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    Time to jump into the fray. I'm 23, ftm, single, and looking to meet femmes of all stripes.

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    Good morning all. So nice to see so many beautiful femmes here looking for us cute guys.
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    Hello all

    I am new to the openly gay scene but this is my opinion> someone i was interested in ask me if i would stand by hym if he went thru the surgeries. I told him i fell for what was inside not the outside. Here is one femme, that dont look at the wrapping paper she looks for what is inside and you all are beautiful and handsome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by casey35 View Post
    I am new to the openly gay scene but this is my opinion> someone i was interested in ask me if i would stand by hym if he went thru the surgeries. I told him i fell for what was inside not the outside. Here is one femme, that dont look at the wrapping paper she looks for what is inside and you all are beautiful and handsome.
    Well said, Casey!

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    Quote Originally Posted by casey35 View Post
    I am new to the openly gay scene but this is my opinion> someone i was interested in ask me if i would stand by hym if he went thru the surgeries. I told him i fell for what was inside not the outside. Here is one femme, that dont look at the wrapping paper she looks for what is inside and you all are beautiful and handsome.
    whooioiee i so agree and if i can get lost in your eyes and you heart the rest is just topping
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    Quote Originally Posted by sweetpainlover View Post
    I Have to say FTM are seww sexy ive never dated one .. but ive had some hot dreams about one or two or hmm three I may play with the boi's but i Melt for Daddys

    *perk* Oh really now? Please, do elaborate on those dreams. Maybe you can find someone to make them reality...

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    Afternoon Ladies and gents. I got sick from takeing care of my Unkle. So, I have been lurking here lately. But, I thought I would share. THe other day on CL personals. *don't ask please* I found a FTM that was looking for guys to meet. I sent hima lil emails saying I missed my FTM friends and whatnot. And I would love to hang out atleast. I haven't heard anything back. But, it gave me hopethat therea re some here... Though I would rather find one somewhere else so I wont get stuck here lololol. Damn missouri lol.

    Ok, nyQuil is kicking back in again. I Need to not post anymore lol...Toodles till I feel better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pocket Hercules View Post
    *perk* Oh really now? Please, do elaborate on those dreams. Maybe you can find someone to make them reality...

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    LOL I am shure there a few willing guys to use and abuse my body and i may dream of more than one but one big hearted guy would be more than enough and come one girls dont leave me hanging that im the only perv how has the more than on sexy trans man dream ...
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    tranny guys are HOT--HOT, HOT trannies! As i said, FTM guys are yummy.

    however, can i just say that i so do not wish to lose all of our butches

    butches are super-hot and it makes me sad when i feel like we are losing you all.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by siam_blue View Post
    tranny guys are HOT--HOT, HOT trannies! As i said, FTM guys are yummy.

    however, can i just say that i so do not wish to lose all of our butches

    butches are super-hot and it makes me sad when i feel like we are losing you all.....

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    *wanders in all sick and stuff* think I can rent one of y'all to get me Egg drop soup and take the dogs out. This respitory infection is draining.

    And I have found that my attracion over the years has Evolved. From Butch to a closer to Stone. Then Stone butch and FTM's... and Honestly... I think I am advancing to just FTM's ....though With 0 dates in like almost 2 years. This theory has yet to be tested. But, I do know my attractions has started to more and more evolve.... Though only time will tell..

    All things are in a constant state of change....

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    Quote Originally Posted by siam_blue View Post
    tranny guys are HOT--HOT, HOT trannies! As i said, FTM guys are yummy.

    however, can i just say that i so do not wish to lose all of our butches

    butches are super-hot and it makes me sad when i feel like we are losing you all.....

    siam

    I think similar to how Linus responded to this post. Out community is not losing me, a Transmasculine Butch. I still am Grey. I may look different a bit, but I am still me. If I were to gain a hundred pounds or lose a limb, or Gawd forbid lose some of my cognitive ability, would I still not be me?
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    Thank you for sharing your thoughts Linus and Greyson. Your perspective makes complete sense. It's just that i know many trans guys that tend to completely disassociate themselves from the dyke/queer/lesbian/women's community while they transition and beyond and that i find very sad.

    best,
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    Quote Originally Posted by siam_blue View Post
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts Linus and Greyson. Your perspective makes complete sense. It's just that i know many trans guys that tend to completely disassociate themselves from the dyke/queer/lesbian/women's community while they transition and beyond and that i find very sad.

    best,
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    Yes, that is true but that is their choice and what they are comfortable with. Many do not view themselves as queer, etc. That said there are many of us who are just happy to stay within this community (myself included). It is family after all.

    *offers drinks and snacks for all visiting*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Goddessonmyknees23 View Post
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    And I have found that my attracion over the years has Evolved. From Butch to a closer to Stone. Then Stone butch and FTM's... and Honestly... I think I am advancing to just FTM's ....though With 0 dates in like almost 2 years. This theory has yet to be tested. But, I do know my attractions has started to more and more evolve.... Though only time will tell..

