Am Packing in Public for the 1st time and it Feels Great

[neocrash]

Part of me wonders if I am a total weirdo or what but I am packing in public for the first time in my life today and it feels great. I wore a longer shirt over my t-shirt but just feeling it and knowing it's there makes me feel...good. Maybe I feel like I'm getting away with something. I always knew from the first time I tried on a strap on that I'd like to have it on all the time but I'm sort of a novice at this stuff. Am just sort of coming out to myself in alot of ways. I am embarrassed with my girlfriend about all this stuff though. Like I feel weird in the middle of sex wanting to stop and find the strap on and put in on.

I've always considered myself a tomboy and don't fall into a stone butch category at all. I have to wear skirts sometimes and it doesn't bother me at all as long as I can wear tennis shoes or boots with it. Mainly, I'm just me, I wear jeans and t-shirts and the like.

What does all this packing stuff say about me? How can I get over feeling embarrassed about wanting this?

It's only been one day and I know I wish I could at least soft back or do the one that bends all the time. Actually I'm not sure about soft packing cause I think I wasnt something a bit harder but I'd settle for that. For me though, I can't wear a strap on all the time at work or out in the world cause people would see it. Also, how do I talk to my gf about this? I don't like to have to be vulnerable but this topic makes me feel that way.

:$ crash

[Studly Dudly]

I know the feeling neocrash and for me when I wear my soldier its a total rush. It does get the juices flowing. My womans reaction when she discoverd I was packing was to jump my bones. She would sometimes leave little notes or voice mails letting me know that the soldier better be ready to march when she got home. i hope your girl has the same reaction, enjoy and goodluck.

[darlingfemme]

Just mention it like you did to us. Tell her how it makes you feel... how you feel during sex etc...

I'm excited for you! I'm glad you had a good day!

[gumby]

Congratulations!!
You are not a TOTAL ;) wierdo...enjoy!
And you don't have to say anything to her, just push up against her....
Time and settling into being comfortable with yourself will take care of your embarrassment. Chill, Bro.

gumby

[RedDevil]

Nice one Neocrash. Packing for the first time is cool...glad you enjoyed it. Just take your time to get comfortable with who you are and what you want then you can worry about everyone else. Good luck!
RedDevil (6)

[lingeriebabe]

*femme diving into the butch thread for a second *

Congrats and im glad you enjoyed it!

I hear its quite a rush..my butch often says she loves the smile on my face when i "discover" it.... :|

She used to tell me when she did it, but now she just lets me find it....it took her a few tries to get it positioned right and now she often forgets she has it on.

There are a ton of threads about this so look around for them...

they make soft packers that are stiff enough for penetration..and if you wear the right underwear it can be good to go anytime! ;)

Good luck and congrats again! and like everyone else says..just chill out....

*pickin up my purse and shoes..and leaving *

[citybluebutch]

I've just bought a soft pack online (6)

[citybluebutch]

I've just bought a soft pack online (6)

I wore it in public for the first time on Thursday.I was meeting my wife for a drink and a bite to eat.I played it really cool - i left it a good 30mins and as she was in mid conversation i took her hand and brushed it against my crutch.The look on her face as it registered while she continued her conversation was priceless.(6) ;)

[aceman131963]

congrats and chill from me also...

a little story... one night i was sitting at the bar next to a pretty hot girl. we started talking and stuff. then i told her i was packin and she said what a gun? so i put my hand on my crotch and she dragged me outta the bar and i followed her to her place. ;)

[graphiteta2s]

hi guys,

I am new to this line of dialogue, but not in my want to pack and pass. here is a question that I would like to throw out there, please understand that I am just beginning to explore this aspect of myself openly. Is there a difference to packing as to passing in public? Is it more a state of mind for the individual? I am not sure, yet, if my need/want to pack is more of an erotic aspect of myself or something more? That is I am searching my feelings about my comfort zone within this body of mine. I ultimately want to have the "top" surgery. I am uncomfortable about my own breasts and would prefer not to have them. I see them as the one aspect to tie me to "female". I would like to have anyone's ideas, experiences, comments, etc. I feel that in a way my breasts are the one thing(don't giggle) that keeps me in this "limbo" status. I am stuck inbetween, but I want to go to the more masculine presentation of myself.

I look forward to opening some sort of dialogue about my tentative steps in this very complex issue.

