Taking off my hat, short bow to you lovely Femmes. Thank you so much for making my day! Big grins. Especially for the comments about the hands. I feel that my hands are blessings, and I use them to work on the cars, the house, the yard, and in moments of quiet reverence, honoring the beauty and poetry that is my wife's body.
Sip joyfully from this world of sorrows
Never say or do anything you would be ashamed to see on youtube
Walk in the light, but honor the darkness.
I can count to potato!
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Oh my goodness!!! I have read in here a plenty, but this is my first time reading this particular post. Very well said........ very well said indeed.
[QUOTE=musicman;3242901]I everyone, When i was looking for a butch/Femme community (as I had no idea you all existed) I have done a search and many links /articles popped up. This glorious website was one of them. I had come across an article that literally changed my life forever. It's a long article. it's title Is There Anyone Here That Finds Butch Lesbians Attractive. Enjoy the reading:
Is there anyone here who finds butch lesbians attractive?
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Yup, I'm crazy about them. Here's a summation of my feelings:
Ooh, what a delightful question. I love everything about butch women, and I always have. More feminine girls just don't do anything for me sexually- I can objectively admire their beauty and sexiness, but in the end, it's when I see a woman who is androgynous, boyish, or plain out manly, my heart starts to pitter-patter. So let me sing an ode to butches here, because far too often all I see is "Eww, yuck, I like my women to look like women!", and that's so sad.
I love butch hair. I like the way the women who wear it- whether it's short or long- use their hair in a completely different way than do feminine women- they don't flip it or toss it or curl it around their fingers, but sometimes they run their hands through it that special way. I love the way short hair looks so distinguished on a strong face that would otherwise be hidden by length, and I love the way a shaved butch head both reveals a butch's masculinity in attitude, and femininity in the face and head that emerge.
I love butch faces. I love the androgynous and tomboyish faces that are beautiful, elvish, almost- the girls who could be extraordinarily beautiful in femme drag. But more than that I love the butch faces that can't do that- that look ridiculous when painted up and framed by a wig. I love strong, square jaws that are firmly held rather than slack. I love high foreheads and thick brows that other people would probably want to pluck and shape. I love butch eyes, that are always so extraordinary. Not hidden by tons of makeup or weighted down with the way femme women often look away, it's like looking into their souls. I love the way a butch speaks with her eyes- those direct stares that say "I love you." or make you break out in a hot flush from across the room. I love butch mouths, which are the ultimate combination: soft and sensuous girl lips that don't act like girl lips- no pouting or worried thinning or other 'femme' signs.
I love butch bodies, every way they come. I like the way that the butch female form is somehow hidden in its clothing- from the T-shirt and jeans to the sharpest cut suit, you can always tell it's there, in the hips, the luscious curve of breast, but it's not on display the way femme clothing screams "boobs here! butt here!". I love muscles on a woman's body, more than the average sporty femme should have, bulging, tensing. I love butches who don't shave their legs or their armpits, who own the hair on their body, and how though it's long, most people don't realize it's downy soft, too, a beautiful covering. I love butch boobs, because they are such a prize, alternatively hated and ignored by their owners. I love little butch t*ts and big butch t*ts- I love the shape they make on a boxy body and I adore the juxtaposition of hard muscle, soft breast. I love to see a butch unwind her binding and the breasts to spill out like presents, and then get wrapped up again for the world, a secret only I've had access to. I love butch legs and torsos- they are so often trunk-like, solid. Even when they're scrawny, they have a centeredness, a strength. Muscled butch legs, smooth or hairy, get me every time. I love the way so many butches adorn their bodies, bodies that aren't supposed to be, but get decorated anyways- butch piercings and tattoos- a ring around a bicep makes me melt. I love the way butches smell- not cloyingly, sickeningly sweet like femmes' perfume or other body scents, but clean, fresh, sometimes musky and sour with cologne, but always different, always, somehow, natural.
