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    Hi Zimmy been awhile.

    Popping in to say a great afternoon to all, never stop flirting


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    I posted this in another thread... being proactive I am posting here as well !

    Why go pay on a separate site when you can write a personals ad and post it here???? What more is available on a paid service site? Here you can chat in public or pvt, email, exchange photos and when ready make that first phone call exchange tel #'s... all for no fee in here! So... to get things started here is mine...

    Single Lesbian, 54... 100% Prime Canadian Femme... educated, well read and travelled, quirky and fun sense of humour, I speak French and American as well as English; my many interests include cooking, walking and hiking, reading mysteries, biographies and trashy novels as well as watching tv, going to the movies, hanging at the beach in the summer, not so crazy about winter... I sail, ride horseback, have been know to camp and am a Lager Lout during World Cup Football (South Africa June 2010)... have predicted the last 8 SuperBowls acurately and not bet on them dammit! I am employed as an IT Geek/ Tech Writer with a Media Relations Co, planning to retire within the next 5 years, I am willing to relocate ...

    Conversant in BDSM and Leather I am seeking my equal opposite in a Lesbian Butch (F or M ID'd) aged 40-70 of the Domme / Top / Daddy variety with some of the same interests, active, employed or retired, sane, with a sense of humour and perspective who is seeking a real life, monogamous committment.

    So... I await replies and I will will update on the outcome, discretely and revealing no names w/out permission of course !

    I found an even better descriptive of what catches my attention best in a Butch... "OFOS Top Domme Stone Butch Daddy" Stone part of this description is optional on my part... I am happy either way !
    Femme... fiesty, intelligent, educated... occasionally cranky! Live, love, laugh... to your own self be true, first, last and always...


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    Lots to offer the right Femme.
    Not into Bdsm. ( sorry)
    Just a very nice Butch!
    Oh and very sweet ( I try to keep this a secret )
    I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Handsome View Post
    Handsome
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    Postal Worker (23 yrs)
    Lots to offer the right Femme.
    Not into Bdsm. ( sorry)
    Just a very nice Butch!
    Oh and very sweet ( I try to keep this a secret )
    See, now if you added: Has a Farm
    Think of how much that would increase your popularity. There are lots of farm girls out there. Just sayin'

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    Just popping in to say 'hi" to everyone.
    Nick

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    Quote Originally Posted by nick-b View Post
    Just popping in to say 'hi" to everyone.
    Nick
    Good Evening, Nick; what part of NY are you in? I'm near Albany.........
    Heavenleahangel Sweet Georgia Peach

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    really single femme near atlanta waiting for the butch that will sweep me off my feet, be straightforward, tell me she/hy wants me.... *sigh, i'm still waiting for something that cannot be explained by "coincidence"

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    Really single femme here waiting for that special butch to sweep me off my feet oh where are you??

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    Hi there everyone... it appears bfmatchmaker is dead and folks are posting their wishes in the forums now, huh? Excellent.
    I'm a single queer Stone Femme in my 30's looking for a Stone Butch or FtM in or near Phoenix. Not looking to jump into anything serious right away, just want someone to spend some time who speaks Our language.

    I hope Cupid shoots you all right in the ass!





    (cross-posting to a few of the singles' threads)
    Butch, please.

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    Hey everyone I hope all you sexy singles are doing great. I am doing fine. My second surgery is set for Friday the 5th I can't wait. I'm not sure how long after that I will be walking but I hope very soon after. I will be starting Physical Therapy in New Mexico until I can get around pretty well on my own with out being in extreme pain. So I'm not sure how long that will be. I can't believe it's gone by so fast meaning the time I have been holed up on a couch. I can't believe how much I took for granted. Pouring a glass of milk and carrying it to the living room, standing at the sink to brush my teeth, and most importantly showering un-assisted. I was going to say showering by myself but I wouldn't mind showering with a handsome butch
    I want to remember this moment. Always. Nobody's staring. Nobody's pointing. For the first time, I'm somewhere... where I want to be ~Elphie

