...The Daddi and lil grrl --Singles--Mingle--

[SyrQ]

Rules:

1. Positive energy
2. Politeness
3. Respect to others and to yourself
4. Make yourself comfortable
5. Have fun
6. Flirt
7. Get acquainted


Doors are now open...Open Bar...

Let the flirting, dancing, and getting-to-know you begin..

~ENJOY~

*pouring myself a glass of Zin and taking a seat*

[todo boi]

Single daddi an needs a babygrrl snuggle with an wrap my big arms round hir...............:$

[audacious1]

please.

make it stop.

[SyrQ]

what seems to be the matter?

[audacious1]

do we really need another thread like this?

because there's this (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=10690)

and also this (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=637)

or this (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=2215)

and so on.

Take your pick, but the relentless trolling has plenty of threads already.

[GemmeFemme]

I think this is a good idea. I haven't searched every single thread, so I don't know if it's the only one like it, but I just like the idea of single's threads.

And, of course, I love Daddies...so......:P :o:$

[SyrQ]

did you not read one of the rules...NO NEGATIVITY...no one put a gun to your head and made you come to this thread, and if they did---I have a bone to pick with them...this is meant as a fun place and SAFE--no 'trolling' as you aptly put it...

please take your negativity else where...and I wish you well on your journey...my best to you...*closes door behind you, as you leave*

--take care--

[audacious1]

Originally posted by SyrQ
Rules:

1. Positive energy
2. Politeness
3. Respect to others and to yourself
4. Make yourself comfortable
5. Have fun
6. Flirt
7. Get acquainted

I read them, did you? Because you misquoted your own rules.

Btw, my energy is quite positive as I point out the redundancy of this thread. But hey, I'll respect your space and laugh elsewhere.

ps. there are no "doors" in the forums. gay.com cyber play doesn't work here.

[SyrQ]

*S*...laughter?...now there is a good idea...*sips my zin*

[TenderKnight]

Originally posted by audacious1
ps. there are no "doors" in the forums. gay.com cyber play doesn't work here.

lol.. but but.. what is the fun of being on a forum.. on the internet.. if you can't have cyber play??

*not that closing "doors" works very well on gay.com either, it's all just words, folks, lol*

lol.. *waves to all*

If anyone wants me, you see the pm button.. use it ;)

-TK, who has made a personal pledge never to dwell within these "mingly" type threads but who hopes that all of y'all have a GREAT time!

[todo boi]

You put it juss right Syr Q...
There is another thread but oh well..........
some people have to much time or there hands to look at the situation wrong rather than to look at the possibilities...lol........ I think this thread is very good idea... So says daddyhymself wooohooo:s

[ange]

Originally posted by audacious1
do we really need another thread like this?

because there's this (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=10690)

and also this (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=637)

or this (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=2215)

and so on.

Take your pick, but the relentless trolling has plenty of threads already.

audy, audy, audy (who has never trolled)....

Thread #1 is a support thread for Daddi-less girls and Girl-less Daddies....not a "meet & greet" thread. The other two threads you referenced appear to be dead. One has been inactive for a month, the other for two months.

[Phebbes]

*peeks in and waves*~~~

[Victoriah]

Please please please may I relentlessly troll.................please please please........I want to get really good at it ,someday maybe put it in a resume................lol. Crazy gurl here but damm its St.V's day and there is no Daddy in sight. Well in sight here but thats about it. :'( I wish there were more D/G threads....give me something to read while waiting very IMPATIENTLY.....(k) (k) (k)

[ange]

I'm starting to feel like there are no single Leather Dyke Daddies left in the world.

*major pout*


P.S. oops...I meant this for The Orphanage thread and now it won't let me delete it. Sowwy. Let the mingling continue!

[Victoriah]

I replyed to a personal ad.................ITS ALL ANGE'S fault!!!yup it is , it is....................(k) (k) (k)

[Hobbes]

phebbes, you shy little grrl, get in here...

*grabbing phebbes by the waistband and pulling her in*

[Phebbes]

~giggles at Hobbes pulling her by her her waistband and looks around for a place to sit~

[SyrQ]

no problem for the post...I feel you...I am starting to think there are no lil grrls left in the world too...perhaps in time she will show herself to me...and hy will show hymself to you...good luck on your journey... (i) thinking maybe I should put up signs to direct her to my door...wonders if it will work? hmmmm

[mslisabell]

Single babygrrl here in need of a Daddy....

*not likin this alone on Vday stuff ya know?*

Major pout,
Lisa (k)

[femmekat]

cuz the wind blew it up... of course...

stopping and looking around for my Daddy...

..sighing...

FemmeKat (@)

[Amethystluv]

* quivering lower lip* there are no single Daddy's anywhere ..........anymooooooooore........at least not the Ones that are true blue and mean what they sat and DO want a lil grrl......too many Daddy's out there PLAY too many of us lil grrls all at the same time.....:'( :'( :'( :'(
oooooooooooh a meltdown, i am sorry E/everyone......* searching frantically for a place to go hide, now* ..........hmph crying in public, i oughta be ashamed!
Hugzs grrls and excuse mes please to Syr Q !
~Amethystluv~(l):$ :$

[AllFemmyGirl]

*stepping in the door waving* hello everyone

[Daddy Rhon]

Aud wrote
ps. there are no "doors" in the forums. gay.com cyber play doesn't work here.

AUD...

There *are* doors here, and you should well know that having been banned before for spewing your "sour grapes" all over my site. People are complaining and have been for awhile. You promised me that you would be kinder to my other guests when I allowed you back on, and it is an absolute requirement that you treat others with basic decency if you want to continue to hang out here. I am warning you once again to keep your negativity to yourself. You don't get to dictate to others what "works" here and what threads belong here.

[Victoriah]

Daddy Rhon.............................MY HERO.........!!!!!!!!(k) (k) (k)

[mslisabell]

~~~~~~~Hooray for Daddy Rhon!~~~~~~~~~~~

[GemmeFemme]

Ahhhh...*big sigh of relief*......

[Phebbes]

~~~~~throws kisses (k)'s and (f)'s to Daddy Rhon~~~~~~

[latinabutch]

I think we've all been waiting for this one..

[SyrQ]

Thank your support--much appreciated and welcomed.

To all who have entered---WELCOME...make yourselves comfortable!!!!!



(@)

[SyrQ]

Amethystluv,

Here is a single daddi--might not be near you???? but I am single non-the-less and a daddi--and most of all, I have great assets *taking off my shirt and flexing*

I mean what I say, say what I mean--and I love to spoil my lil grrl (very much)...I am a 24/7 daddi...

perhaps I should list my qualities--positives and not-so-positives?

hmmm, well here goes:

-Light brown soulful bedroom eyes
-Short dark brown/black hair -5'7" -136#'s -Racially mixed (German, French, African American and American Indian) -Muscular (work out daily)
-Handsome
-Boi'sh charm
-Softly Masculine (in touch with my feminine side)
-Playful -Artist -Writer
-Charismatic
-Intelligent
-Communicative
-Articulate
-Witty
-Dry Sense of Humor
-A bit of a smart-ass and I have a cute one too
-Opinionated
-Extremely romantic (true Libra 'nuff said)
-Honest (but not cruel)
-Harmless (unless tempted otherwise *W*)
-Confident -Self-assured w/ an ego (a playful one)
-Engaging
-Disarming
-Friendly
-Sensitive
-Strong arms (to hold 'her' and protect her)
-Broad shoulders (to lean on)
-Animals are my passion (cruelty to animals?--I won't go there. But I will STOP it.)
-BD/sM--more BD/s than SM
-Daddi
-Genteel
-Honorable
-Top
-Syr's Strength and Honor (I live by the old Knights Code--hence Syr)
-Patient
-Forgiving
-Excellent sense of style (and I love to shop--yes I said, I love to shop)
-Understanding
-Caring
-Soulful
-Spiritual
-Introverted with an Extroverted side
-Extremely protective of 'her'
-A-typical dyke
-I do have a temper (however given about 15 minutes alone--I will calm down--never violent)
-I do have my insecurities (but who doesn't) and I am aware of them
-Baggage (but I am aware of it and am dealing with unloading those bags---getting too heavy a burden)
-I accept my weaknesses (which are strengths)

I think we should all compose such a list--this will allow us to play match-maker (6)

[MizMariBella]

Originally posted by latinabutch
I think we've all been waiting for this one..

[SirWalterHere]

Originally posted by audacious1
do we really need another thread like this?

because there's this (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=10690)

and also this (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=637)

or this (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=2215)

and so on.

Take your pick, but the relentless trolling has plenty of threads already.


Thanks for the links.. as you can see the Daddy/girl energy is alive... and there are those of us who need that energy.. now to find me a girl... damn I miss having one but won't settle for just any girl... have to connect physically, spiritually and mentally... is she out there???? can not believe I even posted an addy.. faith moves moutains but you better take a shovel.. can not believe I am here looking for my girl.... lovers, bottoms and submissive are easy to find but that special girl who belongs to Daddy is special and doesn't come along everyday...

for now

Walter

[Ethereal]

Hey there,

**wanders into this thread** Never seen one of these before. SirWalter, you may be near me. East Coast? That's cool. Welcome to Butch-Femme by the way.

Ethereal (newly discovered closeted Daddy's girl). **blush**

[todo boi]

Im old school daddi.. i beleive in lettin my babygrrl be who she is an .. im juss a big proector .. i to am very single an an modest at the same time...lol..........
I love spoilin my sweet lil gal ... make her my world.......... cause all u can do is look in awwwwwww??.. southern tru romantic.. dont like to boast none about it but true...lol........ well more of me later not to much about me right off dont want to scare anyone away..lol:s

[SyrQ]

Walter & Ethereal---WELCOME...

todo boi--I am with you on 'old school'...

Q

[SirWalterHere]

Originally posted by Ethereal
Hey there,

**wanders into this thread** Never seen one of these before. SirWalter, you may be near me. East Coast? That's cool. Welcome to Butch-Femme by the way.

Ethereal (newly discovered closeted Daddy's girl). **blush**



waving back to ethereal.... nice website and what a cute girl you are..... thanks for the welcome

Walter

[SirWalterHere]

Originally posted by SyrQ
Walter & Ethereal---WELCOME...

todo boi--I am with you on 'old school'...

Q


thanks for the welcome Q

[Ethereal]

Thank you Syr Q, and Sir Walter. SirWalter, you are quite the hottie yourself. ;) My website needs an upgrade. lol!

Ethereal **listening to Tori Amos (my idol and inspiration) **

[Elsbeth]

Just wanted to extend an invitation to the lil girl brats and Daddys to visit a fun thread...

Bratty Subs (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=8383)

Hope to see some of you there... ~g~

psstttt.... Etheral, your website is lovely!!!!

[chrisfla]

...to say hello.

Hello!

And SyrQ, you ARE quite the handsome devil, (6) I must say.

Signed,
Chris, single for four years (and now, officially celibate for one), but still as picky as ever.... (y)

[Victoriah]

Ethereal............i am in Ct. too...............:)

[Phebbes]

Originally posted by Elsbeth
Just wanted to extend an invitation to the lil girl brats and Daddys to visit a fun thread...

Bratty Subs (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=8383)

Hope to see some of you there... ~g~

psstttt.... Etheral, your website is lovely!!!!


~we would love for you to come by and see us~
~pssst if you are a daddy.........I suggest you stay on the balcony lol~

[SyrQ]

Chrisfla,

Thank you for the compliment...*Daddi smile* and WELCOME...

and huge WELCOMES go out to:

Elsbeth, Victoriah, Phebbes, MizMariBella, mslisabell, latinabutch, GemmeFemme, AllFemmyGirl, femmekat and if I have left anyone out...my apologies ---WELCOME all...

Q

[Amethystluv]

i got left ouuuuuuuuuuut.:'( ...............ah such is life.....*giggle*

[Ethereal]

So, is that BIG BUTCH State Trooper you live next to single or is hy yours? lol! I like that.

[femmekat]

Thanks for the warm welcome.... Good to be here.. ..demurely sashaying out in my little girl way, dress hugging my girl butt... :$

femmekat (@)

[BaltoButch]

Syr Q is one GREAT Daddi... and a great brother... although I wish hy had participated in that auction a year ago ROFLMAO




Originally posted by SyrQ
Amethystluv,

Here is a single daddi--might not be near you???? but I am single non-the-less and a daddi--and most of all, I have great assets *taking off my shirt and flexing*

I mean what I say, say what I mean--and I love to spoil my lil grrl (very much)...I am a 24/7 daddi...

perhaps I should list my qualities--positives and not-so-positives?

hmmm, well here goes:

-Light brown soulful bedroom eyes
-Short dark brown/black hair -5'7" -136#'s -Racially mixed (German, French, African American and American Indian) -Muscular (work out daily)
-Handsome
-Boi'sh charm
-Softly Masculine (in touch with my feminine side)
-Playful -Artist -Writer
-Charismatic
-Intelligent
-Communicative
-Articulate
-Witty
-Dry Sense of Humor
-A bit of a smart-ass and I have a cute one too
-Opinionated
-Extremely romantic (true Libra 'nuff said)
-Honest (but not cruel)
-Harmless (unless tempted otherwise *W*)
-Confident -Self-assured w/ an ego (a playful one)
-Engaging
-Disarming
-Friendly
-Sensitive
-Strong arms (to hold 'her' and protect her)
-Broad shoulders (to lean on)
-Animals are my passion (cruelty to animals?--I won't go there. But I will STOP it.)
-BD/sM--more BD/s than SM
-Daddi
-Genteel
-Honorable
-Top
-Syr's Strength and Honor (I live by the old Knights Code--hence Syr)
-Patient
-Forgiving
-Excellent sense of style (and I love to shop--yes I said, I love to shop)
-Understanding
-Caring
-Soulful
-Spiritual
-Introverted with an Extroverted side
-Extremely protective of 'her'
-A-typical dyke
-I do have a temper (however given about 15 minutes alone--I will calm down--never violent)
-I do have my insecurities (but who doesn't) and I am aware of them
-Baggage (but I am aware of it and am dealing with unloading those bags---getting too heavy a burden)
-I accept my weaknesses (which are strengths)

I think we should all compose such a list--this will allow us to play match-maker (6)

[Elsbeth]

~looks around....

sees femmkat and Balto...

thinking...

thinking....

about how many glasses he has drunk so far....




giggling and runs off~

[SirWalterHere]

Originally posted by Amethystluv
i got left ouuuuuuuuuuut.:'( ...............ah such is life.....*giggle*



hello there amethystluv.... sit over here so you don't feel left out

[Phebbes]

Originally posted by Elsbeth
~looks around....

sees femmkat and Balto...

thinking...

thinking....

about how many glasses he has drunk so far....
giggling and runs off~


*wondering why her bratty sister is giggling and running off*

[BaltoButch]

*single white rose for you*


*smile*

[Phebbes]

*wondering who the single white rose if for*

[BaltoButch]

ask Elsbrat... she knows *smile*





Originally posted by Phebbes
*wondering who the single white rose if for*

[AllFemmyGirl]

*smiling softly* how very sweet Balto

[BaltoButch]

thank you sweet girl *smile* and a (f) for you as well *smile*



Originally posted by AllFemmyGirl
*smiling softly* how very sweet Balto

[AllFemmyGirl]

*batting my eyelashes* awe thank you

[Phebbes]

Originally posted by BaltoButch
*single white rose for you*


*smile*

*Blushes*Looks down at the pretty white rose

*blows (k) 's to the Poppa Bear to say thank you*

[BaltoButch]

anything for you darling girl *smile*




Originally posted by Phebbes
*Blushes*Looks down at the pretty white rose

*blows (k) 's to the Poppa Bear to say thank you*

[Elsbeth]

Balto... i just have to say.....

your a class act...

romantic...

funny...

a fine example of a loving butch, one who knows how to be playful and fun but take care of his woman too....

keep up the good energy!

the femme who choses you will be one happy woman!

