...so i was thinkin'

[WolfyOne]

I'm thinkin, I'm looking forward to living on the west coast

I'm thinkin, being around my stepmom will be good for both of us

I'm thinkin, the traveling alone will not be fun

I'm thinkin, the final destination will be worth it

I'm thinkin, starting over is scary and challenging at the same time

[Naneegirl]

I'm thinkin, I'm looking forward to living on the west coast

I'm thinkin, being around my stepmom will be good for both of us

I'm thinkin, the traveling alone will not be fun

I'm thinkin, the final destination will be worth it

I'm thinkin, starting over is scary and challenging at the same time

{{{{{{Wolfy}}}}}} I'm thinking you are up to the challenge. Remember your three words.

[WolfyOne]

{{{{{{Wolfy}}}}}} I'm thinking you are up to the challenge. Remember your three words.

Thanks Nanee, I know you are right. Those 3 words are in my signature line now and I hold them near and dear. I know that everything happens for a reason and it will all fall into place. Some things take longer than others.

I cherish you as one of the true friends I have made here on BF. Your words in many of your posts have touched me in many ways. You are truly a kind and understanding person. I hope Joe knows he has a real angel in you and treats you like a little princess always.

[KrystleH]

so I was thinking....

moving may just be the Cosmos way of telling me to simplify my life and shed a bunch of "stuff". I have it all down to only 2 items I can't move by myself. Now I just have to find a way to either part by giving them away with them or sell them.

[button2cute]

I am thinking....

Krystle, should not sell or give anything a way. Ask someone to help you to load it or come back another day. Never give things away because you may not ever get it again. It is not so hard to ask for assistance from a neighbor or someone you know. Try to exhaust all avenues before taking the short path out. It would not be fair to you at all. You know someone....who can help you and once you reach your desination...you can get assitance from another.

[KrystleH]

THere are 2 problems with those suggestions. One is that the day I plan to get and load the truck is a Tuesday. The day after Memorial Day. The people I know all work. I do not know any of my neighbors and I cannot ask anyone to help. It's hard enough accepting help when it is offered. I can't ask for it. So I have to plan on being able to deal with things by myself. Just as I have always done. And I cannot come back for it another day. I am not moving across town. I am moving across country. I don't have any idea when I will be back up this way. It's a 19 hr drive and 1100 miles. I do have a friend who offered to help once I am there but again, she will most likely be working.

[button2cute]

Can you load it on Monday? Emm, sometimes we have to swallow I pride and ask for help. Sometimes, it is hard to swallow your pride and it does not mean you are weak. Just you need a little assistance. Do you have roomies? If so will they help? or Family members?

Just a few suggestions....sorry

[KrystleH]

Monday is a holiday. I'm not even sure I can get a truck then. It's a prime moving weekend. And it's not pride that keeps me from asking. It's always feeling as if I am imposing and inconveniencing people. I do not have many friends or family. Especially close by. I will belucky if I see my kids before I move, and I have things to give them. And no I do not have a roommate. I iwll figure out a way to deal with this. Just as I have with everything else I have faced alone in life. Hell I went through a sex change alone. I can handle a move.

[darcy farrow]

It's a 19 hr drive and 1100 miles. I do have a friend who offered to help once I am there but again, she will most likely be working.

Krystle, please count on me as someone who can help you move when you get to Atlanta.

L

[RealPoetsWriteNPen]

Hola Thinkers.....

Happy Late Mothers Day to All the Thinkin' Moms

FemNLeather que estes bien
Krystle BIG BEAR HUG
LadyPhoenix hope your doing well
Sun-SOL
GentleTiger donde andas...
Latina_Doll hope yesterday was great for you
Koop
shellies2good4u
Studboi
stargazerlily
Enchantress
Urbangntlmn
hlij
SnowKisses
WolfyOne
RealPoet

.....

ok so im wondering..maybe i need to change my name..realpoets must not register as femme..or is it just me? lmao...

[BlistexLez]

ok so im wondering..maybe i need to change my name..realpoets must not register as femme..or is it just me? lmao...

Well, I couldn't figure it out either, especially since you don't list butch-femme-tweener in tour profile. I figured it out from your posts, but that took a bit. Go ahead..give BlistexLez a shot...butch or femme??