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    Been awhile since i been on, how are all the singles doing

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    It's been a while since I have been on here but I'd like to say "hello" to all the fabulous singles today! Have a great week everyone!
    SundayNightBrawl

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    Good Evening, Everyone! It's been a while since I've been on. I hope everyone is having a pleasant winter.....we are NOT! Thinking of posting this advertisement:

    Needed Immediately! Good strong butch/ftm/boi to help dig out of thick blanket of snow! LOTS of perks and dringe benefits for this job! Please submit resume and salary requirements!
    Heavenleahangel Sweet Georgia Peach

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    Good Evening Everyone,

    Hope you all are having a good weekend!! Even though I am now single again, I am enjoying the move up to the PNW and I haven't stopped giggling...I have found some wonderful people who are not two faced and are very honest.

    Have a good night!

    Zimmy
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    Hi Zimmy, i'm confused (which doesn't take much these days). I thought you went to Seattle to be with your butch??? That didn't work out hon?

    Musicman

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    Hey Music,

    We realized that we are better as being friends, and I don't want to loose hys friendship.

    Have a good night,

    Zimmy

    Quote Originally Posted by musicman View Post
    Hi Zimmy, i'm confused (which doesn't take much these days). I thought you went to Seattle to be with your butch??? That didn't work out hon?

    Musicman
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lieslgrrl View Post
    I posted this in another thread... being proactive I am posting here as well !

    Why go pay on a separate site when you can write a personals ad and post it here???? What more is available on a paid service site? Here you can chat in public or pvt, email, exchange photos and when ready make that first phone call exchange tel #'s... all for no fee in here! So... to get things started here is mine...

    Single Lesbian, 54... 100% Prime Canadian Femme... educated, well read and travelled, quirky and fun sense of humour, I speak French and American as well as English; my many interests include cooking, walking and hiking, reading mysteries, biographies and trashy novels as well as watching tv, going to the movies, hanging at the beach in the summer, not so crazy about winter... I sail, ride horseback, have been know to camp and am a Lager Lout during World Cup Football (South Africa June 2010)... have predicted the last 8 SuperBowls acurately and not bet on them dammit! I am employed as an IT Geek/ Tech Writer with a Media Relations Co, planning to retire within the next 5 years, I am willing to relocate ...

    Conversant in BDSM and Leather I am seeking my equal opposite in a Lesbian Butch (F or M ID'd) aged 40-70 of the Domme / Top / Daddy variety with some of the same interests, active, employed or retired, sane, with a sense of humour and perspective who is seeking a real life, monogamous committment.

    So... I await replies and I will will update on the outcome, discretely and revealing no names w/out permission of course !

    I found an even better descriptive of what catches my attention best in a Butch... "OFOS Top Domme Stone Butch Daddy" Stone part of this description is optional on my part... I am happy either way !
    I posted this originally on Feb 20th... today is Mar 2nd... and not a single reply or even a serious comment... kinda makes you wonder if anyone is seriously single and looking... will keep ya'll posted !

    Femme... fiesty, intelligent, educated... occasionally cranky! Live, love, laugh... to your own self be true, first, last and always...


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    Is it odd that I'm not a Daddy or all stone? I've got to wonder what it is that Femmes really want. If it's all that then I geuss it's not me. Oh well.
    I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Handsome View Post
    Is it odd that I'm not a Daddy or all stone? I've got to wonder what it is that Femmes really want. If it's all that then I geuss it's not me. Oh well.
    Well what I am looking for is quite clear... maybe you need to write out a statement of what you ARE looking for, as I did !

    You are what you are, if you're not Stone or a Daddy there is still going to be someone out there who will be appreciative of the Butch you are
    Femme... fiesty, intelligent, educated... occasionally cranky! Live, love, laugh... to your own self be true, first, last and always...


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    Hi Handsome,

    I agree with lieslgrrl, write out an ad of sorts, who you are, what you have to offer someone as far as you as a person. What you are looking for in a partner/girlfriend.

