Really Single Butche and Femme List

[KrystleH]

Unfortunatley femme's just don't "do it" for me.. so I am somewhat limited. The last few womyn I have dated didn't consider themselves butches but more butch side of center.. I realized that I really miss an old school butch that knows how to treat hys woman. So I will hold out for Mr Right. For now.. I am opting for not dating.

yeah that whole you liking them and them liking you thing.. kinda tricky.

Well Kalila, knowing what you want is every bit as important as knowing what you don't want. Kudos for knwoing your own mind. From what I have seen of your pictures, and from what I know of you through your postings and messages, I would say that whatever bucth does win your heart will be every bit as fortunate as the femme who captures Handsome. You're a great catch and you should hold out for Mr. Right.

[Kalila]

Well Kalila, knowing what you want is every bit as important as knowing what you don't want. Kudos for knwoing your own mind. From what I have seen of your pictures, and from what I know of you through your postings and messages, I would say that whatever bucth does win your heart will be every bit as fortunate as the femme who captures Handsome. You're a great catch and you should hold out for Mr. Right.

I am rather fond of you too

and thank you - you are very kind.

[KrystleH]

I am rather fond of you too

and thank you - you are very kind.

Kalila, I am not kind. I am honest. And I am objective. I don't pay such compliments to anyone if I do not believe them fully.

[TheDety]

Kalila, I am not kind. I am honest. And I am objective. I don't pay such compliments to anyone if I do not believe them fully.

She speaks the truth.

Kalila, I have to say. Awesome tat...does the Kanji read Right of Passage?

[Kalila]

She speaks the truth.

Kalila, I have to say. Awesome tat...does the Kanji read Right of Passage?

Hi Dety - actually it says Love Eternal - I knew if love was to be on my body it would have to be over my heart.

Thanks for the compliment.

[bellaestate]

Maybe not in Georgia...but...have you ever been to aSheville...
Hhmmm...and what...prey tell...does a Kissing Bandit do...or do I really want that answer...being the...ahem...shy...reserved...single butch I am...*cough, cough*

Hello bmerchef,

No I have never been to Ashville but I have heard it is a good place and that lots of gay woman are there..Unfortunately, I can't afford the gas to visit. Now the kissing bandit goes like this....I go out by myself to a club, bar. I see a good looking woman (perferably butch) and sneak up behind them. I stand behind them for a few moments and then I tap them on the shoulder, they turn around, I talk to them for a few moments, I move in abit closer and when they least expect it...I kiss them on the lips, cheek, nose, forehead any area I can reach and then I turn around and walk away. A short little kiss and nothing more. Now there are some rules you must adhere too for your own safety.

1. DO NOT approach a butch if they are with another woman that does not look like another butch or a friend.
2. Make sure your breath is fresh.
3. A butch in a group of other butches works the best as you won't have femmes after your ass.
4. Do not stay around to hear or see the cursing, shock or the "what the hell".
5. If they come after you, look for the smile...Run away...if they look pissed.

Lynn

[Kalila]

Hello bmerchef,

No I have never been to Ashville but I have heard it is a good place and that lots of gay woman are there..Unfortunately, I can't afford the gas to visit. Now the kissing bandit goes like this....I go out by myself to a club, bar. I see a good looking woman (perferably butch) and sneak up behind them. I stand behind them for a few moments and then I tap them on the shoulder, they turn around, I talk to them for a few moments, I move in abit closer and when they least expect it...I kiss them on the lips, cheek, nose, forehead any area I can reach and then I turn around and walk away. A short little kiss and nothing more. Now there are some rules you must adhere too for your own safety.

1. DO NOT approach a butch if they are with another woman that does not look like another butch or a friend.
2. Make sure your breath is fresh.
3. A butch in a group of other butches works the best as you won't have femmes after your ass.
4. Do not stay around to hear or see the cursing, shock or the "what the hell".
5. If they come after you, look for the smile...Run away...if they look pissed.

Lynn

OMG Bella I love it.. now.. I only have to find a gaggle (or is it a tangle) of butches.. oh and a cuppa courage.

