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    I'm a femme.
    I met an FTM and WANTED hym.
    Got hym. Love hym. Married hym.

    Life is good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MountainGirl View Post
    I'm a femme.
    I met an FTM and WANTED hym.
    Got hym. Love hym. Married hym.

    Life is good.
    Well you got a single sister or friend that would be interested in me???

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    Listen guys.....there are plenty of women out there just waiting to be swept off their feet by a handsome fella, just remember its a matter of chemistry......walk with confidence, and don't be afraid to approach. I remember in my younger days my friends used to say I was unapproachable...so I would wait and wait and never got asked to dance only to later find out that some guy had the hots for me...but was just afraid of being told no!!

    That is crazy!!!

    Besides I see all the time women on here especially that are dating FtM's...my thing is where are all the guys---seems everyone is hooked up or has their eye on someone...
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    Quote Originally Posted by CurlyRedHead View Post
    Well you got a single sister or friend that would be interested in me???

    Lemme check my lil' black book...

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    Quote Originally Posted by SouthernPrincess
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    MickMan...I hope to start T next month. Although, I've not had the reservations about starting I am curious how it will change me. I can't wait!!
    If hair loss is genetic on my mom's side, I am good.
    However as it stands right now without T, I have the same body hair pattern as my father (arms, legs, etc). He didn't start losing his hair until his mid to late 40's. I'm 42. So, whose to say what will happen...lol.

    I'll take the good and the "bad" if there will be such a thing!!

    Have a good night all!!
    Hey NC, I'm on the journey Myself right now though I'm not yet close to taking T (though I want to in the near future). Its awesome to read other's stories and to kind of pick up on what I could very well expect when taking T ............ sounds like we're both about to embark on the best part of our lives

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    Ok, be patient with me. This is actualy my very first thread post.

    Glad to see this Thread. Since I came out every partner I have had has been transgender to some degree. It took me a few years but I finally figured out thats what was going on. I am almost exclusivly attracted to transgender and FTM. I say almost because I know full and well that with love anything is possible. Every site I have been on has been hit or miss for finding what I was looking for. Really, really excited with what I am seeing here. I hope to make a lot of friends... and maybe find the "guy" I have been looking for. But, mostly its about the friends. People who understand.

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    It takes time and patience to get to know people, as well as to get to know what you want in a partner. I have no doubt that you will make lots of friends here, and maybe even find that someone special ............ glad to see you here with us

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    Hey Alex, good to see you ............. hope your doing well

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    Welcome to the thread, Jenn.
    Its the notorious Bo-Bo

    Quote Originally Posted by MountainGirl
    I'm a femme.
    I met an FTM and WANTED hym.
    Got hym. Love hym. Married hym.

    Life is good.
    That's cuz you and Cal **RULE** of course

    Quote Originally Posted by CurlyRedHead
    Well you got a single sister or friend that would be interested in me???
    I'm sure someone can hook you up with that bro

    Quote Originally Posted by JeepFemme
    Listen guys.....there are plenty of women out there just waiting to be swept off their feet by a handsome fella, just remember its a matter of chemistry......walk with confidence, and don't be afraid to approach. I remember in my younger days my friends used to say I was unapproachable...so I would wait and wait and never got asked to dance only to later find out that some guy had the hots for me...but was just afraid of being told no!!

    That is crazy!!!

    Besides I see all the time women on here especially that are dating FtM's...my thing is where are all the guys---seems everyone is hooked up or has their eye on someone...
    I know that many of us guys are just waiting to sweep the woman of our dreams off their feet, Myself being one of them. Sometimes there is no chemistry, or two people just dno't connect for whatever reason but someone is out there for all of us (that I can just feel in My heart). Us guys are right here, we haven't gone anywhere (many of us make ourselves very well known as wanting to find love) but its not always possible, though it also could be that the right one just hasn't found us yet.

