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    Quote Originally Posted by shi69 View Post
    oh and one more thing..i like tattoos..so hot makes my mouth water lol..and to see them in a wife beater..hmmhmmhmm ok now im done..

    iadorn a tat on my right arm & my Big, Beatiful, Bucth does not, but I do love them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sweet&Content View Post
    I couldn't have said it better...especially since I'm too shy . I love to be 'twitterpaited'... love that "pitter patter"... but what I love more, is a sweet butch that returns those feelings and isn't afraid to love (or be loved)... now.. if only a sweet, captivating, charming, lovable butch would point their GPS in my direction...I'd be content just to enjoy the company of a kindhearted soul.
    all this pitter patterin of's perhaps ya'll need's and or perhaps just to be rescuedwell anyway have a good day ladies
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    Quote Originally Posted by shigi View Post
    all this pitter patterin of's perhaps ya'll need's and or perhaps just to be rescuedwell anyway have a good day ladies
    Its nice to be noticed , ty.
    I won't be greedy... no need for 's here (cuz I have plenty growing in my garden)... but, alas... it's a shame there isn't a on THIS COAST . I'd be their Snow White!

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    What I like most about butches is that they are butches

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    One of the greatest things about butches is confidence! When I am around a confident ~dare I say "cocky" butch~ it just drives me crazy!
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    Talking What I LOVE Most a/b Hym.....

    smell/voice/body/hys caring heart/soul/thoughtfulness/kind & loving soul/hys patience/the way hy looks in a pair of jeans/shorts/hys big.broad shoulders that R PERFECT for hugs/ the way hy Lets Me control the Remote * smile* *giggle*/the way Hy loves hys family & friends, which a love I've never seen before. It's pure, true, honset. I love hym with all all that I am & all that I have......
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    peeking in on this convo

    watching all these hot femmes stroll by trying to catch a bit of the conversations..
    goin within to become better out.

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    the universe must have just sent me a secret message or something,
    cuz i just heard a train blowing it's whistle! i love trains...


    but what do i like about a butch?

    that they can be so nurturing and sensitive, just when we need it most

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    Quote Originally Posted by Whispertome View Post
    What do I love about butches besides they being so damn cute. I love the "tough" exterior and the mushy inside that only a butche's girl gets to see
    thats my favorite part too
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    What I love most about butches

    I love their strength, courage, confidence, voice, and most of all, that masculinity which exudes from them oh so well.
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    I love everything about butches...
    I love their voice, the strengtht, the confidence, I love the that special tone in their voice when they talk to a woman... I love butches who have manners, and butches who give as much respect to a woman as they demand from one...
    I love that look a butch gives me when I walk by...
    I love a butch with a strong jawline...
    I love butch hands!!!
    I love the smell of colon...
    I love the way they know how to treat their femme....
    I love all the strenght and courage and roughness and dominance in everything they do and I love all the sweet tender love and care that only a butch knows how to balance... hmmm...I love...I love... I love many things about butches... I love butches!
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    what i like most about butches

    I like him for having all these sides of personality evil, good, genius... ect... and the fact that we know nearly nothing about him ---> yet... Spoiler: 167th Down So cool finally theres a little about Hirumas ...family ???

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    Wink For the love of butches...

