Talking not so cheap... [Archive]

jelli

10-14-2002, 08:08 AM

Do you have trouble talking during sex? Do you have hang ups about sounding like a porn star? Do you prefer to sound like a porn star...? Is this something you have discussed with your partner prior to venturing into a sexual relatinship? Do you know what the other wishes to hear or vice versa? Are there limits and if so have you respected those?

Tobatia

10-14-2002, 08:59 AM

nice topic jelli... but why don't you tell a bit? ;)

I think during sex is the only time in my life that I am acutally sorta quiet and can stop talking for more than 2 min in a row! LOL Partly becaus I just enjoy feeling, all my brain is on sensual mode and no capacity for the processing of speech left. But I think partly its also because I just don't want to sound like a porn star (as if sweet innocent me would know how porn starts sound!).

Next one please :D
Tobatia

jelli

10-14-2002, 09:18 AM

I try and behave...I just ask ?'s...(innocent look)...try and absorb info for later refference points...and then *U* provoke me to dive in and get some dirt on my hands...ok* what was the ? again...*g*

~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~

BTW...another ? I thought of...

Kind of what MizTobatia was saying...

"no capacity for the processing of speech"

I mean...I have a *friend* ;) who sometimes has *ALOT* of trouble to get words past her luscious lips...but sure as heck better believe her brain is procesing left and right...I mean inside my pretty lil blonde brain is not just the words for porn...but the video as well...LMAO

FierceLeoFemme

10-14-2002, 12:27 PM

I say the DARNDEST things during sex...especially during hard-drivin' anal sex...but it's usually not scripted....and the most common word used is...."Daddddyyyy"....was that what you wanted to know? I completely verbally objectify my ownself and then after I return to the planet, look somewhat sheepish....either that, or I go completely silent and my eyes completely blank and I drool a little...

Either the description of a woman in the throes of passion or a regular on the short bus!

I can also get pretty heavily into some serious ageplay during foreplay and do a lot of role-centered talking--I completely go into headspace and say things seem to be channelled through me rather than by me.

Taking another sip of my margarita and ducking my head now...reckon the boys were eavesdropping?

Fierce

Mugsy

10-14-2002, 12:33 PM

yep ;)

Annie

10-15-2002, 01:48 AM

I'm a talker... can't shut me up actually...

I have a double life ... on one hand I am a respectable professional woman who would never dream of uttering a slang word in a public place... but at home I transform into a pottie-mouthed whore, instructing, demanding and insisting on being heard...

Go figure. I love my life. I figure the dichotomy is kinda sexy.

Looking forward to hearing what others have to say.

frol

10-15-2002, 02:48 AM

I am very vocal during sex. You can't always really consider it talking (6). As part of foreplay, I like telling my girl what I want to do to her and how I want to make her feel. It makes me crazy and teases me as much as it's meant to tease her.

I really like it when my partners talk during sex. Of course, I love hearing my own name and to know I have her *full* attention.

(S) Frol

jelli

10-15-2002, 03:37 AM

you are my role model annie.....*S*

Ravengyrl

10-15-2002, 05:41 AM

:$ I am extemely quiet during sex......

I'm just so into the moment and concentrating and enjoying.....

I never discuss it beforehand but have found myself explaining that I really *did* enjoy myself (You'd think my eyes rolling back in my head would have been sufficient! LOL) even though I don't scream and yell.......I do grunt and groan and moan nicely.........:o

Sometimes I think I am so used to apartment dwelling from my youth that I always toned it down a bit for fear of scaring the neighbors.......Now, it's become a habit of being quiet......