~smiles~

[BaltoButch]

*blush* awww geezzzzz

ty Elsbrat *blush*


dagnabbit... you got Me on that one *smile*

[Elsbeth]

Originally posted by Balto
dagnabbit... you got Me on that one *smile*

~laffin~

Well Good....

and ~sigh~

looking at the clock....

i need to get some sleep...

Thanks for all the fun...

and i hope that the femme who has caught your eye...

gives you a smile ~g~

[todo boi]

Femmes always runnin an gigglin never know what there up to......:s

[SyrQ]

WELCOME

Amethystluv

*on bended knee, w/ a single lavender orchard in hand---extending the orchard to you, with my deepest and sincerest Daddi smile* I beseech your forgiveness for this graveness of error on my part?????????? *Daddi smile*

Q

[SyrQ]

thank you for you kind and generous words...would have loved to have been apart of that auction *eg*

btw: Elsbeth--tis I, Kouros...search those archives from a distant moon ago...*W*...remember?

Q

[OnthnIce2]

Hello All,

*strolling in with and armful of (f)'s, cuz I know most babygrrls looooove to get flowers.*

Thank you SryQ, for starting this thread.

I'm a butch, who has recently realized that there is a Daddi part of me that has been in hiding. I find myself wanting to learn more about this dynamic and finding my own little grrl to Protect, spoil, cuddle and most of all to live and love a life together.

Nice to meet you all (some I have already had the pleasure to meet) and I'm going to go up to the balcony with the rest of the Daddi's.

On

[Your Princess]

Hello everyone, I've enjoyed reading your posts and until now didn't have the nerve to post here. But I sucked it all in and got enough nerve to at least say hello, and I've enjoyed your posts.

It is true though, where the heck are the good Daddies?? Here is one babygrrl looking for her Daddy. Not just any daddy, but one who knows how to treat his babygrrl right, and teach her how to be a better baby grrl. Of course, this babygrrl also likes to be bratty and naughty at times, but what babygrrl doesn't? (a)

It seems that most of the Daddies live eons away from where I live, why is that? We should shrink the states so we could at least meet eachother! (i)

Good luck to all babygrrls searching for their Daddies, and Daddies, please don't just drive by this thread, stay a while and you just may find that babygrrl you are looking 4 (a)

YP

[Elsbeth]

Originally posted by SyrQ
btw: Elsbeth--tis I, Kouros...search those archives from a distant moon ago...*W*...remember?
Q


~laffin softly~ Of course i remember you... Nice to see you again and if i neglected to say before, this thread is a great idea. Hope you find a girl for yourself soon!
ElsBrat the (a)

[BaltoButch]

*grabs My Bro by the arm and brings hym back down to the floor*

*whispers* in here, We talk with them and laugh, get to know them, see who catches our eye, whose eye we catch... sometimes, We are lucky that they are the same... sometimes not... but make sure they see what your Bros see... what a sweet, warm, wonderful Daddy you are becoming...


*whispers to the girls* this is one great Daddy in training... I highly recommend you take a closer look... hy's cute too *smile*



Originally posted by OnthnIce2
Hello All,

*strolling in with and armful of (f)'s, cuz I know most babygrrls looooove to get flowers.*

Thank you SryQ, for starting this thread.

I'm a butch, who has recently realized that there is a Daddi part of me that has been in hiding. I find myself wanting to learn more about this dynamic and finding my own little grrl to Protect, spoil, cuddle and most of all to live and love a life together.

Nice to meet you all (some I have already had the pleasure to meet) and I'm going to go up to the balcony with the rest of the Daddi's.

On

[BaltoButch]

hmmm... who gave you that ourstanding new nic Els? *chuckles*



*whispers to the Daddies* she is an angel too... I like and respect her very much *smile*




Originally posted by Elsbeth
ElsBrat the (a)

[Amethystluv]

Thank you SirW........*scooting over to take a seat*
Love, ~Amethystluv~(l)

[Amethystluv]

:D ohhhhhhhhhh Syr Q, THANK YOU soooooo much for bended knee and the most beautifully perfect orchid i have ever had the pleasure to receive. ..........i forgive you Sweet Syr. ......(k) (k) (k) i am a grateful grrl, here!
*sparkle in my eyes* You, Syr Q, have restored my lilgrrl faith in Daddy's.....
Love, ~Amethystluv~(l)




*blowing (k) (k) (k) to SyrQ*

[Elsbeth]

Originally posted by Balto
hmmm... who gave you that ourstanding new nic Els? *chuckles*

*whispers to the Daddies* she is an angel too... I like and respect her very much *smile*

~blinks and laffs~

well.. i seem to recall a Daddy who was wearing a PINK dress for some reason....

Looking at you and giggling....

and i...

ummm...

took a few photos...

passed them around...

and then kept the negitives....

and he started to call me that for some reason....

i really have NO idea why...

ElsBrat the (a)

[Phebbes]

Originally posted by OnthnIce2
Hello All,

*strolling in with and armful of (f)'s, cuz I know most babygrrls looooove to get flowers.*

Thank you SryQ, for starting this thread.

I'm a butch, who has recently realized that there is a Daddi part of me that has been in hiding. I find myself wanting to learn more about this dynamic and finding my own little grrl to Protect, spoil, cuddle and most of all to live and love a life together.

Nice to meet you all (some I have already had the pleasure to meet) and I'm going to go up to the balcony with the rest of the Daddi's.

On

((((((((((((((((hugs to OnthnIce)))))))))))))))))))))))))

Welcome ~~~~it is good to see you here ~lol~ blowing (k) 's and be careful if you come on the floor lol some of these babygrrls are brats ~lol~ ask Balto

[Amethystluv]

BIG WELCOME OnthnIce......i hope Your visit is a good one here........* looking around* there is no balcony here..........* looking puzzled*.......there is one in bratty femme subs.

[Victoriah]

Brats............BRATS...........there are no brats in here....they all hang out in the other thread............lol(k) (k) (k)

[Phebbes]

~giggling~ waving hi to her and all the other babygrrls~ waving to her bratty sister Els~

psssttt shsssssssss ~Amethystluv~ we are not supposed to know there is a door that connects this room to the bratty femme subs room, the Daddy's and Syr's use it .... anddd i had to come welcome my friend Ice

~blowing (k) 's and throwing (f) 's to all the Daddy's~

[Amethystluv]

:$ @ Phebbes..............how was i supposed to know? i am here only 12 days now.......and Becker never told me that.........:$ (u) ................Syr Q..............where are You? SirW........SomeOne? There are rules here i do not know about beyond Daddy rules?????
Love, ~Amethystluv~(l)

[Phebbes]

Originally posted by Amethystluv
:$ @ Phebbes..............how was i supposed to know? i am here only 12 days now.......and Becker never told me that.........:$ (u) ................Syr Q..............where are You? SirW........SomeOne? There are rules here i do not know about beyond Daddy rules?????
Love, ~Amethystluv~(l)


*Thinking a Daddy needs to come give cuddles*

((((((((((((((((((Amethystluv))))))))))))))))))

*hugs to you hun and (k) 's how would you know it is a secret?* Smile like this------> :) ------------ babygrrls should never :$ there are no rules ~lol~ cept for what the Daddy's tell us lol. (k) 's to you ~lol~

[todo boi]

Must not be postin right or Im juss that ugly..lol........ catch ya all later...

[Amethystluv]

:) :) :) (((((((((((((((((((((Phebbes))))))))))))))))))
thank you sugar............(k) (k) (k) to you, tooooooooooooooooooo.
Love,~Amethystluv~ (l)

[BaltoButch]

*sneaks up behind phebbes and wraps her in My arms... kissing the top of her head*

*slipping her another white rose as I turn her to face Me*

*softly whispers* please accept this rose

*smile*




Originally posted by Phebbes
*Thinking a Daddy needs to come give cuddles*

[Amethystluv]

((((((((((((((((((((((todo)))))))))))))))))) you post just fine hon........






*dejectedly giving up on Becker*




Congrats Phebbes *S* .............gorgeous rose, hon.

~Amethystluv~(l)

[BaltoButch]

never give up on Me darling *smile*



Originally posted by Amethystluv
*dejectedly giving up on Becker*

~Amethystluv~(l)

[Phebbes]

Originally posted by BaltoButch
*sneaks up behind phebbes and wraps her in My arms... kissing the top of her head*

*slipping her another white rose as I turn her to face Me*

*softly whispers* please accept this rose

*smile*

~blush~

~giggles and accepts the beautiful rose~

[tigerstigress]

Originally posted by SyrQ
Thank your support--much appreciated and welcomed.

To all who have entered---WELCOME...make yourselves comfortable!!!!!



(@)


SyrQ I would like to Thank you for starting this thread. Its nice and peaceful and I love it *S*......

[OnthnIce2]

Thank you for the Welcome,

(((((((((phebbles))))))))) Nice to see you again. :)

Balto bro,
Thanks for the nice intro.


Originally posted by Phebbes:
Welcome ~~~~it is good to see you here ~lol~ blowing 's and be careful if you come on the floor lol some of these babygrrls are brats ~lol~ ask Balto

Only "some" phebbes?? I'm still trying to determine who is the brattiest?? Balto, you have known them longer, and it looks like a toss up between Elsbeth and phebbes.

*Pulls up a chair* (h)

I think I'm gonna like coming in here.

On

[sweetlilone]

*sneaks in quietly and looks at the goings on*

i have to agree that this thread does seem peaceful and that is so enjoyable.

sweet

[Phebbes]

*Giggling*

~smelling my rose and pointing at ELs~

she is the bratty one i am the (a)

[BaltoButch]

*gently leans down and whispers a question sweet and low*


*gently lifts your chin and kisses your lips*



*softly* you are quite welcome *smile*





Originally posted by Phebbes
~blush~

~giggles and accepts the beautiful rose~

[BaltoButch]

Bro... the intro was completely honest... as for feeling comfortable here... I know you will....

as for the brattiest of them all... well I am trying to get a kiss from her... but for a sweet unjaded Daddi like you... there are a few you might like to consider...

there are so many sweet souls here... the brats are the sweetest, as they try to hide their gentle loving soul from the world... when they have no Daddy to protect them... they use the brat to protect them... when they have a Daddy, they use the brat to play and annoy Daddy LOL.... but be playful... enjoy them as if they are your own... be a Big Brother to all, and a Daddy to one... your life will never be better, your heart never so full... you soul never so on fire... show them your heart, your mind, your soul, trust in them, respect them... they are worth is all and much much more.

but keep NEVER EVER rest on your laurels, they will GET YOU, trust Me lol

your Brother,
Becker



PS -- never wear a dress in front of them either ROFLMAO especially that Elsbrat, she's sweet sexy and BRATTY lol



Originally posted by OnthnIce2
Thank you for the Welcome,

(((((((((phebbles))))))))) Nice to see you again. :)

Balto bro,
Thanks for the nice intro.



Only "some" phebbes?? I'm still trying to determine who is the brattiest?? Balto, you have known them longer, and it looks like a toss up between Elsbeth and phebbes.

*Pulls up a chair* (h)

I think I'm gonna like coming in here.

On

[Poonfairy1]

I'm so happy to see a thread that has turned out so far to be nice :) Daddy's....(blinks eyes).....(softly sighs)....... ::::::::Waving at all the Babygrrrls:::::::: ~ Curtsey~.......[/COLOR] (*)

[Amethystluv]

*personally* bratty is not a requirement to be a sweet grrl.........

[Amethystluv]

hi PF...............and etheral? the trooper is not mine*pout*.lol

[BaltoButch]

*bows to Ame* I stand correctted sweet girl *smile*




Originally posted by Amethystluv
*personally* bratty is not a requirement to be a sweet grrl.........