    • Their confident swagger
    • The way their ass moves with that swagger
    • The way their shoulders move with that swagger
    • Their outer confidence and inner vunerability
    • Their manners: Holding the door of the cab open for me...walking into a room behind me with their hand softly placed on the small of my back
    • Their sacrifical "giving up the jacket" ritual at the end of a night out for me, because I was too prissy not to take one with me, as it wouldn't look good with my dress!
    • The foot massages followed with more massage
    • Their dominance and aggression shown when needed and called for in and out of the bedroom
    • Their patience when I moan about how my feet are hurting during and after wearing 5" heels...and the foot massage that follows (see above )
    • Their submissiveness. Giving themselves wholly to me and trusting me with their mind, body and soul
    • Their passion, rawness and fire
    • Their strong jaw line and twinkling expresssive eyes. No need for words. The eyes convey exactly what they want
    • Their smirk. A self confident, go getting one-sided-corner- of- the- mouth up kinda smirk
    • Their chemistry
    • Their physical appeal whilst strapped up with 'that' look in their eyes and a flush in their cheeks
    • Their inquisitiveness to sit and watch me apply my make up before we head out
    • Their excitability when I tell them and then show them what I am wearing for a function/dinner/party.
    • Their tenderness when I am feeling sick
    • Their concern when I've had a crappy day
    • Their ardour when they know I am wanting hot, hard, loving and them not being afraid to give it to me
    • Their strong arms wrapped around me: In the park, in bed, in the cinema...
    • Their fingers finding their way into mine when walking down the street
    • Their hand gliding to the nape of my neck and giving it a gentle squeeze
    • Their breath in my face
    • Their silent tears that the outside world do not see
    • Their softness
    • Their wanting to fix the dripping tap, the squeaky door
    • Their essence
    I Love Butches
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    i'll be talking about my own butch...

    - she had the sweetest way of saying, "hi rose"
    - her smell captivated me
    - the way she looked at me, mesmerized me
    - the way she touched me made me feel safe
    - her tenderness is her strength
    - she made me feel beautiful and desireable
    - i know that being innocent is a big turn off to a lot of butches, but my butch is different, she loved me for being innocent, for her it was the greatest conquest of all
    - she lets me win every argument, but she was the dominant one
    - she is over protective of me, that's the reason why i love her soooo much
    - i love her for fighting against cancer and told me she doesn't want to leave me... BUT
    - now that she's gone... i will always treasure our love and will always remember her request, whatever it was, it will always be between the two us
    - I LOVE YOU RED !!!
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    I have a butch in mind while writing this... ::grins:: so to those butches that are "stone", to each their own and I mean no disrespect.

    My absolute favorite thing about a butch woman is the way that she lets herself go in bed. There is no single more sensual thing in my world than a butch who likes to be pleasured completely.

    To different people that will mean different things.

    To me, it is quite simply that I could savor the taste and feel of a butch for hours at a time! From head to toe... and all points in between, butches are fantastic!

    Thank heaven for butches... amen amen amen!
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    There is so much to admire (translation: worship), there really is... but I think that among the characteristics of having a dazzling personality or dressed with a particular perfection or even the way they wear their hair or what they smell like or even their gift of intelligence, I would say that their ... hands ... are definately important to me and what I like the most.

    (it's also important to have a great collection of ties, too.)

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    So, what is it about butches hands that you like? Specific qualities or just hands in general???

    Quote Originally Posted by SweetBlueDiva43 View Post
    There is so much to admire (translation: worship), there really is... but I think that among the characteristics of having a dazzling personality or dressed with a particular perfection or even the way they wear their hair or what they smell like or even their gift of intelligence, I would say that their ... hands ... are definately important to me and what I like the most.

    (it's also important to have a great collection of ties, too.)
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    P.S. I was really in a *jam* on Friday, and my best Butch friend came to my rescue like a knight pulling up on a white horse.


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    Quote Originally Posted by butchgorilla View Post
    So, what is it about butches hands that you like? Specific qualities or just hands in general???
    *I should have known that I might get asked something like this!*

    It's a great question, Kayden and thank you for asking.

    Here are some of my thoughts concerning your inquiry:

    To me, hands are just more than what they seem to be. Not only do they help us accomplish that which is most important daily (like eating, getting dressed, writing little sweet-nothings on rice paper or even with getting our daily goals accomplished) but, Hands are the perfect gift to any Femme who finds them holding hers or keeping the small of her back warm or cradling her face as her sweetheart admires her beauty or how they instrumentally provide the most heavenly feelings ever, to her body...



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    They are all different, and unique in their own way, which makes getting to know them an adventure.........
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    What I love most about butches.......oh so many things. They're damn sexy to look at. Sooooo sexy. A glance from across the room can make me melt. Their casual, confident saunter. Their tools (both in and out of the bedroom). All of those little buttons to unbutton when they're wearing a dress shirt. That look that makes you melt before they kiss you. Their hands in your hair. The way they smell. The way they take charge. The way they hold your hand. Could go on and on.

