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    SF EDEN Pride Weekend 

    by
    Miz Chris
    Published on 04-09-2012 12:39 PM
    The EDEN Eve Models were part of the EDEN Model Search held in 2011. From the Bay, Dallas and L.A. these queers represent the diversity of EDEN Weekend during Pride in San Francisco

    EDEN Pride Weekend is a 4-day event during Pride in San Francisco. TEN events over FOUR days with Celesbians, hot musical performers, national celebrity DJs, dancers, our host hotel, over 5,000 women and YOU come together for this amazing weekend event.

    http://www.edeninthebay.com/
    To view Facebook Invite go here http://www.facebook.com/events/432399906775114/

    ★HOST HOTEL★
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    Parc55, a luxurious property just a block from Union Square, is the hottest spot for women this year for San Francisco Pride Weekend 2012. The host hotel for the 3rd annual Eden, All Women, All Weekend Pride event, Parc55 is centrally located to all of Eden’s and San Francisco Pride’s events. Literally step outside the hotel to be directly on the parade route

    The gorgeously appointed hotel offers our guests a rate of $159.00 over Pride Weekend book now the rooms have sold out every year!

    https://www.reztrip.com/RezTripWeb/s...de2%3D12435537

    ★THURSDAY★
    JUNE 21st
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    It all starts here. Your ticket to the BEST Pride Events during Pride in San Francisco.

    ☛EDEN WELCOME PARTY☚
    6pm-8pm
    The Cellar
    685 Sutter, SF

    It all starts here. Your ticket to the BEST Pride Events for women and our friends. Meet the EDEN team and pick up your ALL ACCESS passes for the weekend so you don’t have to wait at the door at any of the events. Come in for a nosh, grab a drink, get information about the city where to go, where to eat, what you should see while you’re here.

    ☛EDEN FASHION SHOW☚
    8pm-10pm
    The Cellar
    685 Sutter, SF

    EDEN is excited to announce our first fashion show event. With up and coming fashion designers from San Francisco and the greater Bay Area showcasing what is next in the fashion industry it’s American’s Next Top Model meets Project Runway!

    ☛EDEN FASHION AFTERPARTY☚
    @4Bidden
    10pm-2am
    The Cellar
    685 Sutter, SF

    Once you get a sneak peek at the hottest styles for next season, stay and get your groove on with our hot Celebrity DJs, celesbians and models. Two rooms, VIP bottle service, state of the art light show, sexy dancers. A great way to start off your Pride Weekend.

    Check out our venues here http://www.edeninthebay.com/eden-venues

    We have passes to match every budget!
    PURCHASE PASSES HERE
    http://www.edeninthebay.com/buy-tickets

    ★FRIDAY★
    JUNE 22nd
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    ☛EDEN LIP SERVICE COMEDY SHOW☚
    7pm-9pm
    Terra
    511 Harrison St, SF

    Start your Friday night with a laugh with some of the hottest lesbian comedians in the nation.

    ☛EDEN BLOCK PARTY☚
    3 parties, 1 block (2 indoor venues, 1 outdoor venue)
    9pm-3am

    VENUE ONE
    The Sound Factory
    525 Harrison St, SF

    VENUE TWO
    Garden of Eden
    between The Sound Factory and Terra

    VENUE THREE
    Terra
    511 Harrison St, SF


    WE MADE HISTORY LAST YEAR so this year we are going bigger and harder! 3 VENUES on one block all next door to each other. Save your cab money because all the women you can possibly want to meet and party with will all be just a few steps away! Three different events at three fantastic venues on the same block! Every genre of music for every taste. We are taking over Harrison St in San Francisco at the hottest clubs in the city!

    Check out our venues here http://www.edeninthebay.com/eden-venues

    We have passes to match every budget!
    PURCHASE PASSES HERE
    http://www.edeninthebay.com/buy-tickets
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    Things I Found While Looking Around 

    by
    Miz Chris
    Published on 03-31-2012 02:47 PM

    Every morning I wake up, grab a bottle of water and a Diet Coke (I have this new thing where I have to drink a bottle of water before I get to drink my first DC of the morning) sit down at my desk and read what is going on in the world. Lately I have been so disheartened with all the racist crap that has been going on in the world without any justice, not only for Trayvon, but for many people who we don't hear about on Facebook or Twitter. I was gonna write that post this morning, but that is going to be for another day. It is just too vast and too wide for me to write about it today. It's a long rant that requires more time than I have this morning. Instead I am going to share with you some things I found while looking around that inspire me and I hope they inspire you.


    Jonathan and Charlotte on Britain's Got Talent. It is so interesting to see the initial reaction to Jonathan because he is FAT and the folks (including the judges) make all kinds of assumptions because of how he looks. After they have heard him sing this somehow absolves or obscures that he is FAT because he can sing. Wouldn't it be great if in my lifetime no matter how you look the general populous of the WORLD would just take a break from judging and just assume all humankind is just pretty fucking amazing.



    I have been listening to this for the last four weeks, if you aren't listening to Azealia Banks you should start right now, this very moment. Seriously do it.