Glad you have a sense of humor about it. and

[RealPoetsWriteNPen]

Well, I couldn't figure it out either, especially since you don't list butch-femme-tweener in tour profile. I figured it out from your posts, but that took a bit. Go ahead..give BlistexLez a shot...butch or femme??

Glad you have a sense of humor about it. and

umm your butch right..i thought you were femme at one point though so i totally cant freak out about it..yeah maybe i should be more identified..especially now that im single

[ursy_ten]

My partner received a package in the mail from his crusher this morning.... and I was thinking - why should this piss me off so much? She is absolutely no threat to me - in fact, she irks the hell out of him because she so persistently tries to get into his life...

I guess it's just the invasiveness of it all... I mean, I can't exactly blame her, he is absolutely gorgeous...

[swttangel]

I'm thinking about my future.
My parents instilled in me this belief that I shouldn't have a really serious relationship until I finish college, get a job and can pay my own way. I should be there in January, and I'm thinking about how wierd that feels. My big long term goal that I really have is to get a job, hopefully near San Antonio, and I'm almost there. It's wierd. A big, "Where do I go from here?" type feeling. I tried thinking about what my parents did and stuff, but they had found one another by my age...so I dunno.
Just stuff to think about...

[csgoddess]

My partner received a package in the mail from his crusher this morning.... and I was thinking - why should this piss me off so much? She is absolutely no threat to me - in fact, she irks the hell out of him because she so persistently tries to get into his life...

I guess it's just the invasiveness of it all... I mean, I can't exactly blame her, he is absolutely gorgeous...

Ursy,

I don't know the situation or the people involved, but it seems to me that what you are feeling is a disrespect for your relationship. If she is being inappropriate with your partner, sending gifts often or letters or just ignoring the fact of our partnership in her communications, then you have every right to feel as you do. I know I would.

For me, the bottom line wouldn't be that I feel threatened, the bottom line would be how I feel my partnership is being viewed and treated. She doesn't have to be a threat to be an irritation, lol.

Hang in there!

-CS

[Enchantress]

So I am thinking that...

I am officially addicted to sunshine and sunbathing. There is nothing like the feel of warm solar rays touching your skin, eyelids. lips and the result a feeling of being utterly saturated and sensually sunkissed.

I am missing San Francisco and the bay area and I need to make up a trip up North next month to get a fix...

I am almost out of Shampure shampoo and conditioner and this could lead to dire conditions...

The IRS has lost a tax return that I filed and even though I have copies AND there was refund I am going to have to refile, ugh...

I will not fight with the IRS for fear of them was instilled properly by the world at a very early age *laugh*...

I am going to get comfy tonight and read a book, something that I love to do but have not done in a very long time...

My puppy is so adorable right now giving herself a bath in the "No No Silk Pillows" *shaking head*...

I still have a lot of glassware and maybe I should have a party to use it all...

The birds are singing and they are very mellow today. I think they are singing folk songs again with a tiny hint of twang...

I am quirky and thank goodness I have people that understand me ...

[ursy_ten]

Ursy,

I don't know the situation or the people involved, but it seems to me that what you are feeling is a disrespect for your relationship. If she is being inappropriate with your partner, sending gifts often or letters or just ignoring the fact of our partnership in her communications, then you have every right to feel as you do. I know I would.

For me, the bottom line wouldn't be that I feel threatened, the bottom line would be how I feel my partnership is being viewed and treated. She doesn't have to be a threat to be an irritation, lol.

Hang in there!

-CS

Thank you dear CS - Yes, I think that's it. She insisted on coming to visit when he was recovering from hysto despite the fact that he wasn't receiving visits, even from people that he actually enjoys the company of... and when she left, she said to me "thank you for letting me take your place for awhile"...

*Grrr!*

I said (deadpan): "that will never happen"

*GRRRR!!!!*

*and* I had to go get lunch for her (I know I was getting lunch for him anyway; I think what bugged me was that she had invited herself, was not welcome, and now we have to feed her? (but I realize that this is more to do with Kris' hospitality issues than her expectations))

[Enchantress]

Oh yes and I am thinking that I have the song "When You Wish Upon A Star" being sung by Jiminy Cricket stuck in my head...

Thinking that I can't wait to sing it (and princess songs *sigh*) at disneyland while wearing pink mouse ears ...