Needlegirl

10-15-2002, 07:42 AM

it depends on how close i am with my partner (trust issues!) and what kind of sex we're having.

if it's the hot, lusty, post-club seduction kinda f*ck, then i'll be a bitchy porn star and tell you where i want it and how hard.

if it's sweet and nice i'll just.. well.. be sweet and nice about it. ^.^ lots of "pretty pleases" and non-word type noises.

if we're experimenting with a new toy or new position, etc, i'll usually guide the action with voice or hands. ^.^ i'm definately not shy about getting it how i want. why be quiet when it's your pleasure at stake? :D

unfortunately (or well.. i guess this is all relative) i get dead silent around 30-40 seconds before i orgasm, which often leads my lover to think that they're doing something wrong because i'm not making any noise and so they stop what they're doing. ag! i just have to concentrate on actually getting to the orgasm because it's kind of difficult for me. *laughs* so i always have to warn someone before we start to NOT STOP when i go quiet. :$

<3needle. a little to the left, please. :[

Kai

10-15-2002, 07:54 AM

At times I am very vocal and others I could not mutter a word if my life depended on it.. :$ :$

But Daddyyy does seem to be the word most used. :$ :$ :$

BagelsnCreamCheese

10-15-2002, 08:37 AM

My 24 on the table,

1) Listening to my son one day while sitting on the couch watching a movie, grrl on screen moaning ah ahh aHHHHHH YESSSSSS!!!
Son pipes up and says"that isn't how it sounds !" Laughing. I turn ......... questioningly look... " Son what doesn't sound like that?" He replies " You sound totally different when your on the phone!" :$ I diedddddd ..
2) Neighbor comes over with a shit eating grin on his face. Asks me if I can get his lawnmower started..... I say sure, follow him to his house, fix the mower then he looks at me. He has been grinning the whole effin time. He says " I see someone had fun last night." I looked at him "What do you mean?" He says to me....... I was up last nite watching tv and it was so damn hot I had to open the living room window...... I immediately put 2 and 2 together, my bedroom window is directly in line with his living room window BUT his window is like 50 feet away!!!!! ( The ex g/f was a screamer, I guess I never knew how loud the sound carrries)

3) Almost had to go to the emergency room one night. Was right in the middle of it all , got interrupted by the sound of my son on the stairs outside the door.... Decided to hold it in when I came........... ****** Warning silence is deadly******
My old broken hip decided to pop when I held the damn noise in I redirected it to my muscles and hips!!!!!!!! talk about pain!!!!!
Now? well since he already knows what the hell I sound like ................ Let it loose baby !!!!!!!!!!

(6) (6) (6) Brazen

jelli

10-15-2002, 08:56 AM

omg...too phunny about the phone....*S*

OK* I can admit that drinking a lil bit tends to let my freaky side out...ok that is understatement...

*THE JELLI BEAST CAN NOT BE CONTAINED!*

CLEAR OFF THE BAR CAUSE...OK THAT IS EXAGGERATION....lmao

Kai

10-15-2002, 09:14 AM

LMAO @ Brazzen & Jelli...

BagelsnCreamCheese

10-15-2002, 09:32 AM

Pouring Shots !!!

I myself quit drinking recently, just because of the calorie content and my need to put more energy into working out ... However..... once in a while I crave gin and diet 7 up, or vodka with the same. I can swill like a fish........
Now all I know for sure way up here in Canada is that:
- Jello shooters can be extremely dangerous.
- You can go blind on Sambucca.
- Shooters!! Give a grrl orgasms and blowjobs and you might actually receive some back.
AND

OMG Jelli on a bar!!!!!!!!! pstttttt guys get in here ya gotta see this !!!!!
<<< pulling out tooney and hoping not to get slapped ehehe

(f) (f) (f)???? :$ (6) (6) Brazen

jelli

10-16-2002, 08:00 AM

I was stating a fact...I was anouncing an upcoming event here! Sheesh! Some people...

however those jello shooters....YUMMY*

~*~jelli~*~

(mumbling to herself... )

BagelsnCreamCheese

10-16-2002, 08:33 AM

Humbly hands Jelli flowers........ (f) (f) (f) and (c) ? shucklin back into corner with promises to * try * to behave .......