Jey

[gumby]

Hey Jey,
"Is there a difference to packing as to passing in public?" Some people pass, whether they are packing or not. What you want to FEEL like, in your body and self, is up to you. I think it is more of the state of mind for the individual. Some people want to be a man and pass, some don't. Some want to use the men's restroom, some don't. I know how I feel about me and I am ok going in the women's room. I have a very soft face. Occaisionally, if my sideburns are squared off and my haircut is over my ears, I am called sir. But usually, if seen from the front or if my voice is heard, I am not mistaken for a man. Hormones can change much of that, I am afriad of the health risks for me in taking hormones, others are fine.

Packing can be extremely erotic....or ordinary. Lots of guys have their beingness centered in their crotch, others don't.

My personal belief is that even if I transitioned as much as I could, I was not born a bio male and I would still be in-between, not everybody feels that way. I'm ok with in-between. I prefer the freedom to be whatever I want to be and wish the world didn't have the gender boxes and rules that it does. But that's me, everyone has to be authentic to the person they are.

You are right, this is very complex and I would really like some more discussion on this.
Thanks,
Gumby

[TechBoi]

The reasons I have for packing or passing are really different, but thats just me.

I like to pass cause it makes me sometimes feel better to be identified as male. Cause I like that others can see me in the same way i feel about myself.

Passing, for me, is more focused on the people around me, and packing is only for myself and my gf.

When I pack, i do it to feel myself complete, to match the 'me in my thoughts' with the 'me in real flesh and blood'.

[graphiteta2s]

TechBoi
I like to pass cause it makes me sometimes feel better to be identified as male. Cause I like that others can see me in the same way i feel about myself.

Passing, for me, is more focused on the people around me, and packing is only for myself and my gf.

When I pack, i do it to feel myself complete, to match the 'me in my thoughts' with the 'me in real flesh and blood'.[/QUOTE]

hi TechBoi,

I like what you wrote about passing is more focused on the people around you, and packing is only you and your gf. Great distinction.
I have yet to do either in public or private, as in no gf on this front. Of course I guess we all have to take small steps at first.
thanks and take care
Jey

[Alex69]

Hey citybluebutch, i have been looking for the perfect site to get a pack, i have never pack before well not out anyways, can u tell me what site u got yours, or anyone else whats a great site to get a soft pack(not too soft not too hard, bendable)? thanks.

[dykeinabox]

Hey citybluebutch, i have been looking for the perfect site to get a pack, i have never pack before well not out anyways, can u tell me what site u got yours, or anyone else whats a great site to get a soft pack(not too soft not too hard, bendable)? thanks.

Try babeland. http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/LU335550

I'd also recommend a number of the super-realistic cyberskin cocks. They are often much more pliable, but suitable for play.

[citybluebutch]

Try babeland. http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/LU335550

I'd also recommend a number of the super-realistic cyberskin cocks. They are often much more pliable, but suitable for play.

This is the site i used and would recommend it . Reasonably priced and a quick delivery - have fun!;)

[kisshym]

Congratulations!!
You are not a TOTAL ;) wierdo...enjoy!
And you don't have to say anything to her, just push up against her....
Time and settling into being comfortable with yourself will take care of your embarrassment. Chill, Bro.

gumby


Yeah, this femme grrl agrees with this advice...

kisshym<----nycbutch's satisfied grrl;)

[TONKA]

;) Dont you think its liberating. I love to carry around zack and the bois as my gf calls my cock.I love the feel of it almost cant keep my hands off of it LOL. Just keep packing my friend it gets better. take care. Tonka

[femmegirrl]

just peeping at the packers..*smiles*

[sam_i_am]

just peeping at the packers..*smiles*
hey close that door....buurrr it's cold out there


i got all the packing you need to be peeking at right here babygirrl......be a good girrl for Daddi now and you just might get more then the peek your looking for....

[femmegirrl]

hey close that door....buurrr it's cold out there


i got all the packing you need to be peeking at right here babygirrl......be a good girrl for Daddi now and you just might get more then the peek your looking for....
shuts door..... :$

runs and jumps in your lap..looking down and squirming........... ;)

im always a good girl (a)
full of (f) (k) (l) for you, today and tomorrow and always...........

[mistyblue9802200]

Speakin as one who's partner packs i have to say it is a massive turnon but not for everyone im just thankfull it is wot hy feels gud doing n i say AMEN;)


(f)

[aceman131963]

Packing makes me feel more like who and what I am. It also can get u some lovin. one night i was out and i was talkin to the girl and i told her i was packin and she said, what a gun? and i said no and puther hand on my crotch and then she grabs me and takes me to her house! it was awesome!