*wandering off humming*

Hmm I wonder if the birds know this song...

[BlistexLez]

Oh yes and I am thinking that I have the song "When You Wish Upon A Star" being sung by Jiminy Cricket stuck in my head......

When you wish upon a star
Makes no difference who you are
Anything your heart desires
Will come to you


If your heart is in your dream
No request is too extreme
When you wish upon a star
As dreamers do


Fate is kind
She brings to those who love
The sweet fulfillment of
Their secret longing


Like a bolt out of the blue
Fate steps in and sees you through
When you wish upon a star
Your dreams come true

[Sun]

Thank you dear CS - Yes, I think that's it. She insisted on coming to visit when he was recovering from hysto despite the fact that he wasn't receiving visits, even from people that he actually enjoys the company of... and when she left, she said to me "thank you for letting me take your place for awhile"...

Oh that is so not Ok. I give you a lot of credit for handling that so well. Bravo.

[Sun]

Hmm I wonder if the birds know this song...

They do as a matter of fact.

They told me so.

[toriwants]

So I was thinkin...

Why do people feel the need to play with others lives? To make up things and just start trouble? Could it be that they have so little to look forward to in their own lives that they can't stand for others to go about living happily and peacefully?

How sad they are. I can't stand to see people persecuted and ostracized because of the pettiness and whim of someone else.

[Bekko]

So I was thinkin...

Why do people feel the need to play with others lives? To make up things and just start trouble? Could it be that they have so little to look forward to in their own lives that they can't stand for others to go about living happily and peacefully?

How sad they are. I can't stand to see people persecuted and ostracized because of the pettiness and whim of someone else.

I've never understood this myself, I believe I never will. It has to be a sad soul that gets pleasure out of hurting others. A sad soul that thinks so little of themselves that they can't just be themselves and know they will be loved with out putting on some kind of game face.

[Enchantress]

They do as a matter of fact.

They told me so.

*wide eyes* and they didn't tell me too?

Thank you for letting me know, I was going to ponder it tonight * soft laugh* ~

[Bekko]

once in a while someone comes along as a friend, someone who wants nothing but your friend....no games just offering kindness. So I was thinking.....there are so many on this site that offer that everyday. Some I've talked to for a while, some for the first time tonight, some I talk to often, some now and then. Some I've had the pleasure of meeting in person, and some I'm waiting for that chance to. I'm so thankful for the kindness that others show, they far out weigh to bad.

[DallasLesbian]

once in a while someone comes along as a friend, someone who wants nothing but your friend....no games just offering kindness. So I was thinking.....there are so many on this site that offer that everyday. Some I've talked to for a while, some for the first time tonight, some I talk to often, some now and then. Some I've had the pleasure of meeting in person, and some I'm waiting for that chance to. I'm so thankful for the kindness that others show, they far out weigh to bad.

I'm thinkin I like the way Bekko thinks

good to meet you.

[toriwants]

I agree Dallas.

Wonderful post Bekko

[Bekko]

I'm thinkin I like the way Bekko thinks

good to meet you.

likewise....I've seen you around these parts, I always like your posts.

[joectigger]

LOL..ok i love this!

Area of Study: Science
Class: Rare Gems in Femmes

An in depth study of identification, handling and worth. An identification chart and Lab book must be purchased prior to first class.

*Pre-requisite: Rocks - How to Simplify 101
Topics will include but are not limited to: The Crank Whore, The Psycho, The Whiner, The Home Wrecker. Field trips and guest speakers each weak. Please provide dating an ex contact list prior to first class.

Area of Study: Pyschology

Class: The Letting Go - Asset or Liability

A vast array of topics will be presented in 4 main sessions: When Easy and Comfortale is Painful and Detrimental, The Fundamental Structure of Manipulation, When to Recognise You are Still a Pawn, and Better living through the Art of Moving Forward.

*Pre-requisite: Rare Gems in Femmes
An in depth study of identification, handling and worth. An identification chart and Lab book must be purchased prior to first class.

Area of Study: General Studies

Class: Love - Appreciating the Gift

How to recognize worthwhile gifts of love, handle the fear of the past, emotional baggage, pride, and many other aspects of wall building that are detrimental to these gifts. This class includes lab studies and practical application of the dynamics of: Talking to Her and Saying What You Mean, Letting Go of the Confusion of Mixed Message Defense, Second Chances How to Construct Them Successfully, Conquering - Shutting Down and Running Away, andThe Benefits of caring About Her Feelings and Needs Too.