    Whatever the case may be, there are lots of femmes out there looking for love with an FTM and plenty of us guys seeking the woman of our dreams
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    I can think of some FtM's who I would really like to be with me right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BraedonAlexander View Post
    Its the notorious Bo-Bo








    Notororious????? That can't be good.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eva femme View Post
    I can think of some FtM's who I would really like to be with me right now.

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    You flirt! So I guess you mean more then one??? LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurlyRedHead View Post
    You flirt! So I guess you mean more then one??? LOL.
    Indeed! Not at the same time perse though

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    Sadly I live where there are no femmes. Streight girls, look out!
    Sorry about the lack of avatar but I do have some photos on here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eva femme View Post
    Indeed! Not at the same time perse though

    Eva
    Well if you ever decide to make a trip to Dallas, TX or go to the Vegas Bash let me know we can meet

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurlyRedHead View Post
    Well if you ever decide to make a trip to Dallas, TX or go to the Vegas Bash let me know we can meet
    I will do that for sure. However, it will probably not happen any time soon. The US is far away from where I live.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SomeLikeItHot24 View Post
    Spending so much time trying what the world says is normal.. When I came out for the first time, I had a HARD time with FTM. I've me some amazing FTMs that have the heart of gold, and good looking to boot! Really helped me to open my mind that even though I am a lesbian if the right FTM came along, I would be all for dating them. Learning a lot the last 4 years hasn't been easy and I haven't always been the most willing student.. I'm very stubborn it's the Aries in me, I'm glad I did sit down to see the beauty all around our LGBT community.
    I could have been the one writing this....I had such a hard time with FTM when I first came out, I think part of it for me was the fact that I didn't want a 'man' in my life. I love women. However as I've matured, seeing as I've been out since I was 15, and soon to be 30 this year, I've come to realize that the physical part of it is different from the mentality of a bio male and a trans guy. I recently ended a relationship with a FTM who hadn't had the surgeries yet, but had been on T for four years. It was a great relationship while it lasted, unfortunately the distance was too much for them. Like you I'm stubborn, I think most Scorpios are, but what I've found is this, it doesn't matter what the package looks like, it matters whats inside it.
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    Question Transsensual Femmes...

    A question comes to my mind, and I was wondering: for those femmes who've identified (and still do) as lesbian, how did you reconcile body issues with transmen who's bodies didn't conform to what you find sexually appealing? How long did it take you to be comfortable with a transmale body - one where there are no longer breasts but also no discernible penis?

    Just curious....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eva femme
    I can think of some FtM's who I would really like to be with me right now.

    Eva
    I wonder who they could be, hmmmmm

    Quote Originally Posted by Bo Dacious
    Notororious????? That can't be good.
    Sure it is Bo, cuz I got nothin but love for ya My friend

    Quote Originally Posted by Alex_C
    Sadly I live where there are no femmes. Streight girls, look out!
    lol I smell a guy on the prowl ........... I think all girls, no matter what their orientation, should watch out for Alex

    Quote Originally Posted by devilishslysmile
    I could have been the one writing this....I had such a hard time with FTM when I first came out, I think part of it for me was the fact that I didn't want a 'man' in my life. I love women. However as I've matured, seeing as I've been out since I was 15, and soon to be 30 this year, I've come to realize that the physical part of it is different from the mentality of a bio male and a trans guy. I recently ended a relationship with a FTM who hadn't had the surgeries yet, but had been on T for four years. It was a great relationship while it lasted, unfortunately the distance was too much for them. Like you I'm stubborn, I think most Scorpios are, but what I've found is this, it doesn't matter what the package looks like, it matters whats inside it.
    I can relate to this as well devilish, as I have been with two FTM's in My past even though now I identify as an FTM Myself. This was before when I was femme (or atleast I thought I was) and had a very hard time at first with the notion that I loved women but was partnering with guys (non-bio). Now as I identify with being FTM and after having had previous partners who were FTM's, I realize more now that ever that it really is whats on the inside that counts not the outside. Thank you for posting this, and welcome to the thread .......... hope to see you around again