(6) (6) (6) Brazen

Kai

10-16-2002, 08:42 AM

OMG y'all are killing me.. LMAO

FierceLeoFemme

10-17-2002, 11:10 AM

Originally posted by Needlegirl
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unfortunately (or well.. i guess this is all relative) i get dead silent around 30-40 seconds before i orgasm, which often leads my lover to think that they're doing something wrong because i'm not making any noise and so they stop what they're doing. ag! i just have to concentrate on actually getting to the orgasm because it's kind of difficult for me. *laughs* so i always have to warn someone before we start to NOT STOP when i go quiet. :$

/B]

I TOTALLY get this--I do the same thing, especially if I'm going for a clitoral orgasm (I come so many times in so many different ways during sex, but I'm talking about the BIG POP here)--my eyes go blank and I go dead silent and still about 30 seconds before--my butch has learned to read my body because she gets the signal about a half-second before I suddenly begin to SING/shriek at a VERY high, piercing octave--used to scare her to DEATH! She throws her head back and laughs throatily and just keeps doing what she's doing. We are FINALLY moving into a house after 1.5 years of apartment living--but you know what? I decided that they can just go ahead and put a note on our door! 30 seconds of shrieking every few days is nothing next to constant stomping feet, slamming doors, and loud stereos and TVs from our neighbors.

Walked out on to the balcony one day after a 3-hour session and my downstairs neighbor was walking in from her car--gave me THAT grin and said, "What are YOU doing?" We apparently have a rep in our building...

Cydkitty

10-17-2002, 02:40 PM

Yes ai get quite loud but I don't know how long I actually stay coherent. My Hound dog will howl when I orgasm and I swear he can hear me turn on the vibrator from across the house and comes running so he gets to howl. Geeze. Oh BTW......my cats are voyeurs too

Kai

10-17-2002, 03:35 PM

*spit* Thanks Cyd, now my water is all over the desk..... ROFLMAO

Oh my thanks I needed a good laugh..

BagelsnCreamCheese

10-17-2002, 04:59 PM

Yours too huh Cyd?

My one cat will meow like hes never been laid (and hes fixed) if he isn't allowed to not only be in the room when he hears noises from sex but has to be on the bloody bed !! AND the other cat who I didn't get too long ago seems to have a thing for * latex and jelly* I can't get him to stay away from my crotch when I'm packing!! I wonder if that cat away spray works on pants? LOL

(6) (6) Brazen

jelli

10-18-2002, 05:55 PM

forgot to say TY for the flower...

what is it with you people and your animals...lol

~*~jelli~*~

(handing out ear plugs & bolting door)

Untamd_femm4no1

10-18-2002, 07:39 PM

I'm a scremer,moaner,talker,...and whatever else you wanna call it...

I used to live in Long Island on a marina in a boat with my partner.... Well lets jsut say after my first week there.When hy wentto takeou ttrash the guys just looked at hym with a shit eating grin. And just simply says...."Daddy huh???"

It was so funny...

(k) Untamd(k)

Cathie

11-13-2002, 10:57 AM

I'm not quiet, not at all. But there aren't many coherent sentences either... ;)

I'd like to be more coherently vocal, but it's hard for several reasons.
I'm still kinda shy in some ways, and unused to talk in detail about sex. (Totally sucks) It's getting better, but takes a lot of blushing.
My brain capacity is otherwise occupied.
Even if I do speak, it might not all be English (see previous point), as it's not my first language.

Ms_Vixen

11-13-2002, 10:58 PM

Cathie,
Even if I do speak, it might not all be English I know exactly where you are coming from (pun intended??) I have been known to swear and say the filthiest things in another language.:$

For the longest time I thought I was only loud in a kind of non specific way, but have since been disabused of that notion!! A reliable source ((l) Daddy) tells me that I say the most graphic and full-on hardcore porn stuff..... *blush* and all this from someone who doesn't do graphic descriptions of anything sexual!

...whoops...

The funniest thing was I was like "...well, no I don't..." then I foraged back there into my deepest darkest subconscious and... suffice to say, more blushing. Now after I recover I'm like.... "what did I say this time??"

FemmeGRRL

11-25-2002, 07:46 PM

Go Annie! I live the same dichotomy...there's something very sexy about Jeckyl and Hyde isn't there?

No trouble talking at all, here! I have a motto: Lady on the streets, whore in the sheets!

I never would be a porn star, even if I would make a good one (and that's not to say I fake it or can be lesbian enough for a buck or two) so this is the closest I'm going to get!

I've never discussed it with anyone...I just decided to take a risk in bed one day, and it worked to my benefit...dirty talk can very encouraging to hear...

It's all about role play and it's not for everyone, nor is it for me all the time. Sometimes it's nice to be a lady in bed, too!

