For single femmes who like FTM, and single FTMs who like femmes - Dating thread.

**graphiteta2s** · 01-27-2010, 05:38 PM

Originally Posted by Ally_J2005

Ok so now what?...lol walks away saying HUH?

sorry if I moved to the state of confusion...what do you suggest we do next?

**Ally_J2005** · 01-27-2010, 05:58 PM

Nice save ..lol Put it all on me ...

**graphiteta2s** · 01-27-2010, 06:12 PM

Originally Posted by Ally_J2005

Nice save ..lol Put it all on me ...

Oh, something tells me you can handle it....

**Ally_J2005** · 01-27-2010, 06:16 PM

Originally Posted by graphiteta2s

Oh, something tells me you can handle it....

Ok ... so who spilled the beans?

Hmmmm ... looks for Shero .... hmmmmmmmmmm ....

**graphiteta2s** · 01-27-2010, 06:19 PM

Originally Posted by Ally_J2005

Ok ... so who spilled the beans?

Hmmmm ... looks for Shero .... hmmmmmmmmmm ....

hey wait, am I being ganged up on?

**Ally_J2005** · 01-27-2010, 06:20 PM

Originally Posted by graphiteta2s

hey wait, am I being ganged up on?

Sorry for the state of confusion ..lol ... but no you're not ....

**graphiteta2s** · 01-27-2010, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by Ally_J2005

Sorry for the state of confusion ..lol ... but no you're not ....

just like to know what my odds are, always like to be prepared.....for just about anything

**Ally_J2005** · 01-27-2010, 06:31 PM

Originally Posted by graphiteta2s

just like to know what my odds are, always like to be prepared.....for just about anything

But of course, I always say if plan A doesn't work or B ... go to c, d,e,f,g,h,i, you get the pic. Btw ty for the n

**graphiteta2s** · 01-27-2010, 06:35 PM

Originally Posted by Ally_J2005

But of course, I always say if plan A doesn't work or B ... go to c, d,e,f,g,h,i, you get the pic. Btw ty for the n

But of course, you are more than welcome.

**Heavenleahangel** · 01-28-2010, 06:30 AM

Originally Posted by shero

Dear Heavenleahangel...please don't apologize you did nothing of the sort! My toes are intact luckily and i was merely clarifying my presence on this thread so as not to mislead anyone....? I guess..
See..it don't see MY TG as in any way crossing-over or moving from one to the other. This is who I have always been and nothing has really changed except for my acceptance and appreciation for what makes me..me. Does that make sense? I know it's confusing, believe me! LOL Let's put it this way..if you are neither male nor female, or both or some other construct of gender other than the binary..then there is no crossing in my mind, cuz there's no where to cross to?? haha i think that probably confused you (and me) even more! LMAO

Good Morning, Shero; No, I am not confused as I thought I was. I understand (I think, lol) what you are saying. I have taken every opportunity in my life to study/learn everything I could about female TG and FtM's. I feel there is a fine line between the two. I have *always* been attracted to someone masculine/tomboy-ish. I do not even like referring to that "someone" as female as my mind's eye does not equate a ftm or TG as *female*. I just confused the two terms early on and sometimes now. I used to think I am a rare breed as I totally "get" the born looking one way but feeling/living another.
Keep in mind, I grew up in the Bible belt of the south in the '70s & '80s. I truly felt like THE only girl who felt guilty/weird/emotional/excited/nauseaus in gym class watching the tomboys dressing out for gym! lol Yet, there is nothing sexier/exciting/more interesting than someone just like you! Again, does that make me a naughty peach?

**plainpipes** · 01-31-2010, 12:47 PM

Happy Sunday to everyone on the thread. !!!
Hope eveyone is having a great day.

**MountainStar** · 01-31-2010, 12:49 PM

Thank you plainpipes! I am feeling a lot better today after being down with the flu for three days

Yikes! Tis a sad thing for a High Femme to be sick on her own lol

**plainpipes** · 01-31-2010, 12:52 PM

Originally Posted by MountainStar

Thank you plainpipes! I am feeling a lot better today after being down with the flu for three days

Yikes! Tis a sad thing for a High Femme to be sick on her own lol

So sorry to hear that MountainStar, hope you are definitely on the road to repair from your flu bout. Enjoy your day though

**graphiteta2s** · 01-31-2010, 01:43 PM

Originally Posted by MountainStar

Thank you plainpipes! I am feeling a lot better today after being down with the flu for three days

Yikes! Tis a sad thing for a High Femme to be sick on her own lol

Don't mean to intrude, but glad you're feeling better.

No one should be ill and on their own.

**MountainStar** · 01-31-2010, 01:50 PM

Not an intrusion at all. Thanks for the well wishes.

**LeeP** · 02-01-2010, 10:02 AM

Who's the dude with a sack over hys face?

Is there a gallery we can look at? ...........wazzup

...and from ,,,, where?

**LeeP** · 02-01-2010, 10:32 AM

Originally Posted by Ally_J2005

I have admitted it and did have fun.

But why does everyone have to live so far away?

oh, my... where is far away?

i'll google "sunshine state"... sounds like florida...
big fat oranges and snapping alligators...LOL

**LeeP** · 02-01-2010, 10:35 AM

(((hey there gorgeous)))

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**shero** · 02-01-2010, 11:15 AM

Originally Posted by LeeP

(((hey there gorgeous)))

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BRAVOOOOOOOOOOOO!

**shero** · 02-01-2010, 11:16 AM

Originally Posted by LeeP

Who's the dude with a sack over hys face?

