I'm a femme.
I met an FTM and WANTED hym.
Got hym. Love hym. Married hym.
Life is good.
I'm a femme.
I met an FTM and WANTED hym.
Got hym. Love hym. Married hym.
Life is good.
Listen guys.....there are plenty of women out there just waiting to be swept off their feet by a handsome fella, just remember its a matter of chemistry......walk with confidence, and don't be afraid to approach. I remember in my younger days my friends used to say I was unapproachable...so I would wait and wait and never got asked to dance only to later find out that some guy had the hots for me...but was just afraid of being told no!!
That is crazy!!!
Besides I see all the time women on here especiallythat are dating FtM's...my thing is where are all the guys---seems everyone is hooked up or has their eye on someone...
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Thanks hon, and I send many back to you as wellOriginally Posted by SouthernPrincess
Hey NC, I'm on the journey Myself right now though I'm not yet close to taking T (though I want to in the near future). Its awesome to read other's stories and to kind of pick up on what I could very well expect when taking T ............ sounds like we're both about to embark on the best part of our livesOriginally Posted by NCFireClown
It takes time and patience to get to know people, as well as to get to know what you want in a partner. I have no doubt that you will make lots of friends here, and maybe even find that someone special ............ glad to see you here with usOriginally Posted by JustLonelyJenn
Hey Alex, good to see you ............. hope your doing wellOriginally Posted by Alex_C
Its the notorious Bo-BoOriginally Posted by Bo Dacious
That's cuz you and Cal **RULE** of courseOriginally Posted by MountainGirl
I'm sure someone can hook you up with that broOriginally Posted by CurlyRedHead
I know that many of us guys are just waiting to sweep the woman of our dreams off their feet, Myself being one of them. Sometimes there is no chemistry, or two people just dno't connect for whatever reason but someone is out there for all of us (that I can just feel in My heart). Us guys are right here, we haven't gone anywhere (many of us make ourselves very well known as wanting to find love) but its not always possible, though it also could be that the right one just hasn't found us yet.Originally Posted by JeepFemme
Whatever the case may be, there are lots of femmes out there looking for love with an FTM and plenty of us guys seeking the woman of our dreams![]()
Braedon
Be right back - I am going to go find Myself, if I leave before I get back make sure to tell Me
I can think of some FtM's who I would really like to be with me right now.
Eva
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Sadly I live where there are no femmes. Streight girls, look out!
Sorry about the lack of avatar but I do have some photos on here.
I could have been the one writing this....I had such a hard time with FTM when I first came out, I think part of it for me was the fact that I didn't want a 'man' in my life. I love women. However as I've matured, seeing as I've been out since I was 15, and soon to be 30 this year, I've come to realize that the physical part of it is different from the mentality of a bio male and a trans guy. I recently ended a relationship with a FTM who hadn't had the surgeries yet, but had been on T for four years. It was a great relationship while it lasted, unfortunately the distance was too much for them. Like you I'm stubborn, I think most Scorpios are, but what I've found is this, it doesn't matter what the package looks like, it matters whats inside it.
~*~*Dev*~*~
A question comes to my mind, and I was wondering: for those femmes who've identified (and still do) as lesbian, how did you reconcile body issues with transmen who's bodies didn't conform to what you find sexually appealing? How long did it take you to be comfortable with a transmale body - one where there are no longer breasts but also no discernible penis?
Just curious....
Big Daddy Dre---
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Draykko The Dragon -
"If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain."
- Maya Angelou
I wonder who they could be, hmmmmmOriginally Posted by Eva femme
Sure it is Bo, cuz I got nothin but love for ya My friendOriginally Posted by Bo Dacious
lol I smell a guy on the prowl ........... I think all girls, no matter what their orientation, should watch out for AlexOriginally Posted by Alex_C
I can relate to this as well devilish, as I have been with two FTM's in My past even though now I identify as an FTM Myself. This was before when I was femme (or atleast I thought I was) and had a very hard time at first with the notion that I loved women but was partnering with guys (non-bio). Now as I identify with being FTM and after having had previous partners who were FTM's, I realize more now that ever that it really is whats on the inside that counts not the outside. Thank you for posting this, and welcome to the thread .......... hope to see you around againOriginally Posted by devilishslysmile
Morning Dre, it'll be interesting to hear the femmes responses to your question
Sending a wish for a fantastic Monday to all of My FTM brothers and the femmes who love us![]()
Braedon
Be right back - I am going to go find Myself, if I leave before I get back make sure to tell Me
Braedon ~ thanks for the kind words....I truly do believe what I posted...it is the inside that counts.....which leads me into my next answer for Draykko...
