single butch/femme list

**mistyblue9802200** · 03-04-2006, 11:39 AM

Originally Posted by TheDety

Ok.

I just got done having a pleasant conversation and was asked the following question during it. Now, I wasn't sure how to answer this question without sounding too hard assed, and yet also didn't want to sound like I was whipped either.

I was asked "Are you a pushover?"

My reply after fumbling around? "I am fair."

What would be all the answers from all of you?

Helloooooooo Dety hummmmmmm? u havnt said if it was a femme or a butch or boi etc who asked u? if i was in your shoes i would have ansered it 1 of 2 ways 1st being make a joke of it say sumat daft like **depends how big the cliff is**lol n secondly i would have asked the person wot is the purpose of the question? but speakin as u i would also maybe say depends who is doing the pushing lol just try keep it lighthearted that is unless u really like this person n welllllll that is different story lol

Eaqch Time That One Has Loved ! Is The Only Time That One Has Ever Loved !

Misty

**Sailorboi1023** · 03-04-2006, 12:22 PM

Happy Saturday singles! Man, I get behind in here so fast! I just don't have time to really keep up like I'd like to BUT would like to welcome all the new folks & say "hi" to the ones I've met here so far! If anybody else in here is near Ft. Worth, TX--I'm meeting some friends out at "Best Friend's Club" at Beach & Lancaster in Ft. Worth tonight. Sooo, if you're in the area come on out & play with us 2nite!

**Galant_1** · 03-04-2006, 02:07 PM

Buenos Dias....Singles...hope every1 has an Awesome saturday....
-como estas Whispertome...

Originally Posted by Whispertome

Hola and buenas noches Carino

**TheDety** · 03-04-2006, 02:08 PM

Originally Posted by mistyblue9802200

Helloooooooo Dety hummmmmmm? u havnt said if it was a femme or a butch or boi etc who asked u? if i was in your shoes i would have ansered it 1 of 2 ways 1st being make a joke of it say sumat daft like **depends how big the cliff is**lol n secondly i would have asked the person wot is the purpose of the question? but speakin as u i would also maybe say depends who is doing the pushing lol just try keep it lighthearted that is unless u really like this person n welllllll that is different story lol

See thats just it. Femme or not...no matter the persuasion...cake is cake...a pushover is a pushover. Give YOUR answer. Not mine...I already answered it.

I just thought it a good topic of conversation...what would be YOUR answer to that question?

**Snowkisses** · 03-04-2006, 02:47 PM

Originally Posted by TheDety

See thats just it. Femme or not...no matter the persuasion...cake is cake...a pushover is a pushover. Give YOUR answer. Not mine...I already answered it.

I just thought it a good topic of conversation...what would be YOUR answer to that question?

Hmmm... Lemme think what I would answer.... *G*

**KrystleH** · 03-04-2006, 03:25 PM

Originally Posted by TheDety

Ok.

I just got done having a pleasant conversation and was asked the following question during it. Now, I wasn't sure how to answer this question without sounding too hard assed, and yet also didn't want to sound like I was whipped either.

I was asked "Are you a pushover?"

My reply after fumbling around? "I am fair."

What would be all the answers from all of you?

My answer would be "No" I'm not a pushover by any means. While I do not have any sort of laundry list fo requirements, and I do not "test" people to see if they are worthy, I also am not easily played, am nobody's fool. Also while I may not have had many love affairs and have spent far longer than most without "loving" I am not by any means desperate. I know what I want from myself, from life and from my relationships. I do keep an open mind and open heart. I trust easily, until someone proves they do not deserve my trust. I do not let me emotions rule my head, but rather keep a good balance between the two. I do this not only to protect my heart, but also to preserve my quality of life, insure the solidity of the relationships I do and to be as fair as possible to whatever potential partners I may encounter. If I am willing to shortchange myself, then what would make anyone think I wouldn't shortchange them or my relationship with them?

