Good evening all you fabulous Singles! I hope you all enjoyed a wonderul day today. And if your day was not so stellar, may this evening bring you a pleasant unexpected surprise.
I hope each of you finds the Femme or Butch of your dreams here.
MaddyS59 you are right the survey is a good icebreaker! My turn........
1)The oldest person I know : My Dad
2) Am I a fan of music from other cultures: Yes, American Indian tribal music
3)What is the silliest thing my Father ever did ? He is 6'4 solid guy and when the time was right we both climbed through a large open window at a bar in Spain in order to avoid drunken challeges with a bunch of very large nordic fellas from Holland that were on vacation..we laughed all the way home & was happy to see our thin English bartender friend had survived to open the bar another day .
4) when someone shares your bed do you cuddle,spoon,give space or an assortment of these or variations? We cuddle and then I tend to give space ....they seem to follow me in my different positions as we sleep.
5)What is your favorite tradition or ritual in your life today? I retreat to the wood and walk with my dogs for miles and think for hours.
6)Do you like the light on or off? Soft light I agree & candles makes for traquil shadows
7)What is the most unusual sandwich you have ever eatten? Soft Shell Crab Sandwich
8)Can you fill out your own income tax return? Yes
9)What color is your bedding? woodland print flannel sheets & an ivory down comforter as well a small maroon fleece blanket for the dogs
10)Have done something to make the world a better place? If so what? My club raises money for breast cancer research, sponsor a few families (women & children) and donate Christmas cheer toys,clothes ,food etc. I donate alot to animal charities -The ones that have no voice.
One dose of Positive Energy coming your way Ms. Bella
Hansome thanks for the
Hello everyone Hope you had a great day even if you don't think so. It's always a good day when you open your eyes in the morning
I'm still really singleand avaliable.
Have a great night everyone headed for bed think I'm getting sick throat is sore
NIGHT!![]()
Just stoppin' in to holla at ma B-f homies....
BigSexxxy, Your TunaTalk had me in stitches last night, kudos!
mistyblue, thanks for the welcome, you are too sweet!
Krystal, if you get any sweeter girl, Im gonna get cavities!
bk1 ,
Wow I seem to have shown up at the right time, all of these single femmes popping up ........... I`m gonna have to make my way here more oftenHoney, dont you threaten us with a good time!
Lex89, good luck with basic...can we smuggle you M&M's in the mail?
Hugzzz~ Maddy~
Maddy, you only get cavities from my sweetness if you EAT me.![]()
Usually I just cause diabetes.![]()
Thanks for the warm welcome! Several of you have taken the time to reply or write me and I really appreciate it. It's been a while since I dated and I feel a little akward and shy some times.
Hope you all have a great Wednesday and find romance in the air.
FL![]()
Good morning everyone! Ever had one of those nights when you just couldn't fall asleep?
FL, I htink we all know what it's like to not have dated for a while. When I got back to being a single after my life change, I hadn't dated for 23 years. Somehow I sort of managed to do it without too much embarassment. I am sure you'll be fine too.
Good Morning Singles!!
Hope you all are having a great day...so far, so good here...it's always good when you have the day off!
bk1
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, I will try again tomorrow.
Lord Blackknight the Verdant of Happy Bottomshire
Hello Everyone and yes this is a nice thread. and yes I am single been single for a few years and comfortable with it all though I sometimes miss having a partner.
I'll come back later and answer the questions because I'm getting ready for work.
good morning A/all
I was reading this thread, and became reflective on the topic of being single.. I too am single.. and have been single almost 2 years..(will be 2 years in April) however over this past summer I did see 2 different people.. one for a month and one for 3 months.. and decided that I would not settle for anyone less than what I deserved.
I like my own company, I am very self sufficient and can do anything that I set my mind to, I'm very independant, I have a good job, I just bought my very first brand new car right from the dealers lot, and I want to buy a house next year.. so for me.. it's not about "needing" a butch partner in my life for anything other than love.. I mean.. yes.. I get lonely from time to time and wish I had someone to love, to cuddle with, etc. and love me in return.. but it's just a passing feeling for me.. and I realize that it is because I get lonely from time to time..
