The Orphanage: Daddiless babygirls/girls...Daddies welcome, pounced on,snuggled, etc.

[Amethystluv]

i MISS not having , being involved in a D/g relationship. It is not my focus in life. i am confident alone or paired. i am capable alone or paired.....i am many of the good things, alone or in a D/g relationship. For me D/g is not my entire life.......there are other things in my life, as my Daddy would want me to do.......Hy has been absent for quite awhile now and i learned alot from Hym.
i miss the dynamic..... i miss the thrill of being totally submissive sexually to Hym......i miss having Someone there to help make the life decisions.....i miss being Hys grrl.
i hate always making all of the decisions about everything. i do not however, look for D/g in every relationship i have.i guess D/g was different for me........there was no age play really.......Daddy was a definite TOP and in charge in bed.....i think we all have different visions about D/g, at least i do, and i do not denegrate anyone's vision of D/g......
i was a good grrl, was not punished, was very loved and cherished, i was safe and protected enough to be myself.!1000% myself, in and out of bed.see the one and only time i had a Daddy was the one time i gave up control.
i had always been an aggressive Femme Top before that and after my experiences...........i am definitely now a bottom grrl.....i am glad i learned the art of surrender...........hugs and kisses to A/all here.............
Love,
~Amethystluv~

[todo boi]

Not havin a babygrrl makes us daddis crazy.. we go an do stupid stuff............. to passify the time we dont have that special bbygrrl....but when u do have her .. oh my I think the daddi/bbygrrl dyno is fab........ love it an cant wait to find my real babygrrl..............*someday hopin real soon*Sigh*

[Kyssme]

I could echo some of what each of the last three posters said.

Sometimes I feel empy and alone- but I am a grown woman after all and am able to plod my way through. My life is fairly satisfying, but there is an underlying sense of something being missing. I'm sure it's not much different than most people feel that haven't found their mate yet.

I have other relationships- some of them romantic, some of them sexual. They fill a need, but not completely. It's like having a TV dinner alone on your couch whan what you need is a home-cooked 5-course meal shared with someone who loves you.

But sometimes something is better than nothing at all. So I play with baby butches, girly bi-girls, vanilla dykes, women who would call me sick if I tried to explain the Daddi/girl thing.

I learned a lesson several months ago.......I met someone who seemed to be the one. (I can't believe I said that) She was a hell of a top- I wanted desperately for her to be a Daddi. She seemed to feel it and for a while things were good. I'm not sure if it was me or her or a combination that was trying to make her into something she wasn't- but in the end a person can only be what they are. During that time that we were together, I gave her an engraved lighter- "To my Daddi, song-quote-that-was-meaningful-to-us. Love, Your baby girl" She thinks she lost it- she did, but not the way she thinks. Anyway, I kept it, look at it and use it every day. At first it was a very painful reminder of broken trust. Now it serves to help me keep my head and be patient.

Yes, I want that Daddi/girl relationship again- but until it comes, I'll be fine because I have to be. I'll live my life, pay my bills, mother my children.......

For now, I have no Daddi- but I still am and always will be a Daddi's girl.

[Amethystluv]

AMEN to all of the above Kyssme. I hear you and I can soooooooo relate.I am not dating bi grrls or anyone right now , but I definitely understand. I am sorry you were hurt and disappointed.....i feel your pain, Hon......we'll hang in there until............give me a shout sometime if you want to talk.
HUGS!
~Amethystluv~

[Kyssme]

Thank you, sweetie......

[Victoriah]

I have in the past dated "others", but found too much frustration in it. I really felt it was not fair to the other person. More than once I have been in the awkward position where I was being told..."I love you"....and I could not respond. I am not an action junkie anymore. I have a small circle of "old school" butchs that are very encouraging and supportive, also an on-line uncle *wink* and I follow their advice..............so I am not really alone, just single. Besides how can anyone be alone with a crazy 8 month old jack russel chewing on your foot ?

[BrainyFemme]

That was beautiful...thank you for saying it all so wonderfully.