Remember the old adage "Nothing worthwhile is ever easy" and "You appreciate something more if you have to earn it"

**KrystleH** · 03-04-2006, 03:26 PM

BTW good evening Singles. It's been a very long dull work day but it's over now and I am going to crash for a bit. I hope everyone else had a glorious day.

**Naneegirl** · 03-04-2006, 03:26 PM

Originally Posted by TheDety

Ok.

I just got done having a pleasant conversation and was asked the following question during it. Now, I wasn't sure how to answer this question without sounding too hard assed, and yet also didn't want to sound like I was whipped either.

I was asked "Are you a pushover?"

My reply after fumbling around? "I am fair."

What would be all the answers from all of you?

I would have said ...."only for the right person".

**Galant_1** · 03-04-2006, 03:33 PM

BravoBravo....Magnifico' Sra KrystleH.....

Originally Posted by KrystleH

My answer would be "No" I'm not a pushover by any means. While I do not have any sort of laundry list fo requirements, and I do not "test" people to see if they are worthy, I also am not easily played, am nobody's fool. Also while I may not have had many love affairs and have spent far longer than most without "loving" I am not by any means desperate. I know what I want from myself, from life and from my relationships. I do keep an open mind and open heart. I trust easily, until someone proves they do not deserve my trust. I do not let me emotions rule my head, but rather keep a good balance between the two. I do this not only to protect my heart, but also to preserve my quality of life, insure the solidity of the relationships I do and to be as fair as possible to whatever potential partners I may encounter. If I am willing to shortchange myself, then what would make anyone think I wouldn't shortchange them or my relationship with them?

Remember the old adage "Nothing worthwhile is ever easy" and "You appreciate something more if you have to earn it"

**KrystleH** · 03-04-2006, 03:44 PM

Originally Posted by Galant_1

BravoBravo....Magnifico' Sra KrystleH.....

I have a feeling you are no pushover either Carino. Which is as it should be.

**mistyblue9802200** · 03-04-2006, 03:46 PM

Originally Posted by TheDety

See thats just it. Femme or not...no matter the persuasion...cake is cake...a pushover is a pushover. Give YOUR answer. Not mine...I already answered it.

I just thought it a good topic of conversation...what would be YOUR answer to that question?

Galant hellooooooooooo hope u have had a great day
< stand in a femme stance with hands on hips > now Detyyyyyy i thought it was u asking for help? lol grrrrrrrrrrrr r u sure u wanna hear wot i would say? lol wellll from experience it wouldnt b a femme, woman, stone or which ever u ID with ( tis hard work tryin to b politically correct she would never ask cause she would already know the answer ! lol now let me think if it was a butch, boi, stone, a Daddy or anuther u ID with? i would prob do a bit of fancy foot work to avade the answer as i dont belive in giving toooooo much away as it is more fun finding out **secret squirrel stuff**< just knows Detyyyyyy not gonna b happy with my answers lol > 4 u Detyyyyyy so u wont b so hard on me lol

Each Time That One Has Loved ! Is The Only Time That One Has Ever Loved !

Misty

**mistyblue9802200** · 03-04-2006, 03:53 PM

Originally Posted by KrystleH

BTW good evening Singles. It's been a very long dull work day but it's over now and I am going to crash for a bit. I hope everyone else had a glorious day.

Evening Krystallllll nanee helloooooooooo aswellllll nice post btw Krystallllll

Each Time That One Has Loved ! Is The Only Time That One Has Ever Loved !

Misty

**Goddessonmyknees23** · 03-04-2006, 04:16 PM

*scampers in and sits in a huff*

I'm exhausted and tired of dealing with drama. So, I can here for salvation. And hopefully some peace and quiet.

**Naneegirl** · 03-04-2006, 04:20 PM

Originally Posted by Goddessonmyknees23

*scampers in and sits in a huff*

I'm exhausted and tired of dealing with drama. So, I can here for salvation. And hopefully some peace and quiet.

HOw about a

or a

. Lets make our own drama

.

Hello to you Misty

.