I love butch fashion- I am quite simply and utterly delighted by the way women wear what's regarded as men's clothing. For anyone who's ever thought that butches are lazy dressers, I want to point out the woman who looks so utterly dashing in her suit and tie, or just a dress shirt and slacks, the boi who is able to rock a Justin Timberlake look, right down to the fedora, who makes a wifebeater look as tasty as it can be, who make men in theirs look sallowly concave at the chest. I love the studded belts that punk butches wear, the boys jeans that fit off-kilter around their hips just enough. I cannot begin to explain the heat it generates to see a butch in boxers, or better yet, boxer-briefs or boy's underwear, those legs branching up to the three-pronged cut, the flap lying flat and empty, or maybe bulging with a packer. I love the fact that nearly every butch owns a pair of boots, solid, thundering boots that look so army powerful and commanding when they wear them. I love a woman in men's clothing.
I love the way butches act. I love the particular way a butch woman acts "like a man", but with a woman's way- gentlemanly ettiquette and all. I don't know how to describe that it's not hardly even the butch qualities (sitting wide-legged and spread out, standing tall and firm), but rather how comfortable and natural she is being that way that makes it so good. I love the way butches are playful and funny but not coy or manipulative- I love their straight-forwardness. I love that "bulldagger swagger" so full of confidence and seriousness, that peacock strut. I love the way butches feel a masculine sense of obligation and duty and protection, but it doesn't translate into male ego. My heart squeezes at the way butches deal with their emotions- sometimes hiding it, swallowing it down, and that facade of pride and bravado. I love the way butches act- so confident, so gentlemanly, so tough. I love butch voices- the ones that are pitched too low, but refuse to take on the sort of drawl that would turn it into a throaty, sultry femme voice. I love the way butches can navigate the world- not in competition with men, but buddies and friends, and yet slide into women's land and have that identity, too.
I love the way butches have sex- how they know just what to do, and want to do it so very badly. I love the way butches use their hands like sex organs for delicate handlings. I love the outline of a strap-on contained in jeans or underwear. I love butches who can orgasm by jerking off their silicone c*cks, whose metaphysical erections are so strong in their minds that the touch practically translates. I absolutely am addicted to the faces of butch pleasure- the eyes rolling back in the head, the body shudders, the complete way a feminine orgasm rolls through a butch body, made masculine by it. I love butches who top but more I love butches who bottom or do both- I am drawn to butch women who know that being touched and penetrated and pleasured doesn't invalidate her butchness, doesn't feminize her, doesn't equal submission. I love butches who are into BDSM, who look fantastic in leather and who take slow, careful deliberation in their acts, who wear that power like an easy mantle. I love butches who love other butches as well as femmes- those girls who know the true pleasures of same-sex relations, when the sameness is in two butch bodies banging together, mirror images, same intense ferocity and heat.
But perhaps most of all, I love butches for who they are in this world. My heart aches and yearns for the strength I feel from them, how every day they walk the world looking the way they do and basically inviting- and then bearing- attacks for not giving up and conforming to feminine ideals. I love them for being who they are, and not letting anyone tell them that women do not have crew cuts, or women don't wear ties, or women must be this, or must be that.
Simply put, I am in love and lust with butches, and I don't care if other people aren't (you can't control what you like), but I want them to understand that butches can be- and are- desirable. Just a few quotes to close up:
" . . . a butch is someone who has taken on the best gendered characteristics of both woman and man, left a lot of the stuff born of misogyny and heterosexism behind, and walked forward into the world without apology." - S. Bear Bergman, "Butch Is a Noun"
"I love butch girls. Girls with slick, shiny, barbershop haircuts, trimmed so short your fingertips can barely grip it. Girls with shirts that button the other way. Girls that swagger... Girls who get stared at in the ladies' room, girls who shop in the boys department, girls who live every moment looking like they weren't supposed to. Girls with hands that touch me like they have been exploring my body their entire lives... It is the girls that get called sir every day who make me catch my breath, the girls with strong jaws who buckle my knees, the girls who are a different gender who make me want to lay down for them." - Tristan Taormino
Hope that helps you understand a little about why some girls (and guys) like butches!
What other people think of me is none of my business
The glass is never half empty.....only half full
What i love about my butch....I love how she is protective of her own.....i love how my butch is loving and caring....she treats me like im a princess,and stands up for me, I love how my butch dresses and carrys herself.... i love how my butch makes love to me, she knows what to do and how to do it without me having to tell her what i like... I love my butch bc she treats me the way i want to be treated, not like any other person has treated me ever. I love my butch so much.... I love my butchs short hair i love it when she runs her fingers threw it, thats hott....I love it when she comes up behind me and puts her arms around me and bites and nibbles on my neck...i love it how i just fit into her arms perfectly...my hands fit into her hands perfectly...And i love that my butch knows exactly how to go down on me..mmm.... The most thing of all that i love about my butch is the fact that she is mine and i am hers!!!!