    If you don't know who this guy is ill doctrine, then I recommend you rush right over and find out. He is one of the most amazing video blogger out there. Check out Phony (A Song for Mitt Romney)



    Being a fairly new dog owner, have you met Chuy? This is my big man Chuy with my bestie Mikey.



    Anyway being a fairly new dog owner I find myself always looking at dogs all over the internet AND THESE are the puppies that have me drooling to have another tiny pup baby. They are too cute, I can't stand it.




    And finally this because no matter how much you surf the web for innocuous photos, pieces of information, fashion and fatshion the way things are going right now in this world where women and people of color are under attack in BIG and MAJOR ways, this surfing to forget is gonna be over soon. There is change coming, I can feel it I hope you can too.

    To sign the petition to get Justice for Trayvon click here.
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    Things I Want As Opposed to Things I Need 

    by
    Miz Chris
    Published on 03-20-2012 03:45 PM

    Every now and again I go hunting online for random stuff. These hunts often prove very fruitful in the finding of the stuff, not so useful on my pocketbook. I am always looking for that one piece for my wardrobe that is going to make me go yeeeeeeeee every single time I wear it! I truly believe that if you don’t LOVE it don’t own it. A perusal of my closet shows only my most favorite things in the world. Even if I haven’t worn something for a while I still fondle it lovingly every time I pass it by. If you don’t know me you don’t know that I have a serious dislike for jeans or pants of any kind. AND it is not because I have a big ass (although that is an absolutely true statement). Many a girlfriend has tried to get my apple bottom into some Apple Bottoms. When I was in my militant dyke phase I tried the jeans thing, the Dickies thing, the pant thing and I just think they are the MOST uncomfortable piece of clothing that has ever been created. Since I was a child I have always LOVED dresses. It is the girly pink inside of me that just loves a well stitched hem, a cinched waist and some killer decolletage. I like all styles, long or short, flared or pencil thin, flowey or form fitting. When I saw this spectacularly stunning pink utopia from Domino Dollhouse I literally gasped out loud. TRUTH TIME OUT – first I gasped at the hottie wearing the dress then I gasped at the dress.

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    CHAT Up and Running 

    Published on 01-25-2012 10:31 AM

    Chat has been reinstalled and is back up and running. Enjoy!

    GAY SEX WEEK: The Queer Fat Femme Guide to Better Sex 

    by
    Bevin
    Published on 12-05-2011 08:04 AM
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    Hi friends and welcome to NATIONAL QUEERFATFEMME.COM GAY SEX WEEK, where each day this week I am going to talk about GAY SEX to increase LGBT presence in the media. Monday I addressed how to find other people to have gay sex with you. Today we’re chatting about how to have better sex.
    I’m calling this GAY SEX WEEK in a satirical way in order to increase the presence of GAY SEX in the media (in reaction to a HuffPo article calling for less sanitized GAY SEX in the media) but really I mean queer sex.


    I want to make explicit that my working definition of GAY SEX is any sex that a queer person has who wants to call it sex. What gets you off? That’s GAY SEX. What counts as GAY SEX to you today might not tomorrow and that’s okay. Variety is one of the very best attributes about GAY SEX.


    Most of the links in this post are Not Safe For Work (NSFW) just so you know.


    Here at QueerFatFemme.com I try to make it clear that there are no queer gatekeepers. For example, Femmes are still queer even when they are doing it to cisdudes. So when one of my Femme pals started doing it to a cisdude and reported back that the cunnilingus was surprisingly great (“Better than a lesbian! Best of my life!” she shockingly announced) I took my charm and talk show host realness to the source. Hanging out with this boy I asked him “So what made you so great at eating pussy?” (To be fair there was a lot of bourbon involved.)

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    Butch-Femme.com moved to New Server 

    Published on 09-19-2011 11:26 PM

    UPDATE: We have moved Butch-Femme.com to a new server. It took longer than we thought to move all the data over BUT we finally got it done! We are still working on getting the galleries up and running so we thank you for your patience. If you see any glitches please let us know!

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    Bevin's Queer Fat Femme 

    by
    Bevin
    Published on 02-15-2011 07:25 AM
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    Glitterpositive Valentine Sentiments

    Happy Validation Day everyone!



    Chalk art from Re/Dress NYC by Erin Bunny Burrows.

    This time of year life is inundated with prix-fixe Valentine’s Day specials at restaurants and single-phobic, glitter-phobic rhetoric. (“Don’t be different! Do everything the same! Don’t be a wild pony! Find one person to love and do it in this totally heteronormative way!”) I find it gleefully ironic that these messages are sometimes sent using glitter*, when glitter to me represents people who shine really bright and really differently without regard for trying to quiet down or dim their shine in order to woo a mate.

    I am a big fan of doing good things for yourself on Valentine’s Day, partnered or not. I’ve written about calling it Validation Day before and celebrating the joy of your life on Valentine’s Day. I’m into buying yourself something frivolous, delving into the cheesiness of hearts and confetti** just because it’s fun, or getting together with friends to make lasagna, drink red wine and revel in each others’ fabulousness.

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