[Elsbeth]

Originally posted by OnThinIce
Only "some" phebbes?? I'm still trying to determine who is the brattiest?? Balto, you have known them longer, and it looks like a toss up between Elsbeth and phebbes.
~Well.... i Never!! ~hands on hips~

~laffin so hard here~


Originally posted by Phebbes
~smelling my rose and pointing at ELs~

she is the bratty one i am the (a)

~Phebbes.... mygoodness


But Phebbes earlier you said this:

*wondering why her bratty sister is giggling and running off*


~you know Phebbes that i am ElsBrat the (a)

and i know

that your a brat too

~smiling~


Originally posted by Balto
as for the brattiest of them all... well I am trying to get a kiss from her...
~See? even Balto thinks so....

~giggling so hard~

[Amethystluv]

Thank You, Becker........(a)

[Elsbeth]

Originally posted by Amethystluv
*personally* bratty is not a requirement to be a sweet grrl.........

~It sure is not....

~smiling~

but being a brat out of the deep desire to bring joy and happiness...

getting others to laff and play...

is a wOnderful way to be i think

smiling at you~

ElsBrat the (a)
and sweet too

[Amethystluv]

*feeling crimson red w/ embarrassment* i stand corrected Elsbeth. i should watch and learn i guess. i just have a hard time with the being bratty thing. i still can bring joy and happiness to others lives...........i guess i need to learn to play.......it comes hard for me.*Sitting down to watch the playing*

[BaltoButch]

First step to recovery admit you have the problem... CHECK

second step... get up and play

I get lil PMs from supposed daddies that think playing with the brats is a BAD thing... *rolls eyes*

playing is good for all

even Daddies and sweet girls

*smile*



Originally posted by Amethystluv
Sitting down to watch the playing*

[Elsbeth]

Originally posted by Amethystluv
*feeling crimson red w/ embarrassment* i stand corrected Elsbeth. i should watch and learn i guess. i just have a hard time with the being bratty thing. i still can bring joy and happiness to others lives...........i guess i need to learn to play.......it comes hard for me.*Sitting down to watch the playing*
[SIZE=1] i think your just shy

~smiling at you~

~pulling you up...

come on lets find something to do....

giving you a mischevious smile....

there is So much to do around here...

Hey wanna see some photos of a certain Daddy in aPINK dress!!!!

[Amethystluv]

*S*.......* standing up* *looking around* *mischievous grin spreading across face* * looking@ Becker* *runnnnnnnnnnninnnnnnnnnnng across floor to Hym* * TAG YOU"RE IT!*



Love, ~Ame~(l)



how's that for a FIRST try??????

[Amethystluv]

yeaaaaaaaaaaah Elsbeth I'd love to see Hym in a dress *EG*............. kotc for the welcome and the help........ (k)


Love,~Ame~(l)

[Phebbes]

(k) .............my bratty sister

(f) 's to you for being so good Natured ~lol~

i see it did not work (pretending not to be bratty) ........laffing.....

yes i am a brat and i so love it ~ *kotc* to the Daddy's who love their bratty sweet babygrrls and their sweet babygrrls...

and yes these brats will make you smile and laugh. its what we do best *coughwellnottheonlythingcough* and enjoy it


laffing..............you never ~lol~ yes you have Els ~lol~

*kotc* to Balto for being the sweet Daddy he is

[Elsbeth]

Grabs Amethystluv


come with me thru this doorway to Bratty Femmes (http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showthread.php?s=&postid=490094#post490094)
The photos are pasted up on the walls!!!
~giggling~

[Amethystluv]

* giggling* following Elsbeth ..............this i gotta seeeeeeeeeeeee..............LOL.


Love, ~Ame~(l)

[BaltoButch]

*smiles like a Big Brother watching the brats romp and play*


*Daddy smiles to, watching one*

[princessakittygirl w/meow]

For a thread like this. Great energy!! Even though I am not single, I still enjoy peeking..They use to have a list, with an open bar a long time ago when Butch-Femme was a baby..I cant recall its name but it was immensely very popular and people loved to hang out there..:)

Its nice to see something like it in a Daddy/Grrl theme. (l) (k) (l)

princessa de meow~

[Victoriah]

Happy happy happy Birthday to me..........gonna dance around the house with the puppy singing......"".You say its your birthday...gonna have a good time..ya ya ya ""(^) (^) (^)

[Poonfairy1]

Happy Birthday Victoriah..... (^) I hope you get all that you want today :) I don't celebrate my birthdays no more ....too depressing..... :s

[1-Sunny-Spirit]

*coming in to mingle*


Sunny

[Poonfairy1]

Hi Sunny.....How are you today? I'm soooo bored....and Jerry Springer is boring....(yawns).... ;)

[SyrQ]

WELCOMES go out to all who have entered...

and to those who have thanked me for starting this thread---you are very welcome and thank you for enjoying this place...

it was my goal to have a positive hide-a-way on this site--somplace where daddi's and lil grrls could just 'hang'--as they say...

Hello Amethystluv---you rare jewel...*W*

a pleasure as always Elsbeth---*S*

gaaaawwwwwddddd how I love bratty lil grrls...yummmmm

[1-Sunny-Spirit]

Hi Poonfairy1!

Sorry to hear you are soooo bored ...

Me, I am soooo full! A friend of mine gave me a box of thin mint Girl Scout cookies ... now granted this is AFTER I ate a double cinnamon roll this morning from out of the snack machine here at work ...

*watching Sunny with his own whole box of thin mint Girl Scout cookies is not a pretty sight* So see, there are things worse than Jerry Springer! LOL!

Here, have some cookies, Miss Poonfairy1!
*passing you a roll of cookies and with eager anticipation - looking in the empty box for my Girl Scout bratty girl ... I just know there is one in there for me* Heh Heh!

*the eternal optimist*

Waving at Miss Elsbeth!

Very nice to make your acquaintence, Poonfairy1!
Sunny

[SyrQ]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO Victoriah

a daddi's wish for a lil grrl---that you find the '1' that your heart so desires--and deserves--

May all your hopes, desires, ambitions, needs and wants materialize and that you have many more joyous days that fill your heart. over days that steal your smile...

my best to you on your journey...


HAPPY BIRTHDAY! ! !

(^)

Q

[SyrQ]

*catching a glance at sweet* well hello you...glad you peeked in...sit a spell--*patting the comfy cushion next to me*

*W*

[Elsbeth]

Happy Birthday Victoriah (^) and lots of fun (g) too

~waves at Sunny SyrQ~

[BaltoButch]

*sings LOUD* HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YYYYYYYYOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

*smile*

*hands out party hats and noise makers*

*tips hat* Happy Birthday sweet girl *smile*




Originally posted by Victoriah
Happy happy happy Birthday to me..........gonna dance around the house with the puppy singing......"".You say its your birthday...gonna have a good time..ya ya ya ""(^) (^) (^)

[Poonfairy1]

Runz up to Sunny...Grabs the bag of cookies.....slaps a pink bow on her head....Runz off giggling.....weeeeehhhhhhhhhhheeeeee......Runz up to my sistahs.....and shares my cookies.......

[Poonfairy1]

Adjust fake wig......walks in...peeks around to see if Sunny notices me....Woooo....she don't relize it's the fairy with this wig on.....Runz up to her again....with all the brattiness I have....slaps a Green bow on her head....(Evil laughter) as I run off again..Wooohooo....nah nah nah boo boo...catch me if you can....... (6)

[Amethystluv]

*bluuuuuuuuush* Thank You soooooooo much Syr Q for the rare jewel compliment.....i hope Your day is going well... *eyeing the seat btwn You and todo on the Daddy couch*



Happy Birthday Victoriah! (^) (k) (g) (g) (g) (g) (g) (g) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) :D


Love, ~Ame~ (l)

[1-Sunny-Spirit]

<chuckling to myself>

[ange]

Originally posted by Daddy Rhon
Aud wrote

AUD...

There *are* doors here, and you should well know that having been banned before for spewing your "sour grapes" all over my site. People are complaining and have been for awhile. You promised me that you would be kinder to my other guests when I allowed you back on, and it is an absolute requirement that you treat others with basic decency if you want to continue to hang out here. I am warning you once again to keep your negativity to yourself. You don't get to dictate to others what "works" here and what threads belong here.


*Feeling all protected and stuff and just thinking Daddy Rhon gets cooler by the moment*

[ange]

Originally posted by OnthnIce2

*strolling in with and armful of (f)'s, cuz I know most babygrrls looooove to get flowers.*

On


Oooooooooooo flowwwwwwwers. *Bright eyed smile and blowing kisses of thanks from Toledo to Cinci*

[ange]

Happy Birthday, Vic!!! and good luck on the personal ad. *giggle*

*birthday kotc and hug*

[ange]

Originally posted by Victoriah
I replyed to a personal ad.................ITS ALL ANGE'S fault!!!yup it is , it is....................(k) (k) (k)

Hmmmm.....That gives me an idea.

WANTED : Leather Daddi, 40-53 years old, packer (and I ain't talking Green Bay), honest, compassionate, nurturing, funny, perverse, romantic, intelligent, non-smoker, sushi fan (optional), believer in the power of a cuddle, knows the importance of bedtime stories and animal crackers, okay with cats (mumbles: I have 5...plus 1 :$ ), can relocate, childless, has a real life and does not live vicariously through the internet, doesn't use drugs, you do not live with your ex---over your ex---sure you are not going BACK to your ex (do you get my point here, Daddi?).

ME: babygirl, brown soft curls, blue eyes, fair skin, intelligent, kind, caring, compassionate, generous, impetuous, perverse, "two pillow" in the bedroom (or the alley, as the case may be), addicted to giving blow jobs, enjoys a variety of kinds of "play", very good cook, ribbon winning baker, sushi addict, cat owner, home owner (ok, the mortgage company owns the home, but I make the payments), vegetable and herb gardener, sober, fan of lingerie and pedicures, cuddle deprived.

http://www.geocities.com/ange967492

Photos in the Member Gallery.

*thinking that wasn't anywhere near as good as what Syr Q posted....gulping....closing my eyes...and clicking on "Submit Reply" *

[AllFemmyGirl]

Happy birthday to you ................................I hope it a wonderful one *smiling*

[SirWalterHere]

Happy Birthday to you

Happy birthday dear victoriah

Happy Birthday to you

(^)

[SirWalterHere]

Originally posted by ange
Hmmmm.....That gives me an idea.

WANTED : Leather Daddi, 40-53 years old, packer (and I ain't talking Green Bay), honest, compassionate, nurturing, funny, perverse, romantic, intelligent, non-smoker, sushi fan (optional), believer in the power of a cuddle, knows the importance of bedtime stories and animal crackers, okay with cats (mumbles: I have 5...plus 1 :$ ), can relocate, childless, has a real life and does not live vicariously through the internet, doesn't use drugs, you do not live with your ex---over your ex---sure you are not going BACK to your ex (do you get my point here, Daddi?).

ME: babygirl, brown soft curls, blue eyes, fair skin, intelligent, kind, caring, compassionate, generous, impetuous, perverse, "two pillow" in the bedroom (or the alley, as the case may be), addicted to giving blow jobs, enjoys a variety of kinds of "play", very good cook, ribbon winning baker, sushi addict, cat owner, home owner (ok, the mortgage company owns the home, but I make the payments), vegetable and herb gardener, sober, fan of lingerie and pedicures, cuddle deprived.

http://www.geocities.com/ange967492

Photos in the Member Gallery.

*thinking that wasn't anywhere near as good as what Syr Q posted....gulping....closing my eyes...and clicking on "Submit Reply" *



WOW-well thought out
What a nice website as well. It was nice to read about someone who has self knowledge and applies it to her life. Knows who she is and what she wants. This has been my first real try at the on-line dateing stuff .... finding too many that just live it behind a keyboard... talking with different folks and having in a short time some weird experiences from the online stuff... is this normal?

I am even a bit more leary... so it's nice to see that there are folks here who are out there in the fireing line of life and check in here as well...

Ok so now I can see that you and a couple of the others here are for real...

looking for online tips, any ideas from folks who've been around here longer than I?



Peace and blessings,

Walter

[Phebbes]

Originally posted by Victoriah
Happy happy happy Birthday to me..........gonna dance around the house with the puppy singing......"".You say its your birthday...gonna have a good time..ya ya ya ""(^) (^) (^)

HAPPY BIRTHDY TO YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU


(f) 'S FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY

[GemmeFemme]

it's Victoriah's birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May you find many (k) (k) (k) (k) (k) (k) (k) and much (l) (l) (l) (l)!

[ange]

Originally posted by SirWalterHere
WOW-well thought out
What a nice website as well. It was nice to read about someone who has self knowledge and applies it to her life. Knows who she is and what she wants. This has been my first real try at the on-line dateing stuff .... finding too many that just live it behind a keyboard... talking with different folks and having in a short time some weird experiences from the online stuff... is this normal?

I am even a bit more leary... so it's nice to see that there are folks here who are out there in the fireing line of life and check in here as well...

Ok so now I can see that you and a couple of the others here are for real...

looking for online tips, any ideas from folks who've been around here longer than I?



*blush* Thank you for the compliments. (psssst....did you find lil cherub's page on the website?)

Yes, unfortunately, the weird experiences from online stuff is normal. My first online experience was VERY negative and VERY expensive. My second online experience was negative and moderately expensive. My third online experience was positive but expensive (we lived in two different countries).

As far as tips go, here are a few off the top of my head:

1) Pay attention to the red flags that go off in your head.
2) Ask for references FROM PEOPLE YOU TRUST. (Anybody can make up references.)
3) Never sell your house. If you move to be with someone, rent your house out for the total of your mortgage payment, homeowner's insurance, and taxes. Well, okay, if you are together for several years and things are going well, then MAYBE sell your house.
4) Talk...alot.
5) No sex on the first date. (Well.....try.)
6) If you are into BDSM, no play on the first date!!!
7) When meeting, set up safe calls....that goes for the Daddi and the girl. My safe calls include two sherriff's deputies. If you are unable to have at least one safe call with a law enforcement officer, set up your safe calls with people who are as geographically close as possible.
8) Drive seperate cars. That way, you can always leave when you want to if things aren't going the way you hoped.
9) If you do wind up moving in with someone, set up financial and general reponsibility guidlines and put it in writing. Reassess the guidelines first, after three months, then again at six months, then every six months to a year or when a "major life change" occurs. "Contracts" aren't just for BDSM.....or at least they shouldn't be, in my opinion.