What it's all about for me is actually "wanting" to share my life with someone.. upon reflection.. I realized that there is a huge difference..I do not "need" a butch partner to take care of me, to do things for me, etc.. I am quite capable of taking care of myself, I'm very independant and self-established.. what I really want is to share my life with someone who has their own goals and path in life.. someone who can meld their life with mine to make it what it can be..
I don't honestly think that I'm all that fussy about what I would want in a butch partner either.. I only have 5 little things I look for emotionally and mentally.. and they are.. honesty, loyalty, trustworthy, respectful, and monogamous.. I don't think that's too much to ask for in a partner.. I would give the same willingly.. but let me tell you.. lol.. I have discovered that these 5 little qualities are hard to find in one person.. I'm not sure why.. lol.. maybe I am fussy after all..Maybe I'm asking to much of one person.. I dunno.. but I will remain single until hy finds me.. I've decided that I'm not gonna go looking anymore.. this past summer taught me a very valuable lesson.. and that was to be true to myself no matter what.
Anyway.. that's my thoughts on being single for now.. I hope you all have a great day!
and licious..good to see you here.. see you in chat!
*hugs*
WildnSucculent
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]I am my own woman..
"Remember, as different as we are, you and I, we are of one spirit. As dissimilar as we are, you and I, we are of equal worth. Unlike each other as you and I are, there can be no harmony in the universe as long as there is no harmony between us." - Changing Woman
Warning!!! I'm crabby today, I guess you can say im feeling alone. I miss having a femmes who cares. Here's the deal. I miss having a gf. I miss having someone call me to see if I'm having a good day or not. I miss having that concern
and worry from my partner. Today its cold and raining and my feet are wet. Yes I have the proper footwear. What's suppose to be waterproof isn't. I'm sorry I'm complaining, really I am. I'll regret venting later. But for now I'll say hi to all the Femmes and Butches!!! Oh in case you all don't know I deliver the mail. See you all later and again sorry.
Last edited by Handsome; 02-06-2008 at 11:47 AM.
I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.
heya handsome..
a postie with wet feet! that just wont do! .. dry out your boots and make sure you double up on socks.. if you dont have boot liners.. use plastic shopping bags in your boots and tuck the ends into your socks.. that will help with cold wet feet..
as for the grumpies.. I inderstand what you are feeling today.. I go through it too.. chin up tho darlin.. there's a new day tomorrow!
*hugs*
WildnSucculent
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]I am my own woman..
"Remember, as different as we are, you and I, we are of one spirit. As dissimilar as we are, you and I, we are of equal worth. Unlike each other as you and I are, there can be no harmony in the universe as long as there is no harmony between us." - Changing Woman
Thank you Wild. I use to do that when I was little and my mom couldn't afford boots. I just needed some Femme attention.
I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]I am my own woman..
"Remember, as different as we are, you and I, we are of one spirit. As dissimilar as we are, you and I, we are of equal worth. Unlike each other as you and I are, there can be no harmony in the universe as long as there is no harmony between us." - Changing Woman
Howdy all sorry I've been gone so long got privately sworn in SaturdayBy a major who had to drive thirty mins to do it...I also have been consoling my best friend who is crazy as heck...she came over last night I didn't get to bed until 8:30am because sh decided she wanted to walk around the neighborhood...*shrugs* Needed the excercise.
Anyways...i just wanted to let everyone know I didn't get shot yet![]()
And I dont think of it as basic training I think of it as opening up so many doors..and lots of push ups lol.
Hey Handsome this ones for youI'll have one with ya. I know what your up against on some days I'm a foot courier in nyc just started 2 weeks ago but I've been a driver /courier for 12 years now. I know what soggy feet & hair feels like
some days it just sucks
but people saying hello & asking how I'm doing kinda lifts the spirit ...so be crabby if you want we all have those days...