In terms of limits, everyone has them...porn star sex isn't for everyone, and in that case I'd respect that.

For those of you afraid to try, loosen up! In my opinion, you're missing out.

chapsboi

11-28-2002, 06:31 PM

I like to talk dirty during sex, though after a few hours of strenous fucking while being top. holding her against the wall, holding her legs up, turning your forearm into a hydraulic, or clutching the headboard for dear life, the sentences get a bit more spaced....

as for potty-mouthing the one you're lovin', it helps to know if she likes that sort of thing first!

chaps
--who needs a gym when there's femmes?

jelli

12-03-2002, 12:47 PM

~*~ still taking notes here...lmao ~*~

fireheart42

12-04-2002, 05:15 PM

Jelli u seem to start some good ones. This thread had me busting up! My femme liked it one day when I was talkin' trash, seemed to accelerate the process. Now it's hard not to..she really loves it.
I agree with chaps about the gym.(m)

salilus

12-06-2002, 07:39 AM

I'm more of a 'talker' during forplay - during sex, however, I'm usually limited to just being able to get a few words out; 'please' and 'Daddy' being the staple of these words - oh, and an occasional 'warning' (see thread on ejaculation:$ ~LOL) I am definatly loud however ~cough~ - the nice lady who was staying with my neighbor downstairs one weekend can attest to that...:$

~Sali

Mugsy

12-06-2002, 08:08 AM

damn salilus....we shoulda got together for tea & "conversation" when we were almost neighbors

salilus

12-06-2002, 09:40 AM

Damn Mugsy - blatant, arn't we? ~LOL~

...tea and 'conversation', hmm?
~pondering quietly~

I have a really good come back for that...Really, I do...
...just trying to to decide if I'm too much of a lady to come out with it or not...(a)

~picking up my long skirt and sauntering off to the pouch to drink some sweet tea, fan myself, and ponder~
~trying to keep a straight face here~

Mugsy

12-06-2002, 09:48 AM

well I kinda had to get blatant...been trying the subtle approach and wasn't getting anywhere, LOL

Alisha_Love

12-06-2002, 09:55 AM

Good Question!!!! :)

I can be MANY things when in the bed with my lover and in the middle of some really good thangs goin on..

On top Im real sultry and erotic and oh so descriptive and I make sure to talk right in my lover's ear while licking it here and there, sucking her lobes...Alot of "mmmm" and throaty whispers (as my voice has already been likened to a phone sex operator, its not too far of a stretch)

On the bottom I can be either really all about "Yes, yes...ooh...whos P*ssy is it then ACT like its yours...."LOLOL (OMG, I cant believe Im saying this here) or I can be very "baby girl" begging, pleading "Please..OMG, do me, hurt me, fugg me, aiy!!" LOL

Plus Im bi-lingual (lol) so it could be a WHOLE lot of crazy shit talking half English half Spanish.

Im all about dirty talkin!!
;)
Alisha

fireheart42

12-06-2002, 10:20 AM

Alisha, bi-lingual sexy talk!Thats been awhile since I've heard some of that....... Gotta add that to the "inside-my-head" tape collection (p) heh........

annastaciapa

12-20-2002, 12:47 PM

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Annie
[B]I'm a talker... can't shut me up actually...

I have a double life ... on one hand I am a respectable professional woman who would never dream of uttering a slang word in a public place... but at home I transform into a pottie-mouthed whore, instructing, demanding and insisting on being heard...

Comming in a little late here, but I just had to agree with Annie. Oh the things that will come out of my mouth. There is one thing that I do, and I haven't heard it mentioned yet.

I giggle. Oh god I giggle. I've offended some people by this. They think I am laughing at them. But I swear I'm not. I just can't help myself..I'm having such a good time.

I try to explain that I laugh and giggle when I'm having a good time at other times, so why not during love making.

salilus

12-20-2002, 12:51 PM

I try to explain that I laugh and giggle when I'm having a good time at other times, so why not during love making.
Anna - I've laughed and cried before when I was cumming -sometimes at the same time ~LOL

~Sali

TmanSpenc

01-06-2003, 08:12 PM

I have been reading this whole thread with a stiffy. I LOVE hearing how much my femme is enjoying herself. I want her LOUD!!