There's a few... I'm sure other babygirls and the Daddies can offer more.

[SyrQ]

*daddi smile* you are more than welcome lil one...and anytime you want to crawl up on this couch---please do not hesitate...

---come on up---make yourself comfy...


---my day was a good one--...got a nap in---YAY! and how was yours?

[SyrQ]

well put--on all accounts. knowing what one wants, needs and desires is half the battle...age does have it's own rewards...

and that advice about 'warning signs'...AMEN to that!...when the alarm in your head goes off---RUN, do not walk to the nearest precinct...

thank you for your tips-----we all can use them I am sure...

[SyrQ]

I have a question:

What does 'Daddi' mean to you? and Who is 'Daddi' to you?

thank you in advance for your responses...this daddi is always trying to learn and grow...I desperately want to be a much better daddi tomorrow, than the daddi I am today

(f) (f)

*shutting up and listening intently to the lil grrls*

[sweetlilone]

*pads softly over and climbs up next to SyrQ with my blankie*

Thanks for the welcome.

Happy Birthday Vic.......may you have many more.

sweet

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by ange
Hmmmm.....That gives me an idea.


http://www.geocities.com/ange967492

Photos in the Member Gallery.

*thinking that wasn't anywhere near as good as what Syr Q posted....gulping....closing my eyes...and clicking on "Submit Reply" *

ange,

thank you for the compliment. and if I may be so bold as to say, you are quite the attractive lil grrl...mmmm...*being a very good daddi*

[SyrQ]

tis my pleasure to have a sweet lil grrl curld up next to me...*covering you up with your blankie...kissing your forehead*

pleased to see you lil one *S*

[GemmeFemme]

I am relatively new to the dynamics between Daddies and grrls, but I do know what I like and that I like it veeerrrry much.

To me, a good Daddi represents: a safe haven from the world, protection from myself, warmth, strength, freedom, healing, and an equal half to my heart and soul that fits perfectly. There is a connection there, that when you have it, feels euphoric.

There's more, but that is just off the top of my curly-headed self.

Kisses to All...........(k) (k) (k)

[SirWalterHere]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by ange
[B]*blush* Thank you for the compliments. (psssst....did you find lil cherub's page on the website?)

yes I did find lil cherub's page ;) that was nice too... :)


thanks for the tips.. use to the safe calls in BDSM but most I've met prior to a play party or munch... it's just been strange..

[King_Hatshepsut]

Hi Folks..

I used to be someone's Daddy a long time ago...I really miss it..

J

[todo boi]

Someone talked to me woohoo...lol
Hey um syr Q how about we tickle lil gal??*weg*(6)

[Amethystluv]

Dear Syr Q.........

Whenever i see Your name i hear the song, " To Sir With Love"........*giggle*

*bluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuush* i seem to do that alot in here......* walking over to Syr to sit next to Hym* . Thank You so much for asking me to sit next to You. It is an honor to be here.........i will be good, i promise * giving my sweetest lil grrl smile*.....i love Your Daddi smile and Daddi eyes.......*blush*. (a) i am so glad you had a good day! please, tell me more about You, SyrQ.....

Love and HUGZ!
~Ame~ (k) (k) (l) (l)

(f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f)

[Amethystluv]

WELCOME KING H!!!!!

i do hope Your stay here is warm and welcoming........i , too , had a Daddy once long, long, long ago......it is ever so hard to be without a Daddy/babygrrl/grrl.... i hope You find the grrl/babygrrl of Your dreams!


Love, ~Ame~ (l)


(f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f)

[Amethystluv]

ooooooooooh todooooooooooooo........Hey..........NO tickling. LOL LOL LOL
Love, ~Ame~(l) (k)

[Ladyfire]

Is there a daddi in the house? I had a daddi long ago & I miss the dynamics so ................How I love the warmth of Daddi and making hym proud........Any idea of any good sites that are safe & sound?

~~Ladyfire~~

[King_Hatshepsut]

Amethystluv,

Thank you for the warm welcome...

...getting all comfy on the couch with my glass of Chavas.....

J

[Amethyst_FL]

*tip-toes into the room, with a big tray loaded with cups, fragrant coffee and tea, and all the accoutrements* *S*

I am sure the aromas wafting through the halls will wake everyone up and invite them in.

(^) Happy belated Birthday Victoriah... Hope your day was wonderful.

[Amethystluv]

You are most welcome, King H..........~Ame~ (l)

[SyrQ]

WELCOMES go out to all those who have entered...please make yourselves at home...and enjoy! ! !

[SyrQ]

mmmm, thank you for the tea...*taking a cup and sitting back*...

enjoy yourself and have fun...

(f)

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by Amethystluv
Dear Syr Q.........

Whenever i see Your name i hear the song, " To Sir With Love"........*giggle*

*bluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuush* i seem to do that alot in here......* walking over to Syr to sit next to Hym* . Thank You so much for asking me to sit next to You. It is an honor to be here.........i will be good, i promise * giving my sweetest lil grrl smile*.....i love Your Daddi smile and Daddi eyes.......*blush*. (a) i am so glad you had a good day! please, tell me more about You, SyrQ.....

Love and HUGZ!
~Ame~ (k) (k) (l) (l)

(f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f) (f)


lol@lil grrls being good...I hope not too good, considering I absolutely adore brats...

hmmm, tell you more about me, eh? well, let me see---

-animals are my passion
-I love working out
-something that gives me great pleasure is spoiling 'my lil grrl' and being able to bring a smile to her lips
-I do have a temper, however I am learning to say I need sometime to calm down
-I love sweets
-my greatest weakness is---hmmm, is...

to be continued at another time---

oh, and did I mention---keeping womyn in complete suspense...to the very edge...and not let her fall *eg*...at least without permission...


*S*

your turn...

[ange]

Originally posted by SyrQ
I have a question:

What does 'Daddi' mean to you? and Who is 'Daddi' to you?



*smile* I like your questions, Syr Q. Hmmm....if you will give me a bit of license, I'd like to give "life experience" examples of what a Daddi is to me and what a Daddi is NOT. (Both the good and the bad really happened to me.)

A Daddi encourages your dreams (no matter how short lived or far fetched!) and honors you by allowing you to risk. He knows this is how his baby learns and grows and shines....and occasionally skins her knees or her heart.

A Daddi does NOT tell you "you can't do anything right".

For Christmas, Daddi might buy you just one special gift which required thought and nurtures your dream. (ie. you are currently dreaming of being a sushi chef and Daddi buys you a sushi service for two made by a local artisan. [I cried when I got it, it was so thoughtful and wonderful.])

A Daddi does NOT spend hundreds of dollars on things he thinks you have to have to because he likes them and after all they cost a lot of money, in fact so much he really resents how much he spent on you.

A Daddi finds a special stuffed animal and tucks the two of you in when you are feeling poopy.

A Daddi does NOT make fun of you for a teddy bear, a special blankey, or a thumb that happens to find its way into your mouth when you are sick or feeling bad.

A Daddi says stuff like "Baby, be careful of the ice. I'll bring the rest of the groceries in."

A Daddi does NOT sit and watch the biography of Stevie Nicks as you drag heavy storage boxes by after telling you to clean out the back bedroom.

A Daddi, after fisting you for the first time, tells you to lie still and gently cleans the lube and cum from you with a warm, soft wash cloth, dries you, then comes up and holds you.

A Daddi does NOT say "Well, I'm going to work now." after tearing you because when he asks you "Are you okay?" your response is "I don't know." and "Do you need to go to the hospital or see a doctor?" "I don't know." (Because I didn't know. I had never been torn before.)

A Daddi, unexpectedly, contributes to the weeks budget even though this is just a visit for the two of you.

A Daddi does NOT say "You're not leaving until you give me another $500!" (Even though he already owes you $1600 from not paying his share of expenses as formally agreed upon.)

Now....for some more generalized qualities:

A Daddi is honest.
A Daddi is compassionate.
A Daddi knows the difference between laughing with and laughing at....and you can tell it.
A Daddi follows through.
A Daddi is honorable.
A Daddi thinks you are the sexiest and most beautiful baby to ever walk into his life....and you actually believe it, because to him its "heart true" .
A Daddi leads by example.
A Daddi knows that the little impetuous gifts he brings you (or better yet, makes for you) are actually priceless treasures.
A Daddi is the only person whose arms you want to be in when your heart hurts.
A Daddi is the first person you want to tell good news!
A Daddi is the person whose voice you want to hear before you go to sleep, whose breathing you want to hear when you wake up in the night, and whose voice you want to hear in the morning.
A Daddi is the one who can say, "Baby, everything's okay." and it magically is.
A Daddi knows the importance of cuddles, animal crackers, and bedtime stories in the care and feeding of a babygirl.
A Daddi tastes and smells like nobody else.
(For me) a Daddi has a close relationship with his cock. (In other words, a Daddi is highly skilled in the use of a strap on.)
A Daddi is spiritual.
A Daddi is always seeking to grow.....and expects the same of his babygirl and helps her to achieve it....just as baby helps Daddi.

There's so much more.....the Daddi/babygirl relationship is sooo intricate, so deep, so beautiful. *sigh*

[Amethystluv]

ange...............wow . i am in awe and at the same time i am angry you were harmed and NOT tended to or cared for.......good luck , hon, in finding your hearts desire. Love, ~Ame~ (l)

[ange]

Originally posted by SyrQ
ange,

thank you for the compliment. and if I may be so bold as to say, you are quite the attractive lil grrl...mmmm...*being a very good daddi*

*giggles and blushes*

*softly* Thank you, SyrQ.

[toriwants]

I think I'm just going to sit on the outskirts here and watch the play for awhile. Very interesting the things that are discussed here. :$

Tori

[Amethystluv]

Hi toriwants.....welcome.......come pull up a cushion...* patting the one next to me*

Love, ~Ame~(l)

[toriwants]

walks over and sits on cushion.:::::I enjoy the interaction here. I have a butch boi with strong "daddi" tendencies. It's all very new to me so thank you for the welcome::::::

Tori

[peas&carrots]

Originally posted by ange
*smile* I like your questions, Syr Q. Hmmm....if you will give me a bit of license, I'd like to give "life experience" examples of what a Daddi is to me and what a Daddi is NOT. (Both the good and the bad really happened to me.)

A Daddi encourages your dreams (no matter how short lived or far fetched!) and honors you by allowing you to risk. He knows this is how his baby learns and grows and shines....and occasionally skins her knees or her heart.

A Daddi does NOT tell you "you can't do anything right".

For Christmas, Daddi might buy you just one special gift which required thought and nurtures your dream. (ie. you are currently dreaming of being a sushi chef and Daddi buys you a sushi service for two made by a local artisan. [I cried when I got it, it was so thoughtful and wonderful.])

A Daddi does NOT spend hundreds of dollars on things he thinks you have to have to because he likes them and after all they cost a lot of money, in fact so much he really resents how much he spent on you.

A Daddi finds a special stuffed animal and tucks the two of you in when you are feeling poopy.

A Daddi does NOT make fun of you for a teddy bear, a special blankey, or a thumb that happens to find its way into your mouth when you are sick or feeling bad.

A Daddi says stuff like "Baby, be careful of the ice. I'll bring the rest of the groceries in."

A Daddi does NOT sit and watch the biography of Stevie Nicks as you drag heavy storage boxes by after telling you to clean out the back bedroom.

A Daddi, after fisting you for the first time, tells you to lie still and gently cleans the lube and cum from you with a warm, soft wash cloth, dries you, then comes up and holds you.

A Daddi does NOT say "Well, I'm going to work now." after tearing you because when he asks you "Are you okay?" your response is "I don't know." and "Do you need to go to the hospital or see a doctor?" "I don't know." (Because I didn't know. I had never been torn before.)

A Daddi, unexpectedly, contributes to the weeks budget even though this is just a visit for the two of you.

A Daddi does NOT say "You're not leaving until you give me another $500!" (Even though he already owes you $1600 from not paying his share of expenses as formally agreed upon.)

Now....for some more generalized qualities:

A Daddi is honest.
A Daddi is compassionate.
A Daddi knows the difference between laughing with and laughing at....and you can tell it.
A Daddi follows through.
A Daddi is honorable.
A Daddi thinks you are the sexiest and most beautiful baby to ever walk into his life....and you actually believe it, because to him its "heart true" .
A Daddi leads by example.
A Daddi knows that the little impetuous gifts he brings you (or better yet, makes for you) are actually priceless treasures.
A Daddi is the only person whose arms you want to be in when your heart hurts.
A Daddi is the first person you want to tell good news!
A Daddi is the person whose voice you want to hear before you go to sleep, whose breathing you want to hear when you wake up in the night, and whose voice you want to hear in the morning.
A Daddi is the one who can say, "Baby, everything's okay." and it magically is.
A Daddi knows the importance of cuddles, animal crackers, and bedtime stories in the care and feeding of a babygirl.
A Daddi tastes and smells like nobody else.
(For me) a Daddi has a close relationship with his cock. (In other words, a Daddi is highly skilled in the use of a strap on.)
A Daddi is spiritual.
A Daddi is always seeking to grow.....and expects the same of his babygirl and helps her to achieve it....just as baby helps Daddi.

There's so much more.....the Daddi/babygirl relationship is sooo intricate, so deep, so beautiful. *sigh*

That was so beautiful Ange! Daddy's are so hard to come by. I'm already in love with mine already. I'm just waiting to meet hym.

[peas&carrots]

I am new here to D/g dynamic. Would someone mind going to the Butchdaddy/girl thread and help me out with my questions? I would very much appreciate that. Thanks.

[peas&carrots]

To me, a Daddy is tender and strong at the same time.

Oh, yes, and hy is patient with me while i'm going through my moodiness. Hy's as cool as a cucumber while I'm panicking or freaking out about something. Just hearing hys voice well calm me down, and somehow, hy'll say something that will wipe away that frown on my face.