I'm having another one
It sure does smooth the road a bit when you have a sweet femme to come home to I miss that part myself. I wish I knew how long this is going to go on for. I'm really getting tired of the interviews/dates. I'm just a true -blue. BURN-OUTLOL I'm a goof later dude!!
Hi everyone happy Wednesday night....... Lex 89 Good Luck to you and be safe.
Hey Lucky, thanks for theYa I don't want to be single either. It sucks. What about these interviews?
I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.
well I've been on dates and I'm getting tired of talking about me. The dates are getting to be like interviews & I suck on interviews. I might need a break guess my heart isn't in it any more even though some of the women are really nice people. I just want to hold hands & turn & smile at the one I'm with & saying alot by not saying anything, I know after relationships its hard for people to trust right away. I just want to cut to the chase..I'm a big dreamercheers
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Hello everyone!!! Feeling much better and getting things done. Still single and looking. Have some great friends and am happy with that for now. I will be so glad when spring comes. My love to you all.
Bella
Good Morning all you beautiful singles...Butch and Femme alike!!
Looking in to read the posts, tell a few "special" people hi, and wishing all a great day!!
Off to work I go.....
bk1
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, I will try again tomorrow.
Lord Blackknight the Verdant of Happy Bottomshire
Good morning everyone. Sorry I wasn't posting much last night. I was occupied elsewhere, and no not with a date or any romnce.
I hope you all have a wonderful day today.
Good Thursday Morning A/all!!
Good Morning A/all!!
well we got hit here yesterday with a winter storm.. we have layers of ice.. snow.. back to ice.. then snow again.. hard to shovel the driveway.. can't wait for maitenance to arrive.. I did the walkway but the snow was too heavy for me to continue!This is a time when I wish I had a butch partner with nice strong arms.. NO not to shovel.. to hold me because I'm cold and need warmth!
Have a great Thursday!
*hugs*
WildnSucculent
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]I am my own woman..
"Remember, as different as we are, you and I, we are of one spirit. As dissimilar as we are, you and I, we are of equal worth. Unlike each other as you and I are, there can be no harmony in the universe as long as there is no harmony between us." - Changing Woman
Hi all you fine foxy Femmes. I have the weekend off. I'm also having a drink right now. I hope every Femme/Butches have a great night. I'm going lurking.
I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.
How is everylittlething with everyone today?
The weather is driving me nuts and believe me its not that long of a drive .Anyway...yep, still single but Im trying not to think of that as a disease anymore, rather a symptom.
Hope everyone had a good day! I'm making a massive crock of chili for my extended family for dinner but I thought I would pop in to say Hi to everyone on the thread. Someone was passin' out beers earlier? Where are the Cosmo's?
Good evening ladies, Hi butches. Hope everyone had a good day ......one more day before the weekend! handsome have fun tonight what - you have a three day weekend? Sweet!!
Ms. Bella glad you got the spring back in your stepMs. Wild maybe you'll find that strong butch this weekend and they can help you with both snow & warmth
Hello Ms KH and everyone else on this thread! :0)
Ill take a drink Lucky. Thank you. How is everyone?
I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.
good evening everyone. times like this i wish i was a drinking woman. i feel lower than whale poop tonight.
Last edited by KrystleH; 02-07-2008 at 08:33 PM.
Onecoming you way Handsome! How goes it? I've been surfing the threads that I usually don't go on. You know as I read what people say I learn alot about myself especially the questions on some threads ...some of them I never thought about before I just acted on and some things I definitely want to try
I know I would like it heehee
cheers
Thanks I need a beer. I'm going to sit with my friend Krystle and hang. Where are all the singles at?
I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.
Hi All,
Hope yer day went well. I sailed through it. Everyone's talking about their Valentine's plans... mine is to watch old movies, eat Ben and Jerry's and ignore the world. Am I the only one but when they say there's someone for everyone... do you ever get concerned that maybe YOU'RE the magic exception?
Jeesh. I think I have Valentinedayitis....
Hope you are all doing well!
FL![]()
You know FL, I think they have a cream for Valentinedayitis. I think it's called MonoStatus 24/7. I don't think it takes away the sting, just helps you go numb after a while.
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