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass that is oh so grateful for having a marvelously loving Daddy

[BaltoButch]

yes, single is NOT fun... and yes, I miss having someone to care for, to wrap in my arms where she feels safe from the world... I miss being called Daddy from the other room when something isn't going quite right

I miss saying "I love you, babygirl"

I want to say that while looking into eyes I have seen in my dreams... (I have never met the person with these eyes but once I do, I'm a goner LMAO)

I have been dating, getting to know women online and R/T... but few understand D/g as I live it... I am not quite vanilla, not quite leather... LOL

But dating gets me through... as most of you have said

At 31, I am starting to think I might've let "the one" get away LOL

but everyday, every minute Daddy comes back stronger... and I look in the mirror and realize... I am better for it all... I am stronger now then ever before... I am open to what life throws my way... and if we ever meet, I won't let MY babygirl slip through my hands because I was all over the place....

wth age comes wisdom? then why do I feel so dumb sometimes? ROFLMAO

[SirWalterHere]

Originally posted by darcy farrow
...that all made me want to hurl; BIG time....

WOW I thought it was some of the nicest exchange I've ever seen on an email list!!! I am impressed with both TK and Brainy!!! It great to see folks kiss and make up and can still agree to disagree on points...

I was going to say and even see them act like grown ups.... but did not want to start anything ))


Walter

[Amethyst_FL]

Peeking out from behind the curtains...

Just wanted to let everyone know that I see some wonderful girls and Daddies roaming about this thread... It warms this girl's heart and gives her hope that there is One out there that won't be perfect, but Hy will be my perfect fit... *S*

Blows kisses and goes back to lurking

[BaltoButch]

*sneaks up on Ame & whispers* hey I know you *smile*

*sneaks back out of the room*

[Amethyst_FL]

Originally posted by BaltoButch
*sneaks up on Ame & whispers* hey I know you *smile*

*sneaks back out of the room*

LOL... Yes you do! *grinzzzz* *skoyc*

[BrainyFemme]

Originally posted by BaltoButch
yes, single is NOT fun... and yes, I miss having someone to care for, to wrap in my arms where she feels safe from the world... I miss being called Daddy from the other room when something isn't going quite right

I miss saying "I love you, babygirl"

I want to say that while looking into eyes I have seen in my dreams... (I have never met the person with these eyes but once I do, I'm a goner LMAO)

I have been dating, getting to know women online and R/T... but few understand D/g as I live it... I am not quite vanilla, not quite leather... LOL

But dating gets me through... as most of you have said

At 31, I am starting to think I might've let "the one" get away LOL

but everyday, every minute Daddy comes back stronger... and I look in the mirror and realize... I am better for it all... I am stronger now then ever before... I am open to what life throws my way... and if we ever meet, I won't let MY babygirl slip through my hands because I was all over the place....

wth age comes wisdom? then why do I feel so dumb sometimes? ROFLMAO

Awwwwwwww Balto...that was so damned sweet. And ya know, you just haven't met hir yet...and if you did, you'll get hir back...especially if you persevere (ask Guapo...he can attest to that!)

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass

[BaltoButch]

Originally posted by Amethyst_FL
LOL... Yes you do! *grinzzzz* *skoyc*

*blush* and she remembers... now I can sing "unforgettable" lol..


where are my manners... Hi Ame *S*

[BaltoButch]

Originally posted by BrainyFemme
Awwwwwwww Balto...that was so damned sweet. And ya know, you just haven't met hir yet...and if you did, you'll get hir back...especially if you persevere (ask Guapo...he can attest to that!)

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass

thought I had... perservering just causes drama round these here parts roflmao

but when I meet her, if I meet her... I'll know...

thank you for your kind words & support... hope Guapo doesn't mind a sweet little kiss on your cheek from me *smile*

[BrainyFemme]

Originally posted by BaltoButch
thought I had... perservering just causes drama round these here parts roflmao

but when I meet her, if I meet her... I'll know...

thank you for your kind words & support... hope Guapo doesn't mind a sweet little kiss on your cheek from me *smile*

Awwww what a sweetie...listen anyone that quotes Robert Frost can kiss my cheek anytime. And Balto? Guapo and I met online close to 7 years ago...broke up after a while and hy never forgot me.

When I became single again recently, hy made his bid and now...well...now...we're getting married! Massachusetts here we come!

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass

[BaltoButch]

CONGRATS BRAINY

ohhh I'll never forget a few of them... doesn't mean I'll be making a bid for them back tho LOL

BUT they aren't as sweet as you are *S*

thank you

Originally posted by BrainyFemme
Awwww what a sweetie...listen anyone that quotes Robert Frost can kiss my cheek anytime. And Balto? Guapo and I met online close to 7 years ago...broke up after a while and hy never forgot me.

When I became single again recently, hy made his bid and now...well...now...we're getting married! Massachusetts here we come!

