well most likely closer than you are) and to mountains... You should come visit NC!
< Pops wee head round door >
Good Evenin all you adorable FTMs
Good Evenin all the Femmes who adore them
Not been in here in ages just wanted to say hi & wish you all a wunderful wee weekend
*Mmmmmm i loveeee this position*
~~Fire & Ice, Pleasure & Pain, The Crack Of The Whip, The Stroke Of The Cane ! Then The Softest Caress To Drive You Insane~
Hey everyone,
I thought I would pop in and behold, the thread is actually active.
Nice to meet everyone... I am in Jacksonville Florida and it is HOT here!
How is everyone doing?
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Buddha
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