    Morning Dre, it'll be interesting to hear the femmes responses to your question

    Sending a wish for a fantastic Monday to all of My FTM brothers and the femmes who love us
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    Quote Originally Posted by BraedonAlexander View Post
    I wonder who they could be, hmmmmm



    Sure it is Bo, cuz I got nothin but love for ya My friend



    lol I smell a guy on the prowl ........... I think all girls, no matter what their orientation, should watch out for Alex



    I can relate to this as well devilish, as I have been with two FTM's in My past even though now I identify as an FTM Myself. This was before when I was femme (or atleast I thought I was) and had a very hard time at first with the notion that I loved women but was partnering with guys (non-bio). Now as I identify with being FTM and after having had previous partners who were FTM's, I realize more now that ever that it really is whats on the inside that counts not the outside. Thank you for posting this, and welcome to the thread .......... hope to see you around again

    Morning Dre, it'll be interesting to hear the femmes responses to your question

    Sending a wish for a fantastic Monday to all of My FTM brothers and the femmes who love us
    Braedon ~ thanks for the kind words....I truly do believe what I posted...it is the inside that counts.....which leads me into my next answer for Draykko...
    Draykko........for me like I had said to the previous post, to me it's the inside that counts.....which it isn't all about sex, it's not suppose to be, @ least not in my opinion. It truly the inside that counts.....I don't feel like it challenges my sexuality or makes me less of a lesbian. I feel like it makes me be sure, sure that I really care about the person before I engage in anything sexual with them. But like I said, that's just me....hope I answered your question like ya wanted.

    And now I really really hope this posts because I'm posting it from my phone. Lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by devilishslysmile View Post
    I could have been the one writing this....I had such a hard time with FTM when I first came out, I think part of it for me was the fact that I didn't want a 'man' in my life. I love women. However as I've matured, seeing as I've been out since I was 15, and soon to be 30 this year, I've come to realize that the physical part of it is different from the mentality of a bio male and a trans guy. I recently ended a relationship with a FTM who hadn't had the surgeries yet, but had been on T for four years. It was a great relationship while it lasted, unfortunately the distance was too much for them. Like you I'm stubborn, I think most Scorpios are, but what I've found is this, it doesn't matter what the package looks like, it matters whats inside it.

    Hey Devilish...

    Nice to meet you just thought I would say hi. What part of Illinois you in? I have friends that live in BFE Illinois.

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    Quote Originally Posted by devilishslysmile
    Braedon ~ thanks for the kind words....I truly do believe what I posted...it is the inside that counts.....which leads me into my next answer for Draykko...
    Draykko........for me like I had said to the previous post, to me it's the inside that counts.....which it isn't all about sex, it's not suppose to be, @ least not in my opinion. It truly the inside that counts.....I don't feel like it challenges my sexuality or makes me less of a lesbian. I feel like it makes me be sure, sure that I really care about the person before I engage in anything sexual with them. But like I said, that's just me....hope I answered your question like ya wanted.

    And now I really really hope this posts because I'm posting it from my phone. Lol

    It posted very well sweetie

    I can echo those sentiments, about how its really the inside that counts. I've had many judge Me on My looks, and I once thought that perhaps I would never find someone unless I lost weight or somehow changed My looks. Now I know better and just figure that if someone refuses to get to know Me because they don't like My looks, than I do not want that person in My life

    I can feel by your two previous posts that your a sweet and genuine person, and thats absolutely wonderful to see and hear
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    Quote Originally Posted by BraedonAlexander View Post
    It posted very well sweetie

    I can echo those sentiments, about how its really the inside that counts. I've had many judge Me on My looks, and I once thought that perhaps I would never find someone unless I lost weight or somehow changed My looks. Now I know better and just figure that if someone refuses to get to know Me because they don't like My looks, than I do not want that person in My life

    I can feel by your two previous posts that your a sweet and genuine person, and thats absolutely wonderful to see and hear
    I live in west central illinois, literally on the missouri state line. Right on the mississippi river, u cross the bridge and ur in missouri. Sorry for the short hand, but driving. Lol. I'm an hour and a half from springfield illinois and an hour and a half from st louis missouri. It's a good area. I was just in dallas a week ago!
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    It sounds like a very accessible area, that is for sure
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    Quote Originally Posted by devilishslysmile View Post
    I live in west central illinois, literally on the missouri state line. Right on the mississippi river, u cross the bridge and ur in missouri. Sorry for the short hand, but driving. Lol. I'm an hour and a half from springfield illinois and an hour and a half from st louis missouri. It's a good area. I was just in dallas a week ago!