Pre-requisite:

*Rocks - How to Simplify 101
*Rare Gems in Femmes

Area of Study: Biology/Psychology

Class: Sex and the Older Wiser Femme

A composite class and in depth study of advanced sexual techniques focussing on the Psycho-Physical Art of Making Love to or Fucking a Real Woman.

Area of Study: General Studies
Class: Advanced Core Class Support

This class is a practical application of all other classes. It includes a Summer project which will be responsible for half of the grade. The prevailing theme:

Worthwhile Femmes: How to Identify, Acquire and Handle.

This class will include the following lab segments:

*Identification
*Daily Care
*When to and Not to Obsess Over the Remote
*Imbalanced Pride - When It Is a Liability
*How to Really Listen
*What to Do When You Fuck Up
*What to Do When You Fuck up Real Bad and Lose one

*Pre-requisite: All other course studies. This class will consist of a required Internship

Who does a fella see about registration?

[DallasLesbian]

likewise....I've seen you around these parts, I always like your posts.

Well thank you very much.

[Bekko]

I agree Dallas.

Wonderful post Bekko

thank you to you as well. I understood your post as well, far to well. lately I've found the kindness of one makes the meaness of other seem so long ago.

[toriwants]

thank you to you as well. I understood your post as well, far to well. lately I've found the kindness of one makes the meaness of other seem so long ago.

Kindness can have that effect

[csgoddess]

Thank you dear CS - Yes, I think that's it. She insisted on coming to visit when he was recovering from hysto despite the fact that he wasn't receiving visits, even from people that he actually enjoys the company of... and when she left, she said to me "thank you for letting me take your place for awhile"...

*Grrr!*

I said (deadpan): "that will never happen"

*GRRRR!!!!*

*and* I had to go get lunch for her (I know I was getting lunch for him anyway; I think what bugged me was that she had invited herself, was not welcome, and now we have to feed her? (but I realize that this is more to do with Kris' hospitality issues than her expectations))

Ursy, Oh my lord! As Sun said, good for you for handling it so well. I think killing them with kindness in the moment and then making sure that moment never happens again does make the point.

Not that you are looking for suggestions, lol, but I would suggest setting your boundaries, making sure you keep your's and asking your partner to respect them, and then not letting her get under your skin anymore. The more energy you put into this the more she is in your life.

-CS

[Phantom One]

Ah but then those aren't TRULY sqaure holes. Those are squarish with rounded corners. The radius of the corner being dependent upon the diameter of the routing bit. And the size of the routing bit is dependent upon both the material of the bit and the material the holes is being routed in. Even with lasers there is a bit of a radius which corresponds to the diameter of the laser beam (Ok now I know those can be VERY teensy weensy) Nope as far as I know truly square holes with square 90 deg corners can only be made by punch press, stamping or chiselling.

True that! But then...they are called "squared holes"..instead of "Square holes" *at least in the electronics industry*

[Phantom One]

I saw my baby...cryin hard as babe could cry...what could I do....My baby's love had gone..and left my baby blue..nobody knew...what kind of magik spell to use ..(birds and snails..puppy dog's tails...thunder and lightning) ...I turned to him and baby said "dance!...dance magik dance!....dance magik dance....sing....sing magik sing..sing magik sing


*sorry....a post I saw just made that song start runnin through mah head*

[FemNLeatherNLace]

~i was thinkin i love that damn movie...i own it..cover is all tattered..yep i love it..

[Phantom One]

LOL..me too...but... it'd too danged scratched to play now...so..I gotta buy another one.
My favorite characters are those lil guys who can pop off thier heads...cracks me the f*** up everytime they do it LOL

[Peach]

Willow and Tommi, this is your LAST warning to keep your break up woes PRIVATE. You are in violation of the TOS, as has been explained to you before. Do NOT do this again.

[Phantom One]

Hey good lookin...whatcha got there cookin....well you're no spring chicken..I'll make your juice start kickin

[FemNLeatherNLace]

Don'tttttt ask her on a straight tequila night..she'll start thinkin bout hym then she's ready to fight...