[ruffryder_0187]

yay for the guys that pack and the women that love it !!! This cock belongs to shellies2good4u ;) *looks over at her blushin* *muah*

[ALICESHOUSE]

Packing can be sexy.The feel of metal and leather,oh wait :s ..*coughs*..carry on.

[wolfsong069]

Part of me wonders if I am a total weirdo or what but I am packing in public for the first time in my life today and it feels great. I wore a longer shirt over my t-shirt but just feeling it and knowing it's there makes me feel...good. Maybe I feel like I'm getting away with something. I always knew from the first time I tried on a strap on that I'd like to have it on all the time but I'm sort of a novice at this stuff. Am just sort of coming out to myself in alot of ways. I am embarrassed with my girlfriend about all this stuff though. Like I feel weird in the middle of sex wanting to stop and find the strap on and put in on.

I've always considered myself a tomboy and don't fall into a stone butch category at all. I have to wear skirts sometimes and it doesn't bother me at all as long as I can wear tennis shoes or boots with it. Mainly, I'm just me, I wear jeans and t-shirts and the like.

What does all this packing stuff say about me? How can I get over feeling embarrassed about wanting this?

It's only been one day and I know I wish I could at least soft back or do the one that bends all the time. Actually I'm not sure about soft packing cause I think I wasnt something a bit harder but I'd settle for that. For me though, I can't wear a strap on all the time at work or out in the world cause people would see it. Also, how do I talk to my gf about this? I don't like to have to be vulnerable but this topic makes me feel that way.

:$ crash

Jeez...... I remember my first day........that was cool

[carmin]

*sigh* I've never dated or been with anyone who packs, but I fantasize about it, and always wanted to be with someone who did....hopefully, some day it will happen *sigh*...

[SilverVictorian]

Me too Me too



*sigh* I've never dated or been with anyone who packs, but I fantasize about it, and always wanted to be with someone who did....hopefully, some day it will happen *sigh*...

[OdddGyrl]

I've packed a few times, but oddly (LOL) not with a strap on
I prefer a condom filled with gel
it warms up when worn right to the body and it's great
if you wrap another condom over it, it lasts quite awhile
it's flexible and moves with you
I prefer to wear mine pointing slightly upwards



(S)

[ForeverFemme]

*sigh* I've never dated or been with anyone who packs, but I fantasize about it, and always wanted to be with someone who did....hopefully, some day it will happen *sigh*...


I have never been with someone who packs alot, But I would love to be! Something about that, really turns me on..

My ex,last gf, packed a couple of times, but then didnt anymore..She really liked it, i think she was just shy about it and didnt want to worry about anyone seein it, (family members)

I didnt encourage her bc i felt strange for wanting her to, felt like i was being strange or something by how much i liked it..:s And didnt want her thinkin i was being strange or something... We were both new to it so i didnt know how to react to it..Just knew i liked it..

But, It's a major turn on when they pack thats for sure.... :P

[Bo Dacious]

I've packed a few times, but oddly (LOL) not with a strap on
I prefer a condom filled with gel
it warms up when worn right to the body and it's great
if you wrap another condom over it, it lasts quite awhile
it's flexible and moves with you
I prefer to wear mine pointing slightly upwards

(S)



Interesting....

Why type of gel do you use and how do you seal the condom up ?

[carmin]

LOL, OG, you are mocking us aren't cha?

But you know what? You may just have hit upon something there - I see an entreprenurial venture in the making...if you could perfect this idea, you'll make a million - no, really, I'm serious. Any engineers out there? ;)

I've packed a few times, but oddly (LOL) not with a strap on
I prefer a condom filled with gel
it warms up when worn right to the body and it's great
if you wrap another condom over it, it lasts quite awhile
it's flexible and moves with you
I prefer to wear mine pointing slightly upwards



(S)

[carmin]

Yes indeedy, it is a rush isn't it? From a femmes perpective, I can tell you that on the couple of occassions that I have had a butch pull me close and was packing, it made my knees turn to jelly, and could feel my body just going limp and weak - just the thought of it as I write these lines is making me lightheaded...*deep sigh*

I have never been with someone who packs alot, But I would love to be! Something about that, really turns me on..

My ex,last gf, packed a couple of times, but then didnt anymore..She really liked it, i think she was just shy about it and didnt want to worry about anyone seein it, (family members)

I didnt encourage her bc i felt strange for wanting her to, felt like i was being strange or something by how much i liked it..:s And didnt want her thinkin i was being strange or something... We were both new to it so i didnt know how to react to it..Just knew i liked it..