[bellaestate]

Bella I don't blame you - I think they are all nestled up in the NE with Handsome.. Because they certainly arent in SoCal

Hey Kalila...Well girl I just checked out your gallery. As pretty as you are, I am totally amazed that you are still single. You are gorgeous girl and If I was a butch, I would certaintaly ask you out.

Bella

[shigi]

good evening singles

[bellaestate]

This was so horrible, I can finally talk about it..

I moved two weeks ago from a 3BR apartment into a house. The distance of the move was about a minute drive. So here is the story.

The move was supposed to take place on Saturday afternoon at 2pm. At 2pm, I get a call from the movers saying they are still working with other customers and would I like to move at night. I say NO WAY as the movers will be tired and it is cold out so lets do it tomorrow AM. They say OK we will be there at 10AM.

Sunday: Get a call at 10am stating, still finishing up with customers from yesterday will be there by noon. At noon movers show up with truck, three latino men walk through my apartment shaking their heads stating, "Boy you have a lot of Stuff". We thought this was a 1BR apartment and the truck is already have full. I say, "Well I have to be out of this apartment by tomorrow and still need to clean it". "What are you going to do about this mix-up?"

Sunday afternoon: They leave and bring back a much larger truck that is empty. The move begins.. Things are going good until two of the Latino men start asking me for my phone number and flirting with me. The lead man is the worst and keeps cornering me in each room I am working in. I finally tell him that I am old enough to be his mother and I don't appreciate his actions. Well that just brings him on more.

Sunday late afternoon: They inform me that I have to pay in cash. Now of course, I was planning on writing a check and I have no cash. I tell them this. They say, "If you don't pay us in cash, we have to take your stuff to our wharehouse until you can pay in cash". I talk to the supervisor and no budges. So I off around town, hitting every ATM I can find to get the needed money. I can only get enough to pay for 5 hours and we are already at 3.

Sunday evening: We arrive at the house and things begin to get unloaded. I tell them to take the furniture into the appropriate rooms and leave the boxes in the garage. I will move the boxes in on my own time.

The move is done and I pay: I gave the foreman the cash and he kisses me on the neck. I was stunned and just stood there.Again they all want my phone number so they can come back and "HELP" me around the house. UH HUH!! Yea right!! I am here and I swear I will never move again...

Bella

[bellaestate]

good evening singles

Hi Shig..Welcome to the singles thread..

Bella

[Kalila]

Hey Kalila...Well girl I just checked out your gallery. As pretty as you are, I am totally amazed that you are still single. You are gorgeous girl and If I was a butch, I would certaintaly ask you out.

Bella

Bella Sister thank you so much. You are too generous

[shigi]

Hi Shig..Welcome to the singles thread..

Bella

thx bella..ive been here before.. just new and i float around reading more than i post at times

[HumV4me]

leaving foot prints in the sand... Hi everyone.

Alicia Ann

[Kimbo]

This was so horrible, I can finally talk about it..

I moved two weeks ago from a 3BR apartment into a house. The distance of the move was about a minute drive. So here is the story.

The move was supposed to take place on Saturday afternoon at 2pm. At 2pm, I get a call from the movers saying they are still working with other customers and would I like to move at night. I say NO WAY as the movers will be tired and it is cold out so lets do it tomorrow AM. They say OK we will be there at 10AM.

Sunday: Get a call at 10am stating, still finishing up with customers from yesterday will be there by noon. At noon movers show up with truck, three latino men walk through my apartment shaking their heads stating, "Boy you have a lot of Stuff". We thought this was a 1BR apartment and the truck is already have full. I say, "Well I have to be out of this apartment by tomorrow and still need to clean it". "What are you going to do about this mix-up?"

Sunday afternoon: They leave and bring back a much larger truck that is empty. The move begins.. Things are going good until two of the Latino men start asking me for my phone number and flirting with me. The lead man is the worst and keeps cornering me in each room I am working in. I finally tell him that I am old enough to be his mother and I don't appreciate his actions. Well that just brings him on more.

Sunday late afternoon: They inform me that I have to pay in cash. Now of course, I was planning on writing a check and I have no cash. I tell them this. They say, "If you don't pay us in cash, we have to take your stuff to our wharehouse until you can pay in cash". I talk to the supervisor and no budges. So I off around town, hitting every ATM I can find to get the needed money. I can only get enough to pay for 5 hours and we are already at 3.