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    Just they way butches carry themselves in such a positive take no shit way. The way butches look is unique in itself, The way butches touch is something so soft and tender, The way butches love is so amazing and wonderful, The way butches express themselves when your alone and together, The way a butch puts on their clothes for the day and how good a butch looks in them. But most of all, the way my butch treats me with more respect then any man could ever give me. THATS WHAT I LIKE MOST ABOUT BUTCHES. THE RESPECT PART.



    JUST MY 2 CENTS..

    Quote Originally Posted by SweetestThing View Post
    this is such a great thread I had to add my 2 cents worth

    what do I love about butches? pretty much everything really - the voice, the strong arms, that wicked look in the eye, the sharp intelligent mind, the way they are so clear about what they want & no games, the sexy butch clothes, the scent of the nape of her neck, the way they make you feel so secure and supported and appreciated for who you are - I feel blessed to have something so wonderful in my life

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    Oh my dear butches, thank you for being so sexy
    The confidence they project, the passion they give, how cute they are when they flirt with you, the way they look at you, their smiles! ....I just love everything!

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    *peeks in and admires the femmes*

    What about us slightly shy butches? Is there any hope for us?
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    I everyone, When i was looking for a butch/Femme community (as I had no idea you all existed) I have done a search and many links /articles popped up. This glorious website was one of them. I had come across an article that literally changed my life forever. It's a long article. it's title Is There Anyone Here That Finds Butch Lesbians Attractive. Enjoy the reading:
    Is there anyone here who finds butch lesbians attractive?

    Best Answer - Chosen by Asker


    Yup, I'm crazy about them. Here's a summation of my feelings:

    Ooh, what a delightful question. I love everything about butch women, and I always have. More feminine girls just don't do anything for me sexually- I can objectively admire their beauty and sexiness, but in the end, it's when I see a woman who is androgynous, boyish, or plain out manly, my heart starts to pitter-patter. So let me sing an ode to butches here, because far too often all I see is "Eww, yuck, I like my women to look like women!", and that's so sad.

    I love butch hair. I like the way the women who wear it- whether it's short or long- use their hair in a completely different way than do feminine women- they don't flip it or toss it or curl it around their fingers, but sometimes they run their hands through it that special way. I love the way short hair looks so distinguished on a strong face that would otherwise be hidden by length, and I love the way a shaved butch head both reveals a butch's masculinity in attitude, and femininity in the face and head that emerge.

    I love butch faces. I love the androgynous and tomboyish faces that are beautiful, elvish, almost- the girls who could be extraordinarily beautiful in femme drag. But more than that I love the butch faces that can't do that- that look ridiculous when painted up and framed by a wig. I love strong, square jaws that are firmly held rather than slack. I love high foreheads and thick brows that other people would probably want to pluck and shape. I love butch eyes, that are always so extraordinary. Not hidden by tons of makeup or weighted down with the way femme women often look away, it's like looking into their souls. I love the way a butch speaks with her eyes- those direct stares that say "I love you." or make you break out in a hot flush from across the room. I love butch mouths, which are the ultimate combination: soft and sensuous girl lips that don't act like girl lips- no pouting or worried thinning or other 'femme' signs.

    I love butch bodies, every way they come. I like the way that the butch female form is somehow hidden in its clothing- from the T-shirt and jeans to the sharpest cut suit, you can always tell it's there, in the hips, the luscious curve of breast, but it's not on display the way femme clothing screams "boobs here! butt here!". I love muscles on a woman's body, more than the average sporty femme should have, bulging, tensing. I love butches who don't shave their legs or their armpits, who own the hair on their body, and how though it's long, most people don't realize it's downy soft, too, a beautiful covering. I love butch boobs, because they are such a prize, alternatively hated and ignored by their owners. I love little butch t*ts and big butch t*ts- I love the shape they make on a boxy body and I adore the juxtaposition of hard muscle, soft breast. I love to see a butch unwind her binding and the breasts to spill out like presents, and then get wrapped up again for the world, a secret only I've had access to. I love butch legs and torsos- they are so often trunk-like, solid. Even when they're scrawny, they have a centeredness, a strength. Muscled butch legs, smooth or hairy, get me every time. I love the way so many butches adorn their bodies, bodies that aren't supposed to be, but get decorated anyways- butch piercings and tattoos- a ring around a bicep makes me melt. I love the way butches smell- not cloyingly, sickeningly sweet like femmes' perfume or other body scents, but clean, fresh, sometimes musky and sour with cologne, but always different, always, somehow, natural.