But, It's a major turn on when they pack thats for sure.... :P

[newagehippie71]

:| Never packed before.....................really want to. SOme times, when I get out of the shower, I'll put one of my softies in my drawers and I get so turned on with the feeling of something resting on my crotch like that. I really want to try it, but my g/f is really anti penis because of her past.............how could I possibly talk to her about this and tell her how I feel? I also thought of dressing up as a guy for Halloween as an excuse to pack..............

[TheRealJLO]

LOL, OG, you are mocking us aren't cha?

But you know what? You may just have hit upon something there - I see an entreprenurial venture in the making...if you could perfect this idea, you'll make a million - no, really, I'm serious. Any engineers out there? ;)

no, oddgirl is serious, there is a way to make your own soft pack with gel and a condom. it's on a few of the transsites. you need four condoms and the gel. you fill the condom ad tie it off then put a second one around it. you take a third and fill it, somehow maing the balls and double bag it with the 4th condom. somehow it all ties together and makes the most realistic feel.


carmin you made a comment about feeling a butch packing and it making you swoon (in a matter of words) and it triggered a question I never thought to ask before.

If you don't mind me getting personal (and other femmes who feel comfortable please chim in or pm me) I never thought to ask. Do you get turned on by soft AND hard packs, or just hard packs?

WIth butches there's often the question of "what's the point of soft packing if there's nothing you can do with it?" (which in my opinion is an ignorant question because it's completely ignoring obvious gender differences between female and male id butches, tg, tv, third sex etc) But I was wondering if Femmes find the soft packing hot like some of the butches do just from wearing it for their own personal satisfaction/completion etc.

[ArchAngel Gabriel]

Just knowing it is there is enough for me



WIth butches there's often the question of "what's the point of soft packing if there's nothing you can do with it?" (which in my opinion is an ignorant question because it's completely ignoring obvious gender differences between female and male id butches, tg, tv, third sex etc) But I was wondering if Femmes find the soft packing hot like some of the butches do just from wearing it for their own personal satisfaction/completion etc.

[Artdecogoddess]

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If you don't mind me getting personal (and other femmes who feel comfortable please chim in or pm me) I never thought to ask. Do you get turned on by soft AND hard packs, or just hard packs? etc.


Great question RJLo. In my experience-what turns my partner on and makes them feel good about themselves sexually, physically, emotionally, etc I have a positive response to as well. The swoon factor comes, in part, from their sense of confidence sexual and energy. So soft or hard are good for this femme-very good.

Artdecogoddess

[mistyblue9802200]

I cant wait till hy comes to Scotland n will be packin for me as will take allllllll my time to not wanna **Ravish** hym on the spot in the airport:P (y)
< thinkin mmmmm noway im gonna beable to keep my hands off hym on the drive home > lol(6)

Misty **lady who sure loves her guy to pack**(f) ;)

[AlphaBear]

I can pack hard or soft, but in public, I prefer the softpack from toys in babeland. You can pick your length, your color, etc. I like the softie because it feels more real to me. Most guys aren't hard 24/7, and I can move it where I want it. I pass whether I'm packing or not, so the softie is for me. The weight, the hand grab/adjust, the shift...all for me. Plus, frankly, the hard pack is just too f'in uncomfortable if I want to sit down or move quickly. I'd rather have it for home. :D

[mistyblue9802200]

I can pack hard or soft, but in public, I prefer the softpack from toys in babeland. You can pick your length, your color, etc. I like the softie because it feels more real to me. Most guys aren't hard 24/7, and I can move it where I want it. I pass whether I'm packing or not, so the softie is for me. The weight, the hand grab/adjust, the shift...all for me. Plus, frankly, the hard pack is just too f'in uncomfortable if I want to sit down or move quickly. I'd rather have it for home. :D



I agree with wot you say about soft packin during day when ya out n about as that way you also dont look like you have a **hardon** 24/7:o lol ya know wot i mean(6)

hard or soft pack they is allllllll mmmmmm esp when hy is the one **packin**;) (y)

[mistyblue9802200]

no, oddgirl is serious, there is a way to make your own soft pack with gel and a condom. it's on a few of the transsites. you need four condoms and the gel. you fill the condom ad tie it off then put a second one around it. you take a third and fill it, somehow maing the balls and double bag it with the 4th condom. somehow it all ties together and makes the most realistic feel.


carmin you made a comment about feeling a butch packing and it making you swoon (in a matter of words) and it triggered a question I never thought to ask before.