Sunday evening: We arrive at the house and things begin to get unloaded. I tell them to take the furniture into the appropriate rooms and leave the boxes in the garage. I will move the boxes in on my own time.

The move is done and I pay: I gave the foreman the cash and he kisses me on the neck. I was stunned and just stood there.Again they all want my phone number so they can come back and "HELP" me around the house. UH HUH!! Yea right!! I am here and I swear I will never move again...

Bella

Bella I am sorry this happened to you, moving is stressful enough as it is. You really need to file a complaint with the moving company, the BBB and the State Attorney General. There are HUGE issues nationwide regarding movers like this, locked up possesions, physical threats, demand for cash only payment. It's big, it's a scam and it sucks that it happened to you. Don't let it happen to someone else.

[KrystleH]

Hey Kalila...Well girl I just checked out your gallery. As pretty as you are, I am totally amazed that you are still single. You are gorgeous girl and If I was a butch, I would certaintaly ask you out.

Bella

Heck Bella, you know how much of a butch side I can have. Kalila could almost tempt me into turning away from being femme!

[KrystleH]

Good evening Shig, Kimbo and Alicia. Hope you've all had a fab day.

[Kimbo]

Heck Bella, you know how much of a butch side I can have. Kalila could almost tempt me into turning away from being femme!

Personally I think all 3 of ya are smokin' hot.....

and all the other femmes as well....

[KrystleH]

Personally I think all 3 of ya are smokin' hot.....

and all the other femmes as well....

But.. but... but I don't smoke!

[Kalila]

Heck Bella, you know how much of a butch side I can have. Kalila could almost tempt me into turning away from being femme!

Personally I think all 3 of ya are smokin' hot.....

and all the other femmes as well....

Now y'all are making me blush.. to you both.

Good evening all!

[Kalila]

This was so horrible, I can finally talk about it..

I moved two weeks ago from a 3BR apartment into a house. The distance of the move was about a minute drive. So here is the story.

The move was supposed to take place on Saturday afternoon at 2pm. At 2pm, I get a call from the movers saying they are still working with other customers and would I like to move at night. I say NO WAY as the movers will be tired and it is cold out so lets do it tomorrow AM. They say OK we will be there at 10AM.

Sunday: Get a call at 10am stating, still finishing up with customers from yesterday will be there by noon. At noon movers show up with truck, three latino men walk through my apartment shaking their heads stating, "Boy you have a lot of Stuff". We thought this was a 1BR apartment and the truck is already have full. I say, "Well I have to be out of this apartment by tomorrow and still need to clean it". "What are you going to do about this mix-up?"

Sunday afternoon: They leave and bring back a much larger truck that is empty. The move begins.. Things are going good until two of the Latino men start asking me for my phone number and flirting with me. The lead man is the worst and keeps cornering me in each room I am working in. I finally tell him that I am old enough to be his mother and I don't appreciate his actions. Well that just brings him on more.

Sunday late afternoon: They inform me that I have to pay in cash. Now of course, I was planning on writing a check and I have no cash. I tell them this. They say, "If you don't pay us in cash, we have to take your stuff to our wharehouse until you can pay in cash". I talk to the supervisor and no budges. So I off around town, hitting every ATM I can find to get the needed money. I can only get enough to pay for 5 hours and we are already at 3.

Sunday evening: We arrive at the house and things begin to get unloaded. I tell them to take the furniture into the appropriate rooms and leave the boxes in the garage. I will move the boxes in on my own time.

The move is done and I pay: I gave the foreman the cash and he kisses me on the neck. I was stunned and just stood there.Again they all want my phone number so they can come back and "HELP" me around the house. UH HUH!! Yea right!! I am here and I swear I will never move again...

Bella

OMG Sis.. that is just horrible. I couldn't imagine dealing with such horrible people. I am so sorry you had to put up with this nonsense.

~sends chocolate and a housewarming plant to Bella~ I wish I could be there to help you unpack girl. That just is a terrible experience.