[ange]

*seeing Peas name and suddenly wanting to change mine to World Peas*

*thinking twice about that*

nahhhhhhh

[Phebbes]

Originally posted by SyrQ
I have a question:

What does 'Daddi' mean to you? and Who is 'Daddi' to you?

~What does a Daddy mean to me?................ ~trust~

[princessakittygirl w/meow]

Originally posted by ange
*smile* I like your questions, Syr Q. Hmmm....if you will give me a bit of license, I'd like to give "life experience" examples of what a Daddi is to me and what a Daddi is NOT. (Both the good and the bad really happened to me.)

A Daddi encourages your dreams (no matter how short lived or far fetched!) and honors you by allowing you to risk. He knows this is how his baby learns and grows and shines....and occasionally skins her knees or her heart.

A Daddi does NOT tell you "you can't do anything right".

For Christmas, Daddi might buy you just one special gift which required thought and nurtures your dream. (ie. you are currently dreaming of being a sushi chef and Daddi buys you a sushi service for two made by a local artisan. [I cried when I got it, it was so thoughtful and wonderful.])

A Daddi does NOT spend hundreds of dollars on things he thinks you have to have to because he likes them and after all they cost a lot of money, in fact so much he really resents how much he spent on you.

A Daddi finds a special stuffed animal and tucks the two of you in when you are feeling poopy.

A Daddi does NOT make fun of you for a teddy bear, a special blankey, or a thumb that happens to find its way into your mouth when you are sick or feeling bad.

A Daddi says stuff like "Baby, be careful of the ice. I'll bring the rest of the groceries in."

A Daddi does NOT sit and watch the biography of Stevie Nicks as you drag heavy storage boxes by after telling you to clean out the back bedroom.

A Daddi, after fisting you for the first time, tells you to lie still and gently cleans the lube and cum from you with a warm, soft wash cloth, dries you, then comes up and holds you.

A Daddi does NOT say "Well, I'm going to work now." after tearing you because when he asks you "Are you okay?" your response is "I don't know." and "Do you need to go to the hospital or see a doctor?" "I don't know." (Because I didn't know. I had never been torn before.)

A Daddi, unexpectedly, contributes to the weeks budget even though this is just a visit for the two of you.

A Daddi does NOT say "You're not leaving until you give me another $500!" (Even though he already owes you $1600 from not paying his share of expenses as formally agreed upon.)

Now....for some more generalized qualities:

A Daddi is honest.
A Daddi is compassionate.
A Daddi knows the difference between laughing with and laughing at....and you can tell it.
A Daddi follows through.
A Daddi is honorable.
A Daddi thinks you are the sexiest and most beautiful baby to ever walk into his life....and you actually believe it, because to him its "heart true" .
A Daddi leads by example.
A Daddi knows that the little impetuous gifts he brings you (or better yet, makes for you) are actually priceless treasures.
A Daddi is the only person whose arms you want to be in when your heart hurts.
A Daddi is the first person you want to tell good news!
A Daddi is the person whose voice you want to hear before you go to sleep, whose breathing you want to hear when you wake up in the night, and whose voice you want to hear in the morning.
A Daddi is the one who can say, "Baby, everything's okay." and it magically is.
A Daddi knows the importance of cuddles, animal crackers, and bedtime stories in the care and feeding of a babygirl.
A Daddi tastes and smells like nobody else.
(For me) a Daddi has a close relationship with his cock. (In other words, a Daddi is highly skilled in the use of a strap on.)
A Daddi is spiritual.
A Daddi is always seeking to grow.....and expects the same of his babygirl and helps her to achieve it....just as baby helps Daddi.

There's so much more.....the Daddi/babygirl relationship is sooo intricate, so deep, so beautiful. *sigh*

I luv it Ange, dont settle for anything less than this..(k)

[peas&carrots]

Ange, you made me blush. :$

[FaeriePrincess]

My Daddy is trustworthy. You are right Phebbes.Trust is first and foremost. Please excuse me for invading the singles thread.
~(l) Faerie(l) ~ and DaddyRyan

[ange]

Originally posted by peas&carrots
Ange, you made me blush. :$

That's all it takes to make you blush? You're gonna be funnnnnnnnnnn *naughty giggle....followed quickly by a reassuring smile*

[Phebbes]

Originally posted by FaeriePrincess
My Daddy is trustworthy. You are right Phebbes.Trust is first and foremost. Please excuse me for invading the singles thread.
~(l) Faerie(l) ~ and DaddyRyan
~thank you~
and you are welcome here and to come back......

pssttt and please bring any single Daddy's with you ~lol~

(f) 's to you and Daddy Ryan

[peas&carrots]

uh, oh. Running to Daddy.

[todo boi]

A big must huh?... lol....... How about bringin the best out our babygrrl... an amkin the world revolve round them.. an dang it juss the most fun ever.. wouldnt want it any other way... by the way.. big grin for all the lovley gals out there would like to dedicate this song to most wonderful grrls out there an u in here make us daddis complete......... *How do I live with out u?*(k)

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by ange
*smile* I like your questions, Syr Q. Hmmm....if you will give me a bit of license, I'd like to give "life experience" examples of what a Daddi is to me and what a Daddi is NOT. (Both the good and the bad really happened to me.)

A Daddi encourages your dreams (no matter how short lived or far fetched!) and honors you by allowing you to risk. He knows this is how his baby learns and grows and shines....and occasionally skins her knees or her heart.

A Daddi does NOT tell you "you can't do anything right".

For Christmas, Daddi might buy you just one special gift which required thought and nurtures your dream. (ie. you are currently dreaming of being a sushi chef and Daddi buys you a sushi service for two made by a local artisan. [I cried when I got it, it was so thoughtful and wonderful.])

A Daddi does NOT spend hundreds of dollars on things he thinks you have to have to because he likes them and after all they cost a lot of money, in fact so much he really resents how much he spent on you.

A Daddi finds a special stuffed animal and tucks the two of you in when you are feeling poopy.

A Daddi does NOT make fun of you for a teddy bear, a special blankey, or a thumb that happens to find its way into your mouth when you are sick or feeling bad.

A Daddi says stuff like "Baby, be careful of the ice. I'll bring the rest of the groceries in."

A Daddi does NOT sit and watch the biography of Stevie Nicks as you drag heavy storage boxes by after telling you to clean out the back bedroom.

A Daddi, after fisting you for the first time, tells you to lie still and gently cleans the lube and cum from you with a warm, soft wash cloth, dries you, then comes up and holds you.

A Daddi does NOT say "Well, I'm going to work now." after tearing you because when he asks you "Are you okay?" your response is "I don't know." and "Do you need to go to the hospital or see a doctor?" "I don't know." (Because I didn't know. I had never been torn before.)

A Daddi, unexpectedly, contributes to the weeks budget even though this is just a visit for the two of you.

A Daddi does NOT say "You're not leaving until you give me another $500!" (Even though he already owes you $1600 from not paying his share of expenses as formally agreed upon.)

Now....for some more generalized qualities:

A Daddi is honest.
A Daddi is compassionate.
A Daddi knows the difference between laughing with and laughing at....and you can tell it.
A Daddi follows through.
A Daddi is honorable.
A Daddi thinks you are the sexiest and most beautiful baby to ever walk into his life....and you actually believe it, because to him its "heart true" .
A Daddi leads by example.
A Daddi knows that the little impetuous gifts he brings you (or better yet, makes for you) are actually priceless treasures.
A Daddi is the only person whose arms you want to be in when your heart hurts.
A Daddi is the first person you want to tell good news!
A Daddi is the person whose voice you want to hear before you go to sleep, whose breathing you want to hear when you wake up in the night, and whose voice you want to hear in the morning.
A Daddi is the one who can say, "Baby, everything's okay." and it magically is.
A Daddi knows the importance of cuddles, animal crackers, and bedtime stories in the care and feeding of a babygirl.
A Daddi tastes and smells like nobody else.
(For me) a Daddi has a close relationship with his cock. (In other words, a Daddi is highly skilled in the use of a strap on.)
A Daddi is spiritual.
A Daddi is always seeking to grow.....and expects the same of his babygirl and helps her to achieve it....just as baby helps Daddi.

There's so much more.....the Daddi/babygirl relationship is sooo intricate, so deep, so beautiful. *sigh*




......I am beyond words......

for words can never convey the emotions that I am captivated by at this moment...and more than likely, will be for eternity...

your words----have touched me for several reasons.

the first being, I was all those things at one time---to a very special lil one...

the second being, I was none of those in the end---to a very special lil one...

thank you for causing me to think and to reflect on 'our' time together...I have learned a great deal from your true words...thank you for sharing and...

I am happy that you endured, learned and are moving on into your destiny...

growth is an amazing, wonderful and sometime (most often), painful teacher...however, without growth, we remain stagnant...

the lessons I learned from 'her,' albeit, in hindsight have been invaluable and extremely painful...I can honestly say, thank you to 'her' --for allowing 'herself' to be the catalyst to my growth and for making me want to be a better daddi--but mostly, she made me want to be a better PERSON...

and thank you to all the lil grrls that open up, shake up, rattle and role my life forward...my blessing go out to all of you...and on behalf of the extremely lucky daddi's that will have the pleasure of being loved by you...


forever in gratitude,
Q

(f)

[SyrQ]

WELCOMES! ! !

go to all who have entered...have fun...and enjoy...

[peas&carrots]

Several months ago I wrote a list of qualities that I would find in my ideal dream butch. I completely forgot about it because I stashed it away. I took it out again to look at and I discovered that most of the qualities I wrote down were Daddy qualities!!! I didn't know it at the time. I think my head space is naturally babygirl! :) SpiritualRose and I had a wee conversation over the Butchdaddy/girl thread and we were talking about how it's so hard to please people and how Daddys love us just the way we are. Well, lo and behold, geuss what was on the top of my list?!!! This is a really neat and exciting discovery for me. I would like to share this unedited version that I wrote (some of it includes just plain butch-femme stuff too). Here it goes:

I love every little detail about her. I just adore her. I love:
-the way she loves me just the way I am
-the way she appreciates the femininity in me
-that she is so caring and compassionate towards me
-that she thinks of me throughout the day and lets me know
-her body - how strong her muscles are
-how she's bigger than me, so that when she hugs and squeezes me, I fit perfectly in her arms
-the way she puts thought and love into everything she does for me
-how she insists on being the "man" and treats me like a lady
-the way she makes me so happy, even just by being with me
-the way she makes me feel good about myself
-that she supports my dreams and ambitions and believes in me
-the way she appears tough on the outside, but is so sensitive and in touch with my feelings
-the fact that she is my complete compliment and that she fills in for my every weakness - she's cool as a cucumber, she fixes things, she's good at organizing and planning things
-the fact that she is a spiritual person
-the goodness in her - always seeking to help rather than hurt others
-how she walks with that butch swagger and how she holds herself with such confidence as she walks
-how she has such a calming effect on me
--how she drips sex appeal and wants to please me

She's my hero!

Well, that's it.

[sweetlilone]

very nice peas & carrots. i have to agree with you on your thoughts, isn't that everyone's dream?

sweet

[Your Princess]

Hello everyone! Gosh I am so in awe over what I've read here! Ange your description is not only beautiful but very inspiring and eye opening. Thanks for that!(})
Peas and Carrots, you too wrote something very beautiful, thanks for sharing this with us!

And as always, I wish those Daddiless lil' girls to find their perfect daddy soon! (^)
And for those of you who are fortunate to have their daddies, Kudos to you and best of everything!(l)

YP

[Poonfairy1]

I'm still learning alot about my Daddi....this is the first relationship I've been in like this...and yes at times I do buck up...but I'm learning...(grinz)

[AllFemmyGirl]

Ange you said that beautifully *s*

[peas&carrots]

Thanks lilone and Your Princess.

I just have to add one more thing to my list:
-how he calls me Babygirl <-----like music to my ears
-and whispers "Daddy" to me during naughty time

[toriwants]

I didn't think about this yesterday but I hope you don't mind my hanging out in here a little. I'm not single but I'm trying to understand the dynamics of a Daddi/girl relationship.

Anyway, thank you for letting me lurk awhile.

Tori

[Victoriah]

Thank-you to all you wonderful gurls and Daddys for all the birthday wishs. Actually you all made my day !(^) My friends took good care of me and I had 2 cakes.........was taken out to dinner and given lots of wonderful "gurlie" presents. Had hoped to find a Daddy nicely wraped but oh well, thats ok too. Love to you all and you will never know how GOOD you all made me feel............(k) (k) (k)

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by peas&carrots
Thanks lilone and Your Princess.

I just have to add one more thing to my list:
-how he calls me Babygirl <-----like music to my ears
-and whispers "Daddy" to me during naughty time

WELCOME peas&carrots...glad you are here...

have a seat...and enjoy...*W*

I do love to call my lil one----babygrrl...*missing that*

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by toriwants
I didn't think about this yesterday but I hope you don't mind my hanging out in here a little. I'm not single but I'm trying to understand the dynamics of a Daddi/girl relationship.

Anyway, thank you for letting me lurk awhile.

Tori


you are more than WELCOME...and no, we do not mind...

learn, share, add, detract...whatever strikes you...all we ask in here is that everyO/one accepts that we all have our opinions, feelings, emotional instabilities (*s*), and most of us--(esp. me) wears our heart on our sleeve...tread softly and watch for hearts that may have fallen off (my) sleeves *w*...CAN I GET AN AMYN?

! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ENJOY! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

[SyrQ]

you are more than welcome...happy to hear you had a wonderful day...

your daddi is looking for you...patience lil one...hy will be there, when you are ready...and your lessons are learned...and the next chapter will begin...*S* (*telling myself that* lessons--sheesh) grrrrrrr---

(f)(f)(f)(f)(f)

[Amethystluv]

AMYN SYR Q!!!!!!!!!!!

I hear you on the heart on my sleeve thing.....*S* I hope Your babygrrl comes to You soon Syr.....may You find sweet joy and love in no time flat....