If you don't mind me getting personal (and other femmes who feel comfortable please chim in or pm me) I never thought to ask. Do you get turned on by soft AND hard packs, or just hard packs?

WIth butches there's often the question of "what's the point of soft packing if there's nothing you can do with it?" (which in my opinion is an ignorant question because it's completely ignoring obvious gender differences between female and male id butches, tg, tv, third sex etc) But I was wondering if Femmes find the soft packing hot like some of the butches do just from wearing it for their own personal satisfaction/completion etc.



**Soft** packin is just as big a turn on as **Hard** packin is when your out n about !but not when you sooooooo want to take things to anuther level n your stuck in a place you cant:| Soft packin looks more realistic as in **normal** welllllll as wotever term you would class as normal(y) but it is a great feeling knowing your Guy is **packin** just to please you ! now THAT!! is a huge turnon;) (y)

[carmin]

Honey, any ladle that dishes out the gravy...lol, either or is a turn on, but, um, :$ I'm kinda partial to the hard ones, lol


no, oddgirl is serious, there is a way to make your own soft pack with gel and a condom. it's on a few of the transsites. you need four condoms and the gel. you fill the condom ad tie it off then put a second one around it. you take a third and fill it, somehow maing the balls and double bag it with the 4th condom. somehow it all ties together and makes the most realistic feel.


carmin you made a comment about feeling a butch packing and it making you swoon (in a matter of words) and it triggered a question I never thought to ask before.

If you don't mind me getting personal (and other femmes who feel comfortable please chim in or pm me) I never thought to ask. Do you get turned on by soft AND hard packs, or just hard packs?

WIth butches there's often the question of "what's the point of soft packing if there's nothing you can do with it?" (which in my opinion is an ignorant question because it's completely ignoring obvious gender differences between female and male id butches, tg, tv, third sex etc) But I was wondering if Femmes find the soft packing hot like some of the butches do just from wearing it for their own personal satisfaction/completion etc.

[carmin]

Is it getting warm in here, or is it me????:$ ;)


I can pack hard or soft, but in public, I prefer the softpack from toys in babeland. You can pick your length, your color, etc. I like the softie because it feels more real to me. Most guys aren't hard 24/7, and I can move it where I want it. I pass whether I'm packing or not, so the softie is for me. The weight, the hand grab/adjust, the shift...all for me. Plus, frankly, the hard pack is just too f'in uncomfortable if I want to sit down or move quickly. I'd rather have it for home. :D

[AlphaBear]

:chuckles: I do know. It just feels more natural too. :grins: And if someone asks if I dress right or left, I have an answer. ;)



I agree with wot you say about soft packin during day when ya out n about as that way you also dont look like you have a **hardon** 24/7:o lol ya know wot i mean(6)

hard or soft pack they is allllllll mmmmmm esp when hy is the one **packin**;) (y)

[mistyblue9802200]

:chuckles: I do know. It just feels more natural too. :grins: And if someone asks if I dress right or left, I have an answer. ;)



Please excuse me if i sounded patronizing as i didnt intend to come over that way;)
So at least we agree **Soft or Hard** pack is the way to go(y) ;) lolol

Misty who soooooo hates this language barrier thing but has a wee knack of makin how i feel felt or known lol(f)

[OdddGyrl]

Ok don't laugh but my daughter's GF taught me this

you get a big jar of hair gel and a turkey baster and a thick condom
you fill the condom up however full you want it then knot the top

then you put another condom over it and knot that one
i've had them last for months this way
they are soft and subtle and retain body heat



I love it

(S)

[carmin]

Forgive the ignorance of the question, 'cause I am not cognizant of these things (a) ...but, how do you get this contraption to stay put and on your body all day? And how does it feel when you walk? Just askin'...not tryin' to be a smart-ass or anything...
*Carmin who is a very curious girl*



Ok don't laugh but my daughter's GF taught me this

you get a big jar of hair gel and a turkey baster and a thick condom
you fill the condom up however full you want it then knot the top

then you put another condom over it and knot that one
i've had them last for months this way
they are soft and subtle and retain body heat



I love it

(S)

[newagehippie71]

Forgive the ignorance of the question, 'cause I am not cognizant of these things (a) ...but, how do you get this contraption to stay put and on your body all day? And how does it feel when you walk? Just askin'...not tryin' to be a smart-ass or anything...
*Carmin who is a very curious girl*