And I also get very quiet right before, in fact, I hold my breath... makes me all dizzy and light headed. I don't do it on purpose, in fact I never knew that I did it until it was pointed out to me by an ex.

Keep up the "talking" here ladies, I know the bois are enjoying this thread!

Tman

morning_dew

01-06-2003, 09:26 PM

I live at home.

During the two and a half years that I lived on my own, I overcame my shyness about loudness, somewhat.

Then I moved back in with my folks.

This means that I have to masturbate verrrry quietly unless nobody's home. So I don't get to practice verbally letting go on my own. When I'm with a partner in a place that's safe to be loud, I need to be encouraged and reminded of where I am.

I'm also just naturally a quiet person in general, and I sometimes feel like making noise in bed would be out of character. (?) Again, encourage me to, ahem, express myself, and I will.

:$

butterflymama

01-12-2003, 07:29 PM

I LOVE to hear and be heard. (y)

Annie

01-13-2003, 05:34 AM

Kris and I stayed with Jackie in Dunedin (NZ) over New Years, and had a wonderful time. She has a small house, and suffice to say, we were relieved when it came time for her to return to work and we gained a couple of hours to spend alone ...;)

Well, I think you can imagine that we were happy to be as free as we felt... We naturally used the private time well... However... some time through the proceedings, we heard (to our horror) a voice calling from outside ... "Are you alright in there?". *the voice was kind of worried and enquiring... LOL.

What can you do?? I called "Yes Thanks" and we erupted into laughter...

I knew the exact moment when jackie came home because of the roars of laughter from outside. jackie has a raucous and unmistakable laugh clearly distinguishable from a great distance...The neighbour had intercepted her...

Now I am grateful for the discretion of my neighbours... and I have to say, that lately I am checking that the windows are closed...

NRGFlame44

01-13-2003, 04:33 PM

For me, talking in bed was all about being 100% comfortable with my partner as to not care about what she would think when I was saying things. At first I was really quite. Then one night I just broke out of my shell and now I can talk a blue streak. Who knew.....(6)

I also love to hear my grrl talk....that is a huge sexual turn on!

glamazon9

01-14-2003, 04:11 PM

Gee, where to start? Does it have to be words? My butch's pet name for me is Kitten because I start making little kitten noises even before my bra comes off (which I did not realize until she pointed it out to me). It only gets louder from there, and I live in student apartments (family housing) at my college and anyone who has seen student housing knows that you don't have to get out of bed to talk to your neighbor (very thin walls). So everybody needs a cigarette when I'm done! LOL The dirty talk depends on the mood. I am kinda shy when it comes to specific directions but I am a champion howler honest and true! I pray a lot in bed "Oh God, Oh God, Ohhhhhhh God", I am a very positive person "Yes, Yes, YEEESSSSSSS!" and my butch has the ability to fuck me stupid <laying silent and motionless on bed, pupils fixed and dilated, mouth open with small amounts of drool glistening at corner of mouth> However I can be very vocal and demanding if teased, as in "Fuck me NOW!" or I will just grab the body part of choice and put it where I want it. As for imitating a porn star, why else would I have bought a digital video camera? I think that is enough for now I am blushing hard!:$ :$ :$

sunshinegirl

01-14-2003, 08:02 PM

Most people don't know me I'm kinda new, so HI....

WELL.... my Butch loves for me to talk in bed! When I'm helping him get off I can talk dirty as a sailor but the minute he's fucking me I get shy. **Ducking Head** All I can manage is the "You're a God,"'s and the generic "Fuck me Daddies" ... (6) But when asked what I want I just blush and get coy.

I'm such an innocent! LOL

(l) (l) (l) (l) (l) (l) (l) (l) (l)

burgandy

03-17-2003, 02:38 AM

I'm really quiet during sex. In my head I'm kinda narrating but I don't need to tell YS that...*looking around, phew, he's not here* I actually have to remember to moan... It just doesn't come all that naturally. Once I start, I can't shut up but I have to remember to start. No words though. I think I'd feel like an idiot. I have discovered just how much I love listening though.... words spoken right up against my right ear.......oooh baby....when am I goin back to the States again? ack! 2 months and 1 week more.....I can't wait!

