Josie South Africa

[Saphrodite]

Hmm... butches and femmes in johannesburg. soooo quiet on the net.. and this site

we're here though! watching and taking time to get vocal *s

[buccaneer2]

welcome to the site!! new voices are always welcome!!

Buc

[Saphrodite]

thanks for the welcome. I'm not online that often so might be a little slow with the replies..

*wriggling into a blanket...

Damn cold here right now. I've just moved here from the coast and missing my seaside sunshine

*blowing you a sparkle

[Ougat]

*echo echo echo*

So so very empty in here it is frightning..

I for one knows the butch femme scene in SA is massive..just dont think they come online..much..

A real pity!

*waves to almost empty room*

[kace]

I am definitely missing the BUTCH - FEMME scene back home (ja, ek woon in Engeland ... maar mis die poppies and meisies in ou Gauteng!).

There is nothing like a South African femme - trust me on that one - loyal, loving and makes this bois heart skip a beat and I thinks I shall go home and get me a wife...

Kace xx

[Ougat]

Oh wow..Another Gautenger..

Wonderlik!

I have met quite a lot of wonderful English Femmes..So they are there..hehe..Some of them are just a tad bit involved.. ;)

It is also the thing about culture when it comes to Butch Femme... I am more used to SA Femme girls to be honest..You can take the girl out of Africa but never Africa out of the girl..Still..There is a lot to be said for the Diversity of the whole scene in the UK..Not so much as back home.. :(

When you go home next..Can I place my order..hehe ;)

Waar in Gauteng is jy vandaan?

[Ougat]

Hope you had a wonderful day..

I know I am late with this but only saw it a few minutes ago...

I had a look at your website..VERY good..

Geluk met jou verjaardag ou Tjom!!..hehe

[kace]

Dankie ou maat. Ek het ook jou profiel op Gaydargirls opgesoek en jy is definitief 'n mooi boi...

Was jy ooit na Club Wotever in Londen ... hulle is a "Drag King friendly" plek en is definitief 'n aand werd 'n peep in.

www.clubwotever.tk

Dankie vir die geluk wense.

[Ougat]

Dankie Kace.. (b)

Ek was al by Wotever en gaan weer daar wees die 9de Okt..n Pragtige vriendin (MissCatt) van my en haar baie aantreklike Boi (Zimbabwe) vier hulle commitment ceremony daar..

I have found only one more SA'can on here so far..a very pretty woman...Damn if I can remember her name now..but she resides in SA..a real pity.. ;)

Loer gerus in die UK thread indien jy lus voel om met baie vriendelike mense te gesels..

[kace]

Ek ken vir Miss Catt... sy is ook 'n lid van beide Butch Femme groepe of Yahoo en het haar a paar keer ontmoet ... by Club Wotever, in Brighton en by "Pink Singers" konsert.

Dit is a klein wereld... inderdaad!

Ek sal jou seker een van die dae ontmoet ou maat... ek sal in die UK "thread" loer ... en hallo se.

[nax]

*Looks Left*
*Looks Right*
Is anybody in the room?

[thesoftertouch]

Hmm... butches and femmes in johannesburg. soooo quiet on the net.. and this site

we're here though! watching and taking time to get vocal *s

Hi Saph!

(waving from Pretoria and waving to all other fellow South Africans on this thread) it is so good to know that there are more Africans sharing this wonderful space.

I'm in Pretoria BUT my heart is in Florida (US of A) (boo hoo) :( - you know there is chance that you may just lose your heart to one of these nice bois in here ;)

Thanks for starting this thread and I tell you on B-F the BUTCHES rule!

I've recently returned from the bash in NOLA and it was such fun! Miz Chris and Daddy Rhon are the best!

TST

[MissCatt]

My ears were burning but I couldnt understand much lol
Hiya Kace long time - last time I saw you I was dancing hot at Wotever... ;)

MC x

[Lucien]

Hi just wanted to say hello. I used to think I was the only African on BF now I know am not am just the only Nigerian on here. If you are in the UK and you go to the right places all i can say is live the dream.

[lumberjill]

hello from a former Rhodesian!
Hello Zuid-Afrikaan en iedereen.

[CherryFemme]

Big Hello to the South Africa Community!

I was wondering if there was a B-F bar/cafe/section of the country to visit~~

Yup-- I am looking for imput and suggestions.

:D

Just checking

Thanks!

CF

[Ravenouss]

Sorry, I didn't want to start a whole new thread, but I have a question:

How's the climate in some countries of Africa these days for gay people? I'm most interested in Angola, Mozambique, and Nigeria. We are a couple with two small children under the age of 4. Would it be too hard to live there openly for say 10-12 months?

Nigeria holds a special place in my heart as it is the place my grandma's family were from, but Angola and Mozambique are also interesting because of my cultural and linguistic connections.

Thanks,

[shero]

Good Afternoon and Hallo
Mhoroi...Bondia
Mwabuka buti...Kasumai
Nba...Imbuya more?
does that cover it?
I'm Travis..I work for ..um..you all..(cant really say?)
and I will be visiting soon
glad to see this thread
peace,
Travis

[shero]

Sorry, I didn't want to start a whole new thread, but I have a question:

How's the climate in some countries of Africa these days for gay people? I'm most interested in Angola, Mozambique, and Nigeria. We are a couple with two small children under the age of 4. Would it be too hard to live there openly for say 10-12 months?

Nigeria holds a special place in my heart as it is the place my grandma's family were from, but Angola and Mozambique are also interesting because of my cultural and linguistic connections.

Thanks,

Not sure if you ever got a response..or if you still want one..
I'm not S. African..but I might be able to help....
PM me if you want ;)

[Ravenouss]

Not sure if you ever got a response..or if you still want one..
I'm not S. African..but I might be able to help....
PM me if you want ;)

Hi Shero,

I got lots of answers from friends elsewhere and in Africa. We decided we do not want to live in a place pretending we are cousins (or that I, the dark skinned one, is the servant). So, we are instead headed to Brazil next year! :)

Thanks a lot though,

Rav

[shero]

Hi Shero,

I got lots of answers from friends elsewhere and in Africa. We decided we do not want to live in a place pretending we are cousins (or that I, the dark skinned one, is the servant). So, we are instead headed to Brazil next year! :)

Thanks a lot though,

Rav

I just got an Iphone yesterday so I was able to show this to my coworkers (S. African, hetero), they were like..WOW..LOL
so ya..thanks for your reply ;) And I'm so happy for you even tho I dont even know you LOL..Brasil huh? Hellll yesss!
I sometimes forget that I can pass pretty easily when I travel (altho not always) so it's probably a hugely diff experience for folks that present as a homosexual couple. Thanks for this post. It's opened my eyes and made me think about stuff b4 I go there for a visit!
Best of luck to you and your wife. :) Post Pics!!! <:o):D

[Saphrodite]

Wow.. just looked through all the replies..! Have not been on the site for ages as my partner and I have just done the baby thing, had twins, and my work is crazy busy.. Come and visit South africa.. it's fabulous.. Africa is fabulous, yes it has it's issues but we're here and everywhere, out and proud, and sometimes more hidden, but we manage and life is good!
x

[Saphrodite]

Visiting South Africa?