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    Well ain't that the truth...
    Quote Originally Posted by BecknCallButch
    It occurs to me as I go through the posts in this thread that meeting someone who is availabel all comes down to timing and getting noticed by one another. It's like being at a dance but there is a power outage and you can't see anyone. Okay, bad example but I think I made my point...it's really hard finding each other.

    The single sites do not seem to work very well and I can't see spending over $1,000 annually to purchase a membership with the 'guarenteed' matchmaker sites.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BecknCallButch


    The single sites do not seem to work very well and I can't see spending over $1,000 annually to purchase a membership with the 'guarenteed' matchmaker sites.

    LOL ya and the likes of people on these sites you can find for free on yahoo.... ya know.. the horny types..... meanwhile that $1000 could be spent on a wonderful trip you can take me on

    willow

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlistexLez
    Entycing...you are a beautiful and thoughtful lady . Thank you so much for sending out love each day. It does make my day better

    aw, no need to thank me for being nice its who I am..
    its all about the lady inside....
    and thanks BL.. that was really nice of you to say
    glad it makes the day better... it made mine better hearing it

    Misty luv... for you

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    feel better soon hun

    I hope that y'all have a magnificent rest of the day... I'm almost off to work now.. but will be wishing I could hang in here this evening, with y'all...
    not feeling much like spending the evening by myself
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    Quote Originally Posted by gentleDyke
    Here is a big ole cup of chicken soup and a glass of grapefruit juice.. , will surely cure what ails ya

    wow thanks gd.....that was sweet...it must have worked because i am starting to fell at least human.......cough....oh dear.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by BecknCallButch
    It occurs to me as I go through the posts in this thread that meeting someone who is availabel all comes down to timing and getting noticed by one another. It's like being at a dance but there is a power outage and you can't see anyone. Okay, bad example but I think I made my point...it's really hard finding each other.

    The single sites do not seem to work very well and I can't see spending over $1,000 annually to purchase a membership with the 'guarenteed' matchmaker sites.
    the whole singles sites thing really stinks...but what other choice do we really have ...take my situation......where i am there are very few of us....my work is a small family owned business...i am the only one.......so i have to explore all avenues........there s always the bar scene but who wants that...been there done that........so we continue the dance in hopes of finding someone..............by the way ....welcome.. .....pull up a chair and stay awhile you never know your lady might be right around the next bend so to speak.....

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    yeah

    I haven't been single but just a week and I am dreading when the time when I will be ready for trying the dating scene.....Talk about fear and anxiety!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    the whole singles sites thing really stinks...but what other choice do we really have ...take my situation......where i am there are very few of us....my work is a small family owned business...i am the only one.......so i have to explore all avenues........there s always the bar scene but who wants that...been there done that........so we continue the dance in hopes of finding someone..............by the way ....welcome.. .....pull up a chair and stay awhile you never know your lady might be right around the next bend so to speak.....

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    yanno...

    I do hope you are feeling better. I know I hate being sick, especially if there isn't anyone to take care of me. The sick puppy I am , I love taking care of a femme when she is feeling sick....Need some more soup?

    Jo

    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    wow thanks gd.....that was sweet...it must have worked because i am starting to fell at least human.......cough....oh dear.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1_SingleButch
    I do hope you are feeling better. I know I hate being sick, especially if there isn't anyone to take care of me. The sick puppy I am , I love taking care of a femme when she is feeling sick....Need some more soup?

    Jo
    come to canada..ill play sick for you..

    willow

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    How wonderful!

    And if I wasn't so terrified of flying I might do that, even in my fragile state of mind! Thank you for the smiles!

    Jo


    Quote Originally Posted by sensualwillow
    come to canada..ill play sick for you..

    willow

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1_SingleButch
    And if I wasn't so terrified of flying I might do that, even in my fragile state of mind! Thank you for the smiles!

    Jo
    there are trains...and even greyhound

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    ~Just thought I would drop in and say Good Evening Everyone.....glad we are past the half way point in the week. Still waiting for the rain here miss the smell of the rain never mind the feeling of dancing barefoot in it , silly i know but its the simple things. Anyways have a great night !!! *blu*

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1_SingleButch
    I do hope you are feeling better. I know I hate being sick, especially if there isn't anyone to take care of me. The sick puppy I am , I love taking care of a femme when she is feeling sick....Need some more soup?

    Jo
    one can never have to much taking care of ....(takes soup from single and snuggles down to watch american idol..).........anyone else have predictions if you are watching it....ty single...

    how come it is no one has pics....geez

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1_SingleButch
    I haven't been single but just a week and I am dreading when the time when I will be ready for trying the dating scene.....Talk about fear and anxiety!

    1_SB
    it'll be ok. ...sorry to hear your singel again........me too....as of july of last year...tried the dating thing .....found out wasn't ready .....taking more time this time.....

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    Lol!!!!

    Yeah, at this point, I better leave the driving to someone else....I am enjoying some adult beverages all by myself....No driving for me tonight!

    jo

    Quote Originally Posted by sensualwillow
    there are trains...and even greyhound

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    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    one can never have to much taking care of ....(takes soup from single and snuggles down to watch american idol..).........anyone else have predictions if you are watching it....ty single...

    how come it is no one has pics....geez
    wow, maybe I need to rotate pics in my gallery
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    ummmmm...

    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    how come it is no one has pics....geez
    Cuz I don't have any of me all by myself. I'd have to edit and crop 'em.......I got time now, I just might get around to it tonight.