    I love butch fashion- I am quite simply and utterly delighted by the way women wear what's regarded as men's clothing. For anyone who's ever thought that butches are lazy dressers, I want to point out the woman who looks so utterly dashing in her suit and tie, or just a dress shirt and slacks, the boi who is able to rock a Justin Timberlake look, right down to the fedora, who makes a wifebeater look as tasty as it can be, who make men in theirs look sallowly concave at the chest. I love the studded belts that punk butches wear, the boys jeans that fit off-kilter around their hips just enough. I cannot begin to explain the heat it generates to see a butch in boxers, or better yet, boxer-briefs or boy's underwear, those legs branching up to the three-pronged cut, the flap lying flat and empty, or maybe bulging with a packer. I love the fact that nearly every butch owns a pair of boots, solid, thundering boots that look so army powerful and commanding when they wear them. I love a woman in men's clothing.

    I love the way butches act. I love the particular way a butch woman acts "like a man", but with a woman's way- gentlemanly ettiquette and all. I don't know how to describe that it's not hardly even the butch qualities (sitting wide-legged and spread out, standing tall and firm), but rather how comfortable and natural she is being that way that makes it so good. I love the way butches are playful and funny but not coy or manipulative- I love their straight-forwardness. I love that "bulldagger swagger" so full of confidence and seriousness, that peacock strut. I love the way butches feel a masculine sense of obligation and duty and protection, but it doesn't translate into male ego. My heart squeezes at the way butches deal with their emotions- sometimes hiding it, swallowing it down, and that facade of pride and bravado. I love the way butches act- so confident, so gentlemanly, so tough. I love butch voices- the ones that are pitched too low, but refuse to take on the sort of drawl that would turn it into a throaty, sultry femme voice. I love the way butches can navigate the world- not in competition with men, but buddies and friends, and yet slide into women's land and have that identity, too.

    I love the way butches have sex- how they know just what to do, and want to do it so very badly. I love the way butches use their hands like sex organs for delicate handlings. I love the outline of a strap-on contained in jeans or underwear. I love butches who can orgasm by jerking off their silicone c*cks, whose metaphysical erections are so strong in their minds that the touch practically translates. I absolutely am addicted to the faces of butch pleasure- the eyes rolling back in the head, the body shudders, the complete way a feminine orgasm rolls through a butch body, made masculine by it. I love butches who top but more I love butches who bottom or do both- I am drawn to butch women who know that being touched and penetrated and pleasured doesn't invalidate her butchness, doesn't feminize her, doesn't equal submission. I love butches who are into BDSM, who look fantastic in leather and who take slow, careful deliberation in their acts, who wear that power like an easy mantle. I love butches who love other butches as well as femmes- those girls who know the true pleasures of same-sex relations, when the sameness is in two butch bodies banging together, mirror images, same intense ferocity and heat.

    But perhaps most of all, I love butches for who they are in this world. My heart aches and yearns for the strength I feel from them, how every day they walk the world looking the way they do and basically inviting- and then bearing- attacks for not giving up and conforming to feminine ideals. I love them for being who they are, and not letting anyone tell them that women do not have crew cuts, or women don't wear ties, or women must be this, or must be that.

    Simply put, I am in love and lust with butches, and I don't care if other people aren't (you can't control what you like), but I want them to understand that butches can be- and are- desirable. Just a few quotes to close up:

    " . . . a butch is someone who has taken on the best gendered characteristics of both woman and man, left a lot of the stuff born of misogyny and heterosexism behind, and walked forward into the world without apology." - S. Bear Bergman, "Butch Is a Noun"

    "I love butch girls. Girls with slick, shiny, barbershop haircuts, trimmed so short your fingertips can barely grip it. Girls with shirts that button the other way. Girls that swagger... Girls who get stared at in the ladies' room, girls who shop in the boys department, girls who live every moment looking like they weren't supposed to. Girls with hands that touch me like they have been exploring my body their entire lives... It is the girls that get called sir every day who make me catch my breath, the girls with strong jaws who buckle my knees, the girls who are a different gender who make me want to lay down for them." - Tristan Taormino

    Hope that helps you understand a little about why some girls (and guys) like butches!