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass

[BEHEMETHBUTCH]

I walked away from this thread in disgust earlier then returned to find it has evolved into something better. First I mean no disrespect and to each their own. But I have got to say that I have never heard of a butch, " bitch slapping" I thought that was something only bitches did. Hmmmm?

Play in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. I would like to remind those Daddies who seem to be a bit cocky that the way they got that play in the bedroom in the first place was through mutual consent.

I hope to be a good Daddi to a Babygrl someday and I would like to remind those Babygrls out there not to give up hope there are still some of us out there that understand the exchange of mutual respect that is given in the D/g dynamic. We want to be your protector, nurturer, and teacher. We will give guidance and appreciation to our babygrl. We will take, we will dominate, and we will respect the the submission and innoscense in you. Never needing to knock you down because we are secure in your loyalty and devotion instead, we try to help you grow. Because all Daddi's want a Daddi's girl.

BB

[BrainyFemme]

Originally posted by BEHEMETHBUTCH
I walked away from this thread in disgust earlier then returned to find it has evolved into something better. First I mean no disrespect and to each their own. But I have got to say that I have never heard of a butch, " bitch slapping" I thought that was something only bitches did. Hmmmm?

Play in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. I would like to remind those Daddies who seem to be a bit cocky that the way they got that play in the bedroom in the first place was through mutual consent.

I hope to be a good Daddi to a Babygrl someday and I would like to remind those Babygrls out there not to give up hope there are still some of us out there that understand the exchange of mutual respect that is given in the D/g dynamic. We want to be your protector, nurturer, and teacher. We will give guidance and appreciation to our babygrl. We will take, we will dominate, and we will respect the the submission and innoscense in you. Never needing to knock you down because we are secure in your loyalty and devotion instead, we try to help you grow. Because all Daddi's want a Daddi's girl.

BB

Yessssssssssssss...that's what I'm talkin' about!!!!! Good for YOU, BB...that was very well said!

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass

[BEHEMETHBUTCH]

Originally posted by BrainyFemme
Yessssssssssssss...that's what I'm talkin' about!!!!! Good for YOU, BB...that was very well said!

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass

Thanks Brainy!

[Victoriah]

Looking behind me.............. nope no one there..........just that crazy puppy.........

[BEHEMETHBUTCH]

Originally posted by Victoriah
Looking behind me.............. nope no one there..........just that crazy puppy.........

LOL!

[todo boi]

I usually post in the indiana rooms... but i feel at more ease here it like u all here have to same dilomas as I..... I like it here u are great bunch of folks.......... wish u were all juss lil closer if I didnt work so darn much maybe it wouldnt be a pain but well I do put in 60 hours or more weekly.. Juss my job.. but love it... An I do beleive in a strong willled girrl.... but part fo us bein daddi is takin care of our babygrrrl right? All we on the same page on that?? Hey Im 34 an yes Balto said it best we are wise at that age an yes lil cocky too.. but I think it is our personality of bein daddi ,am I wrong?... But any way.. it was noce seein all of ya in here .. Shakin all the bois hands an huggin up with the gals.... catch ya all lil later

[BrainyFemme]

Originally posted by todo boi
I usually post in the indiana rooms... but i feel at more ease here it like u all here have to same dilomas as I..... I like it here u are great bunch of folks.......... wish u were all juss lil closer if I didnt work so darn much maybe it wouldnt be a pain but well I do put in 60 hours or more weekly.. Juss my job.. but love it... An I do beleive in a strong willled girrl.... but part fo us bein daddi is takin care of our babygrrrl right? All we on the same page on that?? Hey Im 34 an yes Balto said it best we are wise at that age an yes lil cocky too.. but I think it is our personality of bein daddi ,am I wrong?... But any way.. it was noce seein all of ya in here .. Shakin all the bois hands an huggin up with the gals.... catch ya all lil later

TB...

Welcome!! It made me laugh to see you say that at your age you're a little bit cocky. Cocky is good thing!

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass

[BaltoButch]

yes wiser with age Todo -- but I don't think its working yet LOL



as for cocky level... I am very confident (almost 100% again) and cocky well that level can be whereever it needs to be (since I can run down to teh store and cockier or less cocky if necessary) ROFL

[BrainyFemme]

Originally posted by BaltoButch
yes wiser with age Todo -- but I don't think its working yet LOL



as for cocky level... I am very confident (almost 100% again) and cocky well that level can be whereever it needs to be (since I can run down to teh store and cockier or less cocky if necessary) ROFL

OMG

ROFLMAO!! Okay...this is too funny...Guapo was checking hys email today and was bemoaning the number of "enlarge your penis" junk mail hy gets...and hy said almost the same thing. You guys are so cute!

