Really Single Butche and Femme List

[Eva femme]

Happy new year! I am new so I thought wishing everyone a great 2008 is a good way to say hello.

Ah, the singlesposts. Single, yes that is me too. For more than 10 years now. Sometimes I like it, sometimes I hate it. Sometimes the thought that I might be without a partner for a very long time scares me. Sometimes the thought of actually meeting someone scares me even more. Oh, I like my life as it is now. Very much so. But somtimes... sometimes... sometimes I would love someone next to me to belong with. Maybe this in 2008? Or maybe not. Who knows...

Eva

[cuddlyfemme]

Happy new year! I am new so I thought wishing everyone a great 2008 is a good way to say hello.

Ah, the singlesposts. Single, yes that is me too. For more than 10 years now. Sometimes I like it, sometimes I hate it. Sometimes the thought that I might be without a partner for a very long time scares me. Sometimes the thought of actually meeting someone scares me even more. Oh, I like my life as it is now. Very much so. But somtimes... sometimes... sometimes I would love someone next to me to belong with. Maybe this in 2008? Or maybe not. Who knows...

Eva

Hi Eva! Happy New Years to you and Welcome to the Really Singles Thread. I can totally relate to everything you've said. I have times where the thought that I'll be without a partner for a long time makes me really sad.

[cuddlyfemme]

Happy New Years!!!

[mistyblue9802200]

Happy new year! I am new so I thought wishing everyone a great 2008 is a good way to say hello.

Ah, the singlesposts. Single, yes that is me too. For more than 10 years now. Sometimes I like it, sometimes I hate it. Sometimes the thought that I might be without a partner for a very long time scares me. Sometimes the thought of actually meeting someone scares me even more. Oh, I like my life as it is now. Very much so. But somtimes... sometimes... sometimes I would love someone next to me to belong with. Maybe this in 2008? Or maybe not. Who knows...

Eva

Happy Hogmanay Eva
Welcome to the thread sweetheart, i can understand where you are commin from really i can, alot of people think it is all bad being Single but when infact it isnt really as there are alot of gud things about it they just choose not to see them so im glad you posted this so people can see you can be happy with your life & Single even tho you would love a partner, i really belive there is *someone for everyone* so think posative who knows? 2008 might just be *your* year
i hope all your dreams & wishes come true in 2008 well most of them < gigglin > have a grreat wee day sweet lady.

[Eva femme]

Thank you for your welcome and sweet replies Cuddlyfemme and Mistyblue.

Eva

[Kimbo]

Happy New Year singles...

Hope you all had a fabulous time ringing in the year....

Maybe this year will be our year for meeting that special someone..

[zombiedyke]

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

I was single for most of 2 years and I have (very recently) rejoined the ranks of singleness.. Being single can be a lot of fun .. but there's that longing that we as humans .. can't seem to shake.. at least I can't.. I have tried and tried.. it's just there.. like a deep sadness .. like a little dark cloud that follows me around.. I run away .. but it catches up eventually...

It is so fulfilling to meet someone you want to spend 4ever with.. I'm gonna keep my eyes open .. not in a desperate sense .. just open .. because I can imagine how fulfilling it will be..

I'm 53, professionally-established, mentally and physically healthy, and I live in SE Michigan.. So .. here I am .. hoping that some day .. it will happen for me..

I'm a newbie here .. so I don't mean to mis-step if I do..

xo, ginnis

[mistyblue9802200]

Thank you for your welcome and sweet replies Cuddlyfemme and Mistyblue.

Eva

The pleasure is all mine sweetheart

Happy New Year singles...

Hope you all had a fabulous time ringing in the year....

Maybe this year will be our year for meeting that special someone..