**mistyblue9802200** · 03-04-2006, 04:27 PM

Originally Posted by Goddessonmyknees23

*scampers in and sits in a huff*

I'm exhausted and tired of dealing with drama. So, I can here for salvation. And hopefully some peace and quiet.

Evening Goddess hope u have had a good day? n i dont blame u about the drama lol as i have had to report someone to webmaster n to Mike < been cryin most of the day over it ? grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Each Time That One Has Loved ! Is That Only Time That One Has Ever Loved !

Misty

**Naneegirl** · 03-04-2006, 04:30 PM

I'm sorry you are having a hard time. I certainly didn't mean to make light of it.

**mistyblue9802200** · 03-04-2006, 04:35 PM

Originally Posted by Naneegirl

I'm sorry you are having a hard time. I certainly didn't mean to make light of it.

Awwwwwww Nanee tis not your fault hunny so no need to apologise

Each Time That One Has Loved ! Is The Only Time That One Has Ever Loved !

Misty

**Naneegirl** · 03-04-2006, 05:06 PM

Anyone have exciting plans for Saturday night? I'm in tonight with my boys. They are having some fun, loudly

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**CuteButch4You62** · 03-04-2006, 05:10 PM

Hope every 1 is having a great day..
& have a good weekend 2.
For Single Femmes
& All The
Single Butches

**reverb** · 03-04-2006, 05:22 PM

No hot dates here. Just going to the local cabaret to here a friend play music. Haven't had a hot date in a while... disappointing... not hot.

**Naneegirl** · 03-04-2006, 05:24 PM

Originally Posted by reverb

No hot dates here. Just going to the local cabaret to here a friend play music. Haven't had a hot date in a while... disappointing... not hot.

Sorry to hear that.

**KrystleH** · 03-04-2006, 05:27 PM

no dates here, hot or otherwise. Haven't had one in a while and almost never get asked to being with. Just spending the night in my bathrobe with some TV or movies. In the process of making myself some chili dogs for dinner. (I have more if any desperately hungry and brave bois want to come and git it!)

**Naneegirl** · 03-04-2006, 05:29 PM

Originally Posted by KrystleH

no dates here, hot or otherwise. Haven't had one in a while and almost never get asked to being with. Just spending the night in my bathrobe with some TV or movies. In the process of making myself some chili dogs for dinner. (I have more if any desperately hungry and brave bois want to come and git it!)

Too bad you are so far away we could go scare ourselves up some hot dates.

**KrystleH** · 03-04-2006, 05:35 PM

Originally Posted by Naneegirl

Too bad you are so far away we could go scare ourselves up some hot dates.

Well in my case "SCARE" is the key word. I scare them all away!

**Naneegirl** · 03-04-2006, 05:37 PM

Originally Posted by KrystleH

Well in my case "SCARE" is the key word. I scare them all away!

I tend to do that also. It not us you know...its the way THEIR brains work. Crazy

.

**reverb** · 03-04-2006, 05:40 PM

Krystle,

I think we are all, for the most part, safer staying at home in our bathrobes eating chili dogs. It's pretty brutal out there.

**KrystleH** · 03-04-2006, 05:41 PM

Originally Posted by Naneegirl

I tend to do that also. It not us you know...its the way THEIR brains work. Crazy

.

I only wish I could blame it on that. I know it's really me.

**KrystleH** · 03-04-2006, 05:47 PM

Originally Posted by reverb

Krystle,

I think we are all, for the most part, safer staying at home in our bathrobes eating chili dogs. It's pretty brutal out there.

Brutal? That doesn't bother me. I'm used to it. I worry about how brutal it would be for someone else to have to look at me all night across a dinner table or *gulp!* wake up next to me in the morning! Now THAT'S brutal!

**Naneegirl** · 03-04-2006, 05:48 PM

Originally Posted by KrystleH

I only wish I could blame it on that. I know it's really me.

And I wish I had a better answer. I'm not willing to change myself to accomodate. I like me the way I am.