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass lovin da guys

[BaltoButch]

Originally posted by BrainyFemme
OMG

ROFLMAO!! Okay...this is too funny...Guapo was checking hys email today and was bemoaning the number of "enlarge your penis" junk mail hy gets...and hy said almost the same thing. You guys are so cute!

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass lovin da guys

so did you stalk Guapo too? ROFLMAO....


*running away NOW*

[BrainyFemme]

Originally posted by BaltoButch
so did you stalk Guapo too? ROFLMAO....


*running away NOW*

<chasin' Balto to bonk hym on the head with my fluffy pink slipper>

TAKE IT BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Laura <----Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass that can throw a slipper and get that boomerang action goin'

[todo boi]

I get the enlarge pill.. make u 3 inches bigger an all that crap too on my email how the heck u get them off??I get 40 of them by the time i get home at night.. that is crazy.. dont get me wrong I love taLKIn about my cock... but 40 times......... I think Im already nicely sized any way.. If hy finds a way to keep them from comin let me know ... I tried unsubscribin most dont come with one..... but gots to run wont be home til 9pm later all...

[Kyssme]

Originally posted by BEHEMETHBUTCH

I hope to be a good Daddi to a Babygrl someday and I would like to remind those Babygrls out there not to give up hope there are still some of us out there that understand the exchange of mutual respect that is given in the D/g dynamic. We want to be your protector, nurturer, and teacher. We will give guidance and appreciation to our babygrl. We will take, we will dominate, and we will respect the the submission and innoscense in you. Never needing to knock you down because we are secure in your loyalty and devotion instead, we try to help you grow. Because all Daddi's want a Daddi's girl.

BB

*sigh* Beautifully said- makes me wistful.

I have to be careful reading words like that. I cannot give in to the soft feelings that they bring up in me. If I do, I'll be lost. I want to have all those soft feelings again- but not until I have found my Daddi and know I will be safe with them. Right now, I'd just be a weak, messy, teary pile of little girl with no guidance, safe haven or strong arm to wrap around me or help me up.

So it almost hurts me to read such beautiful words- whether they be written by Daddis or girls. I miss that relationship so much!

I hope all this made sense.......

I know there are good Daddis out there- there are quite a few right here, it seems.......I hope I find mine someday.

[BrainyFemme]

Originally posted by Kyssme
*sigh* Beautifully said- makes me wistful.

I have to be careful reading words like that. I cannot give in to the soft feelings that they bring up in me. If I do, I'll be lost. I want to have all those soft feelings again- but not until I have found my Daddi and know I will be safe with them. Right now, I'd just be a weak, messy, teary pile of little girl with no guidance, safe haven or strong arm to wrap around me or help me up.

So it almost hurts me to read such beautiful words- whether they be written by Daddis or girls. I miss that relationship so much!

I hope all this made sense.......

I know there are good Daddis out there- there are quite a few right here, it seems.......I hope I find mine someday.

(((((Kyssme))))))

It makes perfect sense! I have had that feeling before...stay true to yourself honey....hy's out there!

Laura <---Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass

[BEHEMETHBUTCH]

Originally posted by Kyssme
*sigh* Beautifully said- makes me wistful.

I have to be careful reading words like that. I cannot give in to the soft feelings that they bring up in me. If I do, I'll be lost. I want to have all those soft feelings again- but not until I have found my Daddi and know I will be safe with them. Right now, I'd just be a weak, messy, teary pile of little girl with no guidance, safe haven or strong arm to wrap around me or help me up.

So it almost hurts me to read such beautiful words- whether they be written by Daddis or girls. I miss that relationship so much!

I hope all this made sense.......

I know there are good Daddis out there- there are quite a few right here, it seems.......I hope I find mine someday.

Well said, it makes perfect sense. I think many times people want something so much that they let their feelings control their actions. Often people lose themself in someone then are left with, who am I? Someone you thought you were or someone you think they want you to be. "To thy own self be true." Sometimes they try to find what they are looking for in others. Even though it's something that can only be found in ones self. By knowing that you are someone and you choose to share yourself with someone brings a deeper respect and appreciation for each other. I don't know if this makes any sense but I've been thinking a lot about this topic lately.