[Kalila]

good evening singles

Hi Shig and welcome!

[shigi]

OMG Sis.. that is just horrible. I couldn't imagine dealing with such horrible people. I am so sorry you had to put up with this nonsense.

~sends chocolate and a housewarming plant to Bella~ I wish I could be there to help you unpack girl. That just is a terrible experience.

those men's actions should be reported to higher ups that was very unethical business practice 1) for them to ask for phone numbers...2) the one who "kissed you " was way out of line.. my 2 cents

[Handsome]

Bella sorry you went through that, that sucks. Anyway still single here.

[KrystleH]

This was so horrible, I can finally talk about it..

I moved two weeks ago from a 3BR apartment into a house. The distance of the move was about a minute drive. So here is the story.

The move was supposed to take place on Saturday afternoon at 2pm. At 2pm, I get a call from the movers saying they are still working with other customers and would I like to move at night. I say NO WAY as the movers will be tired and it is cold out so lets do it tomorrow AM. They say OK we will be there at 10AM.

Sunday: Get a call at 10am stating, still finishing up with customers from yesterday will be there by noon. At noon movers show up with truck, three latino men walk through my apartment shaking their heads stating, "Boy you have a lot of Stuff". We thought this was a 1BR apartment and the truck is already have full. I say, "Well I have to be out of this apartment by tomorrow and still need to clean it". "What are you going to do about this mix-up?"

Sunday afternoon: They leave and bring back a much larger truck that is empty. The move begins.. Things are going good until two of the Latino men start asking me for my phone number and flirting with me. The lead man is the worst and keeps cornering me in each room I am working in. I finally tell him that I am old enough to be his mother and I don't appreciate his actions. Well that just brings him on more.

Sunday late afternoon: They inform me that I have to pay in cash. Now of course, I was planning on writing a check and I have no cash. I tell them this. They say, "If you don't pay us in cash, we have to take your stuff to our wharehouse until you can pay in cash". I talk to the supervisor and no budges. So I off around town, hitting every ATM I can find to get the needed money. I can only get enough to pay for 5 hours and we are already at 3.

Sunday evening: We arrive at the house and things begin to get unloaded. I tell them to take the furniture into the appropriate rooms and leave the boxes in the garage. I will move the boxes in on my own time.

The move is done and I pay: I gave the foreman the cash and he kisses me on the neck. I was stunned and just stood there.Again they all want my phone number so they can come back and "HELP" me around the house. UH HUH!! Yea right!! I am here and I swear I will never move again...

Bella

Those sorts of actions are among the reasons why I am glad I don't "pass" 100% of the time, why I am glad I'm not really all that attractive and especially why I am glad I make most men uncomfortable.

Afterall I would hate to have to explain to the police why I kicked some dude's ass and stuffed him into a picnic cooler with my size 11 shoe up his ass.

[KrystleH]

Bella sorry you went through that, that sucks. Anyway still single here.

Well Handsome, we're working on changing your single status. Just wait until the first "Handsome Romance Novel" comes out!

[shigi]

Those sorts of actions are among the reasons why I am glad I don't "pass" 100% of the time, why I am glad I'm not really all that attractive and especially why I make most men uncomfortable.

Afterall I would hate to have to explain to the police why I kicked some dude's ass and stuffed him into a picnic cooler with my size 11 shoe up his ass.

oh my gosh..im skeered of you now

[Kimbo]

Those sorts of actions are among the reasons why I am glad I don't "pass" 100% of the time, why I am glad I'm not really all that attractive and especially why I am glad I make most men uncomfortable.

Afterall I would hate to have to explain to the police why I kicked some dude's ass and stuffed him into a picnic cooler with my size 11 shoe up his ass.

Filing this away in the ol' noggin

[KrystleH]

oh my gosh..im skeered of you now

No need for you to be skeered of me. I'm a gentle Amazon. Unless you're some pervy bio-male making unwanted advances on my virtue.