    All things are in a constant state of change....

    Sally

    I think i would have to agree with you here Sally for myself. and my decisions have been met with fire before .. if your a lesbian then dont you want a girl who looks like a girl ect... .hmm perhaps i should get a kiss my grits shirt lol
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    Is this where the femmes are looking for single FTM's?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bo Dacious View Post
    Is this where the femmes are looking for single FTM's?
    Sure is
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    Single FTM here! Hellooooooooooooooooooooo ladies (tips hat)

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    *scampers through with my sniffles covered from head to toe with rainbows*

    My roomate and I have been shopping for Pride. Which is Tomorrow. And She is on the Commitee. So, I have been helping her. *tosses everyone Pride Leis* I told her that I needed to find a "Looking for My TG Daddy" shirt for tomorrw *giggles* But, alast she reminded me I would just scare the small minded ones here lololol. So, I guess it is back to the Drawning Board lololol. Toodles till later.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Goddessonmyknees23 View Post
    *scampers through with my sniffles covered from head to toe with rainbows*

    My roomate and I have been shopping for Pride. Which is Tomorrow. And She is on the Commitee. So, I have been helping her. *tosses everyone Pride Leis* I told her that I needed to find a "Looking for My TG Daddy" shirt for tomorrw *giggles* But, alast she reminded me I would just scare the small minded ones here lololol. So, I guess it is back to the Drawning Board lololol. Toodles till later.


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    Should wear it anyways. Never know: might be one hiding behind the locals. Are you going to post a picture of yourself in your finery?!

    K and I are likely going to go to the LSM Women and Trans play party tomorrow night..
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    Quote Originally Posted by MsLinus View Post
    Should wear it anyways. Never know: might be one hiding behind the locals. Are you going to post a picture of yourself in your finery?!

    K and I are likely going to go to the LSM Women and Trans play party tomorrow night..

    I never post pics here... though there might be a pic or 2 that popps up on myspace... We shall see. And Personally I would MUCH rather go to something like what you and K are goin to *smiles sweetly* Sounds way more my speed and way more fun. you lucky *giggles*


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    Quote Originally Posted by Goddessonmyknees23 View Post
    I never post pics here... though there might be a pic or 2 that popps up on myspace... We shall see. And Personally I would MUCH rather go to something like what you and K are goin to *smiles sweetly* Sounds way more my speed and way more fun. you lucky *giggles*


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    Ask me on Monday how lucky I was ROFL.. Ya gotta move out here to the Big Apple or out West. I'm not sure there is much in the middle of the country.

    That or I need to start a rent-an-FTM catalogue service.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MsLinus View Post
    Ask me on Monday how lucky I was ROFL.. Ya gotta move out here to the Big Apple or out West. I'm not sure there is much in the middle of the country.

    That or I need to start a rent-an-FTM catalogue service.
    lol THere is DEFINATELY NOTHING in the middle of the US lol I would know I live there *giggles*

    As for the Rent-A-FTM.... May I please be put FIRST on the list *gives sweet doe eyes to Linus* Pretty Pretty please with a sugar on top and a Cherry *smiles sweetly* I can't pay in cash. But, I have Many Many Many other things in my reputuar (however you spellthat big word lol) that I am sure will amek for good bartering *giggles*

    Oh Trust I will most definatly be sure to ask on Monday how thing went

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    Morning all. Hope everyone had a great weekend.
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    Thanks for the thread!!!! I have learned so much on this site and one of the most eye opening things is.....I know that I am a Transensual femme. I do realize that labels are less than politically correct these days, but knowing in my heart where I fit in is very enlightening and makes me smile....

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    Hello Gents and Ladies... I am for the next few days goin to be bit quiet.. I am nursing a serious Sunbunr... and some serious body pain.. Pride was awsome!!! AndIh ad great fun. Worked my Femme Staff Butt off. And now I need to recover.. Thank god for a great dog and a wonderful roomate. OR I would bew a whiney mess lolol.....I Hope everyone Weekend was awsome. And I shalll return in a few days when I don't feel like Death put in the Microwave *giggles*

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    Goddess, oh no! You need a boi around to slather on some aloe vera or something else to cool the skin down. Lots of cold showers will also help. Hope you recover soon.

    Morning all! How goes the day/week? Anything specially planned for Pride weekend (for those celebrating)?
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    yet another femme joining the long cue of admirers!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Greyson View Post
    I think similar to how Linus responded to this post. Out community is not losing me, a Transmasculine Butch. I still am Grey. I may look different a bit, but I am still me. If I were to gain a hundred pounds or lose a limb, or Gawd forbid lose some of my cognitive ability, would I still not be me?
    Hmm... it's not exactly the same, you know. Yes, people are still the same person before and after transitioning. But also they are not the same person. First of all the experience of transitioning changes a person. But that in itself is not problematic at all. It becomes problematic in my eyes if someone tries to deny who they were before and what they looked like before. It's part of their history, so why denie it? But that's me.