Draykko........for me like I had said to the previous post, to me it's the inside that counts.....which it isn't all about sex, it's not suppose to be, @ least not in my opinion. It truly the inside that counts.....I don't feel like it challenges my sexuality or makes me less of a lesbian. I feel like it makes me be sure, sure that I really care about the person before I engage in anything sexual with them. But like I said, that's just me....hope I answered your question like ya wanted.
And now I really really hope this posts because I'm posting it from my phone. Lol
~*~*Dev*~*~
Originally Posted by devilishslysmile
It posted very well sweetie
I can echo those sentiments, about how its really the inside that counts. I've had many judge Me on My looks, and I once thought that perhaps I would never find someone unless I lost weight or somehow changed My looks. Now I know better and just figure that if someone refuses to get to know Me because they don't like My looks, than I do not want that person in My life
I can feel by your two previous posts that your a sweet and genuine person, and thats absolutely wonderful to see and hear![]()
Braedon
Be right back - I am going to go find Myself, if I leave before I get back make sure to tell Me
I live in west central illinois, literally on the missouri state line. Right on the mississippi river, u cross the bridge and ur in missouri. Sorry for the short hand, but driving. Lol. I'm an hour and a half from springfield illinois and an hour and a half from st louis missouri. It's a good area. I was just in dallas a week ago!
~*~*Dev*~*~
It sounds like a very accessible area, that is for sure![]()
Braedon
Be right back - I am going to go find Myself, if I leave before I get back make sure to tell Me
I think it's wonderful that you start with the inside and let that permeate outwardly. It's a wonderful way to love...
But I guess I was addressing my question more to women who identify as lesbian, and struggled with the idea of dating a man (transman, yes, but still a man). Specifically those transmen who had already begun the physical transformations (i.e. - started testosterone; had surgeries). How did you get past the maleness? Get past the fact that the person in question was not a lesbian but truly a man? Were you able to get past it, or did you end the relationship because you just missed that "female energy"?
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Draykko The Dragon -
"If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain."
- Maya Angelou
I do not know this for certain, but I am not sure if femmes ever get really comfortable and maybe that is the wrong choice of words. I know my ex broke up with me becasue she wanted to be with women, now I was not the forst FTM she had been with and she is very pro FTM and completely understands, but after dating a few very butch women, she is back with another FTM.
So, I am not sure if she doesn't like the fact that she had become invisible to the "gay" community or if she really wanted to be with women or if????
I have talked with many though, and it seems that in the community down here, it is a stigma that is you are a lesbian and with an FTM, many think of you as a sell out. I really dislike the community here.
Is it that way in other places too?
Anyways, just my 2 cents
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Buddha
Ok, myself, I dated butches, then dated stone butches, then dated a TG then dated a FTM...So you can kinda say I advanced in baby steps...lol
I dated a FTM, well didnt date but kinda more or less had a 'fling' and was taught by someone all the lil details that come along with dating one. He was wonderful in teaching me about himself on that level.
It was not hard at all to go from dating women to dating guys. I think for me it was because I felt that guys were my cup of tea. I have never been your 'normal les'. Even when it comes to the sex.
So I guess for me there was no getting use to it, I just simply enjoyed it![]()
I will never be alone.I will always have laughter and love.Always have a smile in the morning.Always have blessings to count at night.Because I have children.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Buddha
Good Morning Mick
Im gonna jump in here if i may
I have to say i have talked to a few femmes n i have to
agree with you to a certain point, if a femme has neva dated a FTM or a Trans b4, sum find it hard being as it is oot side their comfort zone than lets say a Butch etc, speakin as someone who IDs as a *TransensualQueerFemme* there is no shadow of a doubtthat my energy is complimented by datin a FTM or a Transit has taken me alot of years to find my right *fit* as in prefferable partner, there is more to a FTM or Trans than wot you see, for me personnally it is wot is in their wee makeup, pardon the pun.
At the end of the day there will always be folk yes even in ouer community who think you cant be *gay* if your with a FTM or a Trans but wot they dont realise is i will always be a *TransensualQueerFemme* whether i am with a FTM or a Trans or not, it is not them who makes me me it is me who makes me medo i care that i appear invisible at times because of who i prefer to date? nope as it all aboot me not anyone else n their wee *issues* please excuse me also includin *Trans* n not just FTMs in my post but in my life the 2 are kinda special.
**just my wee cents**
Respectfully Misty
*Mmmmmm i loveeee this position*
~~Fire & Ice, Pleasure & Pain, The Crack Of The Whip, The Stroke Of The Cane ! Then The Softest Caress To Drive You Insane~
I guess in theory all the femmes who want FTMs are right on here, but they're so scattered across the US and world that it means getting into a long-distance relationship which I am against.