I love to read this thread still. Sure puts a smile on my face!
"Be aware of how you take away hope from another human being." Oliver Wendall Holmes
The way you call me 'babygirl' and I hear the affection and caring in your voice and it sends waves of feeling throughout my body.
The way you get a bit irritated when someone greets me with a name reserved for your use.
The way you know what I am feeling even when I am not sure and when you voice it and are so right on.
The way you make me laugh so hard my face hurts from smiling.
The way you tease me all day and then please me late into the night.
The way you know just how to comfort me in times of stress.
The way you are you, and know who you are, and are so good with it.
The way you are patient when I am not.
The ways you remind me I am Femme.
The way I smile all the time now.
The way I know there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
The way I am when I am with you.
The way I can make you laugh just by my laughter.
The way it's so hard to let go at the end of the day.
and The way I look forward to tomorrow....
Everything around you is changing, Nothing stays the same....
The energy never dies.
Energy cannot be destroyed or created.
It always is and always will be.
This is the ending and the beginning, Forever, Infinite.
Welcome!
*B.E.P.
Pwr
""Because I am Femme...I can love and appreciate all women...but know that it's always the butches that make my heart, body, soul, mind and spirit...SING...!"
"Because I am Femme... #5"
Boots
so hello. the ladies have started a becuz i am femme thread ,whatever that means . well i have to try and defend my cause .all the ladies say oh im strong n im fiesty n i can change my oil ,if i had to.well im not gonna go on, n on (like the ladies) all i have to say is "i will always love my strong femme woman if,she does not push daddy ,dont bunch ur panties up ladies just my thought for the day .and to all my butch buddys if i dont eat a homecooked meal for awhile lets get some beer n catch something on fire n throw some meat on it.
Not read all the posts, but BUTCH tattoos, do it for me
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♥ ''I am who I am...Your Approval isn't needed''!! x
I think I need to hang out here a bit more often![]()
~~~Tis foolish to fear what you cannot avoid~~~
Publilius Syrus
"I don't act this way to change the world. I act this way so that the goddamn world won't change me!"
Desert Hearts 1985
I love love love this video!!
Chef Jenn
*Taking over the world... one cupcake at a time*
OMG converse THAT was classic!!!! Loved it!!!!!
Everything around you is changing, Nothing stays the same....
The energy never dies.
Energy cannot be destroyed or created.
It always is and always will be.
This is the ending and the beginning, Forever, Infinite.
Welcome!
*B.E.P.
Pwr
ROFLMAO... that's an awesome vid!
I had a stone butch that I felt so secure and loved in her arms. How I miss my boi friend.
this particular butch
can't wait to have an iced tea with you while you drinkin Red horse, lol!
- talks intelligently
- true to hys word, every detail of it (so far, lol!)
- i find hym mysterious , hhhmmm
...death leaves a heartache no one can heal,
love leaves a memory no one can steal...
Bumping this thread bc our butches need some appreciation ladies!!
Will be back to post my list in a bit, but PWR nailed most of it already
Walk Softly, for the toes you are stepping on today, may very well be attached to the foot that is kicking your A** tomorrow
Scent, Attitude and Just "Their way".
celtglen, hope things turn around for you soon.
What I like most about Heelbilli is how hys words and actions make me see myself. Hy loves me with everything hy has. I am blessed and I know it.
Everything around you is changing, Nothing stays the same....
The energy never dies.
Energy cannot be destroyed or created.
It always is and always will be.
This is the ending and the beginning, Forever, Infinite.
Welcome!
*B.E.P.
Pwr
Blog site : http://goo.gl/L7GUU
Blog video : http://goo.gl/FIuRH
what i like most about butches...is that they are so damn sexy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![]()
The way they walk, especially the view from the back. I used to purposely walk a step or two behind my boi so I could watch hym walk. I also love the strength in hys arms but the incredibly gentle way hy holds me.
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