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    musicman,

    I don't usually post on this thread but I want to thank you for posting this eloquent love of butches letter. It moved me, and reminded me that there must still be Femmes out there that love us in this stunning manner.

    Don't know who she is, but whoever is her butch is a lucky fella!

    Thanks again, RK of S


    Quote Originally Posted by musicman View Post
    I everyone, When i was looking for a butch/Femme community (as I had no idea you all existed) I have done a search and many links /articles popped up. This glorious website was one of them. I had come across an article that literally changed my life forever. It's a long article. it's title Is There Anyone Here That Finds Butch Lesbians Attractive. Enjoy the reading:
    Is there anyone here who finds butch lesbians attractive?

    Best Answer - Chosen by Asker


    Yup, I'm crazy about them. Here's a summation of my feelings:

    Ooh, what a delightful question. I love everything about butch women, and I always have. More feminine girls just don't do anything for me sexually- I can objectively admire their beauty and sexiness, but in the end, it's when I see a woman who is androgynous, boyish, or plain out manly, my heart starts to pitter-patter. So let me sing an ode to butches here, because far too often all I see is "Eww, yuck, I like my women to look like women!", and that's so sad.

    I love butch hair. I like the way the women who wear it- whether it's short or long- use their hair in a completely different way than do feminine women- they don't flip it or toss it or curl it around their fingers, but sometimes they run their hands through it that special way. I love the way short hair looks so distinguished on a strong face that would otherwise be hidden by length, and I love the way a shaved butch head both reveals a butch's masculinity in attitude, and femininity in the face and head that emerge.

    I love butch faces. I love the androgynous and tomboyish faces that are beautiful, elvish, almost- the girls who could be extraordinarily beautiful in femme drag. But more than that I love the butch faces that can't do that- that look ridiculous when painted up and framed by a wig. I love strong, square jaws that are firmly held rather than slack. I love high foreheads and thick brows that other people would probably want to pluck and shape. I love butch eyes, that are always so extraordinary. Not hidden by tons of makeup or weighted down with the way femme women often look away, it's like looking into their souls. I love the way a butch speaks with her eyes- those direct stares that say "I love you." or make you break out in a hot flush from across the room. I love butch mouths, which are the ultimate combination: soft and sensuous girl lips that don't act like girl lips- no pouting or worried thinning or other 'femme' signs.

    I love butch bodies, every way they come. I like the way that the butch female form is somehow hidden in its clothing- from the T-shirt and jeans to the sharpest cut suit, you can always tell it's there, in the hips, the luscious curve of breast, but it's not on display the way femme clothing screams "boobs here! butt here!". I love muscles on a woman's body, more than the average sporty femme should have, bulging, tensing. I love butches who don't shave their legs or their armpits, who own the hair on their body, and how though it's long, most people don't realize it's downy soft, too, a beautiful covering. I love butch boobs, because they are such a prize, alternatively hated and ignored by their owners. I love little butch t*ts and big butch t*ts- I love the shape they make on a boxy body and I adore the juxtaposition of hard muscle, soft breast. I love to see a butch unwind her binding and the breasts to spill out like presents, and then get wrapped up again for the world, a secret only I've had access to. I love butch legs and torsos- they are so often trunk-like, solid. Even when they're scrawny, they have a centeredness, a strength. Muscled butch legs, smooth or hairy, get me every time. I love the way so many butches adorn their bodies, bodies that aren't supposed to be, but get decorated anyways- butch piercings and tattoos- a ring around a bicep makes me melt. I love the way butches smell- not cloyingly, sickeningly sweet like femmes' perfume or other body scents, but clean, fresh, sometimes musky and sour with cologne, but always different, always, somehow, natural.