Good Afternoon Kimbo
Lovely to see you on the thread sweetheart
i can feel it in my *water* that 2008 is gonna be a great year! have a wicked wee HUMP day.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

I was single for most of 2 years and I have (very recently) rejoined the ranks of singleness.. Being single can be a lot of fun .. but there's that longing that we as humans .. can't seem to shake.. at least I can't.. I have tried and tried.. it's just there.. like a deep sadness .. like a little dark cloud that follows me around.. I run away .. but it catches up eventually...

It is so fulfilling to meet someone you want to spend 4ever with.. I'm gonna keep my eyes open .. not in a desperate sense .. just open .. because I can imagine how fulfilling it will be..

I'm 53, professionally-established, mentally and physically healthy, and I live in SE Michigan.. So .. here I am .. hoping that some day .. it will happen for me..

I'm a newbie here .. so I don't mean to mis-step if I do..

xo, ginnis

Good Afternoon zombiedyke
welcome to the thread & wot a lovely 1st post
have a great wee HUMP day.


All Best For 2008

[mistyblue9802200]

Happy HUMP Day !
Good Afternoon Reallllllly Single Butches, Bois or
Whichever ID you ID with
Good Afternoon Realllllly Single Femmes

I hope you all had a wunderful Christmas & great Hogmanay,
as we say i can feel it in my *water* that 2008 is gonna be a great yearhave a crackin wee HUMP day filled with love & laughter, remember a wee smile really can make all difference to your day

All Best For 2008

[Spazz]

Happy New Year to all and hope it was and will be a safe ride! I got to spend it at home recovering from the flu, but we had a bottle of champagne, which tore my stomach up..

[mistyblue9802200]

Happy New Year to all and hope it was and will be a safe ride! I got to spend it at home recovering from the flu, but we had a bottle of champagne, which tore my stomach up..

((((((Spazz))))))
Good Afternoon sweetheart
Happy Hogmanay, im sorry to hear your were not well, i hope you are on the mend? have a lovely evening


All Best For 2008

[littlebutch506]

Hi to all here havent been here in a long time just wonted to stop in an say hello to all of you,well i hope you all are good an enjoying the new year well i hate in singal now so looking for some good freinds,ok you all be good (yeah yeah ) i know thats no fun.

[zombiedyke]

Good Afternoon zombiedyke
welcome to the thread & wot a lovely 1st post
have a great wee HUMP day.
All Best For 2008

Thank you misty.. People here have been quite warm to me at bf.com ..

.. so far ..

I would post a picture but I'm not sure where the links are to do that. Do I need to pay to do that???? Or can I do that as an unpaying basic member?

I know .. I should just figure this out meself.. But when I went to pay.. all I got was a pay box with no amounts indicated.. then I got distracted by something non-zombie-ish and failed to go further.. oops..

xoxo, ginnis

(aka zombiedyke)

[mistyblue9802200]

Hi to all here havent been here in a long time just wonted to stop in an say hello to all of you,well i hope you all are good an enjoying the new year well i hate in singal now so looking for some good freinds,ok you all be good (yeah yeah ) i know thats no fun.

Good Morning littlebutch
lovely to see you on thread again sweetheart
Happy 2008, have a crackin wee day.

Thank you misty.. People here have been quite warm to me at bf.com ..

.. so far ..

I would post a picture but I'm not sure where the links are to do that. Do I need to pay to do that???? Or can I do that as an unpaying basic member?

I know .. I should just figure this out meself.. But when I went to pay.. all I got was a pay box with no amounts indicated.. then I got distracted by something non-zombie-ish and failed to go further.. oops..

xoxo, ginnis

(aka zombiedyke)

Good Morning zombiedyke
Im not sure if you can post a pic if you are a basic member
sorry i cant help ya, asfar as knowing how to go about payin for a membership i cant help you again as i have been lucky enuff to have been *gifted* mine for 2 years runnin now
i hope you get it sorted sweetheart, have a
crackin wee day




All Best For 2008

[HollyLee318]

It seems like I ring in every New Year single. It usually doesn't bother me to be single, unless I see a happy couple in the store or around town. I've always said that I was built for relationships, and it's true. I'd just like to meet a girl who's honest, smart!, and funny. Seems that it's almost too much to ask for. I've just got to keep faith, and know that one day I'll find a girl.

