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Today is another first for me. Today, I turn 51. Alone. I am a twin less twin. It hurts as baddly as his death did.

Arnie and I always hated some of the questions *singleton's* asked us. So we skated over alot of it by saying we were the same age and leaving it at that. We were not identical. In fact we were night and day. Bad enough our parents labeled us the *good twin* and the *bad twin*. He handeled our twin issues better than I did. things like; being seperated for the first ...

Triathlon season, it's over.

Certainly there is something pointed if not warped with the way we label and categorize ourselves according to how we are compensated for our labors. Real or imagined. Our occupation classifies and stratifies our "place" in this world; it's the first thing people will ask you about at a party, a gathering. But NOT here!! No one asks.

"So, what do you do ?" As if our chosen career track will offer a polaroid of family, education, political ...

To Dispel yet another myth that women are credit card shopaholics, with a focus on their significant other's bank account balance and yearly income, is farly removed from the truth and struck me as another stigma faced by women cigar smokers, and women in general.

The women cigar smoker, in which I identify with and for which in the large part, form a high percentage of the consumer sector, are intelligent, career focused and professional women. Their Identity is truely theirs. Personally, ...