    I love butch fashion- I am quite simply and utterly delighted by the way women wear what's regarded as men's clothing. For anyone who's ever thought that butches are lazy dressers, I want to point out the woman who looks so utterly dashing in her suit and tie, or just a dress shirt and slacks, the boi who is able to rock a Justin Timberlake look, right down to the fedora, who makes a wifebeater look as tasty as it can be, who make men in theirs look sallowly concave at the chest. I love the studded belts that punk butches wear, the boys jeans that fit off-kilter around their hips just enough. I cannot begin to explain the heat it generates to see a butch in boxers, or better yet, boxer-briefs or boy's underwear, those legs branching up to the three-pronged cut, the flap lying flat and empty, or maybe bulging with a packer. I love the fact that nearly every butch owns a pair of boots, solid, thundering boots that look so army powerful and commanding when they wear them. I love a woman in men's clothing.

    I love the way butches act. I love the particular way a butch woman acts "like a man", but with a woman's way- gentlemanly ettiquette and all. I don't know how to describe that it's not hardly even the butch qualities (sitting wide-legged and spread out, standing tall and firm), but rather how comfortable and natural she is being that way that makes it so good. I love the way butches are playful and funny but not coy or manipulative- I love their straight-forwardness. I love that "bulldagger swagger" so full of confidence and seriousness, that peacock strut. I love the way butches feel a masculine sense of obligation and duty and protection, but it doesn't translate into male ego. My heart squeezes at the way butches deal with their emotions- sometimes hiding it, swallowing it down, and that facade of pride and bravado. I love the way butches act- so confident, so gentlemanly, so tough. I love butch voices- the ones that are pitched too low, but refuse to take on the sort of drawl that would turn it into a throaty, sultry femme voice. I love the way butches can navigate the world- not in competition with men, but buddies and friends, and yet slide into women's land and have that identity, too.

    I love the way butches have sex- how they know just what to do, and want to do it so very badly. I love the way butches use their hands like sex organs for delicate handlings. I love the outline of a strap-on contained in jeans or underwear. I love butches who can orgasm by jerking off their silicone c*cks, whose metaphysical erections are so strong in their minds that the touch practically translates. I absolutely am addicted to the faces of butch pleasure- the eyes rolling back in the head, the body shudders, the complete way a feminine orgasm rolls through a butch body, made masculine by it. I love butches who top but more I love butches who bottom or do both- I am drawn to butch women who know that being touched and penetrated and pleasured doesn't invalidate her butchness, doesn't feminize her, doesn't equal submission. I love butches who are into BDSM, who look fantastic in leather and who take slow, careful deliberation in their acts, who wear that power like an easy mantle. I love butches who love other butches as well as femmes- those girls who know the true pleasures of same-sex relations, when the sameness is in two butch bodies banging together, mirror images, same intense ferocity and heat.

    But perhaps most of all, I love butches for who they are in this world. My heart aches and yearns for the strength I feel from them, how every day they walk the world looking the way they do and basically inviting- and then bearing- attacks for not giving up and conforming to feminine ideals. I love them for being who they are, and not letting anyone tell them that women do not have crew cuts, or women don't wear ties, or women must be this, or must be that.

    Simply put, I am in love and lust with butches, and I don't care if other people aren't (you can't control what you like), but I want them to understand that butches can be- and are- desirable. Just a few quotes to close up:

    " . . . a butch is someone who has taken on the best gendered characteristics of both woman and man, left a lot of the stuff born of misogyny and heterosexism behind, and walked forward into the world without apology." - S. Bear Bergman, "Butch Is a Noun"

    "I love butch girls. Girls with slick, shiny, barbershop haircuts, trimmed so short your fingertips can barely grip it. Girls with shirts that button the other way. Girls that swagger... Girls who get stared at in the ladies' room, girls who shop in the boys department, girls who live every moment looking like they weren't supposed to. Girls with hands that touch me like they have been exploring my body their entire lives... It is the girls that get called sir every day who make me catch my breath, the girls with strong jaws who buckle my knees, the girls who are a different gender who make me want to lay down for them." - Tristan Taormino

    Hope that helps you understand a little about why some girls (and guys) like butches!