    I have some friends that live in Silvis, IL near Moline "Quad Cities" area. I did some running along the Mississippie River.

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    Quote Originally Posted by devilishslysmile View Post
    Braedon ~ thanks for the kind words....I truly do believe what I posted...it is the inside that counts.....which leads me into my next answer for Draykko...
    Draykko........for me like I had said to the previous post, to me it's the inside that counts.....which it isn't all about sex, it's not suppose to be, @ least not in my opinion. It truly the inside that counts.....I don't feel like it challenges my sexuality or makes me less of a lesbian. I feel like it makes me be sure, sure that I really care about the person before I engage in anything sexual with them. But like I said, that's just me....hope I answered your question like ya wanted.

    And now I really really hope this posts because I'm posting it from my phone. Lol
    I think it's wonderful that you start with the inside and let that permeate outwardly. It's a wonderful way to love...

    But I guess I was addressing my question more to women who identify as lesbian, and struggled with the idea of dating a man (transman, yes, but still a man). Specifically those transmen who had already begun the physical transformations (i.e. - started testosterone; had surgeries). How did you get past the maleness? Get past the fact that the person in question was not a lesbian but truly a man? Were you able to get past it, or did you end the relationship because you just missed that "female energy"?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DRAYKKO View Post
    A question comes to my mind, and I was wondering: for those femmes who've identified (and still do) as lesbian, how did you reconcile body issues with transmen who's bodies didn't conform to what you find sexually appealing? How long did it take you to be comfortable with a transmale body - one where there are no longer breasts but also no discernible penis?

    Just curious....

    Big Daddy Dre---
    I do not know this for certain, but I am not sure if femmes ever get really comfortable and maybe that is the wrong choice of words. I know my ex broke up with me becasue she wanted to be with women, now I was not the forst FTM she had been with and she is very pro FTM and completely understands, but after dating a few very butch women, she is back with another FTM.

    So, I am not sure if she doesn't like the fact that she had become invisible to the "gay" community or if she really wanted to be with women or if????

    I have talked with many though, and it seems that in the community down here, it is a stigma that is you are a lesbian and with an FTM, many think of you as a sell out. I really dislike the community here.

    Is it that way in other places too?

    Anyways, just my 2 cents
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    Quote Originally Posted by DRAYKKO View Post
    But I guess I was addressing my question more to women who identify as lesbian, and struggled with the idea of dating a man (transman, yes, but still a man). Specifically those transmen who had already begun the physical transformations (i.e. - started testosterone; had surgeries). How did you get past the maleness? Get past the fact that the person in question was not a lesbian but truly a man? Were you able to get past it, or did you end the relationship because you just missed that "female energy"?