However there are a lot of bi-curious gals out there, a ton of 'em compared with ALL lesbians of all types combined.
Sorry about the lack of avatar but I do have some photos on here.
Okay....so this is hard, because as we speak I'm in the middle of this 'thing' with my own FTM. We're dating, but dating other ppl because of the distance, and trying to decide what it is he wants really. I know what I want. I want him. Anyway. Moving on.
I am a 100% Femme Lesbian. The thought of a biological male touching me makes me ill, and I never thought I'd be a lesbian that could be with a FTM, until I met Beax.
Beaux was a person all in his own, and made me see that. I learned that you really had to look at the person inside. I love Beax. Probably always will, and I dunno if he even cares right now. He's a drag king/Male Illusionist, and sometimes I think that is more important to him than anything. We've known one another and been friends for 4 years, I've seen him through a lot of things, and he's seen me through a lot too. Sorry I know I'm getting off topic again.
I didn't miss the female energy, because at the core of Beaux was the same heart that had always been there. He's been on T for 4 years, and is preparing for top surgery. Sometimes the way that he acts makes me second guess my decision, however I know that not all FTM act the same, and I know some really great couples where one is FTM.
I think in the end it really does come down to heart.
The heart is still a softer heart than a bio man, and I think for me that was the biggest thing. I know this person's heart.
Hope that helps.....
Dev...
~*~*Dev*~*~
Thought I would drop a little hello, let everyone know I am still here and listening...
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-- Jennie
Happiness depends more on the inward disposition of mind than on outward circumstances.
Benjamin Franklin
Hmmm if I may... I'm a single femme. I really like FtMs. A LOT. I even have this cute little grin on my face thinking about being on the arm of one. Seriously, I really do.
So let's clarify.
*wipes hands* Okay... I think that about covers it. Well, maybe not entirely, but it helps with the start of it.
- I am a single femme. You are a single FtM.
- I live between San Antonio and Austin. Closer to San Antonio. You live anywhere within the US.
- I am 25 turning 26 this month. You are any age over me, but if mature, younger is okay.
- I am a lover, not a fighter. You should not yell, scream, or hit in anger.
- I wants kids. You want kids.
- I love dogs. You love dogs.
- I love to read. You can tolerate my house library.
- I love holding hands. You should be grabbing my hand before I grab yours.
- I love long walks. You enjoy coming with me to laugh when I scream at bugs.
- I enjoy shopping. You shouldn't mind tagging along to help from time to time.
- I enjoy cooking. You should enjoy home cooked meals more than going out for food.
- I love comedies and chick flicks. You shouldn't make me watch horrors if I have to sleep alone.
- I'm addicted to vitamin water. You should remember my favorite flavors.
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The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.
Marcel Proust
FINALLY~~~~~~~~~~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol
Okay now that that's out of my system, Looks like I was wrong about him not caring. After I wrote this the other night my phone rang. It was him. We sat and talked for four hours on the phone, and the next morning I left my house to drive to him, the whole hour and a half away. Yes that's right, that's all the further we are to one another. He was scared believe it or not, because he said out of nowhere the friendship we've always had turned to love. HE LOVES ME!!!!! lol
We are officially together, and I couldn't be happier. I'm off of work for at least a month if not longer as they schedule me for knee surgery and rehabbing it, and he wants me to do it all at his house. He wants to take care of me. I couldn't be happier. I'm no longer just me....finally it's we.....and I love him.
Wow......Apparently Life sneaks up and happens when you're doing nothing more than trying to live......
Dev
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~*~*Dev*~*~
<~~~Single fem that is just looking for a guy that is..........
Honest
Caring
Loving
Understanding
Will spoil me as I will him
Will make thier word as I will him
Likes animals
Has goals in life
Willing to be there for me when I need them as I will be for him
Will put me first as I will him
Will like all the sides of me
And more but that is about it right now....lol
I will never be alone.I will always have laughter and love.Always have a smile in the morning.Always have blessings to count at night.Because I have children.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Buddha
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Buddha
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Buddha
OMG!! How in the world would you know???!!! ~Giggles~
No I didnt, what happened this time??
Awwwwww thank you darling! You know your still my Papi ~Winks~
But no I am sorry, I am keeping the dog. Grown kinda foun of him
{And d*mn, calling out my real name and all here...And one only you us...lol}
I will never be alone.I will always have laughter and love.Always have a smile in the morning.Always have blessings to count at night.Because I have children.
[quote=SouthernPrincess;3171788]OMG!! How in the world would you know???!!! ~Giggles~
No I didnt, what happened this time??
well it is really bad. actually I will PM you.. I do not think I should put this out for everyone
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Buddha
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