[mistyblue9802200]

It seems like I ring in every New Year single. It usually doesn't bother me to be single, unless I see a happy couple in the store or around town. I've always said that I was built for relationships, and it's true. I'd just like to meet a girl who's honest, smart!, and funny. Seems that it's almost too much to ask for. I've just got to keep faith, and know that one day I'll find a girl.

Good Afternoon HollyLee
welcome to the thread & Happy 2008
i belive there is someone for everyone you just havnt stumbled across them yet, so keep on stumblin as im sure she is just waitin for your paths to ceoss, have a lovely evening

[littlebutch506]

Hello All im here for awhile nice to be back thanks misty for the warm welcome back hope you are doing good dont do any thing i wouldnt just kidding.

[Taylorsdreaming]

Wow, is there a difference between Single butch's and Femme's and REALLY single butch's and femme's? I knew I was messing up somewhere...lol...Happy New Year Everyone! 2008, a year of hope, faith, charity, kindness, and hopfully lots of Love...

I so love coming and reading what everyone has to say, their thoughts, and hopes, and sometimes qwerky sayings. So once again, from a Really Single Femme, to the rest of you' guys...Happy New Year...Can't wait to see what's instore for me now....~taylor~

[luckydwg07]

Wow, is there a difference between Single butch's and Femme's and REALLY single butch's and femme's? I knew I was messing up somewhere...lol...Happy New Year Everyone! 2008, a year of hope, faith, charity, kindness, and hopfully lots of Love...

I so love coming and reading what everyone has to say, their thoughts, and hopes, and sometimes qwerky sayings. So once again, from a Really Single Femme, to the rest of you' guys...Happy New Year...Can't wait to see what's instore for me now....~taylor~

HAPPY NEW YEAR !! To ALL I'm new here and want to say hello. I'm both of those Taylordreaming..single & REALLY single. I like it &than I don't like it so much. I miss sharing things/thoughts with another . I REALLY miss the intimacy. Has been 6 months since my breakup(we were done long before) and 4 months since I messed around with someone. I think I'm ready in 2008!! Lookin'& Lustin' Hope everyone finds what makes them happy! One more thing this site is a great community & I'm luck to have found it CHEERS!

[mistyblue9802200]

Hello All im here for awhile nice to be back thanks misty for the warm welcome back hope you are doing good dont do any thing i wouldnt just kidding.

Good Morning littlebutch
You are very welcome sweetheart
aw where is the fun in not doing anything i shouldnt be doing? lolol have a great day.

Wow, is there a difference between Single butch's and Femme's and REALLY single butch's and femme's? I knew I was messing up somewhere...lol...Happy New Year Everyone! 2008, a year of hope, faith, charity, kindness, and hopfully lots of Love...

I so love coming and reading what everyone has to say, their thoughts, and hopes, and sometimes qwerky sayings. So once again, from a Really Single Femme, to the rest of you' guys...Happy New Year...Can't wait to see what's instore for me now....~taylor~

Good Morn ing Taylor
Great to see you on thread sweetheartwell anuther femme came up with this thread idea as there were not only Single people on the Single thread but also attatched who used to visit the Singles thread ( which is ok as more merrier ) so she made this thread just for Singles but didnt work as attatched still come on to say hi lolol which i think is gud also as more merrier, have a great day & i hope you find wot you are lo0okin for in 2008 all the best

HAPPY NEW YEAR !! To ALL I'm new here and want to say hello. I'm both of those Taylordreaming..single & REALLY single. I like it &than I don't like it so much. I miss sharing things/thoughts with another . I REALLY miss the intimacy. Has been 6 months since my breakup(we were done long before) and 4 months since I messed around with someone. I think I'm ready in 2008!! Lookin'& Lustin' Hope everyone finds what makes them happy! One more thing this site is a great community & I'm luck to have found it CHEERS!