Maybe Reverb has the answer...not sure I like it though.

**reverb** · 03-04-2006, 06:07 PM

lolololololol

**KrystleH** · 03-04-2006, 06:08 PM

Originally Posted by Naneegirl

And I wish I had a better answer. I'm not willing to change myself to accomodate. I like me the way I am.

Maybe Reverb has the answer...not sure I like it though.

I won't change myself to accomodate either. It's already cost me enough to get to where, and who, I am now. I'm not about to throw all that away and pretend to be what I am not. If that means I scare people away, that's ok. If it means being single and alone forever, then that's ok too. In fact it's kind of what I expect. What i've been expecting for the past several years.

**reverb** · 03-04-2006, 06:11 PM

I have no answers. lololololol. If I did, perhaps I would have a hot date. lolololololol

**Naneegirl** · 03-04-2006, 06:15 PM

Originally Posted by reverb

I have no answers. lololololol. If I did, perhaps I would have a hot date. lolololololol

Cute

. And likely true. When you get the answers let me know.

**graphiteta2s** · 03-04-2006, 06:20 PM

hello everyone,

I would like to apologize to trhmt. It was not my intent to ignore anyone. I am sorry you felt slighted by my posts.

Jey

**reverb** · 03-04-2006, 06:23 PM

One thing I do know, is that it is helpful to get off this website and get out for an airing ocassionally. Regardless of whether it's a hot date or not.

Ciao for now dudettes

**Goddessonmyknees23** · 03-04-2006, 06:53 PM

Originally Posted by mistyblue9802200

Evening Goddess hope u have had a good day? n i dont blame u about the drama lol as i have had to report someone to webmaster n to Mike < been cryin most of the day over it ? grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Each Time That One Has Loved ! Is That Only Time That One Has Ever Loved !

Misty

IF the ex would just stand by her word.

And just go away. Life would be so much easier. But she keeps popping up and calling. And it throws me off everytime.

And causes all this drama

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Sorry about your Drama love.. Looks like we all got some today.

Nanee I would love a drink hun. And I don't even Drink. But, tonightI think I would.

Sally

**graphiteta2s** · 03-04-2006, 07:04 PM

it looks like I stopped the chatter. sorry about that.

where is everyone, or should I stop now.....

where is Dety when you need hym...

**Naneegirl** · 03-04-2006, 07:21 PM

Originally Posted by graphiteta2s

it looks like I stopped the chatter. sorry about that.

where is everyone, or should I stop now.....

where is Dety when you need hym...

I don't think you stopped it. I think everyone is out having fun

. Or sleeping.

**graphiteta2s** · 03-04-2006, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by Naneegirl

I don't think you stopped it. I think everyone is out having fun

. Or sleeping.

ok I accept that.... accept that..accept th...accept...t...accep....

is there an echo in here

**mistyblue9802200** · 03-04-2006, 07:34 PM

Originally Posted by reverb

I have no answers. lololololol. If I did, perhaps I would have a hot date. lolololololol

Hummmmmmmm u have no answers? that i find very hard to belive lol
HellooooooooooooGalant, Dallas, Cutebutch,
the lovely Krystalllllll, Nanee, Goddess sorryyyyyy if i missed anyone not intentiallllll Sailor i hope u have had a Gud night
Wellllll i was in my **mistybubble** n am in a mischevious mood < rubbin hands in glee lol >soooooooo i thought u know there is a language barrier between us over here n u over there n we say stuff different to u as u do us? sooooooo < smiles > i wonder if 1 or allllllll of u lol could help me by telling me wot certain words mean please? i know about the **green balls** so that was 1 lol < n please dont laugh as me deadly serious lol

2....Tallywacker?
3....2xbutch?
4...2xfemme?
hummmmmm that is all i can think of at the moment lol but be warned there is a few >>>watch this space lol

Each Time That One Has Loved ! Is The Only Time That One Has Ever Loved !

Misty
5...
4...2xfemme?

2.
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