That isn't a bad question. I was wondering the same thing. This may sound creepy, but is there a "How to" out there somewhere?????!!! I am so ready to pack...been experimenting all day, but is it too high? too low? How the hell am I supposed to do this?! I am using my own homemade contraption for now until I get the jist of this so help me out here!LOL(feeling damn vulnerable right now):$

[Bo Dacious]

Forgive the ignorance of the question, 'cause I am not cognizant of these things (a) ...but, how do you get this contraption to stay put and on your body all day? And how does it feel when you walk? Just askin'...not tryin' to be a smart-ass or anything...
*Carmin who is a very curious girl*







Simple. You just lay it in your briefs/boxer briefs just like you do with the Mr Softie. ;)

[OdddGyrl]

I lay mine inside a pair of tight fitting (men's) briefs
You put the briefs on
Position "it" against your bare skin
I prefer the "bottom" part of it (where the knot is) against my labia
and the top part pointing upwards, across the crease of my leg.

Its very subtle, flexible, and warms right up and assumes a body temperature
If a woman touches your private area she knows its there!
I've worn it in jeans and also with trousers
I've only done this a few times and it's a kick
What the hell, something different is fun now and then.

(y)

[carmin]

Mr. Softie??? I looove Mr. Softie, I could eat 'em all day!!! (6) ;)
I could just see that ice cream truck coming, and hear the Mr. Softie melody playing as we speak! ;)



Simple. You just lay it in your briefs/boxer briefs just like you do with the Mr Softie. ;)

[newagehippie71]

I talked to my womyn last night about wanting to try soft packing. I was so nervous to bring it up! She was very understanding and told me that she is fine with that. She said she doesen't see my 'member' as a man's penis, but as an extension of me! Whew. Let's hear it for honesty and communication! She even asked me to wear it one day when she gets home from work so she can see!!!
I am so relieved......
Goddess...................I love that womyn(l)

[carmin]

Smart girl, your womyn... ;)


I talked to my womyn last night about wanting to try soft packing. I was so nervous to bring it up! She was very understanding and told me that she is fine with that. She said she doesen't see my 'member' as a man's penis, but as an extension of me! Whew. Let's hear it for honesty and communication! She even asked me to wear it one day when she gets home from work so she can see!!!
I am so relieved......
Goddess...................I love that womyn(l)

[TURKEE182]

ok well I try not to post about these things but I just wanted to add my thoughts *smile*

I don't understand how someone can have a bunch of different strap ons (soft, hard and others) bc I feel that it is a part of me, so if it's a part of me why would I have more than one right?

Anyway, the first time I packed it did make me feel beyond exhilarated. I really get too much of a high when wearing one and only wear it outside on occasion for my one and only.

P.S. lose the harness

[carmin]

Turkee, you are too sweet for words...(y)

p.s. I love your new avatar - you look great! Marriage seems to agree with you. :)



ok well I try not to post about these things but I just wanted to add my thoughts *smile*

I don't understand how someone can have a bunch of different strap ons (soft, hard and others) bc I feel that it is a part of me, so if it's a part of me why would I have more than one right?

Anyway, the first time I packed it did make me feel beyond exhilarated. I really get too much of a high when wearing one and only wear it outside on occasion for my one and only.

P.S. lose the harness

[TURKEE182]

Turkee, you are too sweet for words...(y)

p.s. I love your new avatar - you look great! Marriage seems to agree with you. :)





thank you hon... and yes it does agree with me, who would have guessed? ;)

[Bo Dacious]

Mr. Softie??? I looove Mr. Softie, I could eat 'em all day!!! (6) ;)
I could just see that ice cream truck coming, and hear the Mr. Softie melody playing as we speak! ;)







*rolling eyes*


Not Mr Softy the ice cream dude. Mr Softy the butch cock. :P

[carmin]

" *rolling eyes* "
LOL, gottcha!! (6)

I know what you meant, silly - I was just being a smart-ass! :P ;) lol



*rolling eyes*


Not Mr Softy the ice cream dude. Mr Softy the butch cock. :P

[equality_rules]

Congrats on your first day packing! I don't think you're a wierdo for this because if you are, it means I'm considering joining the wierdo club :p

I've never packed for a day. My one and only time packing (other than by my lonesome around the house) was a dance/strip-along drag king thing to the song "You Can Leave Your Hat On" and let me tell you, everything you've all said about a high when packing is true. I'm actually kind of afraid to pack truth be told because I don't know if I could handle it! Thanks for making this post :D

[aceman131963]

i was just wonderin how does that work?


Ace