    Big Daddy Dre---

    Ok, myself, I dated butches, then dated stone butches, then dated a TG then dated a FTM...So you can kinda say I advanced in baby steps...lol
    I dated a FTM, well didnt date but kinda more or less had a 'fling' and was taught by someone all the lil details that come along with dating one. He was wonderful in teaching me about himself on that level.
    It was not hard at all to go from dating women to dating guys. I think for me it was because I felt that guys were my cup of tea. I have never been your 'normal les'. Even when it comes to the sex.
    So I guess for me there was no getting use to it, I just simply enjoyed it
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    Quote Originally Posted by SouthernPrincess View Post
    Ok, myself, I dated butches, then dated stone butches, then dated a TG then dated a FTM...So you can kinda say I advanced in baby steps...lol
    I dated a FTM, well didnt date but kinda more or less had a 'fling' and was taught by someone all the lil details that come along with dating one. He was wonderful in teaching me about himself on that level.
    It was not hard at all to go from dating women to dating guys. I think for me it was because I felt that guys were my cup of tea. I have never been your 'normal les'. Even when it comes to the sex.
    So I guess for me there was no getting use to it, I just simply enjoyed it
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    Quote Originally Posted by MickMan View Post
    I do not know this for certain, but I am not sure if femmes ever get really comfortable and maybe that is the wrong choice of words. I know my ex broke up with me becasue she wanted to be with women, now I was not the forst FTM she had been with and she is very pro FTM and completely understands, but after dating a few very butch women, she is back with another FTM.

    So, I am not sure if she doesn't like the fact that she had become invisible to the "gay" community or if she really wanted to be with women or if????

    I have talked with many though, and it seems that in the community down here, it is a stigma that is you are a lesbian and with an FTM, many think of you as a sell out. I really dislike the community here.

    Is it that way in other places too?

    Anyways, just my 2 cents

    Good Morning Mick
    Im gonna jump in here if i may
    I have to say i have talked to a few femmes n i have to
    agree with you to a certain point, if a femme has neva dated a FTM or a Trans b4, sum find it hard being as it is oot side their comfort zone than lets say a Butch etc, speakin as someone who IDs as a *TransensualQueerFemme* there is no shadow of a doubtthat my energy is complimented by datin a FTM or a Transit has taken me alot of years to find my right *fit* as in prefferable partner, there is more to a FTM or Trans than wot you see, for me personnally it is wot is in their wee makeup, pardon the pun.
    At the end of the day there will always be folk yes even in ouer community who think you cant be *gay* if your with a FTM or a Trans but wot they dont realise is i will always be a *TransensualQueerFemme* whether i am with a FTM or a Trans or not, it is not them who makes me me it is me who makes me me do i care that i appear invisible at times because of who i prefer to date? nope as it all aboot me not anyone else n their wee *issues* please excuse me also includin *Trans* n not just FTMs in my post but in my life the 2 are kinda special.
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    I guess in theory all the femmes who want FTMs are right on here, but they're so scattered across the US and world that it means getting into a long-distance relationship which I am against.

    However there are a lot of bi-curious gals out there, a ton of 'em compared with ALL lesbians of all types combined.
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    hard to write....

    Quote Originally Posted by DRAYKKO View Post
    I think it's wonderful that you start with the inside and let that permeate outwardly. It's a wonderful way to love...

    But I guess I was addressing my question more to women who identify as lesbian, and struggled with the idea of dating a man (transman, yes, but still a man). Specifically those transmen who had already begun the physical transformations (i.e. - started testosterone; had surgeries). How did you get past the maleness? Get past the fact that the person in question was not a lesbian but truly a man? Were you able to get past it, or did you end the relationship because you just missed that "female energy"?

    Big Daddy Dre---

    Okay....so this is hard, because as we speak I'm in the middle of this 'thing' with my own FTM. We're dating, but dating other ppl because of the distance, and trying to decide what it is he wants really. I know what I want. I want him. Anyway. Moving on.

    I am a 100% Femme Lesbian. The thought of a biological male touching me makes me ill, and I never thought I'd be a lesbian that could be with a FTM, until I met Beax.

    Beaux was a person all in his own, and made me see that. I learned that you really had to look at the person inside. I love Beax. Probably always will, and I dunno if he even cares right now. He's a drag king/Male Illusionist, and sometimes I think that is more important to him than anything. We've known one another and been friends for 4 years, I've seen him through a lot of things, and he's seen me through a lot too. Sorry I know I'm getting off topic again.

    I didn't miss the female energy, because at the core of Beaux was the same heart that had always been there. He's been on T for 4 years, and is preparing for top surgery. Sometimes the way that he acts makes me second guess my decision, however I know that not all FTM act the same, and I know some really great couples where one is FTM.