I have decided I need more time btwn Daddy's.......I apparantly have not learned enough, so not looking is best suited to me. It is when I look, I get MY heart broken. I am soooooooooo tired of being disappointed and left behind or totally misunderstood. I am tired of others that read into my words what they want to see or they decide I have motivations that do not exist. I am tired.....of people having egos so large, they must surely be the reason I speak /post .......I am finished with others that cannot take responsibility for their own lives, words, issues and do not give others/anyone the opportunity to speak up after being falsely accused .
This lilgrrl has learned that just because a Daddy says they are one way , does not necessarily make it true.I have learned that experience is the judge.....too many Daddys are wannabes or just plain abusive.....NO I AM NOT MAKING ACCUSATIONS here. That has happened to me already here and I feel like from now on I need preface what I say.
Suffice it to say I heard from my Daddy from yrs ago..............Hy lied to me and used me up. Just hearing Hys voice over the phone let me know I was right in what I knew to be true......Hy'd show up when the grrl he was w/ found Hym out......." Oh babygrrl can't I see you?" NOOOOOOOOO WAY. .....

I know what I want and do not want.....I know that after hearing from Hym I have more work to do on myself.I know that I do not want a submissive position, that I am NO one's toy nor am I there just for their pleasure WHEN THEY DECIDE. I am an individual who is going to NEVER bend to another persons will.....EVER.

Syr Q , please excuse my rant....I just felt safe doing it under Your thread...Thank You Syr.....excuse me's to the rest of the thread members too........

~Ame~.(l) (k)

[toriwants]

Originally posted by SyrQ
you are more than WELCOME...and no, we do not mind...

learn, share, add, detract...whatever strikes you...all we ask in here is that everyO/one accepts that we all have our opinions, feelings, emotional instabilities (*s*), and most of us--(esp. me) wears our heart on our sleeve...tread softly and watch for hearts that may have fallen off (my) sleeves *w*...CAN I GET AN AMYN?

! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ENJOY! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

I respect everyone's views and I promise to thread lightly. All I ask is that you please not laugh to hard at the questions I may come up with as I am new to this and had never heard of the concept until joining B-F.

Thank you,
Tori

[Amethystluv]

tori , honey , there are NO wrong questions......there are NO stupid questions......there are ONLY questions we have NOT asked, yet. Ask away sweet grrl.......and remember NOT one of U/us has all of the answers for W/we are A/all always learning.............PM me if ya wanna...........Love, ~Ame~ (l)

[BaltoButch]

A Daddy is all of those thing girls...


but a Daddy is a human being with feelings and emotions... sometimes, it is hard for Us to be a human....

we see the disappointment when our flaws are revealed... and it is much harder for a girl to accept those flaws because Daddies are often times place upon a pedestal... one that one might only fall from in moments of weakness...

That is My experience... maybe I am not as whole again, as I thought I was...

Each girl looks for similiar qualities... but each girl is so different as are Daddies... and just as girls are naturally girls... most Daddies are naturally Daddies... it is inborn in Us...

But without a D/g forum to discuss these concepts within the safe confines of a thread *tips hat to SyrQ AGAIN for the great space and to Rhon for keeping it safe*... no open dialogue can be achieved to balance, gorw and learn...

It is nice to see, good qualities I used to be on those lists girls... and good to know the bad ones... well most, I never possessed... Its the now... and I question if they are all still intact after a few very bad rels.


durn it, ya got Me thinking again lmao

[Amethystluv]

I am sure You have many many good qualities.......as to falling off pedastals......W/we all are human and have feet of clay......babygrrls included.

E/everyone needs food for thought and E/everyone needs to make mistakes AND grow, however, the need to be able to address the reality or nonreality of those mistakes is paramount....for without works there is no gain.

Hiding from our mistakes .......hiding from othrrs that could help resolve issues is to stick O/one's head in the sand and that is regression . I used to do that sooooooooo much.........hide not face . Now, I face the good, the bad and the ugly in my life. AND I will not move forward , at any point in time , if I do not face forward , that does not mean I avoid things. It means I take them head-on.

Syr Q? You said in a post above You were given food for thought by ange.......I was , too. Maybe, W/we should have a forum on learning from our present and our past.......you know a "workshop" so -to- speak on D/g , both Leather D/g and NonLeather D/g.....any takers on this idea?

Love,~Ame~ (l)

[peas&carrots]

SyrQ, I really appreciate the welcome. I will make myself comfortable here and sip a cup of tea.

It must be really hard to be a Daddy and live up to extrememly high ideals and expections of a girl. I also needed to be reminded the Daddys are humans too. I think the "workshop" idea is a really good one.

Toriheart, I asked tons of questions, so much that noone goes to that Butchdaddy/girl thread anymore. lol. I scared everyone off. But I'm glad I asked anyway. Please ask your questions because what you might think is a stupid question, may be one that other people want to know the answer too, but are too shy to ask or too afraid to look stupid. BTW, I read through all the threads and a referenced article, too...so I did my research on this site...but there were still some unanswered questions that I had.

And now for my burning question that wasn't really answered adequately in the other thread. What is the difference between an Old School Butch and a Daddy? I have trouble seeing how a Daddy doesn't have many of the same characteristics as an Old School Butch.

[toriwants]

Originally posted by peas&carrots

And now for my burning question that wasn't really answered adequately in the other thread. What is the difference between an Old School Butch and a Daddy? I have trouble seeing how a Daddy doesn't have many of the same characteristics as an Old School Butch. [/B]

Ok now you've added another term I'm not firmiliar with. Old School Butch? Who knew there were so many different categories. :s

[BaltoButch]

TOOOO MANY to count these days LMAO

To Me: old-school is a Butch who is more of the 50s TV guy than a Daddy (although some are Daddies as well)... the difference is one has a gf and one had a babygirl...

I am often called Old-School because some Leather Daddies think Daddy is a leather term (originally it was)... but it has been adoptted by us youngins LOL as a term to define our relationship desires and the roles in our rels...

Old School Butches (of the non-Daddy variety) as tend to be husbutches... a great thing to be too... when one is lucky enough to have a wife LMAO

The type of care is similiar but the mind set is different

I am a Tradional Butch... and somewhat conservative, I am of both the husbutch and Daddy mentality and it can be confusing to explain

I attemptted... I know SyrQ can probably explain this far better than I *smile*


Originally posted by toriwants
Ok now you've added another term I'm not firmiliar with. Old School Butch? Who knew there were so many different categories. :s

[toriwants]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by BaltoButch
[B]TOOOO MANY to count these days LMAO

The type of care is similiar but the mind set is different

I am a Tradional Butch... and somewhat conservative, I am of both the husbutch and Daddy mentality and it can be confusing to explain
QUOTE]

I'm not sure I understand the different mentality or mind set. How is it different? Maybe I don't understand because I've never met an actual "daddi". From reading some of the posts, it seems that some people call themselves daddi's but actually aren't and then I've also read where some take it as far as the babygirl talking baby talk. Sorry if I'm confusing this. I'm just trying to understand.

Tori

[Amethystluv]

Babytalking is part of age play tori.....not everyone engages in age play that young....nor age play at all.
Age play is role playing.....a grrl/babygrrl & Daddy may or may not wish to do this . Just as some grrls/babygrrls are bratty....*weg*.......some are not. it is all up to your own personal prefernces.

Love, ~Ame~ (l)

[toriwants]

Originally posted by Amethystluv
Babytalking is part of age play tori.....not everyone engages in age play that young....nor age play at all.
Age play is role playing.....a grrl/babygrrl & Daddy may or may not wish to do this . Just as some grrls/babygrrls are bratty....*weg*.......some are not. it is all up to your own personal prefernces.

Love, ~Ame~ (l)

Ok, so the bratty and babytalk are a preference or based on personalities. I can understand that part of it.....I've been called bratty more than once by my love. (a)

Now I just need to understand the differences in the butch or "male" definitions. I have a hard time understanding all the different categories. What puts someone more in one category than another. Is it a preference also?

[todo boi]

Or more even confusin.. lol.........
Im type of the spanky daddi*
My crew (buddies) usually follow almost everywhere.. they dont think with out me... Im usually always twiddlin with somethin.. even more so wonderin what daral is doin.. by gosh.. an when is alfalfa goin to come that hair down?:s

[SyrQ]

I have enjoyed this thread and gained much pleasure and knowledge from it...however with this posting, I am bowing out gracefully...

...........I do hope the dialogue continues at my exit.........

I cannot in all good faith continue to take part in this dialogue, considering I am killing off the daddi that lives within me...or so I have been told--there is no daddi within me...which ever the case may be---hy does not live...

be well all...and I hope the best for each of you respectively...

and remember---take care of yourself---for no one else can take care of 'you,' like 'you'!

follow your souls path---do not deviate---

I will miss you all---greatly

adieu

(f)

[SilverVictorian]

who in the sam hill in essence told Syr Q there was no Daddy in hym..... I am also wondering who in the heck appointed them judge and jury. I only know Syr Q from this forum and from what I read Hy is most decidely a Daddy and a darn caring one at that.... You know after I read Syr Q post I wanted to P.M, but not wanting to be disrespectful I obivously decided against it. I just want to say That Syr Q for whatever hideous things were said to you I am sorry they caused you grief.
Respectfully and warmly
Scarlette (l)

[SirWalterHere]

Don't know you real well.... but what's up? I like reading your posts and don't know why you are existing. You know who you are. Don't let anyone tell you different. We've all been told many things in our lives. know your own truth and live it. the best revenge live an authentic life true to yourself and that's who you'll attract.

No matter what your truth is be well.

Peace Daddio

Walter



Originally posted by SyrQ
I have enjoyed this thread and gained much pleasure and knowledge from it...however with this posting, I am bowing out gracefully...

...........I do hope the dialogue continues at my exit.........

I cannot in all good faith continue to take part in this dialogue, considering I am killing off the daddi that lives within me...or so I have been told--there is no daddi within me...which ever the case may be---hy does not live...

be well all...and I hope the best for each of you respectively...

and remember---take care of yourself---for no one else can take care of 'you,' like 'you'!

follow your souls path---do not deviate---

I will miss you all---greatly

adieu

(f)

[BaltoButch]

there is a little known fact that seems to often time be assumed false...

the Daddy part of our being must be nurtured and maintained, not constantly questioned and tested, for it to remain strong...

yes We tend to have naturally dominant personalities, but Daddy is so much more than that, Hy is our heart and how We express that to Our girls

Often times, girls test, OFTEN, and when a test is failed, Daddy is off hys pedeatal, and so the brat turns into... well... a bit judgemental (nice way to phrase it lol)... and begins to attack Daddy for not being the fairy tale in the girls mind...

Daddies nurture their babygirls... babygirls have to remember to support Daddy too...

SyrQ, you earned My respect a long time ago... even if We did not see eye to eye, We interactted with mutual respect and agreed to disagree... I would have to say... that Daddies make mistakes, We must learn from them and move on... We will always be Daddies, even if We choose to not act upon it, and when I tried to put Daddy away in a rel, I was far from happy, that ex was not getting all of Me...

I do hope you allow your friends to be of support for you, I had many friends support Me during a very difficult time, and those friends, both babygirls and Daddies and Butches and femmes all helped Me find My smile... helped Me find Me again

With Support and Brotherhood,
Becker




Originally posted by SilverVictorian
who in the sam hill in essence told Syr Q there was no Daddy in hym..... I am also wondering who in the heck appointed them judge and jury. I only know Syr Q from this forum and from what I read Hy is most decidely a Daddy and a darn caring one at that.... You know after I read Syr Q post I wanted to P.M, but not wanting to be disrespectful I obivously decided against it. I just want to say That Syr Q for whatever hideous things were said to you I am sorry they caused you grief.
Respectfully and warmly
Scarlette (l)

[toriwants]

Originally posted by SyrQ
I have enjoyed this thread and gained much pleasure and knowledge from it...however with this posting, I am bowing out gracefully...

...........I do hope the dialogue continues at my exit.........

I cannot in all good faith continue to take part in this dialogue, considering I am killing off the daddi that lives within me...or so I have been told--there is no daddi within me...which ever the case may be---hy does not live...

be well all...and I hope the best for each of you respectively...

and remember---take care of yourself---for no one else can take care of 'you,' like 'you'!

follow your souls path---do not deviate---

I will miss you all---greatly

adieu

(f)


As I've stated before, I'm new to all of this but I would like to say that you have to be true to yourself and only you. It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks or says. You know what the truth is inside yourself.

Be who you feel you are.

Tori

[peas&carrots]

SyrQ, :| whatever went wrong?!!! I am saddened that you are bowing out. I hope you will find strenghth in yourself, and do whatever ever you need to do to heal and find yourself again. Don't let anyone let you tell you who and what you are. You are always welcome back here when you are ready.

[peas&carrots]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by ange
A Daddi, after fisting you for the first time, tells you to lie still and gently cleans the lube and cum from you with a warm, soft wash cloth, dries you, then comes up and holds you.

A Daddi does NOT say "Well, I'm going to work now." after tearing you because when he asks you "Are you okay?" your response is "I don't know." and "Do you need to go to the hospital or see a doctor?" "I don't know." (Because I didn't know. I had never been torn before.)

Ange, that's really awful. It must have made you feel like sh*t, like someone was just using you to score. The caring and tenderness makes all the difference in the world.

Toriwants, I'm glad to see you're asking questions. There are way too many terms out there!

Baltobutch, thanks for taking a stab at my question. I am really enjoying your presence here. I hope you don't leave too!

[SyrQ]

I am at a lost for words---truly...

I have received pm's and the post's here have been overwhelmingly supportive and inspirational...

I received a pm from a Butch, who will rename anonymous, largely because hy has not posted here and is lurking *S*...I want to thank hym in an open forum for hys support...that pm I receive this morning from You, made me think and mostly it was a nice Bro hug...