:$ by now i think we all know that I pretty much live underneath my pillow :s

burgandy

03-17-2003, 02:53 AM

Originally posted by annastaciapa
[QUOTE]I giggle. Oh god I giggle. I've offended some people by this. They think I am laughing at them. But I swear I'm not. I just can't help myself..I'm having such a good time.

I try to explain that I laugh and giggle when I'm having a good time at other times, so why not during love making.

I do that too. I giggle a lot when i'm uh...gonna...umm...when i...umm.....*putting on straight face* when I have an orgasm. :$

(damn, it gets stuffy underneath this pillow)

IDontWearAny

03-31-2003, 07:09 AM

LOL Yeah I'm one hell of a talker if my mouth hasn't dried up yet and my throat feels like there is glass in it..I do talk different if I'm on top. I say things like: do you like that, do you like my tight p***y, do you like the way I "f**k you, cum for me Daddy, and have even been know to say cum in me..fill my p***y. Haha..if I'm on bottom I start with the usual smack..Is that all you've got, hmm I thought you said you were going to f**k me, are you tired, then it turns a bit nastier..I want you deeper, lol hit that shit.lol, beat my p***y up, who's p***y is this? Which in turn leads to the bits of thoughts..holy shit, OMFG, you're killing me. Then I get quiet only making sounds. Finally I end it with Can I please...LOL yuck what a dirty mouth I have.
I also notice a major difference during that slow, touch my soul type of sex. Ie...I love you Daddy, I need you, I'm so happy I have you, stay close to me. See I can be sweet...LOL
Wait! I must admit some of the best sex is the type where I am not aloud to make a peep!!!

elatednoel

04-02-2003, 01:39 AM

Once sex becomes intense..usually while I'm being fisted..I really start to talk...its just comes spilling out..god knows what I say!
My girl really loves it when I talk dirty to her while I'm getting her off...and especially loves when I say "I belong to you"...and "you are mine".

LittleMissPixie

04-02-2003, 01:09 PM

I enjoy dirty talk.......hearing it and saying it. In fact the nastier the better! Nothing is better than my butch goin' at it and telling me what a great piece of *** I am. My o my, but I do love to be called a slut!

Pixie

princessakittygirl w/meow

04-10-2003, 09:12 PM

Im so enjoying this thread.(l) (l) (l)

kitty w/meow
(k) (@) (k)

p.s. Jelli darling only you .... :|

closetfrek

05-03-2003, 11:30 AM

I love to be very vocal during sex and love for my butch to do the same. .there's nothing like hym telling me how hye loves hys butch cock inside me or how I taste or feel so good. If it's dirty. .I love it!!

There was a time thought were I was real embarrased by the fact. And I felt a little silly muttering anything of that sort. .it almost made me feel like I was just another cheesy porn. But thanks to a great butch lover (thank you ripcurl wherever you are) I was able to jump that hurdle easily.

Wytch

05-08-2003, 03:27 PM

I love to surprise my butch with sexy words during sex and other times.

I have been known to whisper something dirty in her ear while we are at a resturant or when she calls me from work. She gets all flustered and I love it!

During sex I love to say things that I normally wouldn't like "fuck me hard...now...NOW!!!" which of course she obeys and gets a big grin on her wonderful face.

Oh yes...I love to surprise her.

kfemme

05-09-2003, 01:21 AM

Ok...well...I have to say that normally I don't say much during sex at all....actually when I masturbate I am completely silent...but I have found that when I have a Butch who encourages me to talk...to make noise...I can get kind of loud :$ ! One time when I was on the phone with a butch...I was sooo loud that I woke up my daughter...with both doors closed :s Talk about being embarassed...trying to explain to my 10 yr old that I wasn't being attacked and that no one else was in the house....omg...not something I want to experience again anytime soon....but I DO know that that Butch made me say things I wouldn't normally say and I loved it.....but I have found without that encouragment/demand....I can't do it. The funniest thing for me...is that I can talk about all of it...say anything (:$ well..for the most part) when I am not having sex....but not during! Guess that's why I need a Daddy soo much! During sex..I just blush and look away!

kfemme

persiphone

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