Good Morning luckydwg
Great to see anuther new face on the thread
have a wunderful day & gud luck with your *lusting* < gigglin > all best for 2008 sweetheart.


All Best For 2008

[mistyblue9802200]

Have A Crackin Saturday !!
Good Morning Reallllllly Single Butches, Bois or whichever ID you ID with
Good Morning Realllllllly Single Sexy Femmes



I just popped in to wsh you all a wunderfully wicked wee day, weather in bonnie Scotland is betta as been rainin all yesterday & thro night so cleared all the last reminents of snow so tis safe to go out & i wont go *ass over tit* lolol,
i hope your day is filled with lots of love & laughter, remember a wee smile really does make all difference to your day


All Best For 2008

[jushapycampin]

HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Yep I brought in the new year single again too. Still scouting but still really really single. Sorta hard to scout in NC.

[BigButchMistie]

Good Morning to everyone! I hope you have an enjoyable Saturday..

[artbybabz]

that would be me... totally and happily.. that doesnt mean i wouldnt like meeting the right one... it would be great but... i havent so ... i guess it will one day..
but being single is really ok..
hope ur all having a great saturday..
Babz

[mistyblue9802200]

HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Yep I brought in the new year single again too. Still scouting but still really really single. Sorta hard to scout in NC.

Good Morning sweetheart
Happy 2008, im sure you wont be seein the year out *Single*
think posative, have a great wee weekend

Good Morning to everyone! I hope you have an enjoyable Saturday..

Good Morning BBM
Have a great wee day

that would be me... totally and happily.. that doesnt mean i wouldnt like meeting the right one... it would be great but... i havent so ... i guess it will one day..
but being single is really ok..
hope ur all having a great saturday..
Babz

Good Morning artbybabz
Have a great wee weekend sweetheart




All Best For 2008

[The Divine Within]

I'm really single and while I would love to go on a date, I am having trouble finding a woman that wants the same things out of life...I am a woman of color and dare I say that alot of the women that have approached me just weren't up to par. I am a classy, well educated woman and I expect the same in a partner.

In fact, I met a woman during the holidays and by day 5 I had to cut her off because she didn't understand the concept of personal space. There is absolutely no reason you should have to IM me, then call...then text. Can I breathe? So frustrating...

[mistyblue9802200]

I'm really single and while I would love to go on a date, I am having trouble finding a woman that wants the same things out of life...I am a woman of color and dare I say that alot of the women that have approached me just weren't up to par. I am a classy, well educated woman and I expect the same in a partner.

In fact, I met a woman during the holidays and by day 5 I had to cut her off because she didn't understand the concept of personal space. There is absolutely no reason you should have to IM me, then call...then text. Can I breathe? So frustrating...

Good Evening The Divine Within
You will find there are alot of great people same as you in the same position on this site, i dont think it has anything to do with *creed or colour it is just a *relationship* thing
i know you will enjoy gettin to know sum wunderful people on here as there is a wide spectrum of people from all over the globe so happy *huntin* have a great evenin sweet lady.

[ironygrl]

Happy Wednesday everyone Hope 2008 is going well for you thus far!

[Kayden]

I saw a few good friends in here, so I figured that I would pop in and see how everyone is doing. Here's to hoping that the single ones find who they want in 2008

[StoneSoft]

Good Afternoon Really Singles!!

Two more days until the weekend! Then it may just be time to go Incognito to The Other Side of My Sister's Room in Paris, cause "You Can't Keep A Good Hoe Down"

Have a wonderful week

[bellaestate]

Good Afternoon Really Singles!!

Two more days until the weekend! Then it may just be time to go Incognito to The Other Side of My Sister's Room in Paris, cause "You Can't Keep A Good Hoe Down"

Have a wonderful week

HAHA!!! Good one Stone..Funny I haven't been to either of those places yet. May have to go check them out soon. Hope you are having a good week.