I want to thank all of you for your kind and sincere words that have given me strength these past hours...it has been a very painful (less than) 24 hours...I am at a fork in my life at this moment...which way do I turn?...

I suppose it is never easy when someone turns on the fans and clears the room of all the smoke and you are left there starring at yourself in the mirror of their eyes...I have long tried to live a very Buddhist life...First--do no harm--treat all life with respect and love...and see that life, as the soul that God created...

I am completely aware that I have faults and at times (many) have faulted and lost my temper and said things that I did not mean...only to be hit square between the eyes with the realization of what those words can do---to both sides...I have owned those words and made apologies and most importantly, I desperately WANT to be a BETTER person...

it is never easy to hear what someone I love and respect thinks of me when the smoke and mirrors are gone...

although I do agree whole heartedly with BaltoButch...I am not a god, nor do I play one on TV...I fell hard from grace...and even on the eve of our friendship...hell is even to nice a place for me, so it seems...I am in all honesty hurt, angry, pissed, mad as hell, feeling low, desperate, and wondering how I ended up here?

I feel, that the pain of a lost D/g relationship is perhaps the most painful, tormenting and torrential relationship a butch can loose. Loosing a babygrrl is loosing a part oneself...I am lost...not because of the 'ending,' but because I cannot be to her, what I once was---that fall is an insane place to be---there is no landing. I know I will survive--until I survive...

I hope God makes house calls.

I am drowning in my own words...words that cannot be taken back....

And for that proverbial "kick in the teeth"...I went to my PO Box today, and in the mail was a Valentine's Day card from her...the God's must be crazy...or, the God's must be cruel...

Thank you all for the support...I am taken aback...and overwhelmed...

ange---*putting my hands over my heart, to my lips, to my head---extending them to you* Thank you...*bows head*

SilverVictorian, SirWalterHere, BaltoButch, toriwants, and peas&carrots----my heart to your yours---Thank you all...

Thank you all---I needed the group hug...*W*

J

(u)

*sitting in the corner of the couch with someone's special blankey* thank you---you...

[SirWalterHere]

Welcome my friend... we are all spiritual beings haveing lots of human experiences.

Hang in there. Honesty and self awareness make one a great Daddy. In my opinion. We teach are girls and we learn from them. First we need to learn then to teach, then to learn some more.

Peace

Walter

[BaltoButch]

I am there, I yet I have moved beyond that pain... but it is a wound easily reopened... I wish My best, My Friend...

I am here, as are all of the wonderful people within these walls... We are here for you

-Becker




Originally posted by SyrQ
I am completely aware that I have faults and at times (many) have faulted and lost my temper and said things that I did not mean...only to be hit square between the eyes with the realization of what those words can do---to both sides...I have owned those words and made apologies and most importantly, I desperately WANT to be a BETTER person...

[TexasCowboi]

SyrQ..... I hate to see Ya make an exit from this thread... do what Ya have to do to take care of Yourself....first and foremost...

[SyrQ]

Thank you...I am trying to take care of myself...if I knew 'who' that was...learning who I am again should be an interesting journey--*looking at the arrow on the map---'you are here'* damn, no wonder...I was under the assumption I was there...

I guess that is what I get for not stopping and getting directions at that last LEATHERandCUFF store I saw a few years back...*making u-turn*

thank you again...

J

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by BaltoButch
I am there, I yet I have moved beyond that pain... but it is a wound easily reopened... I wish My best, My Friend...

I am here, as are all of the wonderful people within these walls... We are here for you

-Becker


Thank you BaltoButch...for your wishes...they are taken to heart and appreciated...I know I am not the only one who is or has been here....

J's life lessons:
#1 you will screw up
#2 you will screw up--again...and again
#3 she will screw up
#4 she will screw up---again...and again too....
#5 you are not alone in the relationship when it gets screwed up
#6 so have fun while you are screwing...

thank you again...

J

[Amethyst_FL]

SyrQ... You can borrow my special huggy pillow to go with that blankey *S*

[BaltoButch]

ROFLMAO @ the reality of those lessons

OUTSTANDING!!



Originally posted by SyrQ
Thank you BaltoButch...for your wishes...they are taken to heart and appreciated...I know I am not the only one who is or has been here....

J's life lessons:
#1 you will screw up
#2 you will screw up--again...and again
#3 she will screw up
#4 she will screw up---again...and again too....
#5 you are not alone in the relationship when it gets screwed up
#6 so have fun while you are screwing...

thank you again...

J

[todo boi]

Wonderin where that lil gal Ame went??:o

[Elsbeth]

~sighs~
SyrQ... certainly hope that you can return and stay. Wwe all make mistakes, learn from them and hopefully more forward, know your strong enough to do exactly that.
ElsBrat

[Amethystluv]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Syr Q!!!!!!!! How I shall miss You soooooooooooooooo. (u) (u) Where do i begin? A/all of U/us have feet of clay..........and it is a myth ,or oughta be, that if we fall/ fail/ flounder/ whathaveyou that we lose respect for O/our Daddy/ grrl. At least, i do not. People are just that, people, and as long as we learn from our mistakes that is GREAT!!!
i understand coming from a Buddhist standpoint, Syr......I have done much reading and listening. i am an ardent fan of the Dalai Lama. I suggest reading "The Wisdom Teachings of the Dalai Lama" ......very good reading. Has helped me immensely, and i OWN that i needed it and still do.

If i have learned nothing in this lifetime, Syr Q , it is this.... Love is the lesson, Protection is the key. AND........ if I DO NOT forgive myself for the transgressions i have commited against MYSELF and OTHERS, I am doomed to repeat those transgressions many more times in this lifetime . And should I wish to not repeat this one and progress to my next level, I MUST FORGIVE MYSELF , do my UTMOST to NOT repeat the transgression and move forward ( own my stuff, deal with it and let it go)

I see that You state You see what can be wrought in anger.....my heart goes out to You, Syr. My prayers go up for You and i send You Universal healing energies....and who knows Syr..........it may just be ok. In fact, i think with what You have owned, You may be surprised at how much You truly ARE a Daddy. Daddys are HUMAN.......they make mistakes both large and small.Forgive yourself........ ({) (})

Love, ~Ame~(l) (k)


Oh and..........not all of us are bratty and need to test/ push to see if Daddy falls, that is very immature,nor do all of us live in a fairytale world. WHY on earth would a grrl that truly LOVES her Daddy WANT to see if she could push Hym to fail? Foolish..............very foolish. And to push/test your grrl is equally foolish......and since there are so many good Daddy's/grrls here none of us have that need, now do we...........(a) Laugh people..............laugh. It is so good for the soul. ah well my 25cents worth.......

[Elsbeth]

Amy, being a brat is not a bad thing... it comes from wanting to bring out the joyfullness, the humour of life, teasing One into a smile... gentle laffin... it is sweet, innocent, never meanspirited... a sweet exchange... ~smiles~

[TexasCowboi]

very well put Elsbeth.....

[Poonfairy1]

SyrQ, I'm glad you are not leaving this thread, I'm like Tori, though I'm not single, I'm learning alot in here. What I'm finding out is very interesting to me. I didn't know that babygrrls at times are brats. I didn't know about the baby talk. I've just started a relationship with someone who likes me to call her Daddi. And when she calls me babygrrl, it sends shivers down my spine, it's almost a state of XTC when I hear her call me that. So please continue and let me read and learn. I want to be the best babygrrl she has ever had. Thank you for the wonderfull lessons I'm learning in here.....Pamela....The Fairy (a)

[chrisfla]

...when I lost my first - and, so far, my only - Daddy. That pain was exponentially worse than the pain of any other break-up, because I had allowed my Daddy to connect with ALL of who I was inside, NOT just the self-assured, well-educated professional that the rest of society and my vanilla lovers saw. My Daddy also knew intimately the frightened little girl that just wanted to be taken care of, reassured, praised, stroked and petted, who wanted more than anything else in the world to have a lap to curl up into and a Daddy I knew I could rely on and tell my innermost thoughts and feelings to.... Mine was also a Daddy/girl relationship in an SM sense, and also in levels somehow even deeper than that that I wish I had the words to describe. When my long-ago ex and I experienced the Daddy/girl dynamic, we were totally unaware that others also were into it, and it felt to me like the most special and wonderful secret in the world.

After my Daddy left, I wandered around like a lost soul for a month, wondering, often aloud, how I would ever get along without my Daddy. But I did. And I still do today. It wasn't that I couldn't take care of myself; I have taken care of myself for many years. But there was, and is, a yearning in my heart for that strong butch partner, and dare I say, the father figure, who was always missing from my life. My biological father is a gay man, so I never had that sort of strong male figure in my life as a child. As an adult, I found that figure in butch women, specifically, the strong, silent type to which I am usually attracted. But being with a strong butch and being with a Daddy is somehow, to me, different. As someone else already said, it is a matter of trust, and of being able to emotionally open myself up fully to Hym.

I feel for you, Syr Q. One cannot be strong all the time, and one shouldn't have to be. And I as a girl understand that, and will stand by my (future) Daddy and be proud of Hym no matter what. In spite of all of my girlish desires, I am a grown woman, and if I can't take care of myself first, I do not deserve to be a partner to anyone else.

Hope you feel better. A girl should know how to comfort her Daddy, too.

Chris, feeling kind of lonely (and whiny, apparently) this night.... (u)

[todo boi]

(((((((((((chrisfl))))))))))))))...If a guy left u for the gal u are then hy doesnt deserve u any way.. sooo U will find the right an better daddi for u.. *as I pick my tongue up off the floor*......

Syr Q........^5 dont let any one give ya the business... that what us daddis do take care of it an make it all alright.. so dont worry who ever made the mistake prolly in shock of response.. lol..

*Fell back out of chair*.. where'd u come from Ame??...Long time no see... woohoo... An Im not complainin luvs when a purty gurl comes walkin by.. Makes me all giddy....

As I stick my gun back in my pocket...........blows smoke off.....;)

[chrisfla]

My Daddy was a bio-female- I suppose I am not using "proper spelling protocol."

I hope that clears up any confusion.

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by Amethystluv
[B]Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Syr Q!!!!!!!! How I shall miss You soooooooooooooooo. (u) (u) Where do i begin? A/all of U/us have feet of clay..........and it is a myth ,or oughta be, that if we fall/ fail/ flounder/ whathaveyou that we lose respect for O/our Daddy/ grrl. At least, i do not. People are just that, people, and as long as we learn from our mistakes that is GREAT!!!
i understand coming from a Buddhist standpoint, Syr......I have done much reading and listening. i am an ardent fan of the Dalai Lama. I suggest reading "The Wisdom Teachings of the Dalai Lama" ......very good reading. Has helped me immensely, and i OWN that i needed it and still do.

If i have learned nothing in this lifetime, Syr Q , it is this.... Love is the lesson, Protection is the key. AND........ if I DO NOT forgive myself for the transgressions i have commited against MYSELF and OTHERS, I am doomed to repeat those transgressions many more times in this lifetime . And should I wish to not repeat this one and progress to my next level, I MUST FORGIVE MYSELF , do my UTMOST to NOT repeat the transgression and move forward ( own my stuff, deal with it and let it go)

I see that You state You see what can be wrought in anger.....my heart goes out to You, Syr. My prayers go up for You and i send You Universal healing energies....and who knows Syr..........it may just be ok. In fact, i think with what You have owned, You may be surprised at how much You truly ARE a Daddy. Daddys are HUMAN.......they make mistakes both large and small.Forgive yourself........ ({) (})

*S*...thank you---

I am forgiving myself...I know the mistakes I have made and I own them greatly...I think the anger that I feel is coming from her lack of understanding...I spent hours explaining who I am, where I come from--my background as it where, my emotional state, my faults, my strengths and my abilities and inabilities (which I am working on)...and it seems through it all--so I thought she understood...now I know she did not...yes, true, I did say things that were and remain hurtful...and I, once I realized why I lashed out--explained that to her...anytime I had a revelation, she was the second to hear it (myself being the first)...and it appeared to me, that no matter when a revelation occurred, she was not that supportive *shrug*...perhaps I needed something that she was not able, or capable of giving...or more likely, I did not convey what I needed from her...I know most of our time together, I did most of the listening......geeesh, I am running on here...anyway...

I am learning and growing---slow as it may be...I know I will faulter, slip, fall, and scrape my knee...WOW!...revelation for me at this moment...when this happens, I need someone to be there to help me back up--not onto a pedestal...but back up on my feet...now that I have realized that I can no longer be a pillar of strength at all times---maybe I will not lash out...I think the lashing out was in anger of not getting what I needed from 'her'...and the hurt I was feeling from having my emotions neglected...

I heard a lot from her that I was 'superman,' I could do anything, and I started taking that to heart and being that person to her--such as I could...

hmmm, I get it now...do not be what someone else wants you to be or expects you to be...be MYSELF---her expectations were too high a price for 'me' and it ended up being too high a price for 'us'...and now that I think about it, I had expectations of her---she failed...so we set ourselves up for failure...

lesson learned---NEXT

*deleting expectations from my life*

thank you Amethystluv for this thought provoking dialogue...it allowed me to open up my anger and see into it...perhaps I am not such a terrible person?

thank you...

J

(f)

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by Poonfairy1
[B][COLOR=deeppink]SyrQ, I'm glad you are not leaving this thread]

thank you...*S*

and I am delighted that this thread is teaching many---including myself...

J

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by chrisfla
I feel for you, Syr Q. One cannot be strong all the time, and one shouldn't have to be. And I as a girl understand that, and will stand by my (future) Daddy and be proud of Hym no matter what. In spite of all of my girlish desires, I am a grown woman, and if I can't take care of myself first, I do not deserve to be a partner to anyone else.

Hope you feel better. A girl should know how to comfort her Daddy, too.