BB

[Kyssme]

Originally posted by BEHEMETHBUTCH
Well said, it makes perfect sense. I think many times people want something so much that they let their feelings control their actions. Often people lose themself in someone then are left with, who am I? Someone you thought you were or someone you think they want you to be. "To thy own self be true." Sometimes they try to find what they are looking for in others. Even though it's something that can only be found in ones self. By knowing that you are someone and you choose to share yourself with someone brings a deeper respect and appreciation for each other. I don't know if this makes any sense but I've been thinking a lot about this topic lately.

BB

You make a lot of sense to me.

Thanks BB and Brainy- It's nice to know that others understand.

[BaltoButch]

*chuckles and shakes head* I will NOT take it back... it as funny durn it

Originally posted by BrainyFemme
<chasin' Balto to bonk hym on the head with my fluffy pink slipper>

TAKE IT BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Laura <----Guapo's grrl and full-time smartass that can throw a slipper and get that boomerang action goin'

[todo boi]

This ol country boi.. thinks my problem is Im very much a southern boi an to put me loose in the city juss puts me in an up roar.. I juss plain cant help it... one of these days i will get me lil gal who likes the lil city life as well... is al good.. u got your buddies to hang with but... still not same as askin how the lil gal day was an if she needs something done before the shower ... takin off the boots an helpin my babygrrl in the kitchen where finally says go away .. i juss cant help to hugg up on her when Im home... but someday wil have that al again.............*sigh*

[lil cherub]

*lookin' aroun' an' smilin' at evabody bein' so nice an' findin' each other to talk with*

*sittin' down....smilin'.....noddin'*

*holdin' out a doggie biscuit for Vic's puppy*

[Amethystluv]

Tonight after talking to a Daddy, i found myself feeling those old pangs of wanting One.i guess we all have those moments when it creeps up on us and we realize, there is only so much we can do as Daddyless grrls. i agree, i can't let those soft feelings run loose...........i want to do that, however, i cannot afford the luxury of letting them out for , now.
i really do want to lose that control for just a small space in time......i want to feel protected and safe once , again in Daddy arms.....i want to know that i can go to Hym and Hy will hold me and let me cry it out or laugh or smile or just listen to the beating of Hys heart in the dark of night.....i want to be there for Hym , too....when Hy needs someone. i want, oh so much, to watch Hym walk into a room and know in my heart Hy is my Daddy......that i am home.....that Hy is, too.
i miss Daddy........this grrl is lonely right this instant.....and i must stop before i come to the place of wanting Hym too much.....i know Hy is out there waiting for me ......i'll find Hym or Hy'll come and find me and take me home to be loved and safe....TO the Daddy in my future: hear me call You......until then i await the RIGHT Daddy as just any Daddy will never do......
Love and hugz!
~Amethystluv~

[todo boi]

((((((((((((Amethystluv))))))))))))))))...........darlin was the purtiest thing i beleive i have heard anyone sa in awhile in this thread u are gonna make one heck of babygrrl for some lucky daddy one day... love seein those kinds of replies wow...........

[Kyssme]

Originally posted by Amethystluv
Tonight after talking to a Daddy, i found myself feeling those old pangs of wanting One.i guess we all have those moments when it creeps up on us and we realize, there is only so much we can do as Daddyless grrls. i agree, i can't let those soft feelings run loose...........i want to do that, however, i cannot afford the luxury of letting them out for , now.
i really do want to lose that control for just a small space in time......i want to feel protected and safe once , again in Daddy arms.....i want to know that i can go to Hym and Hy will hold me and let me cry it out or laugh or smile or just listen to the beating of Hys heart in the dark of night.....i want to be there for Hym , too....when Hy needs someone. i want, oh so much, to watch Hym walk into a room and know in my heart Hy is my Daddy......that i am home.....that Hy is, too.
i miss Daddy........this grrl is lonely right this instant.....and i must stop before i come to the place of wanting Hym too much.....i know Hy is out there waiting for me ......i'll find Hym or Hy'll come and find me and take me home to be loved and safe....TO the Daddy in my future: hear me call You......until then i await the RIGHT Daddy as just any Daddy will never do......
Love and hugz!
~Amethystluv~

Very eloquently said, sweetie- you have indeed captured it- how it gets to you sometimes........I'm feelin' you.......very much these days.

[Amethyst_FL]

*Big 'ole sigh* Brings in some to share with Amethystluv and Kyssme.

Amethystluv... You've managed to express those feelings quite beautifully. I feel you also. uh huh...