Is there a gallery we can look at? ...........wazzup

...and from ,,,, where?

what CHU talkin about Willis?

huh?!

**skinnylaura** · 02-09-2010, 10:56 AM

Originally Posted by femmebaker

It's identity versus process in a way, no? For me, the attraction is in the identity, the masculinity. The extent of transition is nearly irrelevant, save the effect it has on the self-image of the individual involved. I'm drawn to the energy of a transgendered person, and the way he relates to me as a feminine woman. (I'm sure I don't speak for all femmes, just my take on the matter!)

oh wow, this sooo encapsulates my feelings on this.....i'm not sure i can even add anything to this great description here! they just make me feel sooo feminine, and i adore that contrast, that dynamic....

**iamkeri1** · 02-09-2010, 05:20 PM

Hi everyone,
I just stopped by to say "Hey!' to y'all. I haven't posted in a while, but I'm happy to see that y'all are keeping the thread alive. Ally good to see you in here, my friend. And welcome to all you lovely folks who have joined us. May you find the love of your lives and joy in your heart.
Smooches,
Keri

**Ally_J2005** · 02-09-2010, 07:00 PM

Originally Posted by LeeP

oh, my... where is far away?

i'll google "sunshine state"... sounds like florida...
big fat oranges and snapping alligators...LOL

LeeP ... yes I'm in the sunshine state of florida although lately there hasn't been much

**iamkeri1** · 03-19-2010, 09:06 PM

Well, I guess I'm ready to talk about this now. I haven't been posting much because I've met someone. We met as a result of this thread and have been "dating" (actually, pretty much living together) for the last couple of weeks. My kids like him, and we fit together very well. We have been talking marriage and the whole nine yards. His name is BeninTexas. I don't know what else to say about it except that I feel really lucky to have met him, and I'm happy.
Smooches,
Keri

**GoofyLuvr** · 04-04-2010, 09:22 AM

Thought I'd stop by and say hi! Nice to see this thread! I'm gonna go subscribe right now!!!

**MatyaDio** · 04-04-2010, 10:16 AM

.. happy festive Sunday..

**NCFireClown** · 09-08-2010, 11:36 AM

Hi, found this thread of course with only 20 minutes to spare before I leave for work! Will be stopping back in and would love to see this thread become active!!!

**iamkeri1** · 09-08-2010, 10:20 PM

Sorry to see this thread is pretty inactive at this point. Hope it's because you have all been having a wonderful summer, and have been too busy to stop in.

I haven't been here for a while myself while exploring a new relationship. Regrettably, it didn't work out between the two of us. I guess you still have to take it slow, even when you are, ahem, ... mature. He a great guy, though, and so far we seem to have ended up as friends.

So come back and visit and let us know how you are doing.
Smooches,
Keri

**Heavenleahangel** · 09-22-2010, 02:49 PM

Stopping in to try and get this thread active again. Hello? Anyone out there????

**Drifter** · 10-19-2010, 08:18 PM

Congrats...........
Drifter

**iamkeri1** · 10-20-2010, 12:31 AM

Hi y'all
I was happy to see this thread be brought back to life. I wanted to say "hi" to everyone, and to encourage you to keep posting and talking to each other. There are great people out there to be met. Don't be afraid to PM each other to deepen/sweeten the contact.

If you let someone know you like them, the worst thing that can happen is that they won't like you back. (But maybe they will, and you can find some joy in your life!)If you are afraid to make the contact at all, then you are going to be alone for a good long time.

Smooches to you sweeties,
Keri

**LeeP** · 10-20-2010, 11:11 PM

that's the worst that can happen?
hum... reminds me of an old song about "...better to have loved and ______ then not to have loved at all..."
i forgot the lyric...LOL
studboi has plenty to say about the subject..
i got a few good former g/f that i treasure...

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**Hardline** · 03-23-2012, 04:51 PM

Originally Posted by MountainStar

Hello Gentlemen and Ladies...*smile*
I learned a big lesson recently. Just because someone falls within a category where I find attraction (such as FtM) does not mean they are dating material.

I like an old fashioned kind of guy who respects a lady and treats her as such. Unfortunately, I am not so sure they exist anymore so I think it's best to just keep to myself.

I'm a nice person but am just not up for all the weeding it takes to find a prince among the frogs.

Although this is an old post,I wanted to assure the ladies who are looking for a gentlman that we exist.Funny,in this day and age I find it hard to find a lady as it seems all the women want tattooed badboys with commitment phobias who treat them like crap.This is definately a two-way street for both gentleman and ladies who find it equally difficult to sort through all of the undesireables.

I rather like General Robert E Lee´s definition of a gentleman becasue it is about humility and this appeals to my christian,cowboy self.There are many references in the bible to humility so this is obviously something God wanted christians to heed.
Robert E. LeeLee's definition speaks only to conduct.

The forbearing use of power does not only form a touchstone, but the manner in which an individual enjoys certain advantages over others is a test of a true gentleman.
The power which the strong have over the weak, the employer over the employed, the educated over the unlettered, the experienced over the confiding, even the clever over the silly — the forbearing or inoffensive use of all this power or authority, or a total abstinence from it when the case admits it, will show the gentleman in a plain light.
The gentleman does not needlessly and unnecessarily remind an offender of a wrong he may have committed against him. He can not only forgive, he can forget; and he strives for that nobleness of self and mildness of character which impart sufficient strength to let the past be but the past. A true man of honor feels humbled himself when he cannot help humbling others.[2]
Lee's conception is one of the better known expositions in favor of the Southern culture of honor

Regards,
A cowboy and a gentleman