[shigi]

No need for you to be skeered of me. I'm a gentle Amazon. Unless you're some pervy bio-male making unwanted advances on my virtue.

point taken......i just dont wanna end up in that cooler

[torosincuernos]

Single femme here

[bmerchef]

OMG Bella I love it.. now.. I only have to find a gaggle (or is it a tangle) of butches.. oh and a cuppa courage.

wow...guess I need to catch up here...

hhmmm...a gaggle...interesting...well...the good thing here is...geese do mate for life..
better than a tangle...unless of course you are talking about a bunch of confused butches after the kissing bandit strikes...
might I add ...that really is one of the kewlest tats I've had the pleasure of seeing...bet it looks even nicer in person...

[bmerchef]

Those sorts of actions are among the reasons why I am glad I don't "pass" 100% of the time, why I am glad I'm not really all that attractive and especially why I am glad I make most men uncomfortable.

Afterall I would hate to have to explain to the police why I kicked some dude's ass and stuffed him into a picnic cooler with my size 11 shoe up his ass.

You go girl...I'm betting that would be a big time ouch...geesh...size 11 ...I want you in my gaggle...

[Dark Phoenix]

oooohhhhhhhhhhhh......I can go raid Krystle's shoes!!

[bmerchef]

Hello bmerchef,

No I have never been to Ashville but I have heard it is a good place and that lots of gay woman are there..Unfortunately, I can't afford the gas to visit. Now the kissing bandit goes like this....I go out by myself to a club, bar. I see a good looking woman (perferably butch) and sneak up behind them. I stand behind them for a few moments and then I tap them on the shoulder, they turn around, I talk to them for a few moments, I move in abit closer and when they least expect it...I kiss them on the lips, cheek, nose, forehead any area I can reach and then I turn around and walk away. A short little kiss and nothing more. Now there are some rules you must adhere too for your own safety.

1. DO NOT approach a butch if they are with another woman that does not look like another butch or a friend.
2. Make sure your breath is fresh.
3. A butch in a group of other butches works the best as you won't have femmes after your ass.
4. Do not stay around to hear or see the cursing, shock or the "what the hell".
5. If they come after you, look for the smile...Run away...if they look pissed.

Lynn

So...that was you...was it...

I'm so sorry that happened to you during your move...you really should report them...you were lucky...someone else might not be...
I so hate when people think it's okay to do things like that to other people...bummer...

[KrystleH]

point taken......i just dont wanna end up in that cooler

Have no fear. Only vile evil doers end up jammed into too small coolers.

Single femme here

Good evening and welcome!

You go girl...I'm betting that would be a big time ouch...geesh...size 11 ...I want you in my gaggle...

Hmmm do femmes belong in a gaggle? or do they belong in a giggle?

oooohhhhhhhhhhhh......I can go raid Krystle's shoes!!

Oh you should have raided them a coupl eyears ago when I had sooooo many more. Now I only have a few pairs of heels and such left. But since i haven't worn them in ages you can come on over anytime and borrow them.

[Dark Phoenix]

Good Morning!!!!

Krystle - you can come raid my shoes anytime, too! The last time I counted I had 60 pairs (and I've bought more since then!). More and more stores are carrying 11s which makes me a very happy girl!!

The thing that sucks is I'm only 5'5".

[bellaestate]

Personally I think all 3 of ya are smokin' hot.....

and all the other femmes as well....

Yep..she's a looker for sure..Thank you all for listening to my moving story and putting in your input. I did call the supervisor and told him what happened. He was in total shock and then I explained to him again that I got in number from the Gay Yellowpages and his employees advances were not welcomed.

He basically laughed and was embarrassed but said he would speak to his employee. So that is all that was done. I will never use that company again and am thinking maybe I should report it to the Gay Yellow Pages.

Bella

[bellaestate]

Those sorts of actions are among the reasons why I am glad I don't "pass" 100% of the time, why I am glad I'm not really all that attractive and especially why I am glad I make most men uncomfortable.

Afterall I would hate to have to explain to the police why I kicked some dude's ass and stuffed him into a picnic cooler with my size 11 shoe up his ass.
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Oh Krystle...I can see you doing this..I tried to get some butches to come and just supervise the movers but they all begged off. Other things to do i.e. working, activities, that sort of stuff. But it is done now and I just want to move past it all.

Bella

[spikester]

Hello to all the singles, been awhile but I'm back