    If you don't put it out there Handsome they won't find you my friend.

    Musicman

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    Quote Originally Posted by Handsome View Post
    Is it odd that I'm not a Daddy or all stone? I've got to wonder what it is that Femmes really want. If it's all that then I geuss it's not me. Oh well.
    Just as there are many different kinds of butches there are many different kind of femmes. I agree too...if you put who you are and what you are looking for then the ladies will know and can decide from there.

    Nothing ventured, nothing gained!

    As for me, I am taking myself off the market. I ventured out there, but now decide that I really am not ready to meet anyone yet. One day I will be - but it's not now. I have a lot going on with my business too, so friendship is about all I can handle right now.

    MountainStar
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    You fill up my senses
    Like a night in the forest
    Like the mountains in springtime
    Like a walk in the rain

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    Single

    Yup, been single for about 6 mo. I was in a 6 yr relationship,..and I guess she fell outta love. Shit happens, right? Well I am a softy, looking for possibly a femme, but I am not going to judge. Is there somewhere on b-f in threads that i could go to for a specific town to find singles? I don't want to do the personal ads. Just like good conversation. I joined b-f years ago, and thought I would try and get back in the loop of things. I am 31 and hope to talk to you soon!

    E

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    Hi Poodle i believe if you go to the planets it will take you to the different States etc. Not sure but i think that's a good place to start.

    Musicman

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    Thanks, I will see what's up!

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    Ok guys and Ladies, here's my ad. Hi my name is Handsome. I'm 46 and looking in the world for my Lady. I'm a silly down to earth, kid at heart butch. People describe me as kind, loving, very very sweet, nice, caring, gentle,funny and a very nice person to know. What I'm looking for is 1) someone who can handle all that and more. I know it sounds cliche. But it's true just ask anyone who knows me. What Im looking for is all that I listed plus a few extra things. To add to all that sweet stuff I also want her to be sassy at times and sexy too. I would like her to be employed and independent. God I hate typing!! I hope you two are happy. Lmao. I could write a book about what I'm looking for. I'll stop for now. Just read my list on love list.
    I'm a sucker for Femmes with dark hair.

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    Hi everyone. I am new to BF a friend recommended it to me and told me to read as much as I could but hmmm there is just so much I dont know how she gets through it all. Well I am a single Femme outgoing sometimes but can be very shy until you get to know me. I have had fun browsing the site and entering chat so far I hope it continues to be fun

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    Well im a single femme in mississippi that lovesssssss butch women. I look for honesty, trustworthiness, kind, thoughtful women. I dont want anyone on drugs, been there done that got the t shirt lol. im 21 years old.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ZimmygLrL View Post
    Welcome to the Singles Thread!

    Enjoy, we like to razz each other and joke.

    Night,

    Zimmy
    Thank you!

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    I am always up for meeting new people and making friends..even if they don't live near me! If anyone wants to IM me..go for it. I am pretty easy going.

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    Hey everyone, long time no see (been awhile!)

    I'll be around more often I hope, until then I'm just looking to chat with people as friends
    Braedon
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    wb to the site then Braedon.
    Do not follow where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.

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    i just want to make sure you
    know just who your
    getting under this old hat
    cuz girl im not the kind to
    two time or play games
    behind your back
    im a little more country than that
    I'm moving on from my mistakes....
    Learning how to take it day by day...
    ON MY HIGHWAY.....
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    ((((((((((((Braedon))))))))),

    Welcome back! So much has happened since I last chatted with you...Catch up soon.

    Have a good night,

    Zimmy

    Quote Originally Posted by BraedonAlexander View Post
    Hey everyone, long time no see (been awhile!)