Bella

[mistyblue9802200]

Happy Wednesday everyone Hope 2008 is going well for
you thus far!

Good Evening ironygrrl
Thankyou my 2008 looks to be a gud one sofar, hope yours is also sweet lady

I saw a few good friends in here, so I figured that I would pop in and see how everyone is doing. Here's to hoping that the single ones find who they want in 2008

Good Evening Kayden
I remember a sayin my ole Mum used to say *ask dont get, dont ask dont want* < gigglin > never made any sense to meeee lololhasve a lovely evening.

Good Afternoon Really Singles!!

Two more days until the weekend! Then it may just be time to go Incognito to The Other Side of My Sister's Room in Paris, cause "You Can't Keep A Good Hoe Down"

Have a wonderful week

Good Evening StoneSoft
You got room in ya suitcase for a *wee one*? < gigglin > i dont eat much i promise lolol

HAHA!!! Good one Stone..Funny I haven't been to either of those places yet. May have to go check them out soon. Hope you are having a good week.

Bella

Good Evening bella
lovely to see you sweetheart, hope your evening is everything & more

[StoneSoft]

Why Misty, I'd always have room in my suitcase for you!

Thanks Bellaestate - Knew it would take someone from the ATL to get it!

Ironygrl - nothing at Crimson yet?

Maybe we should have a singles night!

[mistyblue9802200]

Why Misty, I'd always have room in my suitcase for you!

Thanks Bellaestate - Knew it would take someone from the ATL to get it!

Ironygrl - nothing at Crimson yet?

Maybe we should have a singles night!

< curtsys > Why thankyou StoneSoft

[luckydwg07]

Hello Singles, I've got my feelers out for 2008. I am talking to a lovely woman from LA ..conversations are great but AAHHH ....I'm ready to move to the next stage!!! REALLY SINGLE & REALLY READY!!!!! Phone sex is fine but I'm a hands all over the body type of person. Should I buy a plane ticket??? She wants to know my fantasies GGezz I would rather whisper them softly as I nibble on her ear lobe.. What do I do??????
Last Sunday I went to the L word premier in New Hope Pa. at a brewery Lots of women & lots of looks but no phone numbers What the hell !!
CALI. OR BUST

[luckydwg07]

Good Morning littlebutch

You are very welcome sweetheart
aw where is the fun in not doing anything i shouldnt be doing? lolol have a great day.

Good Morn ing Taylor
Great to see you on thread sweetheartwell anuther femme came up with this thread idea as there were not only Single people on the Single thread but also attatched who used to visit the Singles thread ( which is ok as more merrier ) so she made this thread just for Singles but didnt work as attatched still come on to say hi lolol which i think is gud also as more merrier, have a great day & i hope you find wot you are lo0okin for in 2008 all the best

Good Morning luckydwg
Great to see anuther new face on the thread
have a wunderful day & gud luck with your *lusting* < gigglin > all best for 2008 sweetheart

All Best For 2008
Thankyou

Thankyou for the good cheer Miss MistyBlue. I hope to thoroughly enjoy myself Madame

[madtownbutch]

I'm not looking for a partner right now. I've done the U-Haul thing and I'm tired of it. I am looking to date. I've spent more time comparing toothpaste than potential partners.
What are you looking for in a partner? Common interests? Proximity? Sex?? Laughs?
Sexy strong femme. Some common interests and some not so common. I like new things and would like to explore her interests. Proximity is critical. (Within about an hour of Madison, WI.) I crave a femme's touch. Sex? Definitely. (goes with the proximity thing) Laughs? Absolutely.
What is it that you look forward to sharing with a partner? Talents? Joys? Jokes? Sex??
Right now, I'm looking for companionship, interesting conversations, sex, and cuddles. What have you changed about yourself to be prepared for a relationship? Clothes? Hair? Attitudes? Thinking? Belief?
I'm in the process of making the changes that I need to in order to be prepared for a relationship. I'm taking the time to explore who I am and what is truly important to me.