    What is difficult for me is that yes, bodily they have changed a lot: they are a different gender physically now. That's a biggy in my eyes. That goes much further than any other physical change. It also has way more social implications. It's not about that the 'wrapping' or 'packaging' merely looks a bit different. That would be oversimplyfying it, I think.

    As a lesbian I am attracted to people with a female physical appearance. Once that is gone I get confused. And like I said before; I am no longer perceived as lesbian either anymore. All these things feel as a loss to me that I mourn. Call me rigid. But gender is not that fluid to me. And it surely isn't in a broader social context.

    I don't want to critisize or offend anyone here, but this is how I feel. And yes, I am very attracted to some FtM's. But I am still a lesbian.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eva femme View Post
    Hmm... it's not exactly the same, you know. Yes, people are still the same person before and after transitioning. But also they are not the same person. First of all the experience of transitioning changes a person. But that in itself is not problematic at all. It becomes problematic in my eyes if someone tries to deny who they were before and what they looked like before. It's part of their history, so why denie it? But that's me.

    What is difficult for me is that yes, bodily they have changed a lot: they are a different gender physically now. That's a biggy in my eyes. That goes much further than any other physical change. It also has way more social implications. It's not about that the 'wrapping' or 'packaging' merely looks a bit different. That would be oversimplyfying it, I think.

    As a lesbian I am attracted to people with a female physical appearance. Once that is gone I get confused. And like I said before; I am no longer perceived as lesbian either anymore. All these things feel as a loss to me that I mourn. Call me rigid. But gender is not that fluid to me. And it surely isn't in a broader social context.

    I don't want to critisize or offend anyone here, but this is how I feel. And yes, I am very attracted to some FtM's. But I am still a lesbian.

    Eva

    Eva, I appreciate that you are being honest with your feelings and thoughts. You are speaking to some not so easy concerns I have heard others speak to. For me, I have stated in a few gender threads that I see myself as a Butch and always will. Here is the caviot.... I see butch as primarily masculine and I acknowledge that to be butch is to also have some measure of feminitity in myself. I see my transitioning as a natural continuation of my masculinity, if you will. For much of my life my presentation has been mistaken for a biomale but I do not think I am a biomale. In my mind, I am a third gender. I do not think how I look will dramatically change but perhaps. As far as you or any other woman that may date me, her idenitity is her decision. If she says she is a lesbian then she is. I do not see myself as a lesbian. Albeit, I am queer. I have no plans of ever forgettig where I came from and who has supported me emotionally and psychologically throught out most of my adult years..... femmes, and yes some lesbian femmes too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Greyson View Post
    Eva, I appreciate that you are being honest with your feelings and thoughts. You are speaking to some not so easy concerns I have heard others speak to. For me, I have stated in a few gender threads that I see myself as a Butch and always will. Here is the caviot.... I see butch as primarily masculine and I acknowledge that to be butch is to also have some measure of feminitity in myself. I see my transitioning as a natural continuation of my masculinity, if you will. For much of my life my presentation has been mistaken for a biomale but I do not think I am a biomale. In my mind, I am a third gender. I do not think how I look will dramatically change but perhaps. As far as you or any other woman that may date me, her idenitity is her decision. If she says she is a lesbian then she is. I do not see myself as a lesbian. Albeit, I am queer. I have no plans of ever forgettig where I came from and who has supported me emotionally and psychologically throught out most of my adult years..... femmes, and yes some lesbian femmes too.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Greyson View Post
    Eva, I appreciate that you are being honest with your feelings and thoughts. You are speaking to some not so easy concerns I have heard others speak to. For me, I have stated in a few gender threads that I see myself as a Butch and always will. Here is the caviot.... I see butch as primarily masculine and I acknowledge that to be butch is to also have some measure of feminitity in myself. I see my transitioning as a natural continuation of my masculinity, if you will. For much of my life my presentation has been mistaken for a biomale but I do not think I am a biomale. In my mind, I am a third gender. I do not think how I look will dramatically change but perhaps. As far as you or any other woman that may date me, her idenitity is her decision. If she says she is a lesbian then she is. I do not see myself as a lesbian. Albeit, I am queer. I have no plans of ever forgettig where I came from and who has supported me emotionally and psychologically throught out most of my adult years..... femmes, and yes some lesbian femmes too.
    Yes, a very nice post. Thank you. I feel very respected by you in my feelings. And I find it very interesting how you see yourself on this spectrum. I can't realy get my head around the 'third gender' thing (yet) though. Binary gender system, third gender, fluid gendersystem... it's a bit much for me at this moment. A big part of that is that I am still feeling my way around it all emotionally.

    I didn't want to derail the thread though from the fun of flirting. Please carry on everyone

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