    I'll be around more often I hope, until then I'm just looking to chat with people as friends
    Live Life to the Fullest, who knows, you may not be here tomorrow

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    Quote Originally Posted by jushapycampin View Post
    i just want to make sure you
    know just who your
    getting under this old hat
    cuz girl im not the kind to
    two time or play games
    behind your back
    im a little more country than that
    Now if only I could find someone who actually believed and lived by that...
    Walk Softly, for the toes you are stepping on today, may very well be attached to the foot that is kicking your A** tomorrow

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    Good Morning Everyone,

    I am headed back to Florida next week and I cannot wait..Woohoo...

    Have a good day,

    Zimmy
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    I'm 58......yes we femmes don't die after 40.
    I look about 45.
    I don't drink or smoke but not a miss goody two shoes about it.
    I am what people call an old school femme.I mostly wear skirts and dresses always in make-up.....but can climb a tree in a skirt.
    I live in Newark Ohio and am not looking for someone out of state.
    I am looking for someone who is butch to very butch.
    I don't have a Uhaul strapped to my back.Can take care of myself.
    But I would love to be treated good.
    I love to cook and spoil my butch,and I'm good at it.I'm more of a home body then a "lets go somewhere" kind of person.
    I have kids,I even like kids,but not all the time.I raised my kids they are grown and gone thank you God!!! So if your attached at the hip to your kids or can't breath with out your kids ,sorry but I'm not your woman.
    I may be 58 but I don't have to settle.
    I do like a larger woman not huge but larger.
    I'm 5'9" 150.Growing my salt and peper hair out ,and well never cut it or dye it again.
    I don't do drama,drunks,druger,abusers,users or negitive people.
    I like things up front.
    If you ask me out you pay if I ask you out I pay if we just want to go out together we go dutch.
    I'm a touchy feely kind of person.I love to get and give gifts,and I don't mean big stuff I mean cards a special dinner,I would love to me asked for a candle lite dinner and have the food be mickey d's.I love flea markets thrift stores yard sales and camping.
    I just want to be happy.In a no big deals anymore kind of relationship.
    looking for friends.I'm very femme,but can support myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Handsome View Post
    Handsome
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    Lots to offer the right Femme.
    Not into Bdsm. ( sorry)
    Just a very nice Butch!
    Oh and very sweet ( I try to keep this a secret )
    I'm not sure if this is going to show up or not, as I have all sorts of links that appear to not be working on this site today. Could be that I'm writing from a different internet connection.... I just wanted to say that I liked your statement about "I won't move, but I'll love you forever from NH" I live in Maine in my dream home and aside from the constant shoveling of snow (except this year, which is really strange!). New England is a beautiful place to be as long as you have a way to make it through LLOOONNGGG winters most years! So, the purpose of this little diatribe is to say that I understand where you're coming from! I won't move for anyone, either. I have my home here and won't lose my shirt in even trying to sell it. Tried that last year and it didn't work, so I'm all set here. Maybe I'll go down to join my family in NC when I get old.... LOLHave a blessed day! Kendra



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    Quote Originally Posted by jushapycampin View Post
    i just want to make sure you
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    cuz girl im not the kind to
    two time or play games
    behind your back
    im a little more country than that
    A-freakin-men!!!! Leave it to you, Jus, to put something so great up on here. I've missed you tons and tons, btw. Life has been hectic and crazy. I miss my buddy.... but I'm still around and would love to talk to you soon! HUGS~~ K



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    Cool *raised eyebrow

    Quote Originally Posted by Lieslgrrl View Post
    I posted this originally on Feb 20th... today is Mar 2nd... and not a single reply or even a serious comment... kinda makes you wonder if anyone is seriously single and looking... will keep ya'll posted !



    interesting....I be single...& jaded...still have the mindset of "NEVER AGAIN" but things can change.

    If you cannot be happy with yourself, how will you ever be happy with another!

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    I just think that no other lesbian lives in my state that is on ! LOL! Has anyone ever gotten a reply on here? I just got back on this site after a few years. I have missed it. I don't know anyone on here, but hoping to meet some people soon! Single life can be a blast, but i sure do miss having that special lady to treat like a queen! Everything happens for a reason, right? I believe it..and she will come to me when she is ready....

    Keep on believing!

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