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    Hi RK of S, you`re very welcome. i thought it was very articulate. It changed my life. I have no idea who she was or who she is, i have been trying to find her to thank, with no luck so far.

    My reason for posting was to let the butches out there that maybe are doubting themselves or doubting that there are femmes out there, that we are loved,admired,appreciated and lusted after.

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    Quote Originally Posted by musicman View Post
    Hi RK of S, you`re very welcome. i thought it was very articulate. It changed my life. I have no idea who she was or who she is, i have been trying to find her to thank, with no luck so far.

    My reason for posting was to let the butches out there that maybe are doubting themselves or doubting that there are femmes out there, that we are loved,admired,appreciated and lusted after.

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    Oh you definitely got THAT right!

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    Quote Originally Posted by StarFire View Post
    Oh you definitely got THAT right!

    StarFire,
    I see that devilish look you got going on there which only
    enhances your remark quoted above you made.

    I like your attitude here and with such passion you display !
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    Quote Originally Posted by CS View Post
    StarFire,
    I see that devilish look you got going on there which only
    enhances your remark quoted above you made.

    I like your attitude here and with such passion you display !
    . Uh huuuuuh!

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    So many of my feelings are echoed in this post by musicman and I selected a few statements that struck a cord deep inside me. I wanted to scream yes! Yes! YES YES YES!!!

    Butches are amazing, delectable, delightfully yummy creatures. So f*cking hot.

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    ...I love the way short hair looks so distinguished on a strong face that would otherwise be hidden by length...

    ...I love strong, square jaws that are firmly held rather than slack. I love high foreheads and thick brows that other people would probably want to pluck and shape...

    ...I love the way a butch speaks with her eyes- those direct stares that say "I love you." or make you break out in a hot flush from across the room. I love butch mouths, which are the ultimate combination: soft and sensuous girl lips that don't act like girl lips- no pouting or worried thinning or other 'femme' signs...

    ...I love butch bodies, every way they come...

    ...I love muscles on a woman's body, more than the average sporty femme should have, bulging, tensing. I love butches who don't shave their legs or their armpits, who own the hair on their body, and how though it's long, most people don't realize it's downy soft, too, a beautiful covering...

    ...I love the way so many butches adorn their bodies, bodies that aren't supposed to be, but get decorated anyways- butch piercings and tattoos- a ring around a bicep makes me melt. I love the way butches smell- not cloyingly, sickeningly sweet like femmes' perfume or other body scents, but clean, fresh, sometimes musky and sour with cologne, but always different, always, somehow, natural...

    ...I love the fact that nearly every butch owns a pair of boots, solid, thundering boots that look so army powerful and commanding when they wear them...

    ...I love that "bulldagger swagger" so full of confidence and seriousness, that peacock strut. I love the way butches feel a masculine sense of obligation and duty and protection, but it doesn't translate into male ego. My heart squeezes at the way butches deal with their emotions- sometimes hiding it, swallowing it down, and that facade of pride and bravado...

    ...I love the way butches have sex- how they know just what to do, and want to do it so very badly. I love the way butches use their hands like sex organs for delicate handlings. I love the outline of a strap-on contained in jeans or underwear.

    ...But perhaps most of all, I love butches for who they are in this world. My heart aches and yearns for the strength I feel from them, how every day they walk the world looking the way they do and basically inviting- and then bearing- attacks for not giving up and conforming to feminine ideals. I love them for being who they are, and not letting anyone tell them that women do not have crew cuts, or women don't wear ties, or women must be this, or must be that.
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    nice reading this thread ...
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    What a wonderful read.

    Ladies, you're a beacon for many butches. Thank you for such lovely words.
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    What's there NOT to like?
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    Is there anyone here who finds butch lesbians attractive?

    Thank you for the article musicman, I couldn't have said it any better myself.

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    You're welcome vjsspace, I'm glad you enjoyed the article. It says it all !

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    I love that butch help define my being femme!

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    ~ i love the ease in the swagger of a Butch..the rugged and effortless way they can walk, moving thier entire body in such fluid delicious motion.

    ~oh yeah. got Butch?
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