    I think in the end it really does come down to heart.
    The heart is still a softer heart than a bio man, and I think for me that was the biggest thing. I know this person's heart.

    Hope that helps.....

    Dev...
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    Hmmm if I may... I'm a single femme. I really like FtMs. A LOT. I even have this cute little grin on my face thinking about being on the arm of one. Seriously, I really do.



    So let's clarify.
    • I am a single femme. You are a single FtM.
    • I live between San Antonio and Austin. Closer to San Antonio. You live anywhere within the US.
    • I am 25 turning 26 this month. You are any age over me, but if mature, younger is okay.
    • I am a lover, not a fighter. You should not yell, scream, or hit in anger.
    • I wants kids. You want kids.
    • I love dogs. You love dogs.
    • I love to read. You can tolerate my house library.
    • I love holding hands. You should be grabbing my hand before I grab yours.
    • I love long walks. You enjoy coming with me to laugh when I scream at bugs.
    • I enjoy shopping. You shouldn't mind tagging along to help from time to time.
    • I enjoy cooking. You should enjoy home cooked meals more than going out for food.
    • I love comedies and chick flicks. You shouldn't make me watch horrors if I have to sleep alone.
    • I'm addicted to vitamin water. You should remember my favorite flavors.
    *wipes hands* Okay... I think that about covers it. Well, maybe not entirely, but it helps with the start of it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MickMan View Post
    Interseting!!!

    Really????!!!!
    ~giggles~
    I will never be alone.
    I will always have laughter and love.
    Always have a smile in the morning.
    Always have blessings to count at night.
    Because I have children.

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    Finally!!!!!!!!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by devilishslysmile View Post
    Okay....so this is hard, because as we speak I'm in the middle of this 'thing' with my own FTM. We're dating, but dating other ppl because of the distance, and trying to decide what it is he wants really. I know what I want. I want him. Anyway. Moving on.

    I am a 100% Femme Lesbian. The thought of a biological male touching me makes me ill, and I never thought I'd be a lesbian that could be with a FTM, until I met Beax.

    Beaux was a person all in his own, and made me see that. I learned that you really had to look at the person inside. I love Beax. Probably always will, and I dunno if he even cares right now. He's a drag king/Male Illusionist, and sometimes I think that is more important to him than anything. We've known one another and been friends for 4 years, I've seen him through a lot of things, and he's seen me through a lot too. Sorry I know I'm getting off topic again.

    I didn't miss the female energy, because at the core of Beaux was the same heart that had always been there. He's been on T for 4 years, and is preparing for top surgery. Sometimes the way that he acts makes me second guess my decision, however I know that not all FTM act the same, and I know some really great couples where one is FTM.

    I think in the end it really does come down to heart.
    The heart is still a softer heart than a bio man, and I think for me that was the biggest thing. I know this person's heart.

    Hope that helps.....

    Dev...

    FINALLY~~~~~~~~~~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    lol
    Okay now that that's out of my system, Looks like I was wrong about him not caring. After I wrote this the other night my phone rang. It was him. We sat and talked for four hours on the phone, and the next morning I left my house to drive to him, the whole hour and a half away. Yes that's right, that's all the further we are to one another. He was scared believe it or not, because he said out of nowhere the friendship we've always had turned to love. HE LOVES ME!!!!! lol
    We are officially together, and I couldn't be happier. I'm off of work for at least a month if not longer as they schedule me for knee surgery and rehabbing it, and he wants me to do it all at his house. He wants to take care of me. I couldn't be happier. I'm no longer just me....finally it's we.....and I love him.
    Wow......Apparently Life sneaks up and happens when you're doing nothing more than trying to live......