Do you have hard and fast rules in picking a mate?
Not really.
Do you have a luck talasman that you take or wear on first dates?
No. But probably not a bad idea.

Is there anything you fear having to give up to be in a relationship?
Myself.

[bellaestate]

Hello Singles, I've got my feelers out for 2008. I am talking to a lovely woman from LA ..conversations are great but AAHHH ....I'm ready to move to the next stage!!! REALLY SINGLE & REALLY READY!!!!! Phone sex is fine but I'm a hands all over the body type of person. Should I buy a plane ticket??? She wants to know my fantasies GGezz I would rather whisper them softly as I nibble on her ear lobe.. What do I do??????
Last Sunday I went to the L word premier in New Hope Pa. at a brewery Lots of women & lots of looks but no phone numbers What the hell !!
CALI. OR BUST

Hey lucky..I have been to New Hope once in my travels. Great place!! Now as far as going to CA. that would depend on how long you have been talking. Maybe you could meet in a neutral place like Vegas. I wouldn't tell fantasies yet. Let her wonder for a bit. One of the butch rules I have heard is always leave them wanting more. Has she asked you to come to CA? How long have you been single? So many variables to consider. Good luck in your decision.

Bella

[bellaestate]

< curtsys > Why thankyou StoneSoft

Oh Misty...I just love reading your posts just to see those pictures!!! <Purring> Good morning to you lassy!!

Bella

[mistyblue9802200]

Hello Singles, I've got my feelers out for 2008. I am talking to a lovely woman from LA ..conversations are great but AAHHH ....I'm ready to move to the next stage!!! REALLY SINGLE & REALLY READY!!!!! Phone sex is fine but I'm a hands all over the body type of person. Should I buy a plane ticket??? She wants to know my fantasies GGezz I would rather whisper them softly as I nibble on her ear lobe.. What do I do??????
Last Sunday I went to the L word premier in New Hope Pa. at a brewery Lots of women & lots of looks but no phone numbers What the hell !!
CALI. OR BUST

Good Afternoon luckydwg
< whispers > buy a ticket !wot is the worst that can happen? you dont get on but have found a sweet friend ! wot is best that can happen? you have a wunderfully wicked time !
go on i dare ya ! lolol let us know how you get on
have a great wee day.

Thankyou for the good cheer Miss MistyBlue. I hope to thoroughly enjoy myself Madame

You have the right idea i take my wee hat off to you

I'm not looking for a partner right now. I've done the U-Haul thing and I'm tired of it. I am looking to date. I've spent more time comparing toothpaste than potential partners.
What are you looking for in a partner? Common interests? Proximity? Sex?? Laughs?
Sexy strong femme. Some common interests and some not so common. I like new things and would like to explore her interests. Proximity is critical. (Within about an hour of Madison, WI.) I crave a femme's touch. Sex? Definitely. (goes with the proximity thing) Laughs? Absolutely.
What is it that you look forward to sharing with a partner? Talents? Joys? Jokes? Sex??
Right now, I'm looking for companionship, interesting conversations, sex, and cuddles. What have you changed about yourself to be prepared for a relationship? Clothes? Hair? Attitudes? Thinking? Belief?
I'm in the process of making the changes that I need to in order to be prepared for a relationship. I'm taking the time to explore who I am and what is truly important to me.

Do you have hard and fast rules in picking a mate?
Not really.
Do you have a luck talasman that you take or wear on first dates?
No. But probably not a bad idea.

Is there anything you fear having to give up to be in a relationship?
Myself.

Good Afternoon madtownbutch
welcome to the thread
hope you enjoy a great wee evening.

Oh Misty...I just love reading your posts just to see those pictures!!! <Purring> Good morning to you lassy!!

Bella

Good Afternoon Ms bella
Thankyou for your sweet words lovely lady
i hope you have a great wee evening