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    yep

    take plenty of time for yourself....you'll know when you are ready. Don't go rushing yourself and don't settle for less than you deserve.

    jo

    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    it'll be ok. ...sorry to hear your singel again........me too....as of july of last year...tried the dating thing .....found out wasn't ready .....taking more time this time.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by gentleDyke
    wow, maybe I need to rotate pics in my gallery
    i've seen yours you handsome devil.... .......just it nice to a face to a name....... .

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    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    i've seen yours you handsome devil.... .......just it nice to a face to a name....... .
    aww shucks
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1_SingleButch
    take plenty of time for yourself....you'll know when you are ready. Don't go rushing yourself and don't settle for less than you deserve.

    jo
    funny thats what i learned.....lol....and go do the pic thing....its always fun to see faces with names....

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    Quote Originally Posted by gentleDyke
    aww shucks
    so how are you tonight......hey are those fires anywhere near you.....geez

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    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    so how are you tonight......hey are those fires anywhere near you.....geez
    we had some about 20 minutes from here...most are across the state tho.
    I am fine, how are you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by gentleDyke
    we had some about 20 minutes from here...most are across the state tho.
    I am fine, how are you?
    pumping in the anti biotics...feeling a little better every minute thanks for asking it must have been you and singles soup.....such sweet peeps to take care of me.......
    now i could just get a back rub and a hot bubble bath i'd be great......

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    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    pumping in the anti biotics...feeling a little better every minute thanks for asking it must have been you and singles soup.....such sweet peeps to take care of me.......
    now i could just get a back rub and a hot bubble bath i'd be great......
    well, not certain I can handle either of those virtually....but were I there, I would be happy to oblige
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    Quote Originally Posted by gentleDyke
    well, not certain I can handle either of those virtually....but were I there, I would be happy to oblige
    i guess it depends on ones imagination...and a portable phone....lol....

    but ia m sure you would .......were you here.......

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    Ok

    I just had to compete for femme adoration. I got a cropped picture of me in my gallery!

    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    i've seen yours you handsome devil.... .......just it nice to a face to a name....... .
    Last edited by 1_SingleButch; 05-10-2006 at 07:55 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1_SingleButch
    I just had to complete for femme adoration. I got a cropped picture of me in my gallery!
    oh goodie.........

    (skipping off to have alook see.....lol)

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    Quote Originally Posted by sensualwillow

    LOL ya and the likes of people on these sites you can find for free on yahoo.... ya know.. the horny types..... meanwhile that $1000 could be spent on a wonderful trip you can take me on

    willow
    LOL! That's true and would probably have a much better time too especially since I haven't been on a REAL trip/vacation in a long time!!

    I asked the $1000 site what motivated them to match couples together when their fee did not decrease over time. She told me I was not thinking in the "right spirit."

    Things that make you go hmmmm!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    oh goodie.........

    (skipping off to have alook see.....lol)

    good pic........ it will definetely make the girls happy........lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by BecknCallButch
    LOL! That's true and would probably have a much better time too especially since I haven't been on a REAL trip/vacation in a long time!!

    I asked the $1000 site what motivated them to match couples together when their fee did not decrease over time. She told me I was not thinking in the "right spirit."

    Things that make you go hmmmm!
    Well if you were lining my pockets with $1000 bills, I am sure that woudl be the right spirit
    j.k. Theses sites prey on the incredibly lonely with money to lose.

    I eschew gambling but tink the odds are better at the slots for certain.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    the whole singles sites thing really stinks...but what other choice do we really have ...take my situation......where i am there are very few of us....my work is a small family owned business...i am the only one.......so i have to explore all avenues........there s always the bar scene but who wants that...been there done that........so we continue the dance in hopes of finding someone..............by the way ....welcome.. .....pull up a chair and stay awhile you never know your lady might be right around the next bend so to speak.....
    Thank you for the welcome Sabra but I have posted in here before. I think I got lost in the dark and ended up somewhere other than on the dance floor or something. I don't know because it is too dark to tell where I am! But I hear the music and the voices!

    I hear you about not having too many choices or opportunities to meet each other. Even in a big city like Seattle it is hard to meet people.
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    Awwww

    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    good pic........ it will definetely make the girls happy........lol
    <Blushing> Thank you

    jo

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    Quote Originally Posted by gentleDyke
    Well if you were lining my pockets with $1000 bills, I am sure that woudl be the right spirit
    j.k. Theses sites prey on the incredibly lonely with money to lose.

    I eschew gambling but tink the odds are better at the slots for certain.
    but the slots can't keep you warm at night...but maybe if you win a million.......hhhmmmmmmmm?

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    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    but the slots can't keep you warm at night...but maybe if you win a million.......hhhmmmmmmmm?
    that is true, money cannot keep you warm...
    Going to bed all...later
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    Quote Originally Posted by BecknCallButch
    Thank you for the welcome Sabra but I have posted in here before. I think I got lost in the dark and ended up somewhere other than on the dance floor or something. I don't know because it is too dark to tell where I am! But I hear the music and the voices!

    I hear you about not having too many choices or opportunities to meet each other. Even in a big city like Seattle it is hard to meet people.
    i thought there was a huge lesbian community out that way.......

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    Dude!

    Quote Originally Posted by gentleDyke
    that is true, money cannot keep you warm...
    Going to bed all...later
    Good night....pleasant dreams of the femme of your life!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BecknCallButch
    [COLOR="Black"

    Things that make you go hmmmm![/COLOR]

    psssssssst.. i can make you go...

    MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

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    Quote Originally Posted by gentleDyke
    that is true, money cannot keep you warm...
    Going to bed all...later
    good nite sweet gentle...........

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    well all i am off to bed......sweet dreams to one and all.........

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    Good night

    Quote Originally Posted by sabra399
    well all i am off to bed......sweet dreams to one and all.........

    Have lovely dreams and a good sleep

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