    Dev

    ~*~*Dev*~*~

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    Quote Originally Posted by devilishslysmile View Post
    FINALLY~~~~~~~~~~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    lol
    Okay now that that's out of my system, Looks like I was wrong about him not caring. After I wrote this the other night my phone rang. It was him. We sat and talked for four hours on the phone, and the next morning I left my house to drive to him, the whole hour and a half away. Yes that's right, that's all the further we are to one another. He was scared believe it or not, because he said out of nowhere the friendship we've always had turned to love. HE LOVES ME!!!!! lol
    We are officially together, and I couldn't be happier. I'm off of work for at least a month if not longer as they schedule me for knee surgery and rehabbing it, and he wants me to do it all at his house. He wants to take care of me. I couldn't be happier. I'm no longer just me....finally it's we.....and I love him.
    Wow......Apparently Life sneaks up and happens when you're doing nothing more than trying to live......

    Dev

    Congradulations, its wonderful to see patients, hard work, and persistance pay off. May you both have many happy years together.
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    <~~~Single fem that is just looking for a guy that is..........

    Honest
    Caring
    Loving
    Understanding
    Will spoil me as I will him
    Will make thier word as I will him
    Likes animals
    Has goals in life
    Willing to be there for me when I need them as I will be for him
    Will put me first as I will him
    Will like all the sides of me

    And more but that is about it right now....lol
    I will never be alone.
    I will always have laughter and love.
    Always have a smile in the morning.
    Always have blessings to count at night.
    Because I have children.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mistyblue9802200 View Post
    Good Morning Mick

    Im gonna jump in here if i may
    I have to say i have talked to a few femmes n i have to
    agree with you to a certain point, if a femme has neva dated a FTM or a Trans b4, sum find it hard being as it is oot side their comfort zone than lets say a Butch etc, speakin as someone who IDs as a *TransensualQueerFemme* there is no shadow of a doubtthat my energy is complimented by datin a FTM or a Transit has taken me alot of years to find my right *fit* as in prefferable partner, there is more to a FTM or Trans than wot you see, for me personnally it is wot is in their wee makeup, pardon the pun.
    At the end of the day there will always be folk yes even in ouer community who think you cant be *gay* if your with a FTM or a Trans but wot they dont realise is i will always be a *TransensualQueerFemme* whether i am with a FTM or a Trans or not, it is not them who makes me me it is me who makes me me do i care that i appear invisible at times because of who i prefer to date? nope as it all aboot me not anyone else n their wee *issues* please excuse me also includin *Trans* n not just FTMs in my post but in my life the 2 are kinda special.
    **just my wee cents**



    Respectfully Misty
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    Quote Originally Posted by SouthernPrincess View Post
    Really????!!!!
    ~giggles~

    yup, really!!!!

    Hey did you hear about D?
    Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SouthernPrincess View Post
    <~~~Single fem that is just looking for a guy that is..........

    Honest
    Caring
    Loving
    Understanding
    Will spoil me as I will him
    Will make thier word as I will him
    Likes animals
    Has goals in life
    Willing to be there for me when I need them as I will be for him
    Will put me first as I will him
    Will like all the sides of me

    And more but that is about it right now....lol
    I will vouch for SP, she is a sweetheart. And is really a caring person.... and someone will be lucky to find her

    OK Christy, now I did what you wanted.. now release my dog!!!!
    Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MickMan View Post
    yup, really!!!!

    Hey did you hear about D?
    OMG!! How in the world would you know???!!! ~Giggles~
    No I didnt, what happened this time??

    Quote Originally Posted by MickMan View Post
    I will vouch for SP, she is a sweetheart. And is really a caring person.... and someone will be lucky to find her

    OK Christy, now I did what you wanted.. now release my dog!!!!

    Awwwwww thank you darling! You know your still my Papi ~Winks~

    But no I am sorry, I am keeping the dog. Grown kinda foun of him

    {And d*mn, calling out my real name and all here...And one only you us...lol}
    I will never be alone.
    I will always have laughter and love.
    Always have a smile in the morning.
    Always have blessings to count at night.
    Because I have children.

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    [quote=SouthernPrincess;3171788]OMG!! How in the world would you know???!!! ~Giggles~
    No I didnt, what happened this time??





    well it is really bad. actually I will PM you.. I do not think I should put this out for everyone
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