Chris, feeling kind of lonely (and whiny, apparently) this night.... (u) [/B]

thank you and you are absolutely correct...(that strength is a wonderful thing) it can be distructive at times...esp. when one is not alowed to be themselves--totally...I have spent much energy detaching from my emotional side to remain strong for her...albeit I am the silent type--there were times I needed to express myself--and for whatever reason---I could not, she did not listen, not the right time--whichever, I did not release those feelings...and the result---cataclysmic...lashing out...

chris, you are remarkable...remember that as you go through your days...you are a light in this world---SHINE baby SHINE...

thank you,
J
(f)

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by Amethyst_FL
SyrQ... You can borrow my special huggy pillow to go with that blankey *S*

thank you for your buddy pillow...you are a kind and gentle soul...

*lieing down and hugging pillow*

[lil cherub]

*tippy toein up real quiet like.*

*puttin a Pooh Bear ban'aid over Syr Q's heart*

*tippy toein back out*

[GemmeFemme]

I have kept to myself for most of this thread, but was disheartened to read what had happened and that you were going to exit the thread (that YOU were kind enough to bring to us).

I am relieved that you have decided to stay and tend your flock. From your posts, I truly believe that you are a thoughtful and gentle soul, and an asset to this forum.

I have never been with a true Daddi. I have only been with butches with Daddi tendencies and behaviors. It was through my interaction with them that I have realized that I thoroughly enjoy the dynamic and, although I do not want to live it 24/7, am interested in learning more.

Thank you again for creating this place for us grrls to feel comfortable and safe, whether to play, flirt, or ask questions.

Kisses to All
(k) (k) (k) (k)

[ange]

Originally posted by SirWalterHere
Welcome my friend... we are all spiritual beings haveing lots of human experiences.

Honesty and self awareness make one a great Daddy. We teach our girls and we learn from them. First we need to learn then to teach, then to learn some more.


Aa-la-la....where to start? I've so much to say and wish to put it in something resembling a logical order.

First, after my post on the qualities of a Daddi, which some of you were kind enough to compliment, I did think of something very important that I had neglected to list. True Humility. A Daddi (and a babygirl, for that matter) must possess True Humility. My favorite definition of True Humility is: knowing what you have to work WITH and what you have to work ON and possessing both without guilt or shame.

That's one reason I encourage (and practice) what many call "inventories". How on earth can one enter a relationship without knowing what you are bringing to it?

Also, remember, you both will be growing and changing, so the inventories shouldn't stop. If you utilize a contract in your relationship, I would suggest each party doing an inventory prior to the review and renewal of your contract.

Important Note: When doing an inventory, remember: No good shopkeeper only has bad merchandise. Keep your inventory balanced. Know that some of your defects are simply assets that have gone astray.

Second, I have learned that, for myself, 99% of the time when I am angry, I am actually frightened. Its the old "fight or flight" reaction. Most of the time, that fear is that someone important to me will see me as "less than".

Third, I am relieved to know that I am perfectly imperfect.

Fourth, To Thine Own Self Be True! I don't want a Daddi who won't be themselves....warts and all! ;) To me, that's dishonesty in the highest form. Dishonesty erodes the trust. Lose trust...lose the relationship.

Fifth, yes, the Daddi/grrl relationship is one of the most mystically deep relationships I have ever encountered. I have also noted a few workshops on that subject (the depth of the D/g dynamic) at various Leather events this past year.

Sixth, be reassured, it seems that almost all of us who live the Daddi/girl life go through times of healing. I am just coming out of one. Mine lasted a year and a half. It wasn't the most enjoyable period of life but, as the sayings go, "Pain is the touchstone of spiritual growth" and "When God closes a door, he opens a window, but its hell inbetween!". I am stronger, more aware of who I am and what I need, more appreciative of myself and what I have to offer....heck, I downright love myself (FINALLY!!) Because I love myself, not only am I true to myself, I won't allow anyone who doesn't accept me as me to be a primary player in my life.

[ange]

Originally posted by SyrQ
I am at a fork in my life at this moment...which way do I turn?...



Follow your heart, it knows which way to go.

[ange]

Originally posted by SyrQ

ange---*putting my hands over my heart, to my lips, to my head---extending them to you* Thank you...*bows head*


*bowing---whispering*
The Divine in me also honors The Divine in you.

*raising my head with a reassuring smile*

[ange]

Once upon a time there was this girl *pointing at myself, with a wink and a smile* who was the Chairperson of her Parish Festival. This meant that she had over 300 volunteers looking to her for direction. Many of these volunteers (along with many of the 1800 parishoners) looked to her to be infailable.....and some also looked to her to fail at the same time (but that's another story)... in the leadership and success of the parish's numero uno fundraiser each year.

One evening, after a meeting with the 30-some area chairpersons and her Pastor (friend and Mentor, at the time---and--psssst--he's gay), she spoke privately with her Pastor. She said "There are all these egos, including my own! What do they want from me?!"

He replied, "Love and reassurance. That's what all people want, really."

She paused, nodded, and said "Oh. Okay, I can do that."

......and she does to this day.

The moral to this story is: When you find it uncomfortable to be *dramatic gasp* huuuuman around your babygirl, simply tell her you love her and reassure her. (She mainly wants to know that you are still her Daddi.)

[aprettydress]

Originally posted by ange
...the Daddi/grrl relationship is one of the most mystically deep relationships I have ever encountered...

this reminds me of one of my favorite songs:

Bouncin' Back, Mystikal

You keep bumping me against the wall
Yeah I know I let you slide before
But until you seen me...trust me

You ain't seen bouncin' back
(repeat)

Verse 1:

I really be throwin' my words
Standing 'em up, and jammin' on the one
That ain't nobody but Neptunes bammin' on the drum
Swift flip kicks landing from the tongue
ba na na na na na
The one that be handling business, be sharper than a thumb tack
The one that be dropping these albums, showing 'em how to come back
And you gone respect me, appreciate where I run at
You ain't gone piss me off, cause you sorry that you done that
I gets meaner, badder, stronger and furious
You don't even much want to see the rest
I'm coming back mo' fearless, mo' determined to fold the set
I ain't even started yet
So if you ain't ready you better get ready
Know I do it better when I'm being opposed
Ah stick ya chest out, keep ya chin up
And sometimes you gotta get knocked down to get up

Hook:

You keep bumping me against the wall
Yeah I know I let you slide before
But until you seen me...trust me

You ain't seen bouncin' back
(repeat)

Verse 2:

No matter what happened -- me once shame on you
You come up and here and do it again then its shame on me
Sometimes we be getting in trouble you didn't want learn
Sometimes we be getting so rude you ain't want see
I accept my wages like the way that I fail
I grow, I take strides and but 'em under my belt
I learned from you just like you learned from me
I plead, I pray for peace and perfect harmony
Somebody say fool you better keep on rapping
Stop that trippin', causin it ain't gone happin'
I told them look you better mind yo business
Change yo' way of thinking and keep on living
Done started some trouble and you ain't been out since
Cause you stuck inside scared watching CNN
Just take the precaution so yo life a be better
Tell my friends to call me I ain't accepting no letters

Hook:

You keep bumping me against the wall
Yeah I know I let you slide before
But until you seen me...trust me

You ain't seen bouncin' back
(repeat)

Verse 3:

Oh you heard about me, yeah you had to
Hmm-huh, I know you change ya mind you ain't the only one with bad news
I know that they made you feel strange huh
You was right in the middle complaining and forgot what you was cryin bout
It could be you time and it might be
You can't do nothing about it, its God will thats just how life be
One day it hit 'cha then its gone
And I'm serious and you ain't never even gone feel it until it hit home
That's when the pain run sharper and deeper
You ain't eat that's when the days feel slow and long
I know you miss 'em so it's time to uplift 'em
Try to pick the pieces up and find a way to drive on
I tell you the truth so don't lie to me
Get back Satan don't bother me
And that's the way its gotta be
And real as ever so I hope you proud of me

Hook:

You keep bumping me against the wall
Yeah I know I let you slide before
But until you seen me...trust me

You ain't seen bouncin' back
(repeat)

You keep bumping me against the wall (3x)
You ain't seen bouncin' back
(repeat and fade out)

[BaltoButch]

Thank you ange... that is the lesson I learned today... you put it so elloquently too *smile*

thank you again



Originally posted by ange
The moral to this story is: When you find it uncomfortable to be *dramatic gasp* huuuuman around your babygirl, simply tell her you love her and reassure her. (She mainly wants to know that you are still her Daddi.)

[todo boi]

Everyone clap your hands..........daddi feelin lil naughty ... bout now.... Maybe I should do lil strip tease for ya... off comes the belt............................Bam turn roun... walkin hard to the stage turn the music up...... Down comes the zipper... juss like that............................ Most of what u see is the buldge .. in my boxers.............


To be continued.................................:s

[AlaskanWolfFemme]

runs to the front so I can get a close-up!

*wolf whistles for Todo*

waiting for the rest?

Blessings,
~AWF~(k)

[peas&carrots]

SyrQ, (}) Glad to see you back again.

[chrisfla]

Thank You, kind Syr.

(f)

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by lil cherub
*tippy toein up real quiet like.*

*puttin a Pooh Bear ban'aid over Syr Q's heart*

*tippy toein back out*

thank you...I love Poo...

Eeyore is my buddddddy...

J

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by GemmeFemme
I have kept to myself for most of this thread, but was disheartened to read what had happened and that you were going to exit the thread (that YOU were kind enough to bring to us).

I am relieved that you have decided to stay and tend your flock. From your posts, I truly believe that you are a thoughtful and gentle soul, and an asset to this forum.

I have never been with a true Daddi. I have only been with butches with Daddi tendencies and behaviors. It was through my interaction with them that I have realized that I thoroughly enjoy the dynamic and, although I do not want to live it 24/7, am interested in learning more.

Thank you again for creating this place for us grrls to feel comfortable and safe, whether to play, flirt, or ask questions.

Kisses to All
(k) (k) (k) (k)


thank you for your kind words...and you are more than welcome...I hope indeed that this thread is a safe place for all...

and I am delighted at the dialogue that is taking place...an exchange in ideas, dreams, desires, wants, needs, ambitions, fears, etc. is what I was hoping for when I started it...and of course some flirting...*W*

thank you for joining us...and please---do not keep to yourself...*pulling you down on the floor with me*

J
(f)

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by peas&carrots
SyrQ, (}) Glad to see you back again.

good to be back...thank you...(})

J
(f)

[SyrQ]

thank you for sharing this with us...make yourself at home---please...

J
(f)

[SyrQ]

you are amazing! ! ! ! !

*kotc* if I may be so bold...

J
(f)

[SyrQ]

what does a D/g relationship mean to you?---this question is directed to both:

lil grrls and Daddi's


J
(f)

[BaltoButch]

It means safety, comfort, love, protection, care, concern, respect, humility (ty ange), understanding, snuggles, love making and, well you know *chuckles*

It means all that of a standard rel with the added benefits of a dominant, a protector, a lover, a caregiver, a final word (on same thing *chuckles*)... and a brat (for Me) to play, giggle, laugh, talk, trust, be safe harbor, the one for whom I was meant to serve, protect and love... as she is to serve, play and love...

this is harder than I thought to put into words LOL

[Ladyfire]

Syr Q,

Even though I am the gurl within the realm of D/g-D/s everyone has there moments of grief. Wise enough to understand my gurl turns into the nuturer{mother} and helps to ease the pain. Please come here Syr and sit beside me. I reach my hands out to you. hold on.. Look into my eyes & know I care unconditionaly .....

Here is my shoulder, here are my arms...let me help take your pain..Let it flow outward..The realizations are many....Learn to fly with the eagles and let go of the ego. It is only a material realm.

To each relationsip lies a truth....Was this just a reason or was it a season...Be happy that you are free of the insecurities & it did not become a lifetime of such...Honor the good & let go of the bad. Always remember the lessons gained.


Sweetly so........~Ladyfire~

[SyrQ]

touching, sweet and romantic...

thank you for the sincere words and encouragement...


WELCOME to our humble abode...please make yourself comfortable---tis your house too...


J
(f)

[Victoriah]

Originally posted by BaltoButch
It means safety, comfort, love, protection, care, concern, respect, humility (ty ange), understanding, snuggles, love making and, well you know *chuckles*

It means all that of a standard rel with the added benefits of a dominant, a protector, a lover, a caregiver, a final word (on same thing *chuckles*)... and a brat (for Me) to play, giggle, laugh, talk, trust, be safe harbor, the one for whom I was meant to serve, protect and love... as she is to serve, play and love...

this is harder than I thought to put into words LOL ***ditto****:$ (k) (k) (k) smoochies

[GemmeFemme]

*sits down next to Syr Q and watches the proceedings with a shy smile*

[mslisabell]

Means that I am protected, loved, taken care of in a way that no other can. Means that my heart is completely given to my Daddy, my soul is ours, my love to hym unconditional, as hys is to me. Means that hy plays with me, listens to me, holds me when I need to cry. Means that hy loves to come home while I'm cooking dinner, and sneak up behind me.

My Daddy is my world, as I am hys...

I love you Todo...

Your Babygrrl,
Lisa (k)

PS - Does this mean we can't mingle anymore cuz we're not single? LOL...Hugs to all!

[Ladyfire]

I warmly accept your gracious offer . Thank-you~blushin~
Remember to fly with the eagles...Life is so much more
glorious within this realm. It makes being single a happy
place to be until the right one journeys upon your path........

Sweetly so.........~Ladyfire~

[Amethystluv]

Dear Syr............. You are most welcome. Anytime You want / need dialogue, look me up. I truly appreciate an honest exchange.

Oh and todo? g/f? well well well..............lol.* waving* Hi lisa........welcome!

tori ...........hey hope things are still going well for you.

Ya know , Syr Q, pedestals were meant for one thing and one thing , only........to collect dust......just one more thing in the house to clean. Mind if I toss it out on the rubbish pile? (a) Ahhhhhhhhh I didn't think You'd mind.......hehehe

Love, ~Ame~(l)

[SyrQ]

Originally posted by GemmeFemme
*sits down next to Syr Q and watches the proceedings with a shy smile*

*catching a glimpse of that smile* beautiful as the sun rising from the east...thank you for